December 5, 2023 • 8 mins
Co-parenting in Manhattan is getting too competitive and is turning into enablement. Are you allowed to laugh at the praise dancers or nah? A seven year old boy is tired of his mother's revolving door. DAMN!!! What are the requirements for small town dating?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Coming up at the top of the hour in entertainment news. Oh,
I hope it's true. I hope it's true. Celebrity baby news.
Are Nellie and Ashanti expecting? Whoa, that's the rumor? Yes,
Plus celebrity couple Dion Sanders and Tracy Edmonds called off
their engagement. Now, man, remember the man that punched Mike
(00:22):
Tyson on a flight last year.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
He wants to settle.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
He wants to settle for four hundred and fifty thousand dollars.
He yeah, Mike, yeah, yeah, yess right is We'll talk
about all of these stories at the top of the hour,
but right now it is time to ask the clo.
(00:48):
This one's from Beverly and Manhattan. Beverly writes, I co
parent a seventeen year old daughter with my ex husband,
and I punished her for breaking curfew and her daddy
bought her a car she wouldn't be late getting home anymore.
What I can't win? How do I get him to
work with me and not against me?
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Well, see your co parenting.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
So you're running up into that situation that I used
to run up into all the time. It's the one
parent wants to be the Disney parent. You know, when
you do something punishment, they come over here and it's
Disney all the time. You know, I'm the better parent,
like me more you know.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
That type of.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Yeah, And it's just it's a horrible situation to be in.
I have no advice for you, nothing.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
What none?
Speaker 2 (01:41):
No, you have something.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
I mean the daddy, he got to look, Man, you
can't reward bad behavior.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
That's just not good parenting. People do it all.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
I don't know, man, I just people are different, you know,
like nowadays, you know, spanking your child she's seventeen, But
I'm just spanking your.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Child is outlawed a lot of places. You can't do that.
Ass whoop has been happening in my house since they
was born.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Hello, that's how we were raised, for sure.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
And now they're old enough where it don't have to
happen no more. But it was in my house. And
call who you want to call. Yeah, if you gonna
ask him how many times I whooped his ass, he'll
tell you. Winston will tell you, brod Uncle will tell you,
and Jason will tell you. My daddy beat my ass
every time he promised us. Well, you'll go in there
and talk to him.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
About it. And they're such a great kids.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
Them good dudes right here.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Yeah they are.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
They really are cause an ass.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
What the amen?
Speaker 4 (02:40):
I never sprang, none of their daughters, but them boys.
I laid hands on.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Meliga in Tuskegee Rights.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
My man leads the praise dance ministry at our church,
and my parents came to town and visited our church.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
You're gonna love this one, Steve. I didn't expect my.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Dad to burst out laughing during the Warman. You know
how you don't like praise dad? How do I get
my dad to apologize? And how could he be so rude?
Speaker 4 (03:10):
Hey, your daddy ain't apologizing, and your daddy ain't got
to apologize.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
I have said it this.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
So and I'm gonna say it again. I don't know
why we have praised Dan's team. These are all people.
Look at it and they all way overweight. They overweight,
and they ain't make the gymnastics squad. They didn't make it.
They didn't make the chier leading teeth. Now here they
come them little dim little them little half inch jumps
off the ground and spinning, got them big robes on
(03:36):
and all this here, Hey, man, where.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
The quiet.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
The Lord in the dance.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
Your daddy came for the quad no fohusband is set
out there and put that robe on and start waving
his hands in the air, holding his fingertips straight. Your
daddy was holly with your daddy. I've been next to
your daddy. Daddy would have been in a Richard prior concert.
(04:04):
I'm talking about leaning on each.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Other, laughing in church during the performance.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
You ain't never laughed at I'm just saying.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
During the performance, I've laughed at church.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
I laughed at brother Rickerson walking around to put his
money in and fail right, and he failed.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
He dropped his money in the trade. He just dropped.
What tell you?
Speaker 4 (04:34):
I couldn't breathe now. I didn't know if he had
had a hard attack or nothing, but the fact that
he disappeared in front of that.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Pete just dropped off.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
But he tried to catch yourself and turned the money
tray over flowing man.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
All I was hugging about that time. Reggie.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Reggie was walking up the steps with his crying robo
and Paul Walker stepped on the back of it and
tore a hole in it.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Oh come Lishe and Kenosha says, I've been married twice,
and my seven year old son asked me not to
get married again, and he doesn't want my boyfriend to
sleep over.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
At the house.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Do I explain to my son that mommy's life has
to go on? Or do I keep my man away
for now?
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Yeah? Yeah? Your baby tired you.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Seven years?
Speaker 1 (05:30):
You?
Speaker 4 (05:32):
What does all these people keep coming up in here
paying attention, just rolling there and just revolving.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
Don't ait nobody staying what? You don't need to do this.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
No, mama, Mama, you don't need to get married no more.
And stop letting this man stay over here for he
leave like the other three?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Mama, who is these people? Who is my daddy? Who
I call daddy? I can't remember none of these.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Seven?
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Damn, that's like you, like you the mama You're supposed
to be raising me. Why is I'm raising you down?
Speaker 3 (06:20):
You don't see this.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
I'm out here playing basketball. Every time I look up,
and I got a new man hollering from me.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
You know, you don't know what. And the last one
forgot my name called me Charles.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
All right, last one Steve Chauncey.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
And newman says, I live in a small town and
I met a woman that has requirements to date her.
I'm trying to meet all of them. So I give
her money even when I'm short. I dipped into my
savings so I don't disappoint her. How do I tell
her that I don't have it like that?
Speaker 3 (07:00):
Hold? So to date her, you have to pay? Let
me let me ask you what's what? Where? Where did
you meet her at?
Speaker 1 (07:10):
What?
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Let me ask you a couple of questions. Questions?
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Okay, but let me ask you a couple of questions.
Was she standing somewhere with holder man? Just just let
me ask you a questions? Was she at the end
of the bar by herself drinking? I'm just I'm just
(07:34):
trying to work through how you met this wall and
the requirements you have to pay.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Have you ever that she have a website?
Speaker 2 (07:52):
You should just tell her to be honest with her?
Speaker 3 (07:55):
No, no, no, not, I got this right here. Let
me ask you that question. Dog? Does she have more
than two nicknames?
Speaker 4 (08:04):
Great?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Coming on, Thank you, Cla, We gotta go, Clo. Coming
up at the top of the hour, We'll have some
entertainment news for you. Right after this. You're listening to
Harvey Morning Show.
Coming up at the top of the hour in entertainment news. Oh,
I hope it's true. I hope it's true. Celebrity baby news.
Are Nellie and Ashanti expecting? Whoa, that's the rumor? Yes,
Plus celebrity couple Dion Sanders and Tracy Edmonds called off
their engagement. Now, man, remember the man that punched Mike
(00:22):
Tyson on a flight last year.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
He wants to settle.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
He wants to settle for four hundred and fifty thousand dollars.
He yeah, Mike, yeah, yeah, yess right is We'll talk
about all of these stories at the top of the hour,
but right now it is time to ask the clo.
(00:48):
This one's from Beverly and Manhattan. Beverly writes, I co
parent a seventeen year old daughter with my ex husband,
and I punished her for breaking curfew and her daddy
bought her a car she wouldn't be late getting home anymore.
What I can't win? How do I get him to
work with me and not against me?
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Well, see your co parenting.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
So you're running up into that situation that I used
to run up into all the time. It's the one
parent wants to be the Disney parent. You know, when
you do something punishment, they come over here and it's
Disney all the time. You know, I'm the better parent,
like me more you know.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
That type of.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Yeah, And it's just it's a horrible situation to be in.
I have no advice for you, nothing.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
What none?
Speaker 2 (01:41):
No, you have something.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
I mean the daddy, he got to look, Man, you
can't reward bad behavior.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
That's just not good parenting. People do it all.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
I don't know, man, I just people are different, you know,
like nowadays, you know, spanking your child she's seventeen, But
I'm just spanking your.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Child is outlawed a lot of places. You can't do that.
Ass whoop has been happening in my house since they
was born.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Hello, that's how we were raised, for sure.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
And now they're old enough where it don't have to
happen no more. But it was in my house. And
call who you want to call. Yeah, if you gonna
ask him how many times I whooped his ass, he'll
tell you. Winston will tell you, brod Uncle will tell you,
and Jason will tell you. My daddy beat my ass
every time he promised us. Well, you'll go in there
and talk to him.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
About it. And they're such a great kids.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
Them good dudes right here.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Yeah they are.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
They really are cause an ass.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
What the amen?
Speaker 4 (02:40):
I never sprang, none of their daughters, but them boys.
I laid hands on.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Meliga in Tuskegee Rights.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
My man leads the praise dance ministry at our church,
and my parents came to town and visited our church.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
You're gonna love this one, Steve. I didn't expect my.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Dad to burst out laughing during the Warman. You know
how you don't like praise dad? How do I get
my dad to apologize? And how could he be so rude?
Speaker 4 (03:10):
Hey, your daddy ain't apologizing, and your daddy ain't got
to apologize.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
I have said it this.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
So and I'm gonna say it again. I don't know
why we have praised Dan's team. These are all people.
Look at it and they all way overweight. They overweight,
and they ain't make the gymnastics squad. They didn't make it.
They didn't make the chier leading teeth. Now here they
come them little dim little them little half inch jumps
off the ground and spinning, got them big robes on
(03:36):
and all this here, Hey, man, where.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
The quiet.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
The Lord in the dance.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
Your daddy came for the quad no fohusband is set
out there and put that robe on and start waving
his hands in the air, holding his fingertips straight. Your
daddy was holly with your daddy. I've been next to
your daddy. Daddy would have been in a Richard prior concert.
(04:04):
I'm talking about leaning on each.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Other, laughing in church during the performance.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
You ain't never laughed at I'm just saying.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
During the performance, I've laughed at church.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
I laughed at brother Rickerson walking around to put his
money in and fail right, and he failed.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
He dropped his money in the trade. He just dropped.
What tell you?
Speaker 4 (04:34):
I couldn't breathe now. I didn't know if he had
had a hard attack or nothing, but the fact that
he disappeared in front of that.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Pete just dropped off.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
But he tried to catch yourself and turned the money
tray over flowing man.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
All I was hugging about that time. Reggie.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Reggie was walking up the steps with his crying robo
and Paul Walker stepped on the back of it and
tore a hole in it.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Oh come Lishe and Kenosha says, I've been married twice,
and my seven year old son asked me not to
get married again, and he doesn't want my boyfriend to
sleep over.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
At the house.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Do I explain to my son that mommy's life has
to go on? Or do I keep my man away
for now?
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Yeah? Yeah? Your baby tired you.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Seven years?
Speaker 1 (05:30):
You?
Speaker 4 (05:32):
What does all these people keep coming up in here
paying attention, just rolling there and just revolving.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
Don't ait nobody staying what? You don't need to do this.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
No, mama, Mama, you don't need to get married no more.
And stop letting this man stay over here for he
leave like the other three?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Mama, who is these people? Who is my daddy? Who
I call daddy? I can't remember none of these.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Seven?
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Damn, that's like you, like you the mama You're supposed
to be raising me. Why is I'm raising you down?
Speaker 3 (06:20):
You don't see this.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
I'm out here playing basketball. Every time I look up,
and I got a new man hollering from me.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
You know, you don't know what. And the last one
forgot my name called me Charles.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
All right, last one Steve Chauncey.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
And newman says, I live in a small town and
I met a woman that has requirements to date her.
I'm trying to meet all of them. So I give
her money even when I'm short. I dipped into my
savings so I don't disappoint her. How do I tell
her that I don't have it like that?
Speaker 3 (07:00):
Hold? So to date her, you have to pay? Let
me let me ask you what's what? Where? Where did
you meet her at?
Speaker 1 (07:10):
What?
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Let me ask you a couple of questions. Questions?
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Okay, but let me ask you a couple of questions.
Was she standing somewhere with holder man? Just just let
me ask you a questions? Was she at the end
of the bar by herself drinking? I'm just I'm just
(07:34):
trying to work through how you met this wall and
the requirements you have to pay.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Have you ever that she have a website?
Speaker 2 (07:52):
You should just tell her to be honest with her?
Speaker 3 (07:55):
No, no, no, not, I got this right here. Let
me ask you that question. Dog? Does she have more
than two nicknames?
Speaker 4 (08:04):
Great?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Coming on, Thank you, Cla, We gotta go, Clo. Coming
up at the top of the hour, We'll have some
entertainment news for you. Right after this. You're listening to
Harvey Morning Show.
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