September 10, 2024 • 4 mins
A lady calls in and needs to know what closure really is for men. What is the two week game? Another caller mentioned a problem with women and security.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Time now to check Steve's voicemail and if you would
like to leave Steve a voicemail, call eight seven seven
twenty nine Steve and you could hear your message on
the radio. All right, Steve, here we go. This is
a call about men in the relationship.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Hi.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
See, my name is Sai Kaylie Williams. I'm twenty three
years old calling in from out Sata Sovada. I'm listening
to your guys' conversation right now about men enclosure and
it's not usually the woman.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
It's the man.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
And I'm literally going through this like.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Right now, like where a guy came into my life
with somebody who I knew from high school, trusted him,
and out of nowhere, he's just like, yeah, this didn't
gonna work.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
And I want to.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
Go back to the point of did you know that
I was quote unquote too.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Much when you came into my life? Because mind you,
a lot of times men will set up this facade
of willing to be attensive and willing will be supportive,
and then once that woman starts extracide and not support
now is too much. Now you can't uphold it. It's
(01:06):
like why are you showering me?
Speaker 3 (01:08):
And candy talking to me all sweet and then you
pray you don't want a relationship, just make it makes sense.
That's all.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Thank you guys so much.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
I hope you guys have a lesson glorious day.
Speaker 5 (01:20):
Wow, very well, said young lady. Here, let me help
you with this part right here. You got to understand
when you're entre into a relationship with a man for
the first two weeks, you are going to meet the
most attentive, best representative of himself you could possibly meet.
(01:43):
Most dudes have got the two week game mastered, what
to say, how to be because you can, as you
use the word facade, you can keep up a facade
for two weeks. Two weeks, it's two weeks is really good.
It's hard to do that over a ninety day stretch. No,
it really is hard to pull that off over a
ninety day stretch. It's been done, but it's harder. And
(02:07):
so to protect yourselves, women, before you give into this,
oh my god, this is too good to be true,
you have to develop the questions and the test to
find out early if it is too good to be true.
Speaker 6 (02:22):
And that's why I created the ninety day rule.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
All right, Steven, we have another call from a woman
about men being the provider.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
I just heard you say, Steve, I got to tell
in that women wants security. When a man meets a
woman is game on. I'm really sick of women who
look for security and a man. The word says God
bless a child who has their own. No, that's not
the word, but the saying goes, God bless the child
that has his her own. And also the word does
say if a man wants to eat, he has to work.
(02:52):
If a man don't work, you don't eat. That goes
for a wall man. Also, I've never looked for a
man to be my security. God has been my source.
I just retired from my job after forty two years.
God has blessed me to take care of myself. I'm
so sick and tired of women who look to a
man to take care of her. What I want from
a man is loyalty, love, understanding, communication. I want to
(03:16):
believe that I can believe in him because I want to.
I don't get with a man because of what he
can do for me. Never have, never will never will.
I love the black man. I love you, Steve Harvey.
Happy belated birthday, Hello to all of your crew, stay safe,
be blessed.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
By by it. You know what, She made some valid points,
but I want to show her something. I stand by
what I said what a woman looks for she's not
arguing that point. She's talking about her standpoint. What a
woman looks for in a man is security. But the
things you describe that you want are forms of security.
Loyalty is security. You want to know that your heart
(03:55):
is safe with him. You won't love. You want to
feel like you belong to somebody, like like you're somebody somebody.
You want a person that can communicate with you. That's security.
You want understanding, You want to believe in him.
Speaker 6 (04:09):
That's security system.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
And then you need to package that up with when
your chips is down, will he be there?
Speaker 6 (04:18):
See y'all?
Speaker 5 (04:20):
Please stop that everybody looking for security.
Speaker 6 (04:24):
Now.
Speaker 5 (04:24):
I appreciate you. Your source is God and you've been
on your own for forty two years. But you said,
and the whole thing you wanted a man. That's what
security is. Man, That's what it is. Women want security
and security is a lot of things, and financial is
one of them.
Speaker 6 (04:42):
And financial is one of them.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Yeah, if you want to leave a voicemail for Steve.
Call eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve, you might hear
your message on the air coming up next to prank
phone call with the nephew right after this. You're listening
Steve Harvey Morning Show
Time now to check Steve's voicemail and if you would
like to leave Steve a voicemail, call eight seven seven
twenty nine Steve and you could hear your message on
the radio. All right, Steve, here we go. This is
a call about men in the relationship.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
Hi.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
See, my name is Sai Kaylie Williams. I'm twenty three
years old calling in from out Sata Sovada. I'm listening
to your guys' conversation right now about men enclosure and
it's not usually the woman.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
It's the man.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
And I'm literally going through this like.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Right now, like where a guy came into my life
with somebody who I knew from high school, trusted him,
and out of nowhere, he's just like, yeah, this didn't
gonna work.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
And I want to.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
Go back to the point of did you know that
I was quote unquote too.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Much when you came into my life? Because mind you,
a lot of times men will set up this facade
of willing to be attensive and willing will be supportive,
and then once that woman starts extracide and not support
now is too much. Now you can't uphold it. It's
(01:06):
like why are you showering me?
Speaker 3 (01:08):
And candy talking to me all sweet and then you
pray you don't want a relationship, just make it makes sense.
That's all.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Thank you guys so much.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
I hope you guys have a lesson glorious day.
Speaker 5 (01:20):
Wow, very well, said young lady. Here, let me help
you with this part right here. You got to understand
when you're entre into a relationship with a man for
the first two weeks, you are going to meet the
most attentive, best representative of himself you could possibly meet.
(01:43):
Most dudes have got the two week game mastered, what
to say, how to be because you can, as you
use the word facade, you can keep up a facade
for two weeks. Two weeks, it's two weeks is really good.
It's hard to do that over a ninety day stretch. No,
it really is hard to pull that off over a
ninety day stretch. It's been done, but it's harder. And
(02:07):
so to protect yourselves, women, before you give into this,
oh my god, this is too good to be true,
you have to develop the questions and the test to
find out early if it is too good to be true.
Speaker 6 (02:22):
And that's why I created the ninety day rule.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
All right, Steven, we have another call from a woman
about men being the provider.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
I just heard you say, Steve, I got to tell
in that women wants security. When a man meets a
woman is game on. I'm really sick of women who
look for security and a man. The word says God
bless a child who has their own. No, that's not
the word, but the saying goes, God bless the child
that has his her own. And also the word does
say if a man wants to eat, he has to work.
(02:52):
If a man don't work, you don't eat. That goes
for a wall man. Also, I've never looked for a
man to be my security. God has been my source.
I just retired from my job after forty two years.
God has blessed me to take care of myself. I'm
so sick and tired of women who look to a
man to take care of her. What I want from
a man is loyalty, love, understanding, communication. I want to
(03:16):
believe that I can believe in him because I want to.
I don't get with a man because of what he
can do for me. Never have, never will never will.
I love the black man. I love you, Steve Harvey.
Happy belated birthday, Hello to all of your crew, stay safe,
be blessed.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
By by it. You know what, She made some valid points,
but I want to show her something. I stand by
what I said what a woman looks for she's not
arguing that point. She's talking about her standpoint. What a
woman looks for in a man is security. But the
things you describe that you want are forms of security.
Loyalty is security. You want to know that your heart
(03:55):
is safe with him. You won't love. You want to
feel like you belong to somebody, like like you're somebody somebody.
You want a person that can communicate with you. That's security.
You want understanding, You want to believe in him.
Speaker 6 (04:09):
That's security system.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
And then you need to package that up with when
your chips is down, will he be there?
Speaker 6 (04:18):
See y'all?
Speaker 5 (04:20):
Please stop that everybody looking for security.
Speaker 6 (04:24):
Now.
Speaker 5 (04:24):
I appreciate you. Your source is God and you've been
on your own for forty two years. But you said,
and the whole thing you wanted a man. That's what
security is. Man, That's what it is. Women want security
and security is a lot of things, and financial is
one of them.
Speaker 6 (04:42):
And financial is one of them.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Yeah, if you want to leave a voicemail for Steve.
Call eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve, you might hear
your message on the air coming up next to prank
phone call with the nephew right after this. You're listening
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