March 10, 2025 • 8 mins
Danica in Stamford needs help with an angry husband, Arlinda in Chesterfield wants to know if she should trust her husband's work wife and more in Ask the CLO.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Well, it is time to ask the CLO our chief
(00:03):
Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This is from Danica in Stamford.
Danaka writes, I had dinner with my coworkers and I
told my husband that I wasn't coming straight home. My
phone died while I was out, and my husband has
called me twelve times. He was an emergency. It was
not an emergency. He just wanted to know where I was.
(00:24):
I went off on him, and now he thinks I'm
hiding something.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Why is he mad?
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Why did you go off on him?
Speaker 2 (00:33):
He called twelve times.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
You didn't answer your phone.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
He was on her nerve, but you went off on him.
Reverse your husband tell you going out with his boys.
You call him, he don't answer his phone.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Oh I'm mad. Double standard, double standard. Yeah, you can't
read her.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
No, no, no. But then she flipped it.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
She mad at him, Yeah for calling it girl bugging
her girl by just trying to have fun with her coworkers.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Yeah, where your phone died? All right? What coworkers?
Speaker 1 (01:18):
This is from This is from moving On to Teresia
and Brickel. Trisha writes, I've been dating a guy for
five months and we've had sex a few times, but
not as much as a new relationship should be doing it.
He laughs and calls me a sex bean. I don't
like that, he teases me about it. Why is he
the only one that can initiate sex?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Hmmm? Interesting?
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Because he pacing hisself.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
He's pacing himself.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
Yeah what yeah? What? You you've been dating a man
five months?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Five months? Uh huh?
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Before you met him, he wasn't having sex.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Well, she doesn't say.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
That in the five months. Have you heard the word
we are exclusive?
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
So he's a little tired.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
He got paced hisself.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
He can't he can't hang with the young lady.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
But no, he can't hang with the young lady.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
What you said pace himself? What does that mean?
Speaker 3 (02:25):
That means he's he's peanut butter, he's bread. He booked
him busy.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Oh you don't get that. Isn't that you do? And
it's okay.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
Why you're supposed to be asking the questions, not judge what.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
I'm not judging. I just want to know.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Yeah, he can't, but he helen. No, he helen it.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
I like my my answer better.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Moving on, moving on to our Linda and Chesterfield. Our
Linda writes, my husband had a birthday party at work.
He brought his cards and left over cake home and
said it's trash. I read the cards and one of
them said happy birthday, sweetie.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
It was from his so.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Called work wife. He said she was joking and he
should have thrown the card away. Can they be trusted
at work?
Speaker 3 (03:28):
How these cards? Okay? Okay, okay, I can't.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
But happy birthday sweetie?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Though?
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Come on, how's he going to get out of that one? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Why is he in it? And how does she know
about the work wife?
Speaker 1 (03:57):
From his so called work wife, that's what she said,
so she does know about it?
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, what.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Tommy, I've never called him sweetie, I'm not worth watching
and I've never said happy birthday sweetie.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
And Melbourne put it all I'm back is why did
he bring you damn cars home? I can't get past
that because we ain't answer none of these questions.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
If you lead him down cars and it trash something?
Speaker 2 (04:28):
But why does she call him sweetie?
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Though?
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Is there more going on? That's just what the white wants.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Yeah, well for starters, it damn show sounded.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Like it, Yes, that part does and.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
It wouldn't even sound like it if his dumb ass
had to balk them cards home.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Back to your point, why did he bring the card home?
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Does it mean nothing to him?
Speaker 4 (04:56):
Because dudes who used to get nothing try to hang
on the stuff.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
You know.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
It's like, hey, when I give my Father's Day cards,
they sit on my desk for a long time.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Yeah, yeah, you know, because they ain't gonna give me
nothing else.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
Yeah, you know so well, Dad, when I'm gonna get
you, you got everything.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
We'll try this become about him away.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Yes, comes back to Father's Day because I'm pushing the
good Father's Day taking off in twenty twenty six. I
bet if I go to Elon and can show how
much money you lose, I bet it won't beat.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Them on Dad if I come up so wow, Yeah,
a real thing with you now.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Yeah, Father's Day, I know it's coming in.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
From getting nothing. Yeah, it's in a few months.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
You're right, Well, don't try it with Mother's Day because
we come up on Mother's Day, all right. Last one
Maurice and Philly. Maurice writes, my wife and my mom
are too close. He tells my mom all of our
business and it irritates me because my mom uses it
to scold me like I'm a kid. My wife does
(06:08):
not see how my mom is using her. How can
I get those two to stop gossiping?
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Too late to late, It's too late.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
They're too close.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Now.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
The only thing you could do is pull your mama
to the side. Let's say you're mad. You will. Let's
say your wife named treating just for purposes.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
Just pull your mama to the side and see my
ma was talking to treating and treating just thanks.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
You stupid.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
You can't tell his mom and just walk out the room.
Got'll be in that relationship so.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
Fast that Yeah, that's too that.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Yeah you try.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
Hey, you want to not be close? Kill it? I
like it.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
You cannot do that close at all?
Speaker 4 (06:59):
Hate other It'll be they ask your mama can you
can she watch the kids? And that No, I'm too
damn stupid to watch kids. Remember, we will be all
of that.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
No, Wow, there's a white way.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Yeah, no, that's the other way.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Why is his mom scolding him like he is a
kid though? Why is she doing that?
Speaker 4 (07:22):
And she using information that the wife giving him you
know what? And he can't check his mama. This up
the house all all, you can sit out and just
tell your wife, Hey, look baby, this stuff you're telling
your mama, she coming back and use it against me,
and I don't like that. Let's just not discuss our
business with her. Y'all want a gossip and talk about stuff.
Take me off the gossip, Colum. I don't want to
(07:44):
be in it no more.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
She's gonna go right back to his mom and tell
her exactly what you just said.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
Right, And then if you do that, then you know
I'm gonna just I'm gonna go get another thing.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
I get another fan.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Oh yeah, that'll solve the problem. Make you see Alo,
Well, it is time to ask the CLO our chief
(00:03):
Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This is from Danica in Stamford.
Danaka writes, I had dinner with my coworkers and I
told my husband that I wasn't coming straight home. My
phone died while I was out, and my husband has
called me twelve times. He was an emergency. It was
not an emergency. He just wanted to know where I was.
(00:24):
I went off on him, and now he thinks I'm
hiding something.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Why is he mad?
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Why did you go off on him?
Speaker 2 (00:33):
He called twelve times.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
You didn't answer your phone.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
He was on her nerve, but you went off on him.
Reverse your husband tell you going out with his boys.
You call him, he don't answer his phone.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Oh I'm mad. Double standard, double standard. Yeah, you can't
read her.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
No, no, no. But then she flipped it.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
She mad at him, Yeah for calling it girl bugging
her girl by just trying to have fun with her coworkers.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Yeah, where your phone died? All right? What coworkers?
Speaker 1 (01:18):
This is from This is from moving On to Teresia
and Brickel. Trisha writes, I've been dating a guy for
five months and we've had sex a few times, but
not as much as a new relationship should be doing it.
He laughs and calls me a sex bean. I don't
like that, he teases me about it. Why is he
the only one that can initiate sex?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Hmmm? Interesting?
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Because he pacing hisself.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
He's pacing himself.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
Yeah what yeah? What? You you've been dating a man
five months?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Five months? Uh huh?
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Before you met him, he wasn't having sex.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Well, she doesn't say.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
That in the five months. Have you heard the word
we are exclusive?
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (02:10):
So he's a little tired.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
He got paced hisself.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
He can't he can't hang with the young lady.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
But no, he can't hang with the young lady.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
What you said pace himself? What does that mean?
Speaker 3 (02:25):
That means he's he's peanut butter, he's bread. He booked
him busy.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Oh you don't get that. Isn't that you do? And
it's okay.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
Why you're supposed to be asking the questions, not judge what.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
I'm not judging. I just want to know.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Yeah, he can't, but he helen. No, he helen it.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
I like my my answer better.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Moving on, moving on to our Linda and Chesterfield. Our
Linda writes, my husband had a birthday party at work.
He brought his cards and left over cake home and
said it's trash. I read the cards and one of
them said happy birthday, sweetie.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
It was from his so.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Called work wife. He said she was joking and he
should have thrown the card away. Can they be trusted
at work?
Speaker 3 (03:28):
How these cards? Okay? Okay, okay, I can't.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
But happy birthday sweetie?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Though?
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Come on, how's he going to get out of that one? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Why is he in it? And how does she know
about the work wife?
Speaker 1 (03:57):
From his so called work wife, that's what she said,
so she does know about it?
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, what.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Tommy, I've never called him sweetie, I'm not worth watching
and I've never said happy birthday sweetie.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
And Melbourne put it all I'm back is why did
he bring you damn cars home? I can't get past
that because we ain't answer none of these questions.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
If you lead him down cars and it trash something?
Speaker 2 (04:28):
But why does she call him sweetie?
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Though?
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Is there more going on? That's just what the white wants.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Yeah, well for starters, it damn show sounded.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Like it, Yes, that part does and.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
It wouldn't even sound like it if his dumb ass
had to balk them cards home.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Back to your point, why did he bring the card home?
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Does it mean nothing to him?
Speaker 4 (04:56):
Because dudes who used to get nothing try to hang
on the stuff.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
You know.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
It's like, hey, when I give my Father's Day cards,
they sit on my desk for a long time.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Yeah, yeah, you know, because they ain't gonna give me
nothing else.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
Yeah, you know so well, Dad, when I'm gonna get
you, you got everything.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
We'll try this become about him away.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Yes, comes back to Father's Day because I'm pushing the
good Father's Day taking off in twenty twenty six. I
bet if I go to Elon and can show how
much money you lose, I bet it won't beat.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Them on Dad if I come up so wow, Yeah,
a real thing with you now.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Yeah, Father's Day, I know it's coming in.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
From getting nothing. Yeah, it's in a few months.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
You're right, Well, don't try it with Mother's Day because
we come up on Mother's Day, all right. Last one
Maurice and Philly. Maurice writes, my wife and my mom
are too close. He tells my mom all of our
business and it irritates me because my mom uses it
to scold me like I'm a kid. My wife does
(06:08):
not see how my mom is using her. How can
I get those two to stop gossiping?
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Too late to late, It's too late.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
They're too close.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Now.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
The only thing you could do is pull your mama
to the side. Let's say you're mad. You will. Let's
say your wife named treating just for purposes.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
Just pull your mama to the side and see my
ma was talking to treating and treating just thanks.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
You stupid.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
You can't tell his mom and just walk out the room.
Got'll be in that relationship so.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
Fast that Yeah, that's too that.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Yeah you try.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
Hey, you want to not be close? Kill it? I
like it.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
You cannot do that close at all?
Speaker 4 (06:59):
Hate other It'll be they ask your mama can you
can she watch the kids? And that No, I'm too
damn stupid to watch kids. Remember, we will be all
of that.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
No, Wow, there's a white way.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Yeah, no, that's the other way.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Why is his mom scolding him like he is a
kid though? Why is she doing that?
Speaker 4 (07:22):
And she using information that the wife giving him you
know what? And he can't check his mama. This up
the house all all, you can sit out and just
tell your wife, Hey, look baby, this stuff you're telling
your mama, she coming back and use it against me,
and I don't like that. Let's just not discuss our
business with her. Y'all want a gossip and talk about stuff.
Take me off the gossip, Colum. I don't want to
(07:44):
be in it no more.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
She's gonna go right back to his mom and tell
her exactly what you just said.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
Right, And then if you do that, then you know
I'm gonna just I'm gonna go get another thing.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
I get another fan.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Oh yeah, that'll solve the problem. Make you see Alo,
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