April 17, 2025 • 7 mins
Our Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey Has Advice for:
- Tyrell in Birmingham – My wife and I ran into a girl I had sex with recently and she did not know I’m married. She called me crying uncontrollably. I don’t like hurting women like that but I do love an occasional hookup. Is it best to tell the women that I’m married?
- Essence in Queens – I have a Ring camera with all of the videos of a woman coming to see my neighbor while his wife is at work. His wife told me that she thinks he’s cheating and she asked if I’d seen anything. Am I obligated to tell this woman what I’ve seen?
- Bobby in Ft. Lauderdale – I own a car wash and without knowing, I hired my sister’s baby daddy to work for me. My sister thinks she should get his paychecks because he owes her child support but I can’t legally do that. She stopped speaking to me. My mom said I need to fire him, but he’s my best employee. What should I do?
- Monique in Germantown – My daughter is dating one of my late husband’s friends and he treats her well but he’s too old for her. She stopped hanging with her friends. She goes on double dates with her old man and ladies my age now. The spunkiness being zapped out of her. She’s only 32 years old. Is it out of my hands?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
This is from Tyrell and Birmingham. Tyrell writes, my wife
and I ran into a girl I had sex with recently,
and she did not know I'm married. She called me
crying uncontrollably. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah she didn't know it.
Yeah she called me crying uncontrollably. I don't like hurting
women like that, but I do love an occasional hookup. Okay,
(00:28):
is it best to tell the women that I'm married?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
I don't listen to me come on so much. I
want you all to see the world that we live in.
You don't repeatedly the same thing. I'm here, these letters
and texts that we get, calls that are more and
more bizarre, but they are sounding more and more normalized.
(00:57):
It's like, hey, man, I had such this girl and
I ran up into it and yes with my wife,
and then she called me crying uncontrollably.
Speaker 4 (01:06):
I don't like to hurt women.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Right there yet Yeah, I don't like to hurt women soul,
But you know, how do I like?
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Should I start?
Speaker 3 (01:20):
But while like an occasional hook up, though, telling these
women I'm married. What No, brother, it's not like I
haven't heard of cheating before. Think that I'm trying to
behind mighty, I'm not you. Now, listen, I'm gonna say
(01:45):
something very rare, very rare, so recording.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
What're you about to say?
Speaker 3 (01:50):
You have to start telling these women you are married.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Yeah, give him the option. Please give him the option.
I love it.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Yes, And it is the same truth that you are
telling your wife.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
What is he what's that truth?
Speaker 4 (02:12):
If I am married? I am married. That's the truth.
That's the truth.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Yeah, the option, yeah, yeah, all.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
Right, No, this is not giving them the option.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
This is.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
This is the one of the rare moments that I
recommend your truth. But I also would like to tell
you this right here that your end is very near.
All right. I don't know what circle you rolling in,
(02:51):
but you running up into him with your wife, boy,
or the.
Speaker 4 (02:56):
End is coming near.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Judgment though, no judgment, all right. Moving on to essence
and queens essence rights. I have a ring camera with
all of the videos of a woman coming to see
my neighbor while his wife is at work. His wife
told me that she thinks he's cheating, and she asked
if i'd seen anything. Am I obligated to tell this
woman what I've seen?
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Wow? Now is this a man that wrote this letter?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
No, this is essence out of Queens, straight out of it.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Okay, she's got a phone, a ring camera on the
thing on her door. The man is coming to see her.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
No, no, no, he's coming to No the woman, a
woman is coming to see her next door neighbor, which
is a man, right, a marriage man.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
Right?
Speaker 3 (03:48):
So how does this woman have the footage?
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Because she's got a ring camera, you can.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
See all she can see across the street or something
like that, across across the security gate.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
He doesn't have a ring camera.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Guy. Matter of fact, I don't even have a dope
veil right, you got people, you have a security guard.
This is no way, it is no way you at
the dope.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Do you know how much security we have to go
through to get to your house?
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Ain't nobody say I dropped by. I'll no way at
the door. I'm at the dope.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
So, to put it in perspective, Steve her Ring, camera
shows everything around you know that's coming toward her, so
she can see all.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Well, did the lady asked her?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (04:47):
The lady did. The lady said she thinks her husband
is cheating, and she asked her point blank, has she
seen anything? So that's why the woman is asking you, Celo.
Is she obligated to tell her?
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Think you should tell her the truth? I haven't No, listen,
listen to me. I haven't seen anything.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Oh oh oh that's true. That's your truth.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
She didn't ask you what your camera saw.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Ohe but leaving details committing.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
Because you're gonna get in some business and you're gonna
get drugg in it.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Yeah, so just tell them.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
You're gonna be in caught. I'm just telling you right now.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
As a character witness.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
All right, Yeah, we got got two stupid husbands so far.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
What's yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Moving on to Bobby, Come on now, Bobby and Fort Lauderdale.
He says, I own I own a car wash, and
without knowing, I hired my sister's baby daddy to work
for me. My sisters thinks she should get his paychecks
because he owes her child support, but I can't legally
do that. She stops speaking to me. My mom's that
I need to fire him, but he's my best employee.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
What should I do?
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Ladies, ladies, ladies that don't make no sense.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
This man legally cannot take this man's money and send
it to you. He'll get in trouble. Yeah, if you
fire him, he won't have no money. Y'all got to
stop letting this emotion get in the way. Why don't
you now go to child support and say I can
to you he's working.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Yeah, file yes, fi yeah, and you can't.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
But Bobby and Fort Lauderdale is upset because his sister
is not speaking to him.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
That's because his sister got the emotion. And listen to me.
You know all your sister no child support. But you
can't fire your best worker.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Yeah, but the mom is in it too, saying he
should fire him.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
The baby dad.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
Is because it's too y'all. Emotional is double emotion, he's
too y'all.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Yeah, all right.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Now the logic, kids, I got a great employee here.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Yeah, we're making money, all right. Last one, Steve, This
is from Monique in Germantown. Monique says, my daughter is
dating one of my late husband's friends, and he treats
her well, but he's too old for her. She stopped
hanging with her friends. She goes on double dates. With
her old man and ladies. My age now, the spuckiness
being zapped out of her. She's only thirty two years old,
(07:31):
Is it out of my hand?
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Yeah? But you can talk to her about it at
Bengo night all. Catch her down at the tavern, all right,
at the tavern.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.
It is time to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
This is from Tyrell and Birmingham. Tyrell writes, my wife
and I ran into a girl I had sex with recently,
and she did not know I'm married. She called me
crying uncontrollably. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah she didn't know it.
Yeah she called me crying uncontrollably. I don't like hurting
women like that, but I do love an occasional hookup. Okay,
(00:28):
is it best to tell the women that I'm married?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
I don't listen to me come on so much. I
want you all to see the world that we live in.
You don't repeatedly the same thing. I'm here, these letters
and texts that we get, calls that are more and
more bizarre, but they are sounding more and more normalized.
(00:57):
It's like, hey, man, I had such this girl and
I ran up into it and yes with my wife,
and then she called me crying uncontrollably.
Speaker 4 (01:06):
I don't like to hurt women.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Right there yet Yeah, I don't like to hurt women soul,
But you know, how do I like?
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Should I start?
Speaker 3 (01:20):
But while like an occasional hook up, though, telling these
women I'm married. What No, brother, it's not like I
haven't heard of cheating before. Think that I'm trying to
behind mighty, I'm not you. Now, listen, I'm gonna say
(01:45):
something very rare, very rare, so recording.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
What're you about to say?
Speaker 3 (01:50):
You have to start telling these women you are married.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Yeah, give him the option. Please give him the option.
I love it.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Yes, And it is the same truth that you are
telling your wife.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
What is he what's that truth?
Speaker 4 (02:12):
If I am married? I am married. That's the truth.
That's the truth.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Yeah, the option, yeah, yeah, all.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
Right, No, this is not giving them the option.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
This is.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
This is the one of the rare moments that I
recommend your truth. But I also would like to tell
you this right here that your end is very near.
All right. I don't know what circle you rolling in,
(02:51):
but you running up into him with your wife, boy,
or the.
Speaker 4 (02:56):
End is coming near.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Judgment though, no judgment, all right. Moving on to essence
and queens essence rights. I have a ring camera with
all of the videos of a woman coming to see
my neighbor while his wife is at work. His wife
told me that she thinks he's cheating, and she asked
if i'd seen anything. Am I obligated to tell this
woman what I've seen?
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Wow? Now is this a man that wrote this letter?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
No, this is essence out of Queens, straight out of it.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Okay, she's got a phone, a ring camera on the
thing on her door. The man is coming to see her.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
No, no, no, he's coming to No the woman, a
woman is coming to see her next door neighbor, which
is a man, right, a marriage man.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
Right?
Speaker 3 (03:48):
So how does this woman have the footage?
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Because she's got a ring camera, you can.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
See all she can see across the street or something
like that, across across the security gate.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
He doesn't have a ring camera.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Guy. Matter of fact, I don't even have a dope
veil right, you got people, you have a security guard.
This is no way, it is no way you at
the dope.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Do you know how much security we have to go
through to get to your house?
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Ain't nobody say I dropped by. I'll no way at
the door. I'm at the dope.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
So, to put it in perspective, Steve her Ring, camera
shows everything around you know that's coming toward her, so
she can see all.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Well, did the lady asked her?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (04:47):
The lady did. The lady said she thinks her husband
is cheating, and she asked her point blank, has she
seen anything? So that's why the woman is asking you, Celo.
Is she obligated to tell her?
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Think you should tell her the truth? I haven't No, listen,
listen to me. I haven't seen anything.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Oh oh oh that's true. That's your truth.
Speaker 4 (05:13):
She didn't ask you what your camera saw.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Ohe but leaving details committing.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
Because you're gonna get in some business and you're gonna
get drugg in it.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Yeah, so just tell them.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
You're gonna be in caught. I'm just telling you right now.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
As a character witness.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
All right, Yeah, we got got two stupid husbands so far.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
What's yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Moving on to Bobby, Come on now, Bobby and Fort Lauderdale.
He says, I own I own a car wash, and
without knowing, I hired my sister's baby daddy to work
for me. My sisters thinks she should get his paychecks
because he owes her child support, but I can't legally
do that. She stops speaking to me. My mom's that
I need to fire him, but he's my best employee.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
What should I do?
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Ladies, ladies, ladies that don't make no sense.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
This man legally cannot take this man's money and send
it to you. He'll get in trouble. Yeah, if you
fire him, he won't have no money. Y'all got to
stop letting this emotion get in the way. Why don't
you now go to child support and say I can
to you he's working.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Yeah, file yes, fi yeah, and you can't.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
But Bobby and Fort Lauderdale is upset because his sister
is not speaking to him.
Speaker 4 (06:39):
That's because his sister got the emotion. And listen to me.
You know all your sister no child support. But you
can't fire your best worker.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Yeah, but the mom is in it too, saying he
should fire him.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
The baby dad.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
Is because it's too y'all. Emotional is double emotion, he's
too y'all.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Yeah, all right.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Now the logic, kids, I got a great employee here.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Yeah, we're making money, all right. Last one, Steve, This
is from Monique in Germantown. Monique says, my daughter is
dating one of my late husband's friends, and he treats
her well, but he's too old for her. She stopped
hanging with her friends. She goes on double dates. With
her old man and ladies. My age now, the spuckiness
being zapped out of her. She's only thirty two years old,
(07:31):
Is it out of my hand?
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Yeah? But you can talk to her about it at
Bengo night all. Catch her down at the tavern, all right,
at the tavern.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
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