Ask The CLO- 04.03.25

What if your spouse was texting your best friend about the problems in your marriage? Someone did it, and now they're asking our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey for advice. This and a lot more in today's Ask The CLO.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. This is from Melanie in Philly. Melanie writes,
my ex got caught cheating and I broke up with him.
This morning. He brought my personal belongings to my job
in six Walmart bags. Everybody is in everybody is in

(00:20):
my business?

Speaker 2 (00:21):
Now?

Speaker 1 (00:21):
How could he turn this situation around on me and
act like he's the victim?

Speaker 2 (00:28):
You know, my brother taught me something when I was
about eighteen, I got busted by these two girls. My
brother had an interesting theory that I can see has
carried over even in today. In people's lives, the best
defense is a good office. Oh you break up with
me because I was cheating? Well, don't nobody down at

(00:51):
your job know that I'm gonna pack all your stuff
up in these six Walmart bags and drop them off
down at your job. Now you explain that? And why
are they in walmall day? Why? Why is he at house?

Speaker 3 (01:06):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:06):
Why he didn't have to go to her.

Speaker 2 (01:09):
Now, I see if she went to his job and
packed up his stuff, Oh would have been harbor. Well,
she ain't think of it.

Speaker 3 (01:15):
First offence, take the hot so he flipped it on
her all right.

Speaker 1 (01:29):
Moving on to Harrison in upstate New York, Harrison says,
I had overnight company. I woke up at two am
and she was using the bathroom down the hall and
the door was locked. I asked her not to roam
all over my house while I'm asleep. She apologized and
said she should have asked first. We've had sex, so
why is she scared to use the bathroom around me? What?

Speaker 2 (01:50):
Oh well, maybe she No. I got to get this
down the hall somewhere. I gotta get some distance. Ain't
no need to be going to the one right here,
not the one that's in the bed norm. I need
to go down the hallway now, she apologized. Yeah, you

(02:10):
asked her not to roam around your house, but some
fellas y'all can't. Y'all got to understand now, first of all,
if you're not comfortable with a chick, why y'all spending
the night exactly go over to her house, get your
boy to give you that phone call at the right

(02:31):
up amount of time where it to be over with.
Whereas emergency where you answer the phone and go, huh
what dog? Pun hold of dog? Where you at? No, man,
I mean where you at right now? Are you cool?
How many y'll is it now? The whole time? Dog?

(02:56):
You putting socks on, You're getting dressed, but they in
a concerned, frantic mold dog. I'm on the way, man.
Why you call me earlier? Man? What you let her
hear this? Baby? I got to get out of here.
My homeboy called me here to jam They got him

(03:18):
jammed up, and I got to go. I'll go with you, babe. No, no,
you don't need to be in this. I'm not gonna
let you get hurt. Just let me handle this. This
is my boy here in trouble. He always been there
for me. I'll explain it to you. Let me go.

(03:39):
Oh god, that's it. Stop having people over your house
that you are not comfortable with. How many times? And
you know how I know that phone call because I've
had it made to me. Yes, Tom, Now what you
say to your boy when you get to him? Hey, man, listen,
I was with this babe. I know you don't know it,

(03:59):
but you anything happened, man, you had any emergency, You
was on the side of the road and they put
you in a van. That's all you got to say.
There you go. See, that's why, I asked how many
of them? Was it all right?

Speaker 1 (04:18):
Moving on to Cheryl and Raleigh, Cheryl says, my husband
and I were fusing, so I asked his best friend
for advice. My husband saw the text messages and he
broke my phone. He said, his best friend isn't a
therapist and he's off limits. Why can't I talk to
the person that knows him best?

Speaker 2 (04:35):
What's up? Lady? Lady? You can't go call You can't
have an argument with your boyfriend then call his friend?
Do you know how? And look? First of all, we
as me and we don't do that. All we use
our friends for is to cover a lot. That's it.
We ain not. Yeah, we don't go to here.

Speaker 1 (04:55):
For counseling, advice, none of that.

Speaker 2 (04:57):
No, dog, what would you do?

Speaker 1 (05:00):
This happened?

Speaker 2 (05:01):
Well, you know that can happen occasionally, but that's very rare.
But we we not. We are not therapists. Do not
call my friend. You're the reason we go to therapist.
Well you know, surely I don't really like the way
you said.

Speaker 1 (05:19):
That, But but the truth sometimes Yet, because.

Speaker 2 (05:27):
The secret is called ask the e c l O.
Ain't nobody asked? Surely not you in the Strawberry Left.

Speaker 1 (05:35):
I was talking to you, you in the Strawberry letter anyway.

Speaker 2 (05:40):
S get your segments together, okay, poems. You know.

Speaker 1 (05:49):
I don't do pranks, man, because I said us go
to the therapist.

Speaker 2 (05:53):
Well, surely have y'all need that?

Speaker 1 (05:57):
We all do? We all do?

Speaker 2 (05:59):
No? No, yeah, all y'all do you right? I'm sorry,
I'm trying to I tried to be say half y'all,
but all y'all do need therapyst I agree men and women.
Nay man, I ain't never need it therap but I
ain't never been down there. It don't do nothing for me.

Speaker 1 (06:15):
Last one.

Speaker 2 (06:16):
We're moving on way. I know I got good seness.
I'm not gonna sit up here at you because you
got a legal pad, you went to school.

Speaker 1 (06:24):
You don't even know me anyway.

Speaker 2 (06:27):
And it's hard to be my therapist because I'm gonna
lie to you, so you can't. That's why you can't
possibly get to what it is with me. You have
to tell your therapist the truth. Do you know what
a therapists job is? No therapist is there to cure you.
A therapist is there to listen to you. Every Thursday

(06:50):
ten thirty sit in town. They're not trying to fix you,
bro I know a person who told me they've been
going to the same therapist for twenty five Oh, it's broke.
You just down there telling this lady what you did
this week. You can't possibly, okay, be still going down

(07:10):
there for he mus be wrong. Oh you need to
go all right. You got a paid friendship, that's all
you do. So going down here. Gil My girl is
two fifty, and tell her what happened this week? All right?

Speaker 1 (07:26):
Last one, Jerome and Montgomery says, my girlfriend lives with
her baby daddy's family. She's been there since she's had
her son four years ago. I hate going over there.
As her man, am I obligated to provide housing for her.

Speaker 2 (07:39):
I'm not in that at all. This is a breakup
right here.

Speaker 1 (07:43):
Should he get her an apartment?

Speaker 2 (07:46):
No? I don't see them money.

Speaker 1 (07:49):
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