EP 316: Just Be Shame-Less (Ft. King Noir)

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and we're like, right, motherfuckers, that could also be very much.
Are you recording that? Yes? Like right, motherfucker's in the building.

Speaker 3 (01:08):
Y'all, welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions.

Speaker 2 (01:12):
I'm your girl, Mandy beat.

Speaker 3 (01:13):
Aka Peg the Stallion aka that bitch a ka where
your daddy.

Speaker 1 (01:18):
Welcome back, y'all. I'm weezy, and we have a guest
that is a repeat guest. We've had his wife, his friends,
his dick, hall of them.

Speaker 3 (01:26):
Not only that, if you were currently watching this episode
at work, this is the time you may want to
pause this episode and go and get that pantyliner, honey,
because the boy, the soulcteriness is about to have.

Speaker 2 (01:39):
You more, maybe your mom plause we got king the
war in the motherfucking building.

Speaker 4 (01:50):
I'm so glad to be back.

Speaker 2 (01:52):
You know.

Speaker 4 (01:53):
It's like I have watched y'all just explode, you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:58):
Calm down?

Speaker 1 (02:00):
Do you know you have something you said on an
episode years ago that we always talk about in reference.
You talked about when Jazz We were like, oh, well,
how could you be cool with your girl going with
other people? That you were like, maybe she want to
go see B two K And you were like.

Speaker 2 (02:19):
Maybe I don't want to go, she can go do
that with another lover.

Speaker 1 (02:21):
And it was such a good example that we've used
it over the year so many times.

Speaker 3 (02:27):
I've expressed that in relationships because now I'm in all
these poly relationships. They don't they don't subscribe, but I
do know that their poly partner number one, two three.
But I'm really excited to not only get into, of course,
that we're gonna start with some icebreakers, but I'm really
excited at how you're able to dissect how you show

(02:47):
up in this space, not only as a partner, a husband,
a father, a sex worker, an entrepreneur.

Speaker 2 (02:53):
I want to get into all those things, but I
did do a lot.

Speaker 3 (02:56):
I do want to talk about you being a daddy too. Yeah, No,
we gonna get well, he's a zaddy by the way,
I've shared on this pod and I've shared with you,
I've shared with Jazz in private and on this page
that my pussy has been getting trained by your dil
Do for the last two three years with my ex.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
So it's still in my house. It gets a lot
of usage.

Speaker 3 (03:18):
And if you guys do not have the King Noir
dildo yet, please get it.

Speaker 2 (03:22):
I'll be honest with you.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
I had to get rid of it. It was on
my mantle for necklaces. It was just too well, you
put necklaces on his dialdo because I couldn't put it
in my pussy.

Speaker 2 (03:34):
It was just too much.

Speaker 1 (03:36):
Quick segue speaking of big dick shit, I want to
tell y'alls had sex yesterday before I got to New York,
had sex with someone would have medium sized it. Okay,
I was wetter than I've been in like bro like soaking,
couldn't believe it, and had been sleeping with someone with

(03:57):
not yours but a bigger day a big but not
as big as you. But I was like, yo, is
it my brain thinking I could take this dick? Because
when I see a big dick I want it. Is
it my brain telling my pussy, oh, you can handle
this one? Or can I actually not get that wet?

Speaker 2 (04:14):
For big dicks? You want all big dicks.

Speaker 4 (04:17):
There be a whole lot of different things.

Speaker 3 (04:18):
Though it could be the man attached to it.

Speaker 4 (04:20):
I don't.

Speaker 1 (04:23):
I would have said that, but I wanted to ask you.
Do you find that it takes a lot of time
going into one either get wet for you or too.
Are they so nervous to take it that they can't
get wet?

Speaker 5 (04:34):
It could be both or also I think with me
though I like four play so a lot of times
I'm even pussy until they like, let's get it, or
like I know it ain'tal two. It's very much like
I can't believe you I can take your time and
loube and all that other stuff. So sometimes it could
be was there more for play involved or.

Speaker 1 (04:56):
I mean, I think the issue is that it would
take me a second round to be able to take
a big dick, like I needed my pussy to get engorged.
Lene of the Plug said something about when she made
her sex toy. She said that they made her masturbate
so that her pussy was like engorged, and then they
put it inside her to make a replica of it

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because they wanted it to be like it's most ripe,
so to speak. So I think that's what happens to
me with big dicks, which is terrible because does.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
That mean my husband's will have to be a medium dick?
Nigga and I get used to it. You can have
an open relationship. I think it works for you girls.

Speaker 4 (05:31):
Hold you.

Speaker 3 (05:32):
I just got that from Ghana, and I realized as
much as I like a partner, I realized I think
I want many scattered across the world.

Speaker 4 (05:45):
You said what I said, you want your boshit too now.

Speaker 3 (05:47):
Yeah, So I'm just like I would love to like know,
when I go to Ghana, I got me a little
man or prince or whatever was over there. I got mine.
In New York, when I go to Atlanta, I got
my little friends. I realized, I just want people that
I really enjoy from a distance, and then I can
really enjoy them when I'm with them because of how
much I travel. You know, I may have saw someone

(06:09):
that was cute or whatever, and we may have exchanged numbers,
but that we here for kinga wal icebreaker because these
questions are a little bit more advanced because you were advanced.
So let's get into the icebreaker. And I would like
to know why you choose the answer you choose. Okay,
so this is going to be this or that. Would

(06:31):
you prefer a threesome or an orgy? An orgy of
course being above four people.

Speaker 5 (06:38):
For consistency definitely are okay. Every now and again, an
orgy is nice to sprinkle in there, though what about.

Speaker 2 (06:45):
The orgy is makes it nice to sprinkle it up
with what.

Speaker 4 (06:49):
The orgy is? Light?

Speaker 5 (06:52):
You could fall back and watch, you could be watched.
You can engage in a lot of different ways with
a lot of different people. When every body bring their
own energy and talents to the space. You know what
I'm saying, But like with a threesome, you have your focus.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
What makes a good orgy partner as another man in
the room, because you know women, I feel like kind
of know their rolling threesomes and orgies. But for another
dude to be in the room with you, what would
make a good partner like the tag team with Like,
what kind of qualities would you.

Speaker 5 (07:19):
Have to have if we if we already had a
conversation ahead of time, just to just to know each
other's boundaries and respect each other's boundaries, we already.

Speaker 3 (07:27):
Going You know what's crazy about you saying that it's
something that I've been wanting to experience, and I'm not
gonna lie. In my mind, the best way for it
to go is that you just pull up to the bar,
or you pull up and we at.

Speaker 2 (07:40):
The house and now you're joining in drinks and it
just happens.

Speaker 3 (07:43):
I never actually thought of setting up a threesome or
orgy with multiple men or with more than one man
where I thought to even have them be able to
have a conversation beforehand, So.

Speaker 4 (07:56):
That eliminates so much.

Speaker 2 (08:00):
What you gotta say, Like, what should just be.

Speaker 5 (08:01):
Like, because somebody might some people might be like, yo,
don't even brush up against me, so there's no DP
or no DP or like don't look me in the eye.
You know what I'm saying, Like some people might have
something serious. I mean, I'm on porn sets, so people
ain't really saying that. But I mean like when I
talk to when I talk to people, like when we
work with couples and millions, helping, yeah, with the civilian folk,

(08:24):
like helping them put together their fantasies, I'm like, well,
what are your what are your criteria?

Speaker 4 (08:29):
What are you comfortable with? What are you not comfortable with?

Speaker 5 (08:32):
So a lot of times I'll hear people say like
I don't know if I could even feel right in
the room with another guy in this manner. So it's like, okay,
well then you gotta take baby steps first, you know.

Speaker 3 (08:42):
Well, it's so interesting that you say that too, because
and maybe well, you know, we can dive into this.
There's been a desire or a conversation. My ex is
still around. Okay, God damn it, I'm sick of just
referring to his ex, but he's still around. But there's
been conversations about bringing other men into the room, and
but when we've gone to the sex club, his dick

(09:03):
goes completely flaccid. So verbally he's telling me, no, I
want you to experience what I know you want. But
I'm like, but yo, dick is telling me that you
really don't want that to happen. So a part of
me is like, stop telling me what you want to
allow me when I visibly see that your body.

Speaker 5 (09:19):
Is not ready to be the environment, you know what
I'm saying, Like, that's a good one. Sex clubs have
a lot going on, and if it's your first time
at that sex club, you might you know, they might
be looking at I mean it's one spot that you'll
go to a lot.

Speaker 2 (09:33):
They have a plaque.

Speaker 4 (09:36):
I got the m v P over there.

Speaker 2 (09:39):
I am like Inkedin.

Speaker 1 (09:42):
It could be the environment in the sense of how
do you feel about sex clubs?

Speaker 5 (09:45):
I used to be a sex club have I used
to love sex clubs. There used to be a couple
here in New York I used to frequent.

Speaker 2 (09:51):
What made you like or what's changed?

Speaker 1 (09:54):
Is it because maybe people know you or do you
feel like a lot of this might feel like almost
like work mixing. When I say work, I mean mixing
with people you know, for people that know you, I think, well,
obviously now for me it was like kind of like
you know, COVID and shit, So I just fell back
on all of that.

Speaker 4 (10:11):
But I think when I was sorry, it's like that
was time to go.

Speaker 3 (10:17):
And it was a sixteen person max for a long time,
and I was like it was it allowed you to
get myself in.

Speaker 2 (10:24):
It was way more interest and I really liked it
that way.

Speaker 3 (10:27):
Now it would be sixty's too many.

Speaker 2 (10:30):
I enjoyed COVID.

Speaker 4 (10:31):
I think.

Speaker 5 (10:32):
I think for me sex clubs it's like if it's
the right vibe. But I think for a while I
was going to a bunch of them where I was
just like this ship is whack, Like I wouldn't even
want to be here for for any reason, let alone.

Speaker 4 (10:46):
To like get lukes and have a good time.

Speaker 5 (10:50):
The people, the people, what kind of music they play.

Speaker 4 (10:55):
No, I mean not even just on looks, just how
people interact.

Speaker 5 (11:00):
Because for me, when I'm when I'm not working, like
I definitely like to talk to somebody, see where they at.
You know what I'm saying, I'm not just gonna jump
into any any and everything. You know what I'm saying,
So it's like if they're too pushy or they're not
into what we're into, stuff like that, you know what
I'm saying. And also for me, it used to be
worked back in the day because I used to have

(11:21):
a lot of clients that took me to sex clubs.
And then I also used to have a partner and
we used to go to clubs and get picked up
for like live shows and shit like that. And I
used to do live shows at sex clubs. So going
to one, like, if I'm going to one now, I
want that ship.

Speaker 4 (11:35):
Are you here?

Speaker 2 (11:36):
I want to see it in person?

Speaker 5 (11:38):
No, okay, sorry, you know you're supposed to be on set,
but we'll.

Speaker 3 (11:42):
Talk about that because I'm trying to be on set, sir,
as the oiler, as the camera persons, oiler.

Speaker 2 (11:49):
As the oiler water board.

Speaker 4 (11:50):
I didn't want to ask.

Speaker 2 (11:51):
You to these two things.

Speaker 3 (11:53):
You talked about watching and being watched, of course, but
you're able to give a clear distinction, and I think
some people do not. So I want to know would
you rather be or which one you prefer? Polly or
open Polly, and can you just can you explain what
you know the difference to be between being Polly and
being open.

Speaker 5 (12:12):
Sure, polyamorous is the root word is a morg, which
is love, so it's multiple loves on Italy. And open
is just kind of like, you know, our relationship is open,
we might sleep with other people. I mean open means
a lot of different things to a lot of different people.
Some people have open polyamorous relationships. Some people are just

(12:33):
like they're open their swingers. Some people just open a date,
it all, it's all on levels. But to me, polyamory
just really is like rooted and trying to find other
other lovers, whether you're fucking them or not.

Speaker 3 (12:47):
Whether you're fucking them or not, whether you're well, I
told you my friends are my poly partners.

Speaker 1 (12:51):
And what lovers? You said lovers? So you have women
in your life that you love, you just kiss and stop.

Speaker 5 (12:58):
They don't even get kissed if they're if they're a
sub kid, if they're a sub, they might not.

Speaker 3 (13:03):
Even have gotten to that point which I met you
with your subs and they're like sub subby sub like no,
they'll literally but they're more like servants subs like they
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (13:20):
I prefer I prefer service service service subs.

Speaker 5 (13:28):
Subserve, you said service, I was about to say service body,
but like I prefer both of.

Speaker 2 (13:33):
Those and service ones do everything but sex.

Speaker 5 (13:37):
It's more like they know they for me. Some of
them have to work their way up to that. It
all depends. It all depends what you mean.

Speaker 3 (13:44):
They got work they way to sit like bitch, have
you seen me work day way to sex?

Speaker 2 (13:49):
I wish the nigga would all right last one, but
I would like feeling like I had to. I've had
that before.

Speaker 1 (13:55):
That was the guy that blindfolded me and told me
I couldn't take it off until his dick was in me.

Speaker 2 (14:00):
He made me work up to.

Speaker 4 (14:01):
Get like that.

Speaker 5 (14:02):
But see also it's not I have to earn their submission,
so they should have to earn my dominance.

Speaker 2 (14:07):
Oh talk yo, shit, don't be looking at me in
my eyes.

Speaker 3 (14:11):
In the last one before we get start, vanilla ship
kink or fetish, mister royal fetish films fetishes all day
and can you explain the difference, because I think a
lot of people also can't distinguish between the two as well.
What is the difference between a fetish. Let's try to
guess and then you tell us it. We're right, Okay,
you go first, because That's why I asked him, Okay,

(14:33):
I'm not gonna lie. I think we confuse it all
the time.

Speaker 1 (14:35):
I kind of thought a fetish was more extreme than
a kink. I always thought maybe like kinky referred to
like damn. Now I'm getting lost because when someone has
a fetish, I think a ship like balloons and ship.

Speaker 4 (14:50):
You know what I'm saying that balloon yo.

Speaker 5 (14:53):
One time when I never knew that lunars existed.

Speaker 4 (14:59):
And somebody, somebody requested a video.

Speaker 5 (15:02):
This is like when we first started with RFF and
they requested a video from Jazmine. And she has fans
that send her like giant balloons that you got to
blow up with a pump and ship and all kinds
of crazy shit. So like we had all these like
red and black balloons, regular balloons, and she's like doing
and she's like doing all this sexy stuff with it,
and I'm recording, I'm like I'm getting hard watching her play.

Speaker 4 (15:22):
With balloons and ship.

Speaker 5 (15:24):
Like she's like she was like licking them and like
rubbing them all over her body, and it was I
was just like, yeah, I didn't even think to even
do that ship with a balloon. I hate oh and
some like for some of them, they like to get
them popped. Other people don't like to get them popped.
So this is what like when I think about the
difference between fetishes and kinks, right, I don't. I don't

(15:45):
look at them as like they're not opposites in any
kind of way. I think of it as fetish is
something you have and you can bet kinky, like you
can do all types of kinky shit. You know what
I'm saying, Like you are kinky is like the acting.
But like a fetish, a fetish doesn't have to be extreme.

Speaker 4 (16:02):
Though.

Speaker 5 (16:02):
A fetish could be like I like feet, feet, I
like shoes. That's not a fetish though, No, we know
white girls have it, yeah, and they just they just
racist a human being.

Speaker 1 (16:12):
I don't think black men could be a fetish, but
I think that people say that.

Speaker 4 (16:15):
Oh no, they definitely say that.

Speaker 3 (16:17):
But that's just like you know what I'm saying, Like
you said, it ain't a fetish, it's racism.

Speaker 4 (16:20):
It's racism.

Speaker 2 (16:22):
You said, a white woman a black guy, ain't.

Speaker 5 (16:24):
I didn't say a white woman liking a black guy.
A white woman having a fetish for black men is
definitely because.

Speaker 1 (16:28):
Think about when we say it when people say Asian fetish.
For some reason, we kind of place it somewhere else,
but we get more offended when it's black men. But
I think it's because they feel like there ares so
that I understand. But I recently got checked about it
because a friend of mine and I were out and
someone said, oh, yeah, he is an Asian fetish and
she was like, so he just got a fetish for me,
just me as a person. And when she said it,

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I was like, damn, Like, we got to be careful
with the language we use because.

Speaker 2 (16:54):
Obviously there's a lot of the body parts.

Speaker 4 (16:57):
Yeah, but your body parts.

Speaker 2 (16:59):
But not every black dude got a huge day, right,
because baby, this is something not out here hanging like
y'all think you.

Speaker 1 (17:08):
Believe that when people have a fetish like that is
the skin tone like black, like white girls want darkness.

Speaker 5 (17:14):
The thing is with especially in America, point blank, this
is something that we have been working on and things
that we've been building on is the decolonization of sex.
So in America, one of the largest not cotton, not sugar,
not anything else, was us. You know, Virginia was based
their their whole slave plantations were based around slave breeding,

(17:39):
you know what I'm saying. So the fetishes that white
women have for black men comes from a place of
being the mistress of the house, having a place of power,
and looking at us as nothing but something for them
to have sex with. So that's where you have like
that Queen of Spades type shit where they're talking about
like it's the fucking most racist shit, you know what
I'm saying, And and all these quote unquote fetishes that

(18:01):
they have, if you look back, it's the same way
they sold us.

Speaker 3 (18:04):
Can I ask you with with you having this history,
we have sat on this pod and there have been
black sex workers that said that they would partake in
race play for whatever reason, as a form of operations
or because maybe they weren't that deep rooted. Is there
a price that you would accept or would you ever
be filmed in a race play scene?

Speaker 4 (18:27):
I don't think you can play at racism.

Speaker 2 (18:29):
Okay, not mad at that. I'm not mad at that.

Speaker 5 (18:32):
And I think as long as we still getting murdered
by the police and held back in every single aspect
of society, it's not play. And I don't trust I
don't trust any white person who wants to engage in
race book.

Speaker 1 (18:46):
Are you doing a conversation about this with a dude
where I maybe I've talked about it on Horror, But
but I don't like when white women say they only
date black men. I don't really like when any race
says they only date another other that's not their own.

Speaker 2 (19:03):
Like I understand black men saying they only date black.

Speaker 1 (19:05):
Women, right, but when black men say, oh, I only
date latinos or white women, I only date black guys, Like,
it's fucking weird.

Speaker 4 (19:13):
Bro, for sure, you.

Speaker 2 (19:14):
Know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (19:14):
I mean, we could say, I know, we by racial,
but I only date black guys.

Speaker 2 (19:18):
I mean, but you're black, are you not? No? I know,
but do you say I mean.

Speaker 1 (19:24):
We're talking about white girls, to say only day black guys,
It's like, well, damn bitch. Even I can look at
white boys and say that cute IU dated its white boys.
Let you know, niggas whatever, Like, I just don't care
why you have so hard of a preference to the
other side that you won't even look at your own.

Speaker 5 (19:37):
That to me becomes I definitely think and I see
that with people that I knew, someone who was.

Speaker 4 (19:43):
Kind of like how you said that they only dated
like Asian.

Speaker 5 (19:46):
Women and someone asked them about it, like kind of
check them on it, Like it was like, what the fuck?
And the kind of reasons sometimes that people will give
does make you wonder, like, Yo, son, have you like
do you only look at all these Asian women as
one blanket thing? You're missing You're missing out on the

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individuality of the human beings that you're dating. If you
can only say that you only date them because of
their race. You're not saying, like, only date women that
are really intelligent or you know, fashion, so whatever the
fuck you like. But if you pinpointed to a race,
then usually there's some shit going on.

Speaker 3 (20:23):
Sure, agree, well, I want to get into our vanilla
ship because this was crazy and you got a big
old thing, so this is gonna be even crazier. So
an Indonesia man had to undergo emergency surgery after breaking
his penis performing the world's most dangerous sex position, which

(20:47):
is I did want to know the shower? Do you
think it's in the shower?

Speaker 2 (20:53):
I think? So? What position do you think is the.

Speaker 4 (20:55):
Most dangerous forgetting your dick broken? Definitely reverse carown girl.

Speaker 5 (21:00):
I was just about to say when somebody do not
know what they're doing in reverse cow.

Speaker 3 (21:05):
Want to be out here writing, taking tile, these classes
and all those things. Let's get into it was that
it yes, So a study detailing the breaking news was
published recently.

Speaker 2 (21:15):
This does come from the Journal of the Urology.

Speaker 3 (21:18):
Case reports a thirty seven year old man was reportedly
having intercourse in the reverse cowgirl position, in which the
woman is on top facing away from her partner.

Speaker 2 (21:28):
So if you on top.

Speaker 3 (21:31):
And you look in the other way, you're not looking
at him. According to this is crazy TikTok doctor. The
fact that it's label TikTok doctor is nuts for her.
Her name is doctor Karan Raj has said that the
world's most dangerous pose is actually the reverse cowgirl, which

(21:51):
is responsible for a whopping fifty percent of dick fractures
that are reported.

Speaker 2 (21:56):
This happening. Things went south after.

Speaker 3 (22:04):
The man suddenly heard a loud cracking sound, by a pain, discomfort,
and immediately an immediate loss of my dick.

Speaker 2 (22:11):
Hurd's just my dick heard too, bitch.

Speaker 3 (22:14):
Following the boudoir backfire, the patient began bleeding out of
the tip of his penis and found himself unable to earnate.

Speaker 2 (22:22):
Realizing something had gone horribly awry.

Speaker 3 (22:24):
The frightened fellow reported, reportedly to the General Hospital of
West noonsa Tengabra province.

Speaker 2 (22:31):
I'm good. By that time, his.

Speaker 3 (22:33):
Penis had swollen and turned deep purple, in a condition
known in a medical parlance as.

Speaker 2 (22:37):
This is hilarious. I'm not good with this. You're ready
eggplant deformity.

Speaker 3 (22:41):
So when we use the eggplant emoji, dad, y'all are
gonna imagine a broken, swollen, purple and blue dick.

Speaker 1 (22:47):
I've always been one of those people that like, when
I watch fear factor in my body, you know, like
I can't.

Speaker 2 (22:52):
That's how I feel right now.

Speaker 3 (22:54):
Well, for those of you wondering, while the penis is
technically boneless, the word fracture is used to describe a
tear in the tunica our boorghina. Y'all know these words
is not for me. The tissues that allows the penis
to become enlarged or right now, because yours is so

(23:14):
massive and you do a lot of things in your
videos because baby, I'm subscribed to your OnlyFans and you
know that.

Speaker 2 (23:19):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (23:20):
I found myself commenting and I said, oh no, I'm commenting,
and my name on there is full quarter Mandy.

Speaker 2 (23:25):
Have you seen me comment under your things? You okay?

Speaker 3 (23:28):
Yeah, I know, Jesus Christ, bro, I wanna know we
have a segment called Harvard.

Speaker 2 (23:33):
I cannot believe that's your name. It is my shit
is damn sure G wants you to do that.

Speaker 3 (23:38):
Shit is Mandy, But it's because I didn't know what
it showed up is my first name. I think it's
like FCP something I follow.

Speaker 1 (23:45):
It's crazy because I actually haveing to watch their videos,
but I only pay for friends, y'all. Uh, and you
and Jazz be nasty And then I have some weird
BOOKACKI guys.

Speaker 3 (23:55):
Bitch FC pumps is my fucking name and it says Mandy.
I'm embaris, I'm embarrassed. I literally made it the easiest
possible fucking things. And if you go through Active, it's
a lot of trans It's a lot of gay porn
stars and look at look at King nowir right there? AnyWho,
let's get into a horror story from you. Clearly your

(24:18):
penis is well in doubt and fine and well, but
have you but have you ever experienced something awry, either
an injury that you actually felt yourself or you mistakenly
did to one of your partners both. Oh shit, it's

(24:38):
story timed one one time.

Speaker 5 (24:41):
Well, so when I was younger with a partner, I tried,
we tried, we tried anal and I didn't know what
I was doing, She didn't know what she was doing,
and she just started like bleeding like crazy. Yeah, and
for like five six, seven years of my life, I

(25:03):
did not do any anal after that.

Speaker 2 (25:04):
How did you wait tearing the hall? Like what happened?

Speaker 5 (25:07):
Like we were I mean, we were getting in there,
We was getting in there with with we was getting
in there with the with the lube and all that.

Speaker 2 (25:14):
Did you feel like something did you feel get loose?

Speaker 4 (25:17):
I mean she said she felt something ripped, and you know,
that shit freaked me out.

Speaker 5 (25:22):
So but then I met somebody who was like, no,
I'm gonna do that, and she was like, she said,
she comes harder. She said she came harder from anal.
So she was just like very fake, very focused.

Speaker 2 (25:34):
Okay.

Speaker 5 (25:35):
But then so one time also though, uh, I had
someone they were riding me and kind of like kind
of like you know, like one of those moments where
she might.

Speaker 4 (25:47):
Have moved a little bit to the side.

Speaker 5 (25:50):
And I was so I was so lucky that I
didn't have the full eggplant fracture writis or whatever you yo,
but like that should definitely hurt, and it was definitely
like we got to chill out for a minute.

Speaker 2 (26:06):
I don't understand how girls even like let you put
your dick in their ass no shadestem.

Speaker 1 (26:11):
But like.

Speaker 2 (26:13):
The whole nother story, that's so much bravery.

Speaker 1 (26:16):
Bro we over here thanking nurses and ship thank you.

Speaker 2 (26:19):
That is crazy.

Speaker 3 (26:22):
So then let me ask you, thank you for how
awkward or what do those conversations sound like after knowing
that someone done been hurt in the act of sex.

Speaker 5 (26:32):
Well, the first one, we were both freaking out, like
it was definitely like everywhere, it was everywhere. I felt
so bad. I'm like, I'm sorry all that kind of shit,
you know what I'm saying. She's like, I don't know,
Like she didn't she would as well back.

Speaker 2 (26:46):
You ruined it. You broke my asshole.

Speaker 5 (26:50):
The time Shorty was riding, I knew that I dodged
a bullet, okay, so we kind of like it didn't
feel great, but I didn't. I didn't get like I said,
I the frect writers, so we was kind of laughing
about it, like you was up there while and we're
gonna switch positions when when I get back to regular.

Speaker 3 (27:08):
Okay, Well, the fact that you shared these stories, we
have our Hoar deurve segment and for this specifically, and
y'all listen. I know y'all are like, can y'all stop
talking about how massive his dick is?

Speaker 2 (27:21):
Just look it up? Become an only fan subscriber.

Speaker 3 (27:23):
I wanted to knowing that Weezi has even shared that
she didn't get his moist for a bigger dick or whatever.
I wanted you to give moist. I like to word
moist at this point. God damn it, moist baby. I
wanted you to provide a tip to a woman who's
taking a penis that is very large, or to a
man to ensure that he's pleasing a woman despite the

(27:47):
fact that.

Speaker 2 (27:48):
He's very large and in doubt like big dick sex tips.
That's what we're given to be so lucky.

Speaker 5 (27:56):
Lots of lob, lots of foreplay, and then positions that
are comfortable for you. Could you give a list of
the ones that are comfortable personally personally like missionary with
your legs with your legs up because any position. Also
that you can control how far he goes into you.
So and also like you can even make it like
a psychological restraint kind of game as well, where it's

(28:17):
kind of like I'll let you know when I want more.

Speaker 2 (28:19):
That's how I like that.

Speaker 4 (28:21):
So it's kind of that.

Speaker 5 (28:22):
Also, it also means work your hips, you know what
I'm saying, like, because put a little bit of motion
in there and she'll get more. Well, not even if
you just laid back and relaxing. Let him put in
his work to make it pussy wetter and wetter.

Speaker 6 (28:35):
Mmmm.

Speaker 1 (28:37):
That was real good. I do have another question. So
I'm looking at this video you sent me when you
said you was doing something with fruit. Yes, I think
asking a tip to how to fuck fruit.

Speaker 2 (28:48):
No, I thought you were.

Speaker 4 (28:49):
Going to dick in it.

Speaker 2 (28:51):
Oh you didn't.

Speaker 1 (28:53):
I thought you're gonna fuck the fruit. Actually he's having
oral sex with fruit. The oral sex fruit. You had
a breath eating this damn fruit.

Speaker 5 (29:03):
That was part of the scene. I was supposed to
have been in a plane crash on an island. That
makes you horny, by the way, So the whole the whole.

Speaker 2 (29:10):
Video, I'm not gonna lie, I love skit.

Speaker 4 (29:13):
Shout out, shout out to, Shout out to the director.
Sarah j directed the whole.

Speaker 2 (29:18):
It's like a whole movie white.

Speaker 5 (29:22):
It's me, uh, Sarah Jay and a couple other performers,
and it's like we on it, like we had a
foursome on the island. We do all this crazy shit
on the island, fuck on this remote part of the island.

Speaker 1 (29:35):
Was I was thinking to say that I feel like
you at least appreciate, because you know it's a joke.
So recently I was in a writer's room, right and
I had an idea that just was not good, and
they were like, what do you fucking do porn skits to?
And I was like damn, And I said, Yo, But
if y'all think about it, do you think the porn
starts just sitting around and one goes to party city

(29:55):
and they come back with it, I'll feel like.

Speaker 3 (29:56):
Okay, mail Man, like may be so bad.

Speaker 2 (30:01):
Okay, So you know what like this.

Speaker 3 (30:05):
But I've also shared how much I enjoy a scene happening,
like I love the whole. Two niggas playing video games
and one losing the other. Now I got a sucker
dick I've.

Speaker 2 (30:16):
Shared how like real hood ran ship.

Speaker 6 (30:19):
Or like.

Speaker 2 (30:21):
A drug dealer, you ain't have all the all.

Speaker 3 (30:23):
The money that you had to pay him. So now
he like, well, now you gotta pay me with your boodo.

Speaker 2 (30:27):
I could do that. I like shit like that.

Speaker 3 (30:29):
So when you are creating scenes, is there a writer's
room for porn? Do you sit with the people that
are a part of it? What does building a scene like?
How dumb have it has it been?

Speaker 4 (30:41):
It all depends.

Speaker 5 (30:42):
So like if I'm if I'm working for another company,
they just they hire me and send me the script and.

Speaker 2 (30:50):
How long did the script pages me?

Speaker 5 (30:54):
One that I did, there's one where I was like
a Roman gladiator type ship. I saw that one, and
that that one was was a long ass script that
they had to have somebody on the side feeding lines
and ship. No, I was good some of the some
of the I mean sometimes they did have to feed
me a couple because I'm like some studios. Some studios, nah,

(31:17):
some studios don't give you the script until you get
on set, or some studios give you know, it depends
with royal fetish. We don't like to do scripts. We
like to do scenarios and we like to do particular act.

Speaker 4 (31:33):
For sure.

Speaker 5 (31:35):
There's a lot of improvisation in it because like, for example,
if we were gonna have a scene with y'all, we'd
be like, well.

Speaker 4 (31:40):
We know, we know.

Speaker 5 (31:41):
Yeah, so if we if we was gonna if we
was gonna fuck, I would want to do it here.
I would want to do it as part of your podcast.
So it might start with it. I might start with
an interview exactly that one that's gonna get gifts right there.

Speaker 4 (31:57):
That's terrible, yeah, but I mean like so I would
rather hold on.

Speaker 3 (32:05):
Then you just start to get let's text it out
and you my steriously take off your shirt.

Speaker 2 (32:09):
Can we play that out?

Speaker 7 (32:10):
No?

Speaker 5 (32:10):
That's like wait, I want to put people in scenarios
that they're comfortable with, because then, you know, not everybody
is an actor just because they do porn. Like they
might be a credible sexual performers, but they might not.
They're not out here perform a hamlet and ship, you
know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (32:25):
Okay, there's a difference between a script and then there's
a difference between to me also, and I guess I
would love to know if this is in the script,
are moans or verbal cues and things like that in
a script during the actual intercourse.

Speaker 4 (32:40):
Happening, not with our scenes.

Speaker 5 (32:42):
We don't ever ask any We don't ask anybody to
ever fake anything.

Speaker 4 (32:46):
What about it all? It's all real. There are there
are other.

Speaker 5 (32:53):
I't see that one, but like, like let's say, for example,
there's a performer that I work with who is actually
really a carpenter. Her name is Tigan Rose, and when
I first saw her work, I was like, whatever we're
gonna do?

Speaker 4 (33:09):
You have to do some carpentry shit.

Speaker 5 (33:11):
So we like I had the idea that I wanted
to turn out the lights so that the sparks are
flying while she's making the shit, so she winds up,
she winds up making me a paddle to use on her.
So there are certain cues where it's like, you know,
we will go over all safety concerns prior to so
like what are your hard limits, what are you comfortable with?

Speaker 4 (33:31):
What do you want to do when the scene?

Speaker 5 (33:32):
Like what are your desires and things like that, and
then also you know, red, yellow, green, make sure all
the safety words are up there and things like that.
And then there might also be a shot list where
it's like, I know, I need to get these particular
shots to build the storyline.

Speaker 4 (33:48):
But I'm not feeding people. Lynes.

Speaker 1 (33:49):
Having a shot list for porn sounds so crazy for
anyone listening. It's basically when someone that's making a movie
or skit or anything says, Okay, we have to make
sure we get them looking like this, we have to
make sure sure we have this one blah blah blah
for whatever and editing, and all I could just think.

Speaker 2 (34:04):
Is like, in the middle of you really enjoying it.
Wa wait, wait, wait, wait wait, we need you to
grab ourr hair again. We need to get that. I
hate the ruining porn For me. I was just watching
this porn.

Speaker 3 (34:13):
It was two guys and a trans woman, and I'm
watching and it's so hot and I'm hearing moans, but
I can tell they're zooming in on purpose and adding
the moan from another scene. Hey when I see that,
so literally they're switching. But next thing you know, his
dick and the whole side of his leg is oily.
But it wasn't just oily, so I know they had

(34:34):
stopped to loop it up to now let him enter.
And now the other guy's dick was completely dry to
get sucked and I'm like, so this isn't stray amuse.
There have been pauses of removal of loob, wiping people down,
loubing others up, and I was like, no.

Speaker 5 (34:49):
You know what, So you would you prefer to see
the loub up and the white down.

Speaker 3 (34:54):
Here's here's the problem. Maybe with OnlyFans and maybe with Twitter.
I'm really enjoying more of the full go with all
like amateur porn, so sitting with so many porn stars
and knowing like how it's actually being produced, the idea
that I know that now there's a pause to wipe

(35:15):
this off, like the idea of waiting for someone else
to get back hard. It's like I'm watching it now
and I'm like, I'm seeing the inconsistencies and I'm.

Speaker 5 (35:23):
Like, okay, but that goes back to actually what you
was talking about with the we're going to the sex club.
You know what I'm saying, Like sometimes when you have
your not all dicks are in synchronicity, and shit, you
know what I'm saying. So you know what I mean.
Like one person might be like, yo, I need to
get head to get hard. Someone else might be like, yo,

(35:45):
I just see pussy and get hard. Someone else might
be like, I need my nipples play with, or I
need to be kissed, though I need to chill for
a little bit, you know what I'm saying. So it's
kind of like im porn. Sometimes that shit happens too,
but it's I think personally, I like to see when
people do wipe off because when you get to real life,
motherfuckers don't be thinking like, oh shit, I should probably

(36:08):
not I should wipe off of my dick. If I
was just in her ass and I'm going to you
know what I'm saying, I.

Speaker 3 (36:13):
Don't see the bitch dealing with putting that goddamn harness on.
I'll be struggling I'm doing, and I'm like, so this
bitch just walks out out of know where what it harness.

Speaker 1 (36:24):
That's the thing though, we're thinking most people believe their
porn is supposed to look perfect. I think we're just
getting into the era where it's not like I wanted to.
I was gonna say the thing that I hate now
that I've noticed and I never noticed before, my favorite
thing porn is BUKACKI. I love seeing cumshots whatever, and
even when I have sex, that's my favorite thing. So
doing sex cells. They showed me that tube that shoots

(36:46):
out and it shot at my face.

Speaker 2 (36:48):
Did you see that clip? No, bro?

Speaker 1 (36:49):
And I was like, oh my god, my mom's gonna
see this. I was like, how does it work? And
it squirted all over my fucking face and they left
it in. There's what type of what's the It's like
coconut milk. It's like some other kind.

Speaker 5 (37:00):
Of everybody use different because there's also like some lubes
out there that look like, yes there.

Speaker 1 (37:05):
Are I say that to say he was like some
of the guys during blow bangs they hold it under
their dick if they can't finish or it's too overwhelming.

Speaker 2 (37:12):
And I see it all now you see I see.

Speaker 1 (37:17):
The squirter, or I won't see the squirter, but like
I'll see them about to jerk off, and then the
girl just has this massive amount of comas.

Speaker 5 (37:24):
Come shot sir for pictures for a couple of sights
that I've shot for. They do like pictures like clean pictures,
euro pictures dirty like in some European countries they have
to like no, not even you got to like hide
your dick, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (37:44):
Like they can show like bush and then I like
have to like be at an a crazy because.

Speaker 2 (37:49):
You can see titties on TV in it and Dick's
now on HBO they.

Speaker 3 (37:56):
Shut out or else. I just saw a whole bunch
of dicks. Oh, Sex five, sex Life, which is canceling.
There's a whole bunch of well there, I think.

Speaker 2 (38:02):
They only did two. They got canceled. She said.

Speaker 1 (38:06):
She she like went on a podcast and basically talked
about the behind the scenes of sex Life and how
she wasn't happy with it, and they fucking canceled it
two days after that podcast came out.

Speaker 2 (38:15):
Damn Well, it was good. I thought it was cute.

Speaker 3 (38:19):
I did, though, want to get finally into our horrible
decision because you've given us so much, sir, what about
the dad life, Well, the horrible decision for this week
for the moment she didn't swallow, which also has a
family in there as well. So I want to make
sure I get to that. We're not doing a home
mail this week, because I wanted to touch into these
different things. We had Jason Leon recently and we talked

(38:43):
about I mean, there's been a lot we're working on
a project and there's shame and sex there's some shame
in me. Listening back to some episodes, Jason Lee actually said,
you should have no shame in the things that you've done.
But also with a lot of people that I've met,
that we've met on tour, people have been elated with
how this show has allowed them to look at sex differently.

(39:05):
So I wanted to get into becoming shameless with sex,
and I broke it down into five categories with a
question each, and we can cut them out. We cannot
get to them whatever dating, sexuality, sex, relationships, and family.
If we could start with sexuality first, being that we're

(39:26):
now getting into the pronouns getting that. I also just
went to Ghana and literally had to feel like I
couldn't express because of the laws that I was bisexual
and what they just passed over there.

Speaker 2 (39:37):
Even though the women.

Speaker 3 (39:38):
Are goddamn fine, I couldn't even tell them how fine
they was because I was like.

Speaker 2 (39:42):
Y'all ain't gonna lock me up in Ghana. I want
to talk to.

Speaker 3 (39:45):
Talk about sexuality because with Royal Fetish films, you know
why I subscribe, you have now scenes with trans actors,
and I wanted to talk about creating content with that
and if it has changed your audience at all, if
there had to be a conversation with your partner, or
if it's changed even how you identify and if identity

(40:07):
and sexuality even matters to you because you're so comfortable
with your sexuality a lot in.

Speaker 4 (40:12):
One all right, So where to start with that?

Speaker 5 (40:15):
There definitely was a conversation, But there's a conversation with anybody.

Speaker 2 (40:18):
I thought, Okay.

Speaker 5 (40:20):
You know, Jazz and I are not only partners in life,
but we also partners in business. So it's also like, yo,
I'm shooting with this person or whatever. So there's that conversation.
And then also I think it's I've been in scenes
with transperformers before, but we either like weren't completely interacting

(40:40):
and we were like just fucking somebody together and all that.

Speaker 4 (40:44):
Yeah, So.

Speaker 5 (40:48):
I think when I when I first was like, you know,
I'm interested, it was she was kind of like, yo,
you should do that shit.

Speaker 1 (40:56):
I love you know, Okay, I love that transformer you
had sex with? Have bottom surgery?

Speaker 4 (41:01):
No?

Speaker 2 (41:01):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (41:02):
Did it was that something that was like I want
to try it like this, like did it did it
for you?

Speaker 2 (41:07):
Did you feel like you really fulfilled that? Because they
didn't have bottom surgery.

Speaker 4 (41:10):
No.

Speaker 2 (41:11):
Mmm.

Speaker 5 (41:12):
I think for me, sex and gender and all of
that is very fluid, and I've kind of always been
that way. But at the same time, I know that
I have I come from a place and from a
family where anything I'm from, I'm from Jersey City.

Speaker 4 (41:29):
I grew up intwe a Jersey City team. That and Camden, Jersey.
What's up? And anytime you thinking out the box a
little bit, like back in the day, anything you think like,
oh man, you wear pink, you get you know what
I'm saying, Like anything like does a does a color?
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (41:46):
And I used to be like, I don't think a
color really can do that to a person, you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (41:50):
And I also think there's so much fear in it.

Speaker 5 (41:54):
There's so much places where people hold themselves back that
even like even if you're not gay, by lesbian or
anything sexual like that, it's okay to be open. Like
if you're going to a sex club, you shouldn't go
there and be mad at the sex someone else's happened,
you know what I'm saying. So to me, it's also

(42:16):
just like that in the world, like I'm not gonna walk.
If I'm walking down the street on Canal and someone's
fucking it's wrong no matter who it is, because we
all didn't consent to see that shit, right, you.

Speaker 4 (42:25):
Know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (42:26):
But what you do behind closed doors with whoever you
want to do it with, is your business. And sometimes
that closed door is on a porn set or in
a sex class.

Speaker 2 (42:34):
But you feel like you should have or I don't
know if you did.

Speaker 1 (42:38):
Was that your first time having sex with someone who
was a transperson and if not, did you feel like
you needed practice beforehand before being on camera.

Speaker 4 (42:46):
Everything that I've done was for the first time on camera.

Speaker 2 (42:48):
Really, Oh my god.

Speaker 4 (42:50):
I'm that much of an exhibitionist.

Speaker 5 (42:51):
Though I wouldn't say that everybody should solow my footsteps
with anything, because there's a whole lot of shit that
I've done on camera that was for the first time,
you know what I'm saying. With even solo shit by myself,
that was the first time I tried it that way.
I'm sure that was Yeah, yeah, I never even thought
about it. Now I can't look at fruit the same
man well again, But it's like I think, with like

(43:13):
sexual exploration, we always say as long as as long
as it's consensual between adults. You leave children, animals and
people who say no out of that ship.

Speaker 2 (43:26):
We sound like you give it a servant. We all
be here like yes, look, come on past, no animals,
no nose, and no kid.

Speaker 4 (43:33):
I know that you know what I'm saying, and then
every everything else is fair game.

Speaker 5 (43:36):
And it doesn't mean that just because you like some ship,
I gotta like it even if we together, you know
what I'm saying. But I can respect that you have
this desire or you have this passion for something and
I want to support you.

Speaker 2 (43:51):
What do you think you have left to do? What's next?
And this isn't the end? Joab.

Speaker 1 (43:56):
I'm like, I'm actually curious because to me, that is
something that really takes you in a new to a
new level and it just makes me curious, Like now.

Speaker 4 (44:06):
What I don't know.

Speaker 5 (44:08):
I don't I don't ever think about it that way
in a sense like I gotta do some something else
because for me, I've always been with with with women.

Speaker 4 (44:17):
You know what I'm saying, So trans women are that?

Speaker 2 (44:21):
Is there anything wise?

Speaker 5 (44:23):
I mean there's places I want to fuck, but come on,
places like what I really want to fuck Skydike like
that's a that's a fantasy. It's not it's probably not. Okay,
I would love to do it. I'm allowed to have dreams.

Speaker 6 (44:37):
And fantasy an air pressure to up that Wait, you
gotta go in in Orlando.

Speaker 2 (44:48):
There's this thing where you get put in a suit
and you can act like you side diving.

Speaker 3 (44:52):
But it's just a fan that blow you up in
the Orlando they do. You're gonna have to practice. I
don't know if they're gonna allow you fucking in that thing.

Speaker 2 (45:00):
But you could.

Speaker 4 (45:01):
You could if they let me rent the place out there,
come home and.

Speaker 2 (45:04):
You've got big money, big money.

Speaker 5 (45:07):
But to answer the rest of your question or like
I've never when people ask me, like yo, what are
you in regards to sexual sexuality, I've always just been
like a meek you know what I'm saying, because like
I used to, I used to dance and strip and
all that ship and I would get booked for parties
for everybody. I love turning everybody on that want. That's

(45:29):
that's there to watch, you know what I'm saying, that's
there to be entertained.

Speaker 2 (45:32):
Yeah, I'm conceited. Oh my god. All right, So the
next one.

Speaker 3 (45:35):
I did want to get to for the people listening
that may not be as advanced as you or weazy r.
I I did want to get into dating with shamelessness.
So with dating, I wanted to ask you, here we go,
when dating someone knew, how much of your sexual history
should you really share upfront?

Speaker 2 (45:55):
Now? Weezy do.

Speaker 3 (45:55):
I have a podcast and we've talked about how sometimes
it becomes hard because of the things that we share
on this pod with dating. But really, if you are kinky,
or you are open, or you are polly, how soon
should you share those things about yourself when dating?

Speaker 5 (46:10):
Personally, I like to get that shit out the way
early because I don't want to waste time with somebody
who's not gonna fuck with me for me Okay, So
I'm like, yo, I do porn, Like that's my job.
Out the gate you saying that if like.

Speaker 4 (46:21):
When we get into the conversation about what we do,
I'm like, yeah, that's what I do.

Speaker 1 (46:26):
How do you had women that you've met that their
biggest issue isn't the porn but it's Jazz.

Speaker 2 (46:31):
Do they get into care about her?

Speaker 4 (46:33):
Definitely? Because Jazz and have been together for like ten
ten going on ten eleven years.

Speaker 5 (46:41):
So there are people who might say like, oh, I'm
Polly or this, that or the other, But then when
we get start like building or whatever, they're they want to.

Speaker 2 (46:50):
Be primary because that bond is so.

Speaker 5 (46:51):
Strong, and even if there is the opportunity for them
to be primary, it's like, no matter what, Like we
got years upon years and children together, so you and
I are not going to have that same relationship, but
we can start our own relationship and build that ship.
But I think the problem is, and this happens with
unicorns a lot, even even not just when it's a

(47:11):
one on one situation, but when it's the couple, they're like,
I want to have that same camaraderie.

Speaker 4 (47:16):
That they got.

Speaker 5 (47:17):
You can't. You haven't been here for this time. You
haven't experienced the same things with us. But that's why, like,
if people can be shameless and let go of their
ship and just get in where they at, like you'll
be able to build to something that's new and unique
with that with that person.

Speaker 3 (47:32):
That because she was bacting a little too much, that's
your name, and also what's doing too much in a
poly relationship?

Speaker 2 (47:40):
Oh no, I'm here for this. Yeah, I know you
thought normally, I don't know what.

Speaker 4 (47:48):
I think. I think.

Speaker 5 (47:49):
For me, if someone doesn't ask how Jasmine's doing, I
automatically know that they're not thinking about me in my
in my couple, you know what I'm saying. Like, for example,
you got into a com we got into a conversation
where like I met both of you. Yeah, I met
your families. How your family doing? Like not even just

(48:11):
thinking about how it's a sexual part.

Speaker 3 (48:14):
She's gonna get excited. She had you and Jazz had
her bents over and I had to check her out.
That ship, so you know what you got to worry
about about my mom? About Mom, you can ask about
Miss Juel, But the way you met both, I don't
need you ask my miss telling okay because she don't
know how to ask.

Speaker 4 (48:33):
God, gotcha. But I mean like that, but that's some
real ship.

Speaker 5 (48:37):
But I mean it's also like the same thing if
if I see you, I met you all together, I
know y'all rock, You're gonna be like, yo, how's things going?
How if somebody knows and they're trying to be in
your life in that same kind of way. Yeah, Like
that ship is weirdo.

Speaker 2 (48:52):
Ship to me, especially because you got kids.

Speaker 4 (48:55):
And that too.

Speaker 5 (48:56):
If you don't ask, if you don't ask about my
kids too, like I mean like I feel like and
I'm not saying you have to do it every time
we speak, but if you just don't ever say shit.

Speaker 2 (49:05):
No, I've had been thank me about it, like that's weird.

Speaker 1 (49:08):
Like I've had been genuinely tell me, like especially if
I remember a which is just a natural thing. If
I have a friend that I'm talking to during the week,
I'm like, oh, how did so and so go at work?
So I'll maybe ask them about something with their kids?
And I notice, like men are very I don't want
to even say the word impressed, because I don't think
that if you're dating with someone the kids you should
be trying.

Speaker 2 (49:27):
I think you just got to be that person or not.

Speaker 1 (49:29):
But it is interesting to me that you would even
say how she's doing, because it's such a basic, small
thing that shows so.

Speaker 2 (49:35):
Much respect to her. Yeah, it really does.

Speaker 3 (49:38):
I agree now with family, which Weezy for sure wanted
to get to and I want to make sure we
get into it as a lifestyle member.

Speaker 2 (49:46):
Does your immediate family.

Speaker 3 (49:48):
I want you to speak generally, so for anyone listening
who may also be lifestyle polly, open swing or whatever.
How important do you think it is, if important at all,
for people's immediate family to know the lifestyle that they're
in sexually and with their partners or partner.

Speaker 4 (50:05):
Age appropriate conversations. So if you call three.

Speaker 2 (50:09):
Year old kniees baby, that's one of my lovers.

Speaker 7 (50:12):
The one you meet next time, I mean because because
you know, like you're just gonna just break that out
on a three year old that's not gonna go well
when they go to kindergarten, I mean three k and.

Speaker 2 (50:23):
Ship them kids, you gonna know what's going on.

Speaker 4 (50:25):
Maybe one day you will know, but it is but
it is important to know.

Speaker 5 (50:29):
You know, if you're if you're bringing people around your children,
then your children should know. Like if you're if you're
open with your affection with.

Speaker 2 (50:37):
Other people Auntie and uncle, this is your auntie.

Speaker 5 (50:40):
Now, I wouldn't be kissing on Auntie, Okay, you're right,
the affection level that you're yeah, the affection level you're sharing.
And then for adults, if it's like a situation where
like let's say you're dating somebody around town. You don't
want somebody running up on you on a date, like
you cheating on my sister, motherfucker, you know, saying you
don't want that ship. So I think if you are

(51:03):
in certain types of relationships, like you don't have to
get all into the into the details with people, but
it is important to let certain people know, like you know,
this is how our relationship is. So if you happen
to see me out there, you know your business or.

Speaker 4 (51:19):
You know what I'm saying. No that I ain't doing
some shady ship.

Speaker 2 (51:21):
Agreed.

Speaker 3 (51:22):
Now for relationships, we gon'ta were getting through this, baby,
I love it.

Speaker 2 (51:26):
For relationships introducing non monopoly.

Speaker 3 (51:30):
So is there a healthy way to communicate that after
you've been with someone that you do want more partners,
either sexually or romantically, And how do you do it
without sounding selfish or greedy?

Speaker 5 (51:43):
Don't do that ship after I just got done fucking
like that's stuff. Don't do that shit in bed. Oh
it's best to have those have those. But I've definitely,
I've definitely had about it.

Speaker 2 (51:57):
You know what, I need another one and it ain't you.
That would be nuts.

Speaker 5 (52:02):
Actually that's but I think like a lot of times
people do have these conversations, conversations in that because it's
fantasy woven into it, so it's like, you know, you know,
you know your partner though, you know, if your partner
can hear you say like y'all, I want to dpe
you them all. You know what I'm saying. And some
partners about you want to do what? You know what

(52:23):
I'm saying, but other partners might be like who you
got mine? You know what I'm saying, Like it all depends.
So know your partner. That's that's super important. And I
feel like in any relationship, monogamous, non monogamous, whatever communication,
constant communication is is always helpful. So you know how
you feel about opening up your relationship today might be

(52:43):
a little different.

Speaker 2 (52:44):
So we should talk about that during halftime during the finals.

Speaker 5 (52:49):
You want that quick answer, yeah, yeah, whatever, whatever, whatever
you want to do.

Speaker 4 (52:53):
That's like a setup question right there.

Speaker 2 (52:55):
No, no, I guess.

Speaker 3 (52:56):
I guess that's that's my thing, even from kikiness to
non monogamy, like introducing.

Speaker 4 (53:00):
That and do you have have like you could be like, baby,
I want to talk to you, you know, I want
to sit down and have a conversation over over over
dinner or something like that. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (53:11):
I actually don't think that anybody. Well, so I'm anxiety
personality tack.

Speaker 4 (53:16):
I'm not saying that I set up a whole date.

Speaker 2 (53:18):
I want to talk to you about something. What the
fuck is the problem right now? Tell me write this.

Speaker 5 (53:23):
You could have that if you know your partner. But
that's what I'm saying, know your partner. If I have
to walk up to you and say I want to
talk to you about something right now, you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (53:30):
Like, I can you want to talk about do it
like that?

Speaker 4 (53:37):
You got you gotta let you know ahead of time.

Speaker 5 (53:39):
I need to talk to you about something that is
not bad in any kind of way, and it's about
that give bullet points.

Speaker 1 (53:46):
Before I got on my flight yesterday, Oh I really
want to talk to you when you get back, I said,
oh yeah, because.

Speaker 2 (53:50):
I can push this ship.

Speaker 1 (53:51):
He was like yo, yo, yo yo. He was like,
I was gonna tell you. I guess it was something
about work. I was like, you can't start sentences like that,
No you can't.

Speaker 2 (54:00):
And so then now that's a teaching you. A woman
saying to a man talk.

Speaker 4 (54:06):
I mean, don't say it like that. I might. I
just said that shit the wrong fuck away. I get you,
but I.

Speaker 5 (54:10):
Mean it's it's important to have we just won't see
the we need to have the conversation. We need to
have the conversation at Like you know, I'm saying, like,
don't have the ship when somebody feels like they're vulnerable,
where somebody feels like you know, I was just giving
it my all and now you're talking about you want
to have a gang bang tomorrow. You know what I'm saying,
Like that could throw somebody off. And well it's not

(54:33):
even just the baby steps. It's like if you ask
somebody at that type of moment, then they're gonna they're
definitely gonna take it personal, you know what I'm saying.
But a lot of times, like for example, i'm poly.
It doesn't mean that I don't love my partners. I'm
just poly, Like that's how I love. I like to
meet new people and build relationships with them. But it's

(54:54):
just because you might want to fuck somebody else doesn't
mean that you don't want to fuck the person you
fuck me. But it definitely has moments that it's that
it's good to have the conversation as opposed to when
they they feel I think.

Speaker 1 (55:06):
It really depends to like when you're with a monogamous person,
there isn't a lot of teaching them that you're not
that that you're not monogamous, Like it's about teaching like
because you just said it's not that you don't want
to fuck them, there's it's very difficult to teach that.
And I think that, like you really do have to
date someone like minded, Like if someone believes you're hurting

(55:27):
me by going out with someone else.

Speaker 2 (55:29):
And I think it's just too tough.

Speaker 4 (55:32):
I agree.

Speaker 1 (55:32):
You know, I've had a lot of conversations with homegirls
like you can let a nigga do x y Z
And I'm like, well, I guess that's why you know, you.

Speaker 3 (55:38):
Why you keep getting cheated all you either gonna accept No,
I don't.

Speaker 5 (55:42):
I don't think definitely they're definitely really monogamous men and
really monogamous women and not and not and monogamous non
binary folk like so like my my my brother, my brother,
my brother sport, my brother the exact opposite of me.

Speaker 2 (56:01):
Your brother.

Speaker 3 (56:03):
Ersey monogamously. No, actually I've been is not genetic. I
ain't even gonna hold you, bro. One be having a
big dick, one have a little dick. I've seen two
brothers dicks before.

Speaker 5 (56:15):
All right, I'm just but I'm just saying he is
very much like when he's with somebody, he's with her.

Speaker 4 (56:23):
He's super focused on her.

Speaker 5 (56:24):
He's never been interested in polyamorie or anything like that.
And you know, I don't know him to have ever
cheated on anybody.

Speaker 4 (56:34):
You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying.
He's gonna be like, damn, you have me on this
talk about me on this show, kick him a cheetah
in the street.

Speaker 2 (56:44):
I don't know this man. I did not know. If
that's the case, he must have a little dick. That's
because my friends like little dicks.

Speaker 4 (56:52):
So I'm not gonna be be smudging.

Speaker 2 (56:57):
Slang a dangling.

Speaker 1 (57:01):
We'll tell people where to find you what he Please
let people want to buy, y'all.

Speaker 3 (57:06):
We have sat here with only fans people before it
is worth to subscribe, y'all. Please please let everybody know
where they can find you. Follow you, you and Jasmine
you and your Royal Fetish films, as well as if
you'll be anywhere in the next couple of months.

Speaker 5 (57:19):
Yes, yes, go to Royal Fetish x x X dot com.
Kingdowar x x X dot com OnlyFans dot com slash
King the War and also get on your everywhere you
stream some music because I'm making a whole lot of
sex music. I got some new ship coming out.

Speaker 2 (57:34):
Are you moaning? Can I hear a moan from here?

Speaker 4 (57:40):
You can? You can if you listen to the song.
I told you I don't fake.

Speaker 3 (57:44):
It, Okay, so I cannot what the mone sounds like
in your song? Imagine you're performing, give me a moan, King,
You're not allowed to leave without a moan. I'm trying
to be submissive here about also demanded, like.

Speaker 4 (58:01):
She said, alright, top from the bottom, but no, definitely like,
I got some music coming out and it's got it's
got actual clips from from our scenes.

Speaker 5 (58:13):
That's cool to music and all that ship and all
of that. And we're gonna be in London real soon.
Were bringing Kink back to London. I love it, and
we're gonna be.

Speaker 2 (58:23):
Everybody that came to our show in London please go
and support. It's gonna.

Speaker 5 (58:30):
And then also you know, I heard, I heard, I heard,
We're gonna we're gonna be rocking with you all of
a couple of spots too, so we.

Speaker 2 (58:38):
Will finally having cam. Okay, now that is not what's happening.

Speaker 4 (58:43):
Yeah, Mandy's Mandy said that we tied her up.

Speaker 2 (58:46):
Oh is that what we're doing?

Speaker 4 (58:47):
And we're gonna do four store games.

Speaker 2 (58:49):
Yeah, tell you mo guys. Thanks for tuning in.

Speaker 4 (58:52):
I will moan from that.

Speaker 3 (58:56):
All right, I'm gonna be the oil girl on set.
We're gonna make that happen while you're in town. Nonetheless,
make sure you check all of the description of this
episode because all of those links are gonna be there
for you guys to find King Noir and everything that
he is going on as well with Royal Fetish Films.

Speaker 2 (59:13):
Shout out to Jasmine.

Speaker 3 (59:14):
We just had her a couple months ago, so if
you haven't checked out her episode, please go check that out.
And as always, if you want to support Horrible Decisions,
join us over on Patreon. That's patreon dot com slash
Horrible Decisions. You should be able to find us now
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on it, and yeah, follow us on YouTube if you

(59:37):
want to hear the voice that matches this y'all love
doing that. Let me see if they voicematch they face.
Going over to our YouTube Hype in Horrible Decisions podcasts.

Speaker 2 (59:47):
We're on YouTube.

Speaker 3 (59:47):
You can enjoy this full episode shot here at WTF
Media Studios here in New York.

Speaker 2 (59:53):
And I think that's it.

Speaker 3 (59:55):
We may have to squeeze in an ad because something
else is happening, but I don't know when this is
dropping yet.

Speaker 2 (59:59):
Oh that out of breath, no, bitch, because this is
not water. So I'm great. Let's go, guys. Yes, Oh sorry,
this has been another episode of four positions. It's Bonne's beaches.
I'm back. It's it's Bonnie Is. What's want some one's song?

(01:00:20):
What accent is that? Honey? I don't even know.

Speaker 1 (01:00:23):
You know, black people that want to speak Spanish. I
have to play this clip for you. Y'all know I
love ninety APIs He And last week I was crying, bitch, listen,
how this niggas talking about secrets?

Speaker 4 (01:00:37):
Okay, hold on speaking of.

Speaker 1 (01:00:41):
The speaking of secret, bitch, I was akre hold on
speaking of everybody trying to keep a toe up here?

Speaker 4 (01:00:51):
Dog?

Speaker 3 (01:00:52):
You know what you know? You know why I can't
even really laugh at that because everybody this week then
laughed at me because on my way to Atlanta. I
was stuck on the wrong way. So I'm telling people
I was stuck.

Speaker 2 (01:01:05):
On the wrong way. But I know there's another word
for runway. So I was like, bitch. I was calling
it tamarack.

Speaker 3 (01:01:12):
But that's a It's a city in Florida. And I
was like, bitch, I've been stuck on the tamarack forever.
And it was like, bitch.

Speaker 2 (01:01:19):
The what I said?

Speaker 3 (01:01:22):
I said, bitch the tamarack. No, I was just telling
it to my friends. Then I reused the joke at
the Atlanta show. But I was like tamarack, Like, why
are y'all looking at me? It's Timorrack. Y'all don't know
what the tamarack is.

Speaker 2 (01:01:34):
And it was like, bitch a tarmac. I said, bit
y'all knew what the.

Speaker 3 (01:01:38):
Fuck I mad something, but bitch, it's really a city
in Florida. So but you know, of course Tamarack, Florida
is Broward County. Baby, Like, I was like ship and
here I go trying to use another word that's not
wrong way and bitch.

Speaker 2 (01:01:57):
Okay, so wait, he dates a Spanish chicks, so he
thought that No, so there's a transit.

Speaker 1 (01:02:02):
I thought, oh, actually, I reached out to him, he
said he would come on horrible. So if anybody has
been watching Ninetyda Fiance the other way, this is and
y'all know, I've been watching this about five years now.

Speaker 2 (01:02:11):
That's my shit.

Speaker 1 (01:02:12):
There's a trans man on this season who I ain't
gonna hold you. Does not look like he used to
be a woman, but he had bottom socialty and he
is a really in depth conversation with his girlfriend about
what he can feel. He talks about the semen that
comes out, how it makes semen, and it was such
an educational conversation, and I posted on ig I said, Bro,

(01:02:35):
all the years I've been horrible, this is the most
I've ever learned about female to male transitioning. Because he
was so open with her, She's like, well, do you
feel everything? What about when you come What kind of
juice is is it? I can't even believe ninety day
Fiance let that shit air on TLC. But he was
so good at the conversation and talked about how his

(01:02:56):
penis feels more rigid than others because he took the
skin of his thigh instead of his arm, like, because
you have to use your skin to make the bottom surgery.

Speaker 2 (01:03:05):
It's anyway, he said, he'll come on.

Speaker 1 (01:03:07):
Horrible, but he is phenomenal on the show, just being
open about being a transperson in what it requires to
have a penis.

Speaker 2 (01:03:16):
You know, part of your bottom tend to tell you forever.

Speaker 1 (01:03:19):
So he talks about how he needed a catheter, how
his urethro wasn't working, like it's in depth.

Speaker 2 (01:03:25):
So he as a whole boy.

Speaker 1 (01:03:27):
In Columbia, and basically his girl was saying, I don't
like that y'all be talking his secret, and the nigga
was tired of the bitch talking about him in Spanish,
and that's when he said, okay.

Speaker 2 (01:03:46):
Now there was a bit secret. You know what's crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:03:48):
By the way, I actually want to give a shout out.
There's a girl that I followed and she said that
she was She ended up having an actual conversation with
one of the Passport Bros. For those of y'all who
don't know about the Passport Ros, they're mostly a group
of black men, Black American men that go to other
countries because they feel like American women suck, whether.

Speaker 2 (01:04:13):
It's traditional values, whether how they show up.

Speaker 3 (01:04:16):
But girl, she said she came across the Passport Roo
who was talking about like men's like their attraction to Columbia,
specifically the Colombian women, because when he was talking about
their rates, you can literally get a Colombian woman from
anywhere from fifty to one hundred and fifty dollars for

(01:04:36):
the hour or for the evening. They're just really, really
fucking cheap. And then of course it's fewed, but it's
spewed a whole thread because technically, if you look at
the cost of living there, they can live well for
five hundred dollars a month. So when people were like
doing the difference with the cost of living in the US,
they were actually saying, even though those prices aren't a

(01:04:58):
lot to us, those are really high pri for how
they're able to live in Colombia off of that money.

Speaker 2 (01:05:05):
And I was like, I ain't even gonna hold you though.

Speaker 3 (01:05:07):
I was like, I would love to get the pussy
price inflated across all these countries because niggas need to
know it costs, and so to know that they can
go to another country and get some pussy for fifty dollars,
it is just a little crazy because that is less
than a two for twenty at Applebee's.

Speaker 2 (01:05:24):
Once you add the drinks and the dessert suf

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