April 21, 2025 • 8 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Now it's time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer,
Steve Harvey. This is from Candace in Tacoma. Candace Rights,
I'm getting liposuction in May. That's next month. My husband
is against it because he will have to take care
of the kids while I'm recovering. He said, I am selfish.
Should that affect my decision?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Obviously not. You're gonna do it. You got it schedule
for May.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
You'll probably pay yeah for this. The reason he's calling
yourself is just cause it a cost and he got
to take care of the kids while you're recovered. Yeah,
maybe you got small kids. This is getting the Miami makeover.
It's all right, you be honest. I'm gonna tell you
what right now. Don't go to Miami to get it done.
(00:45):
I'm doing right now.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Why said that? Because it ain't going good down there.
They ain't got a.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Good track record. Lord and ladies just out here messing
with this stuff right here. Get you a license practitioner.
Don't try to save money on that to certified. Lord, certified,
come with recommendations. Do not go down there in these
hotel rooms and go down there to these clinics in
Miami that's just meet Marcus doing eight operations in date.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
It's not safe, ladies. Just be careful. That's right, It's
not worth it.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Yeah, all right, well thank you for that, CLO. Moving
on to harmony and Cedar Hill Harmony rights. Have broke
up with my boyfriend because he got a call in
the middle of the night and left. He said he
would not have answered it unless it was an emergency.
But he won't tell me who who it was and
why he left. Looks like he's cheating.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
Am I wrong?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Well, well he won't.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Tell you who it is. I don't see why he won't. Yeah,
see that's the problem. And if I'm gonna get up
and leave you in the middle of the night, it's
my mama, That's who I'm going This is my is
my mama? Or is my brother? If I ain't got
no brother, he is my best friend who is my brother?
(02:10):
But see, I don't get these young guys. You've had
plenty of time to come up with why.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
You left with a good lie to say that.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
No, you come up with the why you left, why
you won't that's say that is beyond me. If you
give them nothing, that's where the guilt factor comes in.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
Give them something, So give them just because you give
them the truth. So you're saying, give them something, that's
the truth. Why you offended the truth? Wait a minute,
my pardner, call me the truth.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
I won't tell him the truth.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
That just don't sound like it.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
And that is the point you must be.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Okay, Now, listen to me.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
If he won't tell you, and you say you're gonna
break up, if he won't tell you, and he still
won't tell you, that's cause he don't care.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
Yeah, break up next, he loved the other one more dog?
Speaker 3 (03:14):
You tripping at this point, he not gonna tell you,
and you're telling him you're gonna break up if he
don't tell you, and he ain't gonna tell you. He
don't even come up with a lie, or you don't care.
You'll call you if you can.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
If he cared, he would lie.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Lady, Yes, all right. Moving on to Morris and Kalama
zoo h. Morris writes, my wife started using profanity and
she's been calling me out of my name when.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
She gets upset.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
I'm sick of her talking under her breath around me too.
What has gotten into my wife? We've been married four years?
How do I stop it right now.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Well, you gotta sit down there. You can't stop it.
You gotta ask him, just gotta say, baby, listen to me.
Let's sit out and talk. It's really affected me, the
fact that you started using profanity.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
But just it just don't seem like it's you. It
just don't seem Yeah, but it don't seem like it's you.
And it's like.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
And then she talks under her breath, see I have.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
You got to talk with her? And then she don't change.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
Then what she don't care? But what happened?
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Where is all of a sudden she just started using
profanity out of the blue.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
She is up?
Speaker 4 (04:43):
Yeah, she up that badly.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
I mean it's been building up. I'm edible, she's been.
That's what you got out of that.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
That is your thank goodness, you're not feng. She's just mad.
I'm married, That's what she's saying under her bread.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
He's sick of that too, But he's acting innocently like
what has gotten into my wife?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
He is, We don't know, so some has gotten into it,
but y'all how to put it? Then? Oh that's why
you got to talk? Oh gotcha? Okay? All right?
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Last one Steve. This is Asia in Brooklyn. Asia says,
I had dinner with a close friend and she asked
how my boyfriend is doing. It made me wonder why
she asked me that he's cheated before, so is he
cheating again? And she knows something? I'm paranoid? Should I
ask her if she knows anything?
Speaker 3 (05:45):
Well, she asked you, how was he doing? Then your
response should have been I think he's doing fine. Do
you know something different? Since y'all close friend, Well, since
you asked, let's get to the bottom of this, here we.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Go, you know? Or is it just you paranoid? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Well, she said, she just asked about it, so you know,
So how you and your boyfriend doing? I know y'all
was messed up before, y'all good? Now it could be
just genuine concerned.
Speaker 4 (06:16):
That's that's normal.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
Yeah, they asked about question.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Now she say, hey, girl, how you doing? Do you
know what Chester is? Right now? Okay?
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Who's named Chester?
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (06:38):
So so should she ask if she knows anything?
Speaker 4 (06:42):
You're saying?
Speaker 2 (06:45):
I just I mean, and I just tell you.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
Yeah you did, so what's I know what you meant?
Speaker 3 (06:55):
And I'm saying a lot of this for that dude
that wrote in that time to me, I gotta do better.
Speaker 4 (07:02):
With your grammar.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
And I need to do words. And I'm not I'm
here for entertainment. I'm not here to teach grandma. That's
not what this show is about. Hey, you need to
cut on a public radio station if you want good Grandma.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Listen to some politicians.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Why are you bringing up old stuff?
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Sure bothering him? Let them go? Who talking about? Let
something go? And Shirley, what are you talking about? Because
you don't let nothing?
Speaker 3 (07:37):
Got looks yourself?
Speaker 2 (07:41):
You come here, you warning, bushy glasses and everything.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
You just.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Bullish you all the time. Shouty Jesse, all that.
Speaker 4 (07:59):
Lips. You're listening to the stream. Harvey Morning Show
Now it's time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer,
Steve Harvey. This is from Candace in Tacoma. Candace Rights,
I'm getting liposuction in May. That's next month. My husband
is against it because he will have to take care
of the kids while I'm recovering. He said, I am selfish.
Should that affect my decision?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Obviously not. You're gonna do it. You got it schedule
for May.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
You'll probably pay yeah for this. The reason he's calling
yourself is just cause it a cost and he got
to take care of the kids while you're recovered. Yeah,
maybe you got small kids. This is getting the Miami makeover.
It's all right, you be honest. I'm gonna tell you
what right now. Don't go to Miami to get it done.
(00:45):
I'm doing right now.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Why said that? Because it ain't going good down there.
They ain't got a.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Good track record. Lord and ladies just out here messing
with this stuff right here. Get you a license practitioner.
Don't try to save money on that to certified. Lord, certified,
come with recommendations. Do not go down there in these
hotel rooms and go down there to these clinics in
Miami that's just meet Marcus doing eight operations in date.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
It's not safe, ladies. Just be careful. That's right, It's
not worth it.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Yeah, all right, well thank you for that, CLO. Moving
on to harmony and Cedar Hill Harmony rights. Have broke
up with my boyfriend because he got a call in
the middle of the night and left. He said he
would not have answered it unless it was an emergency.
But he won't tell me who who it was and
why he left. Looks like he's cheating.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
Am I wrong?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Well, well he won't.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
Tell you who it is. I don't see why he won't. Yeah,
see that's the problem. And if I'm gonna get up
and leave you in the middle of the night, it's
my mama, That's who I'm going This is my is
my mama? Or is my brother? If I ain't got
no brother, he is my best friend who is my brother?
(02:10):
But see, I don't get these young guys. You've had
plenty of time to come up with why.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
You left with a good lie to say that.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
No, you come up with the why you left, why
you won't that's say that is beyond me. If you
give them nothing, that's where the guilt factor comes in.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
Give them something, So give them just because you give
them the truth. So you're saying, give them something, that's
the truth. Why you offended the truth? Wait a minute,
my pardner, call me the truth.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
I won't tell him the truth.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
That just don't sound like it.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
And that is the point you must be.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Okay, Now, listen to me.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
If he won't tell you, and you say you're gonna
break up, if he won't tell you, and he still
won't tell you, that's cause he don't care.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
Yeah, break up next, he loved the other one more dog?
Speaker 3 (03:14):
You tripping at this point, he not gonna tell you,
and you're telling him you're gonna break up if he
don't tell you, and he ain't gonna tell you. He
don't even come up with a lie, or you don't care.
You'll call you if you can.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
If he cared, he would lie.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Lady, Yes, all right. Moving on to Morris and Kalama
zoo h. Morris writes, my wife started using profanity and
she's been calling me out of my name when.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
She gets upset.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
I'm sick of her talking under her breath around me too.
What has gotten into my wife? We've been married four years?
How do I stop it right now.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Well, you gotta sit down there. You can't stop it.
You gotta ask him, just gotta say, baby, listen to me.
Let's sit out and talk. It's really affected me, the
fact that you started using profanity.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
But just it just don't seem like it's you. It
just don't seem Yeah, but it don't seem like it's you.
And it's like.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
And then she talks under her breath, see I have.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
You got to talk with her? And then she don't change.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
Then what she don't care? But what happened?
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Where is all of a sudden she just started using
profanity out of the blue.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
She is up?
Speaker 4 (04:43):
Yeah, she up that badly.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
I mean it's been building up. I'm edible, she's been.
That's what you got out of that.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
That is your thank goodness, you're not feng. She's just mad.
I'm married, That's what she's saying under her bread.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
He's sick of that too, But he's acting innocently like
what has gotten into my wife?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
He is, We don't know, so some has gotten into it,
but y'all how to put it? Then? Oh that's why
you got to talk? Oh gotcha? Okay? All right?
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Last one Steve. This is Asia in Brooklyn. Asia says,
I had dinner with a close friend and she asked
how my boyfriend is doing. It made me wonder why
she asked me that he's cheated before, so is he
cheating again? And she knows something? I'm paranoid? Should I
ask her if she knows anything?
Speaker 3 (05:45):
Well, she asked you, how was he doing? Then your
response should have been I think he's doing fine. Do
you know something different? Since y'all close friend, Well, since
you asked, let's get to the bottom of this, here we.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Go, you know? Or is it just you paranoid? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Well, she said, she just asked about it, so you know,
So how you and your boyfriend doing? I know y'all
was messed up before, y'all good? Now it could be
just genuine concerned.
Speaker 4 (06:16):
That's that's normal.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
Yeah, they asked about question.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Now she say, hey, girl, how you doing? Do you
know what Chester is? Right now? Okay?
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Who's named Chester?
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (06:38):
So so should she ask if she knows anything?
Speaker 4 (06:42):
You're saying?
Speaker 2 (06:45):
I just I mean, and I just tell you.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
Yeah you did, so what's I know what you meant?
Speaker 3 (06:55):
And I'm saying a lot of this for that dude
that wrote in that time to me, I gotta do better.
Speaker 4 (07:02):
With your grammar.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
And I need to do words. And I'm not I'm
here for entertainment. I'm not here to teach grandma. That's
not what this show is about. Hey, you need to
cut on a public radio station if you want good Grandma.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Listen to some politicians.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Why are you bringing up old stuff?
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Sure bothering him? Let them go? Who talking about? Let
something go? And Shirley, what are you talking about? Because
you don't let nothing?
Speaker 3 (07:37):
Got looks yourself?
Speaker 2 (07:41):
You come here, you warning, bushy glasses and everything.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
You just.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Bullish you all the time. Shouty Jesse, all that.
Speaker 4 (07:59):
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