April 14, 2025 • 7 mins
Today, our Chief Love Officer starts off by giving advice to a woman who's friend dated her husband 10 years ago. She doesn't have a problem with that...but her husband does.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the CLO or Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. This is from Teresa and Piscataway. Teresa writes,
I'm friends with a woman that dated my husband ten
years ago. I don't have a problem with her, but
he had a problem with me going to dinner with her.
We had an argument over this woman. Is this an
(00:21):
indication that he's hiding something?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
No, it's an indication. And why you all off with
somebody he used to date? That can't lead to no good.
You ain't got nobody else you could be friends with.
And why does she Why is she so interested in
being your friend? It's what you need to ask yourself.
What's help motive? Let's go to if you don't think
(00:45):
he fit to come up as one of the subjects.
You that lost your mind because she.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Tricky ten years ago? Though this is still going on.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
I don't care if it was nineteen sixty nine.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Right, being your friend going and eat with you?
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Man girl by all right?
Speaker 1 (01:08):
So it doesn't mean he's hiding something though that's what
she's asking.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
It don't mean what he look They broke up for
a reason. M m okay, And you gotta wonder why
is lady so interested in being your friend. She know
who your husband is. Yeah, okay, snake move Trump.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Just let stuff go, okay. Moving on to Donovan in Jacksonville,
Donovan writes, I'm married to an activist and we live
in a mixed community with Republicans. My wife won't even
speak to our neighbors that had Trump signs in their
yards during the election. She calls me a sellout. How
(01:51):
do I get her to be more late neighborly?
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Hmmmm, Well she needs to relax. Trump.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
He is the president. He's number forty six. You can
get unmad right now and just sit there and just
and and just let them deal with the ramifications.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Because it's gonna be some ramifications to deal with.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
You ain't got to be mad at them. I told
you so forty seven. Yeah, yeah, I say this what
everybody that voted for Trump is not a bad person.
(02:35):
It's a lot of misguided people out here. It's a
lot of people that that of that fail for the
okie dope. It's a lot of people got bamboozle. It's
a it's a lot of people drank the kool aid.
It's some people out there really thought they was doing
what was best for the country. The problem we had
was we didn't give them alternative with Biden, and then
(02:57):
Kamala got in the race too late. He had that
stick in his hand. He was three quarters away round
the track.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Okay, right, race huh, well I want it. Yeah, So
you're saying the wife just needs to chill and be
a little more neighborly. Let it go, man, he's in
the White House now, Yeah, all right. Moving on to
Karen and Charlotte, Karen writes, I have a ten year
(03:26):
old son, and so does my husband, both by previous marriages.
We're going on a trip this summer, and my husband's
ex wife wants us to take her eight year old
son too. My husband doesn't want to. Should we invite him?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Well, I mean, you know it would be the cool
thing to do.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Yeah, yeah, you know, it would be cool.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
He just an eight year old boy.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
You know, they all gonna get along and play, you know,
the two ten year old sons. I got that ancient son,
I got that.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
He ate Why doesn't he want to take him though?
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Because it ain't his son?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Yeah, he probably like let his daddy take him on.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
The Hello not a mother facial dilemma Yeah, that's his ex.
And you don't know if they was married or not.
They just have both have ten year old sons, some previous.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Relationships, previous marriage, so yeah they were married.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Sureley, you your job is clo I know my job,
Thank you, ma'am.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
It's supposed to read the questions to me and then.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
I ask answer.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
You could do that.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Well, that's what we do every day. Your segment is
your strawberry letter, is it? Is it?
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yeah, that's your segment, and we let you say whatever
you want to say. Here the problem.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
I was just trying to clarify something. Don't make this
about me.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
If you stay out of it. We could have.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Moved to stay out of it.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
But move on? Can I move on?
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Can I move on? I can be great?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
So here's the deal.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Yes, the woman who has the two boys, the eight
year old and the ten, she wants him to consider
taking an eight year old because the ten year old
is leaving the house and he going, I want to
go with my brother. Yes, And then what she's gonna
be faced with is now he don't want you?
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Yes? Why because that ain't your daddy. See, it's a
lot to.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Come with it, that's all you wanted to get to.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Well, this is what the problem is, is shit he
take the boy or not?
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Right?
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Right?
Speaker 1 (05:37):
The issue?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Yeah, but the dilemma is he don't want to take
him because that's not his son and he's younger. You
don't know if this is the boy that came out
of the relationship that she cheated on him with, which
is why they ain't jump what a go?
Speaker 1 (05:55):
And I don't need to be involved.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
That's how you don't need to be because you just
because you don't.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Know make all stuff.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
I make him stuff, won't She got a ten year
old boy to eight year old boy. It takes nine
monst have a baby, so after a ten year old
was born, it wasn't long for she she was pregnant again.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Whoa, whoa? What they got to do with him taking
this baby on the.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Make because it ain't my baby?
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Last wall, it is the last one. We're moving on
Haley and Oxford says, I'm twenty nine and my husband
is forty. He thinks he's he can cook better than
me because it takes him longer. I use an air fryer,
and he loves the cast iron skillet. He loves my cooking,
So why is it such a big deal. How I
prepare it? Is it because he's a lot older? You
(06:49):
know I'm going to be involved in this.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
It's twenty nine and forty. That's only eleven.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Years stand on his shirt.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
I don't understand how.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
I mean what y'all. She's twenty nine and uses an
air fryer. He's forty and uses the cast iron skill it.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Let me explain something to you that not taste as
good as that cast iron skilly.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
I can tell you that right now.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
She says he loves her cooking.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Yeah, he love you cook.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
What she wants is the title as the best cook
in the family. He say he cooked better, and he
do because he don't use that air fry.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
That's what it is.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Air fry, fried chicken. Different, y'all. It's different. I'm just
telling you.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
It ain't just say
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Well, all right, let's collect you're listening Steve Hardy Morning
Show
It is time to ask the CLO or Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. This is from Teresa and Piscataway. Teresa writes,
I'm friends with a woman that dated my husband ten
years ago. I don't have a problem with her, but
he had a problem with me going to dinner with her.
We had an argument over this woman. Is this an
(00:21):
indication that he's hiding something?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
No, it's an indication. And why you all off with
somebody he used to date? That can't lead to no good.
You ain't got nobody else you could be friends with.
And why does she Why is she so interested in
being your friend? It's what you need to ask yourself.
What's help motive? Let's go to if you don't think
(00:45):
he fit to come up as one of the subjects.
You that lost your mind because she.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Tricky ten years ago? Though this is still going on.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
I don't care if it was nineteen sixty nine.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Right, being your friend going and eat with you?
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Man girl by all right?
Speaker 1 (01:08):
So it doesn't mean he's hiding something though that's what
she's asking.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
It don't mean what he look They broke up for
a reason. M m okay, And you gotta wonder why
is lady so interested in being your friend. She know
who your husband is. Yeah, okay, snake move Trump.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Just let stuff go, okay. Moving on to Donovan in Jacksonville,
Donovan writes, I'm married to an activist and we live
in a mixed community with Republicans. My wife won't even
speak to our neighbors that had Trump signs in their
yards during the election. She calls me a sellout. How
(01:51):
do I get her to be more late neighborly?
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Hmmmm, Well she needs to relax. Trump.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
He is the president. He's number forty six. You can
get unmad right now and just sit there and just
and and just let them deal with the ramifications.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Because it's gonna be some ramifications to deal with.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
You ain't got to be mad at them. I told
you so forty seven. Yeah, yeah, I say this what
everybody that voted for Trump is not a bad person.
(02:35):
It's a lot of misguided people out here. It's a
lot of people that that of that fail for the
okie dope. It's a lot of people got bamboozle. It's
a it's a lot of people drank the kool aid.
It's some people out there really thought they was doing
what was best for the country. The problem we had
was we didn't give them alternative with Biden, and then
(02:57):
Kamala got in the race too late. He had that
stick in his hand. He was three quarters away round
the track.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Okay, right, race huh, well I want it. Yeah, So
you're saying the wife just needs to chill and be
a little more neighborly. Let it go, man, he's in
the White House now, Yeah, all right. Moving on to
Karen and Charlotte, Karen writes, I have a ten year
(03:26):
old son, and so does my husband, both by previous marriages.
We're going on a trip this summer, and my husband's
ex wife wants us to take her eight year old
son too. My husband doesn't want to. Should we invite him?
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Well, I mean, you know it would be the cool
thing to do.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Yeah, yeah, you know, it would be cool.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
He just an eight year old boy.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
You know, they all gonna get along and play, you know,
the two ten year old sons. I got that ancient son,
I got that.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
He ate Why doesn't he want to take him though?
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Because it ain't his son?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Yeah, he probably like let his daddy take him on.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
The Hello not a mother facial dilemma Yeah, that's his ex.
And you don't know if they was married or not.
They just have both have ten year old sons, some previous.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Relationships, previous marriage, so yeah they were married.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Sureley, you your job is clo I know my job,
Thank you, ma'am.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
It's supposed to read the questions to me and then.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
I ask answer.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
You could do that.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Well, that's what we do every day. Your segment is
your strawberry letter, is it? Is it?
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yeah, that's your segment, and we let you say whatever
you want to say. Here the problem.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
I was just trying to clarify something. Don't make this
about me.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
If you stay out of it. We could have.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Moved to stay out of it.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
But move on? Can I move on?
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Can I move on? I can be great?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
So here's the deal.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Yes, the woman who has the two boys, the eight
year old and the ten, she wants him to consider
taking an eight year old because the ten year old
is leaving the house and he going, I want to
go with my brother. Yes, And then what she's gonna
be faced with is now he don't want you?
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Yes? Why because that ain't your daddy. See, it's a
lot to.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Come with it, that's all you wanted to get to.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Well, this is what the problem is, is shit he
take the boy or not?
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Right?
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Right?
Speaker 1 (05:37):
The issue?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Yeah, but the dilemma is he don't want to take
him because that's not his son and he's younger. You
don't know if this is the boy that came out
of the relationship that she cheated on him with, which
is why they ain't jump what a go?
Speaker 1 (05:55):
And I don't need to be involved.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
That's how you don't need to be because you just
because you don't.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Know make all stuff.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
I make him stuff, won't She got a ten year
old boy to eight year old boy. It takes nine
monst have a baby, so after a ten year old
was born, it wasn't long for she she was pregnant again.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Whoa, whoa? What they got to do with him taking
this baby on the.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
Make because it ain't my baby?
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Last wall, it is the last one. We're moving on
Haley and Oxford says, I'm twenty nine and my husband
is forty. He thinks he's he can cook better than
me because it takes him longer. I use an air fryer,
and he loves the cast iron skillet. He loves my cooking,
So why is it such a big deal. How I
prepare it? Is it because he's a lot older? You
(06:49):
know I'm going to be involved in this.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
It's twenty nine and forty. That's only eleven.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Years stand on his shirt.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
I don't understand how.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
I mean what y'all. She's twenty nine and uses an
air fryer. He's forty and uses the cast iron skill it.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
Let me explain something to you that not taste as
good as that cast iron skilly.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
I can tell you that right now.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
She says he loves her cooking.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Yeah, he love you cook.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
What she wants is the title as the best cook
in the family. He say he cooked better, and he
do because he don't use that air fry.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
That's what it is.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Air fry, fried chicken. Different, y'all. It's different. I'm just
telling you.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
It ain't just say
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Well, all right, let's collect you're listening Steve Hardy Morning
Show
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