January 1, 2025 • 8 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to ask the c l o uh to Shonda,
(00:06):
or maybe maybe I should know.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
I'm sorry, Toronto.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Her name is Toronta, Toronto, and Lafayette says, my husband's
sister is having problems in her marriage, so she's staying
with us. When I got home from work, she was
wearing one of my ropes. I will gladly get her
some things if need be. So how do I nicely
tell her that my stuff, my stuff is off limits.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Let me catch you ass in this robe?
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Forget him nicely?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
She said, nice?
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Nice?
Speaker 4 (00:36):
Catch it off of second, just walk up there. Just
tad awful hand. Or if I can't wear the robe,
ain't nobody gonna wear a rope? Take a butcher knife
and cut the cold, cut the bill, just swing, just
do wood stuff.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Here's my question. Is she's saying anything while she's cutting
the robe off?
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Oh yeah, yeah, everybody cussing and cutting is a part
of it. Yeah, it goes, it goes go.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Yeah, and see, don't look the same on you no more?
Speaker 2 (01:10):
All right?
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Moving on to Marissa and Stockbridge, Marissa writes, I'm thirty
eight years old and my husband likes to watch porn
while we're intimate. He says, he imagines that I'm the
women in the video. This doesn't sit well with my soul.
Does this mean that he is not satisfied with my
body and normal intimacy?
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Well, he imagined that you the women in the video.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Uh, huh, you do what?
Speaker 4 (01:36):
What?
Speaker 3 (01:36):
What did you text? What did you write us? This fault?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
He just told you.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
He imagines that you are the women in the video.
So he takes his mind off you and puts it
on huh. And instead of doing you, he's doing huh.
Which partities you don't get Just don't sit right with
my soul.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
You ain't got to drag your soul and it.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Is it did take it somewhere else, didn't it.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
That's the name of the movie back in the day,
my soul.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
She needs to.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Shut that down, all right, Frankie in Texas. As we
move on, Frankie says, my son's child, that would be
your grandchild. My son's child and child's mother live with me.
She can't stay with my son because he has a
new girlfriend. But he still comes to have sex with
his child's mother. And I don't need to be hearing that,
(02:35):
and neither does the child. What should I do got.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Well, you got to put a stop to that in
your house. Your house, you could actually put a stop
to that and just tell him that he's being disrespectful.
Very and then now he has a new girlfriend somewhere else,
but his former girlfriend and baby live with his mama.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Right, and he has his own.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Mama live with the mama too. Yeah, he has his
own house that you know. He has this new girlfriend
over I'm sure.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Well, see, you got to take all this to your house.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Yeah, and you're coming back over.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Here still having relations with her in front of me
and this boy. That ain't gonna work. Being disrespectful. You
need to sit the girl down at and hask go
what's wrong with her?
Speaker 1 (03:28):
That's what Frankie should do, because that's what she wants
to know.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
What should she do?
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Well, you need to have conversations with your son about
being respectful of your house and your rooms. Secondly, you
need a conversation with this girl and just go what's.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
Wrong with you?
Speaker 2 (03:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:44):
Now, you ain't good enough to go with him, You
ain't good enough to be with him. You got you
gotta stop being good enough to do him.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Better than that?
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Yeah, that's good. Yeah, and none good loving and then
Mama's food right after that. Though.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
That's pretty damn good thought.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
You come in.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
That's the bright side for you.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
That's why you That's why you do pranks.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
All right, Steve, here's the last one. This one's Nevea
in Culver City. Davea says, I've been dating a man
for fourteen years and we both turned forty in December.
I was hoping for an engagement ring for Christmas, but
he said the ring is custom made and won't be
ready until Valentine's Day.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
If I don't get it, then should I leave? Oh? Well,
she's been they've been dating. What what? What?
Speaker 3 (04:51):
What do y'all want me to say?
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Say it? Just say it?
Speaker 4 (04:55):
You know, Hell, listen to me. I've said this one
hundred times on this show. Why is it that women
do not understand this fact that you have every right
to know and have a say so with the direction
your life is going. You have a right to know,
(05:22):
to have a say so and know the direction in
which your life is going. That's your right as a
human being.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Okay, stop right there. Why don't they Why don't they then.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Because you think that you're supposed to center around and
wait on somebody else to make a decision about your
life when you have the power to exact the decisions
you want. Example, Okay, the reason you keep waiting on
(05:58):
a ring and don't it is because a ring is
not a requirement of yours. It is a hope of yours.
And if that ain't the hope of his, then all
hope is lost.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
We're hopeless.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
So why don't you make it a requirement for this
to continue?
Speaker 3 (06:20):
I am no.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Fourteen years that's a little long's life.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
And now it's custom made and it won't be ready
to custom boy?
Speaker 3 (06:33):
What boy?
Speaker 4 (06:34):
Stop them rings ain't custom made? Their asses in k jewler,
they in the window or they in the window.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
You ain't got enough smart to make a damn custom ring?
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Are you nuts?
Speaker 4 (06:50):
Let me tell you something, man, if you go in
there and pick out that diamond in that setting, your
ass can come back tomorrow the ring ready?
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Okay, Well, one more question because we need to understand
the see go ahead, Well why fourteen years? I mean,
why would you stay with someone for fourteen years without anything?
Speaker 2 (07:11):
A lot of people have done it because you keep.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Waiting on this theme to happen that you have not
made a requirement, and I keep telling y'all listen to me, ladies.
A wedding day is a woman's dream. The wedding day
is not the man's dream. All the man dreams of
is the chick of his dreams. We don't dream of
our wedding day. And if we can get to chick
without the wedding day, bam, he got with he.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Oh, don't all right, clo, thank you.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
This is Steve Harvin Martin show man hit.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
The twenty four year old girl is dating this sixty
five year old man that buys and does everything for her.
Five months ago, I met another man closer to my age.
He took me to a family reunion and to my surprise,
my sugar daddy is his stepdaddy. He ain't say anything,
and I showed didn't because his.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
Wife is down.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
Now you over there got to be quiet and stupid,
but you're dating the man's damn son.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
My question is, is the sugar daddy his daddy? Your daddy?
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Why is his daddy?
Speaker 3 (08:09):
How many dadaes you got? I'm gonna be this morder
Steve Harby Morn Show coming up right after that.
It's time to ask the c l o uh to Shonda,
(00:06):
or maybe maybe I should know.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
I'm sorry, Toronto.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Her name is Toronta, Toronto, and Lafayette says, my husband's
sister is having problems in her marriage, so she's staying
with us. When I got home from work, she was
wearing one of my ropes. I will gladly get her
some things if need be. So how do I nicely
tell her that my stuff, my stuff is off limits.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Let me catch you ass in this robe?
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Forget him nicely?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
She said, nice?
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Nice?
Speaker 4 (00:36):
Catch it off of second, just walk up there. Just
tad awful hand. Or if I can't wear the robe,
ain't nobody gonna wear a rope? Take a butcher knife
and cut the cold, cut the bill, just swing, just
do wood stuff.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
Here's my question. Is she's saying anything while she's cutting
the robe off?
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Oh yeah, yeah, everybody cussing and cutting is a part
of it. Yeah, it goes, it goes go.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Yeah, and see, don't look the same on you no more?
Speaker 2 (01:10):
All right?
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Moving on to Marissa and Stockbridge, Marissa writes, I'm thirty
eight years old and my husband likes to watch porn
while we're intimate. He says, he imagines that I'm the
women in the video. This doesn't sit well with my soul.
Does this mean that he is not satisfied with my
body and normal intimacy?
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Well, he imagined that you the women in the video.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Uh, huh, you do what?
Speaker 4 (01:36):
What?
Speaker 3 (01:36):
What did you text? What did you write us? This fault?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
He just told you.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
He imagines that you are the women in the video.
So he takes his mind off you and puts it
on huh. And instead of doing you, he's doing huh.
Which partities you don't get Just don't sit right with
my soul.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
You ain't got to drag your soul and it.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Is it did take it somewhere else, didn't it.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
That's the name of the movie back in the day,
my soul.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
She needs to.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Shut that down, all right, Frankie in Texas. As we
move on, Frankie says, my son's child, that would be
your grandchild. My son's child and child's mother live with me.
She can't stay with my son because he has a
new girlfriend. But he still comes to have sex with
his child's mother. And I don't need to be hearing that,
(02:35):
and neither does the child. What should I do got.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Well, you got to put a stop to that in
your house. Your house, you could actually put a stop
to that and just tell him that he's being disrespectful.
Very and then now he has a new girlfriend somewhere else,
but his former girlfriend and baby live with his mama.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Right, and he has his own.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Mama live with the mama too. Yeah, he has his
own house that you know. He has this new girlfriend
over I'm sure.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Well, see, you got to take all this to your house.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Yeah, and you're coming back over.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Here still having relations with her in front of me
and this boy. That ain't gonna work. Being disrespectful. You
need to sit the girl down at and hask go
what's wrong with her?
Speaker 1 (03:28):
That's what Frankie should do, because that's what she wants
to know.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
What should she do?
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Well, you need to have conversations with your son about
being respectful of your house and your rooms. Secondly, you
need a conversation with this girl and just go what's.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
Wrong with you?
Speaker 2 (03:43):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:44):
Now, you ain't good enough to go with him, You
ain't good enough to be with him. You got you
gotta stop being good enough to do him.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Better than that?
Speaker 1 (03:57):
Yeah, that's good. Yeah, and none good loving and then
Mama's food right after that. Though.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
That's pretty damn good thought.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
You come in.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
That's the bright side for you.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
That's why you That's why you do pranks.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
All right, Steve, here's the last one. This one's Nevea
in Culver City. Davea says, I've been dating a man
for fourteen years and we both turned forty in December.
I was hoping for an engagement ring for Christmas, but
he said the ring is custom made and won't be
ready until Valentine's Day.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
If I don't get it, then should I leave? Oh? Well,
she's been they've been dating. What what? What?
Speaker 3 (04:51):
What do y'all want me to say?
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Say it? Just say it?
Speaker 4 (04:55):
You know, Hell, listen to me. I've said this one
hundred times on this show. Why is it that women
do not understand this fact that you have every right
to know and have a say so with the direction
your life is going. You have a right to know,
(05:22):
to have a say so and know the direction in
which your life is going. That's your right as a
human being.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Okay, stop right there. Why don't they Why don't they then.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Because you think that you're supposed to center around and
wait on somebody else to make a decision about your
life when you have the power to exact the decisions
you want. Example, Okay, the reason you keep waiting on
(05:58):
a ring and don't it is because a ring is
not a requirement of yours. It is a hope of yours.
And if that ain't the hope of his, then all
hope is lost.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
We're hopeless.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
So why don't you make it a requirement for this
to continue?
Speaker 3 (06:20):
I am no.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Fourteen years that's a little long's life.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
And now it's custom made and it won't be ready
to custom boy?
Speaker 3 (06:33):
What boy?
Speaker 4 (06:34):
Stop them rings ain't custom made? Their asses in k jewler,
they in the window or they in the window.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
You ain't got enough smart to make a damn custom ring?
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Are you nuts?
Speaker 4 (06:50):
Let me tell you something, man, if you go in
there and pick out that diamond in that setting, your
ass can come back tomorrow the ring ready?
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Okay, Well, one more question because we need to understand
the see go ahead, Well why fourteen years? I mean,
why would you stay with someone for fourteen years without anything?
Speaker 2 (07:11):
A lot of people have done it because you keep.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Waiting on this theme to happen that you have not
made a requirement, and I keep telling y'all listen to me, ladies.
A wedding day is a woman's dream. The wedding day
is not the man's dream. All the man dreams of
is the chick of his dreams. We don't dream of
our wedding day. And if we can get to chick
without the wedding day, bam, he got with he.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Oh, don't all right, clo, thank you.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
This is Steve Harvin Martin show man hit.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
The twenty four year old girl is dating this sixty
five year old man that buys and does everything for her.
Five months ago, I met another man closer to my age.
He took me to a family reunion and to my surprise,
my sugar daddy is his stepdaddy. He ain't say anything,
and I showed didn't because his.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
Wife is down.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
Now you over there got to be quiet and stupid,
but you're dating the man's damn son.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
My question is, is the sugar daddy his daddy? Your daddy?
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Why is his daddy?
Speaker 3 (08:09):
How many dadaes you got? I'm gonna be this morder
Steve Harby Morn Show coming up right after that.
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