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October 9, 2025 67 mins

In this episode of We Talk Back, AJ Holiday and TamBam share their weekend highlights before diving into trending celebrity news, including Diddy’s sentencing and Porsha Williams’ new relationship. The conversation takes a candid turn as they explore the complexities of intimacy and sexual satisfaction, questioning whether women still fake orgasms in 2025. With humor and honesty, the hosts discuss the differences in sexual expectations between men and women, emphasizing the importance of communication, vulnerability, and mutual pleasure in healthy relationsh

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to we talk Back podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
and the Black Effect Network.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Talk to We're just two unapologetically black women with an
opinion who talked back.

Speaker 3 (00:16):
What's up, y'alls? Your girl, AJ Holiday? What's up Tam Bam?

Speaker 2 (00:20):
Y'all, it's Tam Bam. I love y'all so so very much.
It's a new week, it's fall, so I'm extra happy.
So AJ, how is your weekend?

Speaker 3 (00:33):
My weekend was just fine. It was great.

Speaker 1 (00:36):
I spent all week last week hanging out at my homegirls.
And what did I do for the actual weekend? Just
ketch up on life, business, shit, clean my house, got
rid of a bunch of shit. I still got CDs, y'all.
You know, I got about twenty eleven hundred different cords
and cables. I had to throw out a bunch of

(00:58):
clothes I haven't worn and kept saying, and I'm a
fitting at some point from fucking college. Uh hell yeah,
I even have Uh No, I got the CDs. I
kept my CDs. I actually ordered CD cases from Amazon,
and then I still have my You know, how you
go to college, you have a trunk?

Speaker 2 (01:19):
Did you have a trunk?

Speaker 1 (01:21):
I still got my college freshman year trunk full of transcripts,
student loan shit that I ain't never paying, all types
of shit in there. My list is in there. One
of my exes went through that same trunk. The year
was two thousand and five or some shit like that,

(01:43):
two thousand and four or something like that, and a
nigga went through that thing and found my list and
was mad he wasn't at the top of it, Like
it's not in chronological order.

Speaker 2 (01:54):
Sir, right now?

Speaker 1 (01:55):
I said, well, it is in chronological order. Yeah, so
you weren't the first, so you aren't at.

Speaker 2 (02:01):
The top, right, you at the bottom actually.

Speaker 3 (02:07):
Current? Yeah, maya fucking business.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
So yeah, that's all I did, actually clean up and
get rid of a bunch of shit and stop with hoarding,
like I aspire to be like one of those people
who I'm such a hoider when it comes to close mail,
you know, like if I haven't, if you haven't touched
it all year through that shit in trash.

Speaker 2 (02:30):
If you ever gave me a greeting card between twenty
ten and now, I still got it, maybe even before.

Speaker 1 (02:38):
That, like birthday cards, I got all that shit letters
like I got, I'd be having everything.

Speaker 2 (02:45):
I'm the same way. Girl, I just need to get
rid of a lot of shit. I just can't part
ways with it. And that's the missing brought.

Speaker 3 (02:51):
I bought a shredder too, so I have been partner
these with stuff.

Speaker 2 (02:56):
What did I do this? Girl? I watched all of
Stranger Things from beginning.

Speaker 3 (03:02):
To ooh, that's my favorite show.

Speaker 2 (03:04):
Girl. Also, I'm not done.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
Is it a new season on?

Speaker 2 (03:08):
I know, but it's coming in November. I just made
it to season four. But when I tell you, when
Jim Hopper died, I cried so hard. I cried. I
was like, my boy, hop, I was so hurt. Yeah,
I love Gym. I can't believe they killed him my dad. Like,
I'm just so sick about it. It really ruined my day.

(03:31):
He might just be in the upside down girl, you
know what, because we didn't see him evaporade. But you know,
like the last time that sit exploded, everybody there turning
to mush on the ground. So I'm just, you know,
I don't know, but either way, I'm upset. I'm about
to start season four and see I've.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
Never missed the season, and I would I watched. I
watched Stranger Things as soon as the seasons come out.
That's I'm like, wait, it's a new season that.

Speaker 2 (03:58):
You know, my my little young thing put me on
in So, yeah, we watched that together.

Speaker 1 (04:05):
Listen, I don't okay, season four? What season is coming up?
Is it season five?

Speaker 3 (04:10):
Okay? So you are in season four? So have you
gotten to Russia yet?

Speaker 1 (04:16):
Actually got into the Like there's like scenes in Russia.

Speaker 3 (04:19):
You haven't gotten there yet.

Speaker 2 (04:21):
Okay, the whole the whole last season was in the mall.

Speaker 3 (04:26):
That's not the first season.

Speaker 2 (04:27):
That's season three.

Speaker 3 (04:29):
What the fuck?

Speaker 2 (04:31):
Yeah, it was in the mall the whole time, but
it was like under the mall.

Speaker 1 (04:36):
So maybe a season four. Possibly, it has to be
season four. But there's some parts in there that when
Brittany Griner was locked up in Russia, I'm like, man,
I was associating her with stranger things because of these scenes.

Speaker 3 (04:56):
We'll talk about it when you get there.

Speaker 2 (04:58):
Okay, Yeah, I want to see it. But yeah, that
was my weekend.

Speaker 1 (05:02):
And I really think this is that's how that's the
world we live in, you know. I really believe like
there is an upside down, Like there's this universe and
there's like a bad version of this universe or this
is the bad version, right and there the flip side
is a good side, because this shit is not nice.

Speaker 2 (05:20):
Stranger things have happened, all right, So let's getting the sins.

Speaker 1 (05:25):
Cleane, y'all going on this with y'all. Diddy is trying
to serve his fifty months sentence.

Speaker 3 (05:32):
So last week Friday, I think it was.

Speaker 1 (05:36):
All the headlines started coming out that Diddy was sentenced
to fifty months in prison four years essentially. So he's
been in jail since around this time last year, since
like last September. So maybe he'll get some good time served.
This is Feds we're dealing with, right, so you got
to serve all your time. It ain't like the state
where you get low eighty percent. But he can get

(05:57):
time served for the time he's spent in the counted.

Speaker 2 (06:00):
The fourteen months that he did will go.

Speaker 3 (06:03):
Is it fourteen months?

Speaker 2 (06:05):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (06:07):
I feel like it was last it was in last September.
It might have been last July then that he went
to jail that he got arrested.

Speaker 2 (06:14):
He says he want to go to Fort Dix to serve.

Speaker 1 (06:18):
And that's the other funny party, and that's how I
be spelling dicks.

Speaker 2 (06:23):
D I X, if I had to go to jail,
I would want to go to Fort Dix.

Speaker 3 (06:28):
Sounds like fun to me. The Fort Dix is like a.

Speaker 1 (06:32):
Minimal minimal, minimal, minimum security shit is probably some Hollywood shit,
And I mean it's in Jersey, so he will still
be close to his family.

Speaker 2 (06:45):
Yeah, those girls, when I started walking out their courtroom,
I just my heart went out to them because you
were screaming crazy shit at them.

Speaker 3 (06:55):
And they're still kids.

Speaker 2 (06:57):
They're still kids, little girls. You know, the boys too,
but the little girls especially.

Speaker 1 (07:03):
What do you think about so fifty he said he
was going to write a letter to the judge. He
didn't write the letter to the judge, but he posted
it on social media.

Speaker 3 (07:11):
Have you seen that?

Speaker 2 (07:12):
No? Okay? Was it a letter in support of Diddy.

Speaker 1 (07:16):
Or absolutely fucking not okay? And I had a great
debate with somebody regarding the letter because I'm like, I
understand like rules of engagement like artor war and all
that shit, but what does this do for? And I
guess maybe we are well super far away from keeping

(07:37):
it real or just real nigga shit. Like It's just
I'm not in the streets. I'm a grown ass man.
And Diddy is essentially bad for the ecosystem.

Speaker 3 (07:47):
This is what fifty cents letter he supposed.

Speaker 1 (07:50):
He said he was saying sending this to the judge,
but he posted it online and to me, it's equivalent
to sending it.

Speaker 3 (07:56):
To the judge. So the letter says yeah.

Speaker 1 (08:00):
It says I have had an ongoing dispute with Puffy
for over twenty years. He is very dangerous. Multiple times
I have theared for my life. I think you should
consider the safety of the general public your honor before
unleashing him upon them. There hasn't been enough time for
him to reform or make any adjustments, despite his trying

(08:20):
to teach a class in there. As you are already aware,
the government has spent a maximum amount of money on
deploying federal agencies, which appeared to be an army in
two locations simultaneously. Later, his son, who's dealing with his
own rape allegations, claimed that the fees had hit the
wrong house. He did that in a song this the

(08:43):
son com what's the little sun name? Justin Sean, just
no Sean, the junior. I don't know right, he says right,
and then it says anyway, Diddy's only going to return
to high caring more male sex workers, and keeping most
of the baby oil away from the general public any

(09:06):
and babies needed, he said. He said, my Netflix doc
on this SCANDALSS subject that's coming soon. So this is
a letter he said he was going to write to
the judge, But to me, posted that on social media
is essentially the same thing as far as.

Speaker 2 (09:19):
He really posted that.

Speaker 1 (09:23):
This is off of his Twitter account, Oh well yeah, yeah,
it says this is my letter to the judge on
Ditty's case.

Speaker 3 (09:32):
What I'm scared for my life? Lol?

Speaker 2 (09:35):
Like he is just such the hugest troll. You don't
have nothing to do with that.

Speaker 1 (09:42):
I mean, conne he does. I mean essentially like his
son's mom was wrapped up in the shit. Some can
say that that Diddy had her first and basically put
her on fifty cent.

Speaker 3 (09:58):
What's her name his kid's mom? Is it Daphne?

Speaker 2 (10:01):
Uh yeah, m hm.

Speaker 3 (10:04):
So I don't know.

Speaker 1 (10:05):
I just feel like it's real. It's just whack, you
know what I'm saying, Like, did he is down? The
nigga's down?

Speaker 2 (10:12):
Yeah? I don't think that I'll kick him, but that's
like fifty cent energy though, this don't surprise me about
him at all that he would do that. It's just
he's very he's like the penniless, he's a cancer. So
I know he can get low radl snake low. So
when they mad, I know how cases can get. I

(10:33):
am one, so I get it. But he just take
it too far.

Speaker 1 (10:38):
Yeah, because this ain't no real nigga shit. Man, you
writing letters to the judge, dog, that's.

Speaker 3 (10:42):
What you're doing.

Speaker 1 (10:44):
And I'm kind of torn about it because did he
was facing some real, you know, real charges, they still
got him on that Man Act, which to me is
very racist. Right, So this is what he's He was
essentially charged with Man Act and if you guys don't
know what that is, it's just essentially, you know, taking
somebody across state lines. They created that racist asked charge
when they arrested Jack Johnson, a boxer, for taking his

(11:08):
white wife across state lines, so trafficking.

Speaker 3 (11:12):
So this is what R.

Speaker 1 (11:14):
Kelly was also charged with as well. So I feel like,
I don't even know has there been any white men
charged with that type of charge before?

Speaker 3 (11:22):
I'd like to know.

Speaker 1 (11:27):
I hope, I hope that he gets his his wish
and gets to you know, go over to Fort Dix.

Speaker 2 (11:40):
But okay, so let me tell you what else happened. Uh,
Portia william is back outside, Williams, excuse me, it's back outside.
She's currently currently only seeing two people, a man and
a woman, and this is four months after finalizing divorced
from assignment. And she says she's talking to two people
and she wants to keep their eyes densities private. But

(12:02):
he is nice and she is nice as well.

Speaker 3 (12:06):
Interesting, Yeah, interesting, I.

Speaker 1 (12:11):
Want to know is it is? I mean, do people
get to be like forty plus and then say hey,
I'm gonna try some Guccie Because I just feel like
if you was gonna try some Gucci, you already been
trying some Gucci.

Speaker 3 (12:21):
This ain't like new right.

Speaker 2 (12:24):
Sometimes people do, but yeah.

Speaker 3 (12:28):
Add forty what's that?

Speaker 2 (12:29):
Jenner? The Jenner? The man, the man who became a
woman at sixty something years old. So people do some
shit later in life and then hoes. Oh, I ain't
gonna say that because people are gonna get mad. Let
me just lead it on, he said, wolves what about
the hose as become gay? An I had like a

(12:53):
bunch of dick m h. I'll be bored. I'm gonna
try something new. That's it my theory. I might be wrong.

Speaker 3 (13:02):
Is it a theory?

Speaker 2 (13:03):
Let me know?

Speaker 3 (13:05):
Is it really a theory or you speaking from experience?

Speaker 2 (13:11):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (13:11):
Because I feel like I done did all the things
I'm gonna do. Like you can't churse me for one.
You know some dudes that try to no nigga. If
I was going to do a three, some would have
been done one hundred times over. I don't like Cuci, Okay,
I know because I fucking know.

Speaker 3 (13:28):
Like I like oysters. I don't like Kuci, though.

Speaker 2 (13:31):
Do you like oysters? See?

Speaker 3 (13:34):
This is what gay bitches do right here? How do
you now?

Speaker 1 (13:38):
How do you know why? Okay, bitches who like Cuchi,
this is.

Speaker 3 (13:47):
What they do.

Speaker 2 (13:49):
I don't like Cucie either.

Speaker 3 (13:53):
How do you know? Why would you ask me that
if you didn't like I'm just.

Speaker 2 (13:57):
Saying like you don't know. It's like saying, oh, I
don't like pizza that you never had pizza before? You know.

Speaker 1 (14:05):
I listen certain foods. I don't got to taste it
to know I don't like it. I don't like how
it looks, I don't like how it smells, only like mine? Okay,
I know my Kucie been at too, Like if I
were a.

Speaker 3 (14:17):
Mad I don't know if I would be out here
you and Kucci.

Speaker 1 (14:20):
I just don't know because it's a ratchet pussy I hear.
I'll have y'all know.

Speaker 3 (14:28):
Yeah, I know where my Kucie been.

Speaker 1 (14:30):
Yeah, yeah, it's a lot of I heard that the
men's restroom looks better than the female restroom.

Speaker 3 (14:36):
I don't know if that's true.

Speaker 2 (14:37):
A friend's locker room. I used to work in the gym.
The men's locker room was always cleaner than the female's
locker room.

Speaker 3 (14:44):
That says a lot. Okay, that's a lot.

Speaker 1 (14:48):
Okay, Women, when ain't nobody looking, bitches can be nasty. Okay,
So fellas of that microwave dirty, of that bathroom dirty.
If the heel on that shoe is looking like something
like a mouse stunt chewed up on it.

Speaker 2 (15:03):
The he'll of her shoe, that's not fair. What does
she just say got money for new.

Speaker 1 (15:06):
Shoes That tap only cost seven dollars to give replaced.
That's what I'm talking about. And they be walking on
that nail.

Speaker 4 (15:12):
That if you don't throw them damn shoes in the trash.

Speaker 3 (15:25):
I just told y'all get rid of all that old ship.

Speaker 1 (15:29):
That those are little small indications okay, that no, something
might be up.

Speaker 5 (15:35):
Yeah, so uh so, basically, what I'm hearing is that
Magic City took their show on the road recently.

Speaker 3 (15:47):
And they actually had a pop up strip club.

Speaker 1 (15:51):
Essentially in Japan, and the locals are calling it jack Lana.

Speaker 3 (15:57):
What do you think about that, Tammy?

Speaker 2 (15:58):
I want to go. I don't want to go. I
don't if I could go because from the pictures, y'all,
there was so much money on the ground. Mm hmmm,
it was a lot.

Speaker 3 (16:10):
Don't you want to go to work or just watch?

Speaker 2 (16:12):
Yeah, I don't want to go to work. Watch I
want somebody had moneyon in Japan, Carrol Ju go town.

Speaker 3 (16:20):
And you're still gonna end up on the internet.

Speaker 1 (16:22):
People gonna know you was over there. You know a bitch,
you used to try to go to the next state
over and strip.

Speaker 2 (16:27):
I'll go into the next continent.

Speaker 3 (16:29):
That was before the internet. That wasn't me this Ai,
that's my surrogate girl.

Speaker 1 (16:38):
What if your fucking lag mess around to give out
while you're in there.

Speaker 2 (16:42):
First of all, it's by ankle, by ankle, go fuck up.
That's that's why I can't go, but I would want
to remember on the yellow brick road. You gotta take
a little cann off. Listen. I'm too old, I have
aged out.

Speaker 1 (17:03):
I don't know, man, you might you might be able
to get up there. I know I'm not, y'all. I'm like,
I just I never understood, like how First of all,
it's two things about strippers. I never understood how y'all
get up there naked and every night and dancing these strangers.

Speaker 3 (17:17):
And why the fuck y'all body so soft like that?
Like what what products are y'all using?

Speaker 1 (17:22):
How I know stripper's body is soft because I have
touched a stripper Okay, that wasn't her.

Speaker 3 (17:33):
And that bitch just be fucking soft.

Speaker 1 (17:35):
Okay, I don't know what type of products they be using,
like what they be fullyat with the.

Speaker 2 (17:42):
First of all, they're definitely shaving their asses, you guys,
if you're not shaving your butt, it's not but ain't hairy.
It's not hairy. But there's that little fine hair that's
all over your body. If you shave it, it will
be nice and smooth.

Speaker 3 (17:57):
Let me see right quick.

Speaker 2 (17:58):
It's a little it's like fine hair all over it.
When I tell you I shave like. I learned this
from this Korean skincare group that I'm in for Koreans
Skincare for Black Girls group, And they talked and there
was just one one tip to shave your entire body,
even like I was shaving my collar bone, like my

(18:19):
whole I shaved my whole body, even my bunch cheese.
When you get in a shower today, tonight or whenever
the next time, you, babe, I don't know, shave your butt,
expec and increase the whole ass, the whole ass.

Speaker 1 (18:34):
How you shave your whole ass? What a razor and
you and you reach every part? Yes, fuck you, I
bet you'd be having like a little line in here.
Some we're that you hairy. I'm not as hairy as you.
I don't think I feel like you got more hair
in your body than me.

Speaker 2 (18:53):
I'm probably more hairier than you, but I don't think.
I don't consider myself hair. You know how people be
having like hairy ass arms. My arm don't grow hair
like that. It beat them.

Speaker 1 (19:01):
Light skined girls. Light skined girls only shave their calf.
You fuck run and see that bench thigh and shit's
fucking hairy is.

Speaker 3 (19:08):
The we're WoT underneathing.

Speaker 2 (19:09):
You'll be surprised how much hair is gonna come up
on that raising. You're gonna be humble, but then it's
gonna make your ass so smooth.

Speaker 1 (19:17):
One itch, though, if you shave a spot that's never
been shaved before, I'm my butt won't be itching.

Speaker 2 (19:22):
No, just you.

Speaker 1 (19:26):
I remember the first time I shaved my couchie in
high school. Oh my god, I was pat my pussy
all day long, like trying to scratch that shit on
the loan.

Speaker 3 (19:41):
I could not believe how bad my cucci was itching.

Speaker 1 (19:48):
That never happened to you, No, you know, I spent
the night with my friend.

Speaker 2 (19:56):
Yah, I hadn't heart so bad. I had the heart
and I I would go to the bathroom. But then
it got like, why do you keep going to the bathroom?
And I hadn't tell him I had I was farting
because you know, that just ruined me. Kill intimacy. Yeah,
that I'm going to the bathroom every five minutes because
I'm farting in there. What did you eat? I just

(20:18):
had an egg rolling a bowl. Oh so yeah.

Speaker 1 (20:25):
I should be following me sometimes not far me down
fell and followed me back to the bed. I gotta
kick that bitch. My fart definitely be loud. Sometimes, motherfucker
just pull up back to the bed with me. So
I just swung your clothes.

Speaker 2 (20:41):
I stopped, I held it. Oh my gosh. When I
was driving home today, Oh my god, yeah, I was like,
first of all, he in his house is like eight minutes.
In eight minutes, I farted at least seven team the
twenty times.

Speaker 1 (21:01):
You had on jeans, what kind of past you had on,
what kind of you had on? Don't it feel good
at a couple of times?

Speaker 3 (21:07):
Like when it roll up the front the front.

Speaker 1 (21:12):
When you fart, like with clothes on, and I like
it kind of rolls up the front.

Speaker 3 (21:16):
It feels good a little bit.

Speaker 1 (21:17):
Yes, you're fucking nasty, it does. See y'all won't admit
to some of this ship, but it's just regularly human shit.
Like you have a conversation with another real nigga and
they'd be like, yeah, I experienced that.

Speaker 2 (21:33):
I don't know if it was. I'm never like, oh
that felt nice. Yeah, I know what you're talking about.

Speaker 3 (21:39):
I like to poll strands to weave out my butt
crack too. What don't that feel good?

Speaker 1 (21:46):
So you won't be having when you won't be having
random strands of hair down there like for me.

Speaker 2 (21:50):
Yeah, especially what I'm doing, hair be hair in places
that I don't like.

Speaker 3 (21:53):
How did you get pulled out slow? I'll save my
butt tonight and you pull the hair out slow?

Speaker 1 (21:59):
Okay, that shit feels the fuck good.

Speaker 2 (22:05):
It's that word at all, aging, all right, all right?

Speaker 3 (22:10):
So Aliyah Jones says that she's a corporate catfish, and y'all,
I've told y'all to be a corporate catfish on multiple occasions.

Speaker 1 (22:20):
So this woman basically changed their profile picture on LinkedIn
to a white woman, and she was getting better responses. Now,
I've been telling people, like aside from the podcast not
to put pictures on LinkedIn because I know that they discriminate.
Like they have your application now you can just go
you know, if they can't find your Facebook page, they

(22:41):
can just type up your instagra, I mean your LinkedIn profile.
People will discriminate. There are black people who discriminate on
other black people. If you get a email that sounds
like a black person.

Speaker 3 (22:53):
So this shit happens.

Speaker 2 (22:56):
That's crazy, but it's not surprising. You know, the blonde hair,
white girl m hm yeah, I'm not surprised that they
you know, people want this this woman working at their job.

Speaker 1 (23:12):
So she said she was tired of not getting hired
and being overlooked. She explained to Unbothered, this is who
was doing an interview. She said, I studied for interviews, religiously,
showed up on time, got stood up, traveled across cities,
made it to the final round, and still got nothing.
After a while, it stopped feeling like a coincidence and
started feeling like a pattern. That's when I decided to

(23:34):
run an experiment. So in corporate Catfish, Jones, so she
started writing a whole blog about this corporate catfishing, and
she's the corporate catfish. In corporate Catfish, Jones claimed, someone
told her she wasn't corporate enough. She got a message
for somebody on LinkedIn and it was like a voice
memo on a direct message, and it told the person

(23:55):
told her she was not corporate enough.

Speaker 3 (23:58):
What does that mean?

Speaker 1 (24:00):
Because I mean people got our generation got sleeves in
sleeve tattoos in corporate settings, right, Okay, so what does
that even mean? She said, they policed my tone and
told me that I'm not corporate enough, and should present
myself the way, and should present myself that way if
I want to be taken seriously. That moment said a lot,

(24:23):
because what does corporate enough even mean sounding less black,
real or robotic? I'm real or more robotic. She said,
I was showing up as myself and that made some
people uncomfortable. Being corporate should mean being competent, communative, and respectful,
not silencing your personality, culture or humanity. Corporate culture is

(24:46):
still rooted in this outdated blueprint that prioritizes assimilation over authenticity.
It's time we built something better, so she says. So
she changed her profile picture, simple little tweak, and she
was getting you know.

Speaker 2 (25:03):
But I mean, all right, just because you get the
interview and you show up black, then what because I
don't know, you.

Speaker 1 (25:09):
Know, well sometimes because okay, before AI, I think AI
has always been a thing, right, but now it's like
more mainstream. But these hiring systems that people use, like
workforce stuff like that, they have always been using some
type of AI, you know, computerizations. Just yeah, so if

(25:30):
you if you got a factor in affirmative action, so
say for instance, you have an office with I don't know,
fifty people in there, y'all want to hire ten more people.
Got to be percentage black, gotta be a percentage woman,
you know what I'm saying. Like, now you got to
add in all this extra bollshits. So this system is
weeding people out. But just like when we talked about DEI,

(25:51):
how it benefited white women more anyway, So what are
we really even talking about?

Speaker 3 (25:57):
Right?

Speaker 1 (25:57):
So, even with DEI and affirmative action in place, there
are still discriminatory practices happening in corporate.

Speaker 3 (26:05):
Settings just period.

Speaker 1 (26:07):
Yeah, so if you are in the job market, yeah,
you might need to not say that you're a black American.
I mean, you just got to play the game until
you win.

Speaker 3 (26:16):
That's all.

Speaker 1 (26:17):
Play the game until you win, because you're not even
getting into the hiring process because they already knocking you out.

Speaker 3 (26:24):
Your application is getting knocked out.

Speaker 2 (26:26):
It's so crazy with all these things trying to keep
us suppressed and keep us down, and keep puts sick
and keep us dying earlier than everybody else. I still
want to be a black woman. I still wouldn't choose
to be over there.

Speaker 3 (26:40):
Ain't that dangerous, but it's lit.

Speaker 2 (26:44):
I still wouldn't wonderful nothing else.

Speaker 1 (26:47):
They don't want to be nothing else either, like their
motherfuckers want to be black too.

Speaker 3 (26:51):
That's why they can't stand when it's too many of
us around. Like goddamn it, god damn it.

Speaker 1 (26:58):
But I had a homegirl telling me that a girl
whose name is probably like a Shanika or some shit
like that, said she she is in a position of
hiring people. And she said that when she sees, like, h,
let's say an email that says ta Misha Brown or
something like that.

Speaker 3 (27:16):
She's overlooking that application.

Speaker 1 (27:18):
So we are also doing it to each other when
we are in a position to put the next nick
Ononda and you overlook it to Misha exactly.

Speaker 2 (27:30):
Going back, Hi, kill, good morning, Kill, oh Ben, you
and Shakwanda.

Speaker 1 (27:35):
And I have refrain, Like I had my homegirl Tamika,
like she started going by Renee because you know, she
had a master's degree and wasn't getting.

Speaker 2 (27:44):
Jobs just because her name was ethnic. Yep.

Speaker 1 (27:49):
So I mean it's it's unfortunate corporate settings do have
an uniform. Hopefully you can get someplace working from home
where you don't be looking like shit, right, you know
what I'm saying, Like you just look at look like
ship from the house.

Speaker 3 (28:02):
But that's just it is what it is until it's not.

Speaker 2 (28:06):
Do you know what another name that it might be
suck to have right now? Karen? Karen right now? All right?

Speaker 1 (28:18):
You know Karen that works with Charlamagne. Well, when we
were first like working out our deal and stuff like
that with Black Effect, I was talking to I said,
what's your name again?

Speaker 3 (28:31):
She said like she didn't want to repeat her name.
She didn't want to say Karen again.

Speaker 2 (28:39):
Yeah, that's one of those names have right now. You
got to overcompensate for your name, just like being a name. Unfortunately,
what are we talking today?

Speaker 1 (28:53):
So, y'all, today we are having a conversation about.

Speaker 3 (28:57):
Orcasters, oh my favorite.

Speaker 1 (29:00):
Yeah, okay, in comparison to men, is there is there
equality amongst orgasms? Or is it an illusion? That's what
we're talking about today.

Speaker 2 (29:11):
Okay, I need more, I need details on what that means.

Speaker 3 (29:15):
We'll be back.

Speaker 2 (29:16):
Yeah, all right.

Speaker 1 (29:22):
So it's twenty twenty five, y'all, it is October twenty
twenty five. Are women still faking orgasms in twenty twenty five?

Speaker 3 (29:32):
Raise your hand.

Speaker 2 (29:34):
I don't think them, no more. I do not. I
used to think them. I used to be the queen
of fake in the orgasm, not no more.

Speaker 3 (29:41):
Yeah, I used to practice mind in the mirror this t.

Speaker 2 (29:48):
That's your best me and your best.

Speaker 3 (29:51):
Come girl, my best come?

Speaker 2 (29:54):
What best orgasm?

Speaker 3 (29:56):
Girl? I'm not doing that. I can't fake orgasms like
that no more.

Speaker 2 (30:00):
And I'm you just know shy, She's shy, everybody.

Speaker 3 (30:03):
I ain't doing it for free. I'm not about to
be moaning on this, Damn Mike.

Speaker 1 (30:09):
I'll least bet on OnlyFans with the moons.

Speaker 2 (30:14):
No, I don't. I don't fake them no more, just
because I don't have to. I come so fast now,
I don't know what that is. Listen, my boot will
breathe on my neck and I'll be like, you know,
anytime I do a fake orgasm, sound I just channeled

(30:34):
my inner black Man? Remember when he came on himself?

Speaker 3 (30:40):
Black Man? Girl? You a big walking movie reference?

Speaker 1 (30:46):
Okay, Yeah, so I don't think I haven't faked the
orgasm in a very long time. And I feel like
we are women are actually the reason why niggas really
think they be hitting this pussy for real.

Speaker 3 (30:58):
Like why would we ever fait?

Speaker 1 (31:01):
You know, because I've said this before, I do feel
like the female orgasm is like a new new thing,
you know, because our grandmother's really wasn't having orgasms, you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (31:12):
Nobody was even trying to concern with them having orgasms exactly.

Speaker 3 (31:18):
Jimmy Paul was just hitting that thing and on the
just sweaty.

Speaker 1 (31:24):
I just think about like color purple his business, Yeah,
color purple exactly. I could not imagine living in that
time and having a deal with that type of bullshit
because their egos should have been bruised day one. But
we have women that still having sex and really not
enjoying it, still faking it.

Speaker 3 (31:45):
And why why do we fake it?

Speaker 1 (31:46):
Why are women still faking orgasms in twenty twenty five?

Speaker 3 (31:50):
I really would like to know.

Speaker 2 (31:52):
So I think there's two reasons that people fake an organasm.
One because they wanted it over, wanted to be over.
Or Two now I've done that and the man is
working hard to get you to come, and you know
you're never going to come, so you just fake it
so it can be done. So they let me let.

Speaker 1 (32:13):
Me rephrase that right quick, not recent as in recent recent,
but I mean like recent in the last couple of years.
Go ahead, when your nigga listened to the show not
like that, boo boo. And then the second reason is
to feed a man's ego. You don't want to hurt
his feelings. You want him to feel like he's the

(32:34):
man because you care. Those are the two. Those are
only two reasons.

Speaker 3 (32:40):
I agree. I agree.

Speaker 1 (32:42):
So this says the twenty twenty four Cross National study
eleven thousand people they interviewed found forty percent have faked
at some point. Eighteen percent of women versus nine percent
men report currently faking. Many stopped after improving communication and

(33:02):
slash comfort. And it also goes to say, like the
motives in the psychology behind fake and it says common
motives is to avoid negative feelings like you said, protect
your partner's ego and an encounter you said that right,
Or because orgasms feels unlikely given the way sex is happening,

(33:23):
so you're in the middle.

Speaker 3 (33:24):
It says, the orgasm feels unlikely, you're.

Speaker 1 (33:27):
Not going to ever get there, so you just start
faking it so it can be over.

Speaker 3 (33:32):
Yeah, it says.

Speaker 1 (33:34):
Newer research links faking to emotion regulation difficulties and using
sex to cope, pointing to relational emotional dynamics, not just performance.
So I think for women, we do have to be
mentally in it. To have an orgasm, you got to

(33:54):
be I don't do you think prostitutes be having orgasms
when they have sex.

Speaker 3 (33:59):
Sometimes you a real whole, You are a real who.

Speaker 1 (34:04):
If you having orgasms all as sex every all night,
I don't, I don't think so.

Speaker 2 (34:08):
I they probably fake it most of the time, but
I'm sure they come sometimes.

Speaker 3 (34:13):
It's I think, I think.

Speaker 1 (34:15):
But the reason why I'm saying is that I think
that men's men orgasms is more connected to the act
of it, and with women it's more connected to the
emotional aspect of you know, having sex. So I know
prostitutes are not emotionally attached to their johns, but.

Speaker 2 (34:35):
It's not always emotional because sometimes the niggas just be
hitting that but you like it's over. You know, it
don't have to be like emotional or passion involved. It
could just be like the physical act.

Speaker 1 (34:49):
I don't know, I feel like, I mean, it's been
a long time where I could have sex with somebody
I don't like because even like when somebody you're in
a relationship with a long time and you know that
shit over mentally, but you still physically there, the sex
is not fucking good anymore, and like I start thinking,
like why did I ever think this was good? That's
because I'm just not into it anymore emotionally, Like he

(35:11):
might still be doing his thing, you know, and it's
still great to him, but for me it feels a
little ugh ink. Yeah, it's such an ick Like I'm not.

Speaker 2 (35:22):
Ingending it because mentally he's gross to you now, But
what if he wasn't mentally gross, but you also wasn't
in love with him, you know, m Like if you
didn't have an emotional connection to him, but he wasn't
gross to you, because once you check out, like the

(35:42):
idea of fucking that person is now like, eh, I don't.

Speaker 3 (35:45):
Want you, That's what I'm saying. It's still like I
don't know, how do you think you can?

Speaker 1 (35:51):
I don't think I can ever like get back there
once I get to that, ugh, what a person it
could be two years from now and I decide, let
me see how this sitting like it's just over for you.
And it's not that you're like ugh to me for real,
it's just that I'm not in love with you no more.

Speaker 3 (36:08):
So now it's like.

Speaker 1 (36:10):
Or even in like with you anymore? Yeah, because you
know that's a big thing. It's two different things. So
I feel like, once I fall out alike and lust,
I like lust. Now lust, you know you still like
that person a lot. Lust is so good. And that's
why I remember that time. I was like, how do
you stay in lust?

Speaker 2 (36:31):
Right?

Speaker 1 (36:31):
In order to stay in lust, you gotta keep you
gotta have sex with a new person every time, because
how do you stay in lust with the same person.

Speaker 2 (36:40):
You don't even like? Even if you have sex a
lot with someone new, after a little while, it's coming like,
it's just chills next. I don't know if there's any
way to keep it lustfull.

Speaker 1 (37:00):
Because lust is good LUs just like lust is like
meeting somebody, y'all. I've been on several dates. You know,
you want to give him the kuchi, right and.

Speaker 3 (37:11):
This this this, this.

Speaker 1 (37:13):
Is the day and y'all might be out of town
or y'all you know, in town, and y'all just hanging
out all day from like ten o'clock that morning to
ten o'clock that night. All day you're thinking about how
you're gonna do this when you get on it. That
is the feeling. I want to have in a relationship. Yes,

(37:36):
how do you keep that going?

Speaker 2 (37:38):
That's drugs?

Speaker 3 (37:41):
I think distance also, right.

Speaker 2 (37:42):
Yeah, distant?

Speaker 3 (37:43):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (37:44):
Being away from for some time does help. Let me
tell you what makes this is gonna sound crazy, and
this is my toxic energy. But after a fight, after
a fight, that lust for energy real will ignite.

Speaker 3 (38:01):
No, you might be a serial killer. I'd be so mad.
I'd be so after that.

Speaker 2 (38:08):
You know what I'm saying, after the after the fight
has been resolved or pushed it aside or whatever y'all decide.
You know that first time after.

Speaker 3 (38:21):
Take me through there, Take me through there?

Speaker 2 (38:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (38:25):
I have yet to listen to that and hold that
whole song, have you?

Speaker 2 (38:28):
That's pretty much the gist of it. If you heard
that part, you heard the song, oh something? Yes, So
tell me you ain't never had like really passionate sex
after y'all come back from a fight.

Speaker 1 (38:44):
No, because I feel like when you if you're not
doing things to continuously fall in love, you've fallen out
of love. So if we like having fights to wear
like yeah, like the makeup to break up thing, I don't.
I don't really particularly care for makeup to break up
because the more we make up to break, I'm falling
out of love. That's how I get to that point
and not want you to even fucking touch me. You

(39:05):
know what I'm saying, Like I don't play.

Speaker 2 (39:07):
Them one time, like really passionate six after y'all made
that is fucking toxic. It's what you Yeah, I like it.

Speaker 3 (39:18):
I don't want no toxic sec because I want that
shit to be happy.

Speaker 2 (39:21):
I wanted to be happy. But I mean, fights are
going to happen. I can't imagine a relationship where you're
never gonna fight.

Speaker 3 (39:28):
I feel like there's some people who I taught.

Speaker 1 (39:30):
I saw this couple, you know how on Instagram they
walk around the cities and then they stopped couples like, hey,
y y'all a couple, How long have y'all been together?
It was this couple, a white couple, and they might
have been like in their fifties or something like that.

Speaker 3 (39:43):
Looked like fifty six, early sixties or something.

Speaker 1 (39:45):
And he was asking how long they were were married
were together and they had been married for thirty one years.
She said that she she didn't really he lived in
her building. She didn't realize he lived in her building.
He saw she saw him. They walked past each each
other and they both, you know, turn back and look
at each other.

Speaker 2 (40:02):
Right.

Speaker 1 (40:03):
So now she realizes later on that evening, while she's
on a date with somebody else going into her apartment,
that this her fucking husband. Okay, So she said, they
basically said from that like once they actually got together,
they were inseparable from that day on. And they said
how they do that is by basically having a competition
on how to make the other one happy. Like, yeah,

(40:24):
it's a competition. I want to make you happier than me.
You made me yesterday. You know what I'm saying, that's
that's the type of luck. Yeah, I don't want to
I don't want I'm past in my life the turmoil. Shit,
that ship was never turn on for me and I
got PTSD. I really still be thinking about fights I've
had in relationship.

Speaker 3 (40:45):
Yes, that shit has never been been Ah, that's not good.
It's not good.

Speaker 2 (40:51):
Good, it's not good. But the sex was good. I
just remember asking them after the fight six that it
was like very nice. So I'm just saying.

Speaker 1 (41:03):
I aspire for a relationship where there's no fights. I
feel like it's possible. You know if you find the
actual person, Like, yes, you want to have disagreements, but
different disagreements doesn't does not have to result into you know, arguments.
Yeah to where you gotta you know that don't sound
like a perfect you know what you uh? The part

(41:24):
when you were talking about porschit because I did see
that that headline. Right, she was saying how she's dating
these two people, the man and a woman, but she
was actually at doing somebody's live show or something. She
was on stage talking and this is how the reports
came out of whatever. She was saying, how these two

(41:44):
people aren't narcissists, right, they are not narcissists, they're healthy people. Right.
So now she's being forced to check herself because those
are the situations that she's used to, right, and now
like these people are checking her and when she wants
some bullshit, right, so she might need to evaluate whether
or not she was a narcissist and her other relationships. Right,

(42:08):
that is what I'm hearing, is what I'm hearing, Like worry,
I mean, and that's growth, right, that's definitely growth. So
she was basically saying that, yeah, she'd be having to
check herself now because these people are healthy.

Speaker 2 (42:24):
So what you're getting at that I need to stop
fighting with niggas. I feel like that. I mean, that's
what you was doing.

Speaker 1 (42:32):
I don't want nobody taking me through shit, put me
through the man. You can talk me through these Yeah,
you can talk me through these orgasms though, Please do that. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (42:41):
I don't want to fight, but I just feel like
it's inevitable. I don't want to fight a lot, you know.
I just don't feel like. I just feel like if
I'm in a relationship where there's never one fight over
thirty years, it's boring as fucking this relationship.

Speaker 3 (42:59):
We gotta at least like physical fight at least, no.

Speaker 2 (43:02):
Not a fist fight. I don't want to get physical.

Speaker 1 (43:04):
One of my exes told me he was gonna beat
my ass or we turned fifty. He was like, when
we turn fifty, I'm gonna beat your ass.

Speaker 2 (43:14):
Your birthday. Not physical. I don't want to physically fight
a man because, just based on past experience, I know
that I'm not gonna win. So I just don't want
to do that. I need to. I just want to
argue some once, at least once about something.

Speaker 3 (43:36):
So it says that across adulthood.

Speaker 1 (43:40):
Men report orgasms in about seventy to eighty five percent
of partner encounters versus women, it's forty six to fifty
eight percent for women. In a large US study of
orientation differences, heterosexual men ninety versus heterosexual women women sixty

(44:04):
five percent orgasm consistency.

Speaker 3 (44:07):
Lesbian women reported higher.

Speaker 1 (44:09):
Orgasm rates higher orgasm rates than heterosexual and bisexual women,
pointing to technique slash communication not female dysfunction. I never
think it's female dysfunction. No, Like now, One thing I
always tell people, like when they start talking about squirting
and shit like that, like I gush, a'h, gush now,

(44:32):
but like like squirting across the room and shit like that, Hey,
maybe my coochie is broke because it doesn't do that.

Speaker 2 (44:41):
Across the room. It's crazy.

Speaker 3 (44:44):
Maybe it's broke. You know, I'm not into pee up
somebody's bedding.

Speaker 2 (44:47):
You.

Speaker 1 (44:47):
I'm damn sure not peen at my own bed. We
can do that nasty shit at your house.

Speaker 2 (44:54):
I don't want to tell y'all what I do.

Speaker 3 (44:56):
I'm shy. Oh do you be squirring because I don't.

Speaker 2 (45:03):
I'm not saying that. I don't want to talk about it.

Speaker 1 (45:11):
You mattress cover for Tammy.

Speaker 3 (45:15):
You're a good one. I was at Haverdes this weekend.

Speaker 1 (45:20):
Havebards had some good mattress covers on sale.

Speaker 3 (45:25):
You might need that plastic ship that going?

Speaker 2 (45:27):
Uh? I said, I'm not saying that.

Speaker 3 (45:29):
So that going to baby the baby bed like the crib.

Speaker 1 (45:35):
That's what you probably need, Chad, I hear that. Next,
they got me nickname for your ass. Technique versus script
what actually happens or what actually helps? So it says
clatoral reality check for me? For me, I do require

(45:56):
a little clatoral stimulation while having sex? Like I Yeah,
I'm not a lesbian, right, So if I'm you gotta
girls second time? And now he's the third time, so
I could finish my thought, I'm not I'm not a lesbian.
So if we having sex, like you got to follow

(46:17):
up with some dick, sir, I do not just want
head the whole time.

Speaker 3 (46:21):
I don't want a little finger in there while you
eating it too.

Speaker 2 (46:25):
That's your that's your girl too.

Speaker 3 (46:27):
Yeah, I need like a combo? Can I get a combo?

Speaker 1 (46:31):
So it says combined clatorial vaginal plus vaginal stimulation is
associated with more intense orgasms for more women focusing on
penetration alone often missus the mark.

Speaker 3 (46:42):
You think that's true? Oh you said niggas breathing on
your neck? Does it?

Speaker 2 (46:46):
I mean, right now, it's just so weird what I
got going on right now. I'm just coming so easy.
So I don't know. You breathe, cool breeze, go across
the back of my back. I'd be like, yeah, I mean.

Speaker 3 (47:00):
For real, we are in our prime. You know what
I'm saying. I don't.

Speaker 1 (47:03):
I feel like I might be a little bit more
horny now and I hate that word, y'all, but horny.
I feel like my libido is higher, very higher now
than it was. You know, I'll say ten years ago. Likewise, Yeah,
because what was we doing?

Speaker 2 (47:19):
Right? I agree? But I don't know why this conversation
is making me uncomfortable.

Speaker 3 (47:27):
Girl, because you're fucking gay talking to me, bitch? Why
is it uncomfortable? I don't know talking about sex anymore?
I listen.

Speaker 2 (47:42):
That's the crazy part, because we have had like some
very explicit conversations on this show, and then all of
a sudden, I'm like, oh my god, my vagina. It's embarrassed.

Speaker 3 (47:53):
It's not on display though, nobody's seeing it.

Speaker 2 (47:55):
It feels like it. First of all, I just think
I'm alright. So obviously I've expressed that I've had experiences
with women in my life, but I don't consider myself gay,
even though Ashley tells me as much as possible that
I am.

Speaker 1 (48:14):
A man has sex with a man one time, I'm
not a man in college that one time.

Speaker 2 (48:23):
It really is a double standard.

Speaker 1 (48:26):
No, absolutely, to people who be on some game shit,
it is a double sunning.

Speaker 2 (48:30):
For me.

Speaker 3 (48:31):
It's the same shit.

Speaker 2 (48:35):
I've lost by train of thought. I don't even know
where the fuck I was going at you.

Speaker 1 (48:40):
I don't know you were shy about talking about coming,
Like I don't know why what is happening?

Speaker 2 (48:44):
I am shy about it. I'm not shy about coming,
but I'm shyy about talking about it with y'all. But
now I do like it don't take much. I don't
know if that rolls unlock some unlocked something in me.
Do y'all? Yeah, that just made it happen real fast.
Now I'm ready to go to bed and go to work.

Speaker 1 (49:07):
I threw that thing in the trash. No hesitation either, Like,
just really, you didn't after like a week, no it's
too much. And I don't even feel like it's like
too much, like it feels good. It's almost like it's
just it's kind of irritating to me. And then I
also saw a video with this girl had a tester

(49:27):
on a radiation tester and it's giving off a lot
of radiation.

Speaker 2 (49:32):
Really.

Speaker 3 (49:33):
Yeah, so you zapping your gucci literally mm hmm.

Speaker 2 (49:38):
When I went all those months of not having any sex,
I was definitely using that a lot. Let me tell
you about my best friend, Like I was least all
the time. But I think it might've unlocked something because
now I don't use it as much because I have
like a partner. Yeah, and yeah, you don't have to

(50:01):
work up very hard to give me where I need
to be.

Speaker 1 (50:04):
M Yeah, I'm pretty easy nowadays as well. But yeah,
I might be a little greedy though, what do you mean,
Like I'd be wanting to have sex often and I
like marathons.

Speaker 2 (50:20):
Okay, I want you that a marathon for you hour
and a half. You want to have a have set
for an hour and a half.

Speaker 3 (50:28):
Yes, I do.

Speaker 1 (50:29):
I would like to have sex for an hour and
a half, like and that would include like the fore play,
you know, what I'm saying, Like that's the most important
part to me, right, and then yeah, follow up with
some dick for like thirty minutes, and I mean we
can stop and start, but like things have to be
happening the whole time. I just need like the fuller
on session because sex for me is not just like
penetration the whole time, like just all the things like

(50:51):
still in the bed, rubbing up, kissing up.

Speaker 3 (50:54):
You know, watch a little bit of TV.

Speaker 1 (50:55):
Give it a little head while you watch a TV,
Like all the things have to still be happening.

Speaker 2 (51:00):
Oh so that's a part of the sex.

Speaker 3 (51:02):
Yes, watch on. It's part of the six You need
to watch TV like that. But I don't know.

Speaker 1 (51:09):
Singing on my microphone like I do fucking around, I
might fucking run it off on the mic, not the dick,
but the actual mic.

Speaker 3 (51:17):
Sing a little bit.

Speaker 2 (51:19):
It's not ship. It's if you leave the dick to
pick up of microphone, it's weird.

Speaker 1 (51:31):
Okay, you'd be doing rap songs and scripts for movies.

Speaker 2 (51:37):
That's actually be free styling. But that and that's where
a man is getting no sex. If I break out
the karaoke, just know you're going home the same way
you can listen.

Speaker 1 (51:49):
I don't have to have a marathon every session. You
know what I'm saying, because I I do enjoy a
nice squeakie. Okay, I do enjoy a nice squeaky especially
when you got shit to do or you're just starting
to get it out the ways you go to sleep.

Speaker 3 (52:00):
I enjoy a nice queakie. Quiki is are nice?

Speaker 2 (52:02):
Twenty minutes on a Saturday night.

Speaker 1 (52:06):
Twenty minutes, that's a I mean, twenty minutes is a
good time.

Speaker 2 (52:11):
That's all I ever.

Speaker 1 (52:13):
Twenty minutes straight, pound out, Poundtown twenty minutes.

Speaker 2 (52:18):
Yeah that all I need.

Speaker 1 (52:19):
Yeah, Poundtown for twenty minutes is good. Yeah, it's all Listen.

Speaker 2 (52:23):
Anything over it, I'm calling the police. You get off
of me, Go like, what are you trying to do?
Kill me?

Speaker 1 (52:34):
I need somebody to tomorrow. What is that phone call
going to sound like to the police?

Speaker 2 (52:41):
Excuse me? I need you at this address right now.
This man is trying to take my life. You trying
to take my life?

Speaker 3 (52:51):
Real sex? Do be having you feeling dreamed? Also?

Speaker 1 (52:54):
You know what I'm saying, Like it does exude a
lot of energy. But if we go like I'm just
saying you know, on a nice Friday or Saturday night.
I'm just saying, twenty minutes. Maybe some drugs are involved,
a little bit, a little bit of alcohol, you know
what I'm saying, Like, you know, a little fun. You
get up and go drink some water and come back
and do a little bit more stuff.

Speaker 2 (53:13):
That's not fun, Sir Bernie Mack. That's it. I gotta
go to bed twenty minutes. If you ain't got it
about twenty minutes, you ain't getting.

Speaker 3 (53:25):
It once a month, man, I need a marathon at
least once a month. That's all.

Speaker 1 (53:29):
I'm asking masks for too much. Yeah, I don't know.
I might be greedy.

Speaker 3 (53:35):
You might be a little greedy on drugs. I might
be a little tiny bit low greed. What y'all think though?
Are y'all?

Speaker 1 (53:47):
How sex going okay? I am forty one? Actually right,
sex is going great for me. I would like to know, Tammy,
sex going great for you? Are you having sex now?

Speaker 2 (53:58):
I am? Yes. Sex has been amazing.

Speaker 3 (54:03):
Sounds good.

Speaker 2 (54:04):
It has been really really good.

Speaker 1 (54:06):
Amazing sex in your forties. It might be hard to
come by for some people. I got puma pussy'll know.
But y'all, but how sex for y'all. Y'all forties, Okay,
how is it? How is it going?

Speaker 2 (54:18):
Nice? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (54:20):
Do y'all have to use any special tools, any special lubricants,
No waterfalls.

Speaker 2 (54:28):
My body's still doing what they need to do.

Speaker 3 (54:30):
I know, isn't it great? Yeahn't great.

Speaker 2 (54:34):
But I know, like we're getting closer to the age
where the body stop. And you know, some people are
experiencing that in our age group where their bodies aren't
producing well, especially like imagine all right, so imagine women
are our age who have been having sex with the
same guy for fifteen years or ten years, or seven

(54:57):
years or two years, I don't know. You know, you
might not get as wet because you know, he buy
the stroke to the left for seven, stroke to the
right for forty, and he gonna flip you over, lick
your butt, flip you back over, like you know exactly
what he gonna do. Like you might not get.

Speaker 1 (55:18):
You know, I think that's fun sometimes anticipating like you
know they about to do this thing, like I know
it's up next, like your favorite thing you can't do
you do kind of get into a little routine like that,
or he about to he about to eat.

Speaker 3 (55:31):
My Kuchie off the side of the bed. That's my favorite.

Speaker 2 (55:36):
Stay your favorite he do he eats your coochie off
the side every time for seven years. Oh yeah, kuccie
off the side.

Speaker 3 (55:46):
I am not like a super freak, you know.

Speaker 1 (55:48):
I'm okay with the person whoever, whoever I'm with, We're
gonna do all the things like a little bit right,
but I'm playing jeans, so it ain't a whole.

Speaker 3 (55:57):
Bunch of like what the fuck else you need?

Speaker 1 (56:00):
Like hanging from the ceiling, like what what do y'all need?
That's why y'all should not be out here doing all
this bullshit because a man asks you to. It's never
going to be a limit. I don't need that much
to come. I don't need all that extra shit. So
if your man need all that, you know, maybe he
don't like you. I don't know, maybe he's like has

(56:22):
a porn addiction, get porn too, or maybe he has
maybe he has a porn addiction. That's a that's a
problem in a lot of relationships. Yeah, So now you
have this expectation of what sex is supposed to look
like because you're watching this this ship and these bitches
getting you're not paying me enough enough to do that shit.

Speaker 3 (56:42):
My nigga, Like, you gotta up to pay if you
want some porn shit.

Speaker 2 (56:46):
Do you watch porn?

Speaker 1 (56:49):
I haven't in a long time. Like what I watched porn? Yes,
but it's like blocked in South Carolina, North Carolina. Right now,
I can't watch no porn. But I was at one point,
but I was likeugh, you just feel after it. I
never I just like have ideas and I have visions
in my mind of my own session.

Speaker 2 (57:07):
That's how I like. I discovered porn in twenty seventeen,
and I was off of it by twenty eighteen. It's
just seem it don't do nothing for me.

Speaker 3 (57:16):
You discovered porn in seventeen.

Speaker 2 (57:18):
Yeah, I never looked at porn until twenty seventeen. And
then I was just like, yeah, I like I needed
my porn to have a plot, Like I need to
know how these people met.

Speaker 3 (57:32):
You want soap oper porn.

Speaker 2 (57:35):
It has to be otherwise I'm just gonna be grossed out.

Speaker 3 (57:40):
That little nasty music just come on?

Speaker 2 (57:43):
Yeah, how much she said you fanby director?

Speaker 1 (57:47):
You can't see a director like balls? Then she start
sucking the balls like that.

Speaker 2 (57:55):
I need y'all to add bump into each other at
the grocery store or something like me something to make
it clean.

Speaker 3 (58:02):
It's like a dick in the car in front of
the pickly Wiggily.

Speaker 2 (58:06):
Clean, not the piggy wiggly. Tell everybody from.

Speaker 3 (58:11):
The South, shit pilly wiggily be bumping.

Speaker 1 (58:15):
They got that good ass cafe cafeteria food they do.

Speaker 2 (58:20):
Oh, speaking of that, I heard New York finally got
a bow Jangles.

Speaker 3 (58:25):
I saw that.

Speaker 2 (58:28):
You're gonna get fatter, because that's what.

Speaker 3 (58:33):
You don't go mad asking me, oh, you don't eat girl.

Speaker 1 (58:37):
The most I would eat from bull Jangles is an
egg biscuit strawberries strawberry strawberry jelly. But the bulberry biscuit
don't taste like how I used to. But I remember,
I remember how food used to taste as a kid.
And this food ain't hitting on ship. So them buwlberry
biscuits used to be different. Yeah, to sing, they just

(59:01):
taste like a biscuit now with blueberry. Before it was
like the dough was tasting different than a biscuit.

Speaker 3 (59:08):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (59:09):
It was different quality as it once was.

Speaker 1 (59:11):
I feel like, yeah, but that's the only thing I
eat from there, and then you know I would eat
their fries because I do remember enjoining the French fries.
But I know they'd be frying that ship with the
chicken mm hm, So I don't eat the fries.

Speaker 2 (59:24):
Last time I went to go to bow Jangles, they
got to fighting at the drive through window and I
couldn't get my food. I was soaked.

Speaker 1 (59:32):
We know that shit on the application for bul Jangles,
McDonald's and Berry Kings. He say, can you fight? It's
on application waffle House. Definitely waffle House better, waffle House
got ru licensed to carry on their app. Some motherfuckers
be shooting, and rightfully so, because people come to waffle

(59:53):
House drunken shit start and shit with them. People who
were in there working just try and do their job.
It's already hard enough. You work in the waffle house
at three am.

Speaker 2 (01:00:02):
Right, and now you got this drunk motherfucker coming here
mad because their eggs ain't fry hard enough and throw you. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:00:10):
Did you see that? It was a video?

Speaker 1 (01:00:12):
This girl like she definitely sprayed waffle House up from
behind the counter like shot she was the employee, Yes,
because the bitches was throwing hell of shit at her. Yeah,
she definitely shut that ship up.

Speaker 2 (01:00:25):
She went to jail.

Speaker 3 (01:00:27):
I'm pretty sure.

Speaker 2 (01:00:29):
But that's why you gotta leave people alone. You don't
know what are people at their thirteenth reason? You know? So?

Speaker 3 (01:00:35):
Yeah, they assaulted her first.

Speaker 2 (01:00:37):
All right, do we have any more things to say
about your regina before we go?

Speaker 3 (01:00:42):
It's nice.

Speaker 2 (01:00:44):
I don't even like how like when I'm talking to
a guy. I don't like using the word p I
don't like that word.

Speaker 3 (01:00:51):
Why.

Speaker 2 (01:00:52):
It just sounds I.

Speaker 3 (01:00:53):
Don't even say it during sex.

Speaker 2 (01:00:55):
I don't like it. It sounds dirty. Girl. Hello, everyone's like,
can you stop calling it a vagina? I don't like
you calling it a vagina. I want to I don't
like words.

Speaker 3 (01:01:10):
Yeah, that's not dirty, So what you want to call it?

Speaker 2 (01:01:14):
You got?

Speaker 1 (01:01:17):
That is so ugly, my vagina. I like the word pussy.
It's such a nice word. I don't like the word
of horny though, but pussy is nice word.

Speaker 2 (01:01:26):
Another word I don't like mooist And if you put
that one in front of pieces.

Speaker 3 (01:01:33):
Out, what would you even say that? It's wet? Okay,
it's wet man y'all nasty?

Speaker 2 (01:01:45):
Yeah, I don't like it.

Speaker 1 (01:01:47):
It was this lady on Instagram. She would always make
videos like this moist, the old White Lady moist moist.
Stop please please doing enough on social media because you
literally could just do anything on that bitch.

Speaker 3 (01:02:04):
And ragu viral.

Speaker 2 (01:02:05):
That's that's what we need to get into. That is
our greatest endurance in life. It's a social media.

Speaker 3 (01:02:11):
Vagina.

Speaker 2 (01:02:13):
Yeah, that's what. It sounds nice and clean. All right, ladies,
what's my last last for y'all? Don't be afraid to
tell your guy what it takes to get you where
you need to be. If you out here faking every time,
you're doing yourself a disservice, just have a conversation and

(01:02:36):
tell him, because you know women be doing that, never
expressing what they need to get them where they need
to be.

Speaker 1 (01:02:45):
I agree, I concurrento, just to piggyback off of what
you were saying. Be honest with that nigga because when
he get over here, he gonna know you was lying
because I'm gonna tell him he a goddamn lie, and.

Speaker 3 (01:03:01):
Start over. Start from the top, Start from fuck top.
They get stop wanting to these niggas because when.

Speaker 1 (01:03:08):
They get into a real one, she gonna hurt their
feelings real it's gonna be like a little like he's
went thirty years. They can he be busting some ship
up somewhere. And even the term busting up. You know,
you don't want to bust the kuccia. You want it
to feel nice.

Speaker 2 (01:03:20):
Yeah, because guys think that if you're screaming that they're
doing a good job. Actually, that's not gonna stop either.
I'm calling the police once again. What are you trying?

Speaker 1 (01:03:31):
If I if I gotta do like this on your
stomach one too many times.

Speaker 3 (01:03:34):
It's over.

Speaker 1 (01:03:36):
Actually, if I got to tap about this, especially when
you married, you're not about to be busting my ship
up like that.

Speaker 2 (01:03:43):
Yeah, Like, what are you trying to do? What are
you trying to puss here?

Speaker 3 (01:03:46):
This is a rental.

Speaker 1 (01:03:51):
And it's a motherfucker big body bends. You're not about
to be crashing my ship out like that. So if
I got to too many fucking times, it's the time
and place for everything. And now I don't want to
get beat up, you know for the marathon. Yeah, yeah,
get off me. So yeah, please be honest.

Speaker 2 (01:04:07):
He hurting your kouchie when he eat it and you're
scared to say something.

Speaker 1 (01:04:10):
No, girl, what now you're about to take me someplace else.
This whole conversation, I'm thinking about all the type of
ship you ever had. Somebody to bite your kuccie, like,
let's at least try to eat your guccie. I had
a nigga eat my kucci once. That's where I had
to get the mirror to make sure I wasn't missing
a piece down there.

Speaker 2 (01:04:30):
He was nibbling on your reagina.

Speaker 1 (01:04:32):
I have never felt anything. I have never felt that
type of excruciating pain before.

Speaker 2 (01:04:40):
Oh, he tried to bite your clearers off.

Speaker 3 (01:04:43):
He was trying to eat it like it was literally serious.

Speaker 2 (01:04:48):
Did you hit him at the top of his head.

Speaker 1 (01:04:51):
Almost, you know, like that this was up like.

Speaker 2 (01:04:58):
Like what to do? But he didn't know. Maybe the
last girl liked her is bitten off.

Speaker 3 (01:05:03):
I don't know. Don't nibble want my cucci? Okay, it's
for sucking and licking. That's it. Like who told you
to literally eat kuci?

Speaker 2 (01:05:11):
So bite it off? It's crazy. Yeah, tell him tonight, girl,
tell him tonight.

Speaker 3 (01:05:18):
No, that ain't who beat my kuccie.

Speaker 1 (01:05:19):
This is a long time nobody listen every time tell
about my gucci like I'm shooting you.

Speaker 3 (01:05:26):
Nigga can bite my coucie. Nowadays, you're gonna get shot
in he nobody, he do.

Speaker 2 (01:05:30):
Be hurting me. I'm gonna tell him, girl, But you
justnna say at night, and you don't have to be
mean about it.

Speaker 3 (01:05:37):
Don't wait till after, though. You have to.

Speaker 1 (01:05:39):
Just like a dog when you're training a dog, you
have to catch them in the act while they're doing
the thing. You can't reprimand reprimand them after they've already
done the thing. So you gotta do it like literally,
why he licking at Kuchie like, I don't like that.

Speaker 3 (01:05:51):
That doesn't feel good. Do it like this? Men like construction,
Men like instructions. They like boundaries, you know, just say
it nice and sweet. No, baby, I want you to do
it like. Do it like this, talk to a real
low hum.

Speaker 2 (01:06:05):
And then give him positive reinforcement when he do it right.

Speaker 3 (01:06:09):
H good boy, good boy, good good boy.

Speaker 2 (01:06:13):
No. I don't know about that, but mag good boy.
You be saying good boy.

Speaker 3 (01:06:19):
To your bigger No.

Speaker 1 (01:06:20):
Hell no, but I like a nigga to say good
girl to me.

Speaker 2 (01:06:22):
Yeah, I like that too.

Speaker 3 (01:06:24):
Yes, All right, y'all, we be getting out of here because.

Speaker 1 (01:06:31):
Row episode here come this horny ass cat, y'all my
cat and he That's how I'd be, y'all crazy, all right, y'all.
If you enjoy this episode, y'all, tune in every Thursday
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Speaker 1 (01:07:08):
Now and never hold your oh ye oh.

Speaker 3 (01:07:18):
Bye, y'all.

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