April 29, 2025 • 8 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the COLO, our chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. All right, this is from Shelley and Ridgeland.
Shelley writes, my son is a ladies man, and I
have had too many young ladies tell me that he
ghosts them after sex. I've told him to stop bringing
them to meet me because it gives the wrong impression.
He's a junior in college now, so is he too
(00:22):
far gone?
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Yeah, he out there right now. But the lesson is coming.
The lesson is coming.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
See. He uses them to bring them to meet you.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
That's one of his ploys to get them hooked a
little bit deeper.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Then he ghost them.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
It's a really stupid technique that your seun is applying
here because it's going to backfire.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
So it's nothing you can tell him, but the life.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Gonna teach it to him because women are not not dumb,
and somebody gonna flip the script on homeboy. So that
not coming to meet you. He bring him to meet
you so he can get them hooked in tighter. Then
he ghost them.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Okay, all right, little boomerang with Eddie he was all about, yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
All right, yeah, let's see how long this's work.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Thank you, Coelo. Coming up next is Irma in Indianapolis.
Irma says, Colo, you've been married for too long and
you're out of the loop on what's going on. I'm
your age and I have multiple sexual partners and enjoy
dating and having choices. Is it wrong to date multiple
(01:35):
people because you can't do it anymore?
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Because you.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Yeah, I mean, hey, lady, you can do what you
want to do, knock yourself out. But I'm gonna tell
you something right now. Though I don't know, a whole
lot of people buy and use tires expound.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
What does that mean?
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Please?
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Well, you can keep letting everybody drive you if you
want to. Point in time, you gonna want to get bought,
and I don't know a lot of people buying.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
You's tired, so you can go.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I can be old fashioned of what I'm gonna do,
and I'm just a little bit more traditional.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
But it's not gonna work out for you, ma'am. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
In the words of Slick Hobby my daddy, you can't
do what I do and still be a lady.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
So go ahead.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
You can date all the men, you won't have all
the choices you want. You can knock yourself out. Make
that your choice. But when you get tired of it
and you ready to settle down, and you will, and
you gonna want somebody to take care of you.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Hardly get somebody to take care of you that was
only there to do you.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Oh she's your age, Steve, you do know that, right.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Irma, Well, you know you don't care. First of all,
very few people get married anymore, name Irma.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
It's just I'm getting it in.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
She's like, you're judging her, Steve's I.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Ain't judging her. She judged me, she told me, she
wrote me. I didn't write.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
I don't even know her. She could have just been
living her best life. But you're gonna write to see
her Lord and tell me I'm out of touch and
all that.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
I'm gonna just be out of touch, yeah, she says she.
But in a minute, you're gonna get tired of getting touched.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Well, okay, okay, run, I guess you all will agree
to disagree on this one, all right. Moving on to
Arisha in Miami, Risha writes, I'm thirty six years old
and I have six children. I had two kids before marriage,
and my late husband and I had four more. It
(03:40):
has been two years since he died, and I would
like to remarry one day. Should I tell a man
that I have six kids upfront or wait a while?
Speaker 3 (03:50):
Either way, it's gonna be shocking. What day you tell
him that you you can tell it to him on
the first day, or you can tell him after the
first time. Y'all entered it, By the way, tell them
before they ddom.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
I hope you. I hope you enjoyed it. Yeah, how
would you say that? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:15):
You know, I hope you enjured. Was it good for
you? You know? I got six babies.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Just segue right on into it after that.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
And they're young too, because she's thirty six.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Yeah, she's thirty six.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Yeah, oldest one probably eighteen. It's cool, you know, I mean,
you know it can happen. People find love anybody. I
don't want to be discouraging to you. But when you
tell them really ain't important. How they gonna handle their news.
Surely it don't matter when you tell them is how
(04:49):
they gonna handle the news.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
They gonna sound just like Kevin Hard when he was
with Don Cheelah.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
I'm sorry. That is classic, isn't it. All right, So
I like that, So Cilo, you're saying it doesn't matter
when she tells them. Okay, no, its okay, all right,
moving on, last one, last one, Steve. This is from
Fleming in Bethesda. Fleming writes, my wife thinks she won't
(05:25):
have to work after our baby is born. I told
her that's impossible because childcare is expensive. She said, She's
asked her family to help us, and it's all figured out.
What can I do to keep her from quitting her
good job? That's what the husband wants to know. Fleming can't.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
I can't help you, brother, I can't help you. I
can't help you. I have my advice. I mean, well,
I have no advice for you. I don't know how
to get a woman to quit her job after she
done had a baby. I've never had a baby. It
looks pretty, looks pretty taxing to me. It looks like
looks pretty grueling to me. So keep working, Get on
(06:04):
back out there, get on your job. You ain't did
nothing but had a baby. I don't really know how
you're gonna breach this sabject, but she wants to stay
home and be a.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
House Yeah more dog, you could just could what just
going to be the provider that you signed up to be.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
There's that, But he's saying it's impossible because childcare is
so expensive. He is thinking about the money for sure.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Well, he said it's impossible, and it's not impossible. People
do it all the time. There are people doing it
on one household incomes all over the world. It is doable.
I admit it's expensive. Yeah, you're saying it's impossible. Uh,
you know, you went into this think marriage thinking it
(06:58):
was too equal endeavor to household income. And now she
don't want to go back to work. She wants to
take care of the baby. So it's about priority. So
good luck, man, I got nothing for you.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
I mean, I don't know. I'm the one work in
my house. I don't know what to tell you.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
I don't know how to get nobody to go get
a job. Tell me the only one work in his house.
I don't know how to you can't. I don't know
how to do the job.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
I'm going to become a uber broup. My wife was
trying to retire and we just got a dog. So
what she don't want to baby. You're just saying, yeah,
you're going to become an uber dron. Yeah, that got
people know the job. I gotta be back.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
You can't have that heat on on hot and people
with you.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
You're listening hard morning show
It is time to ask the COLO, our chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. All right, this is from Shelley and Ridgeland.
Shelley writes, my son is a ladies man, and I
have had too many young ladies tell me that he
ghosts them after sex. I've told him to stop bringing
them to meet me because it gives the wrong impression.
He's a junior in college now, so is he too
(00:22):
far gone?
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:24):
Yeah, he out there right now. But the lesson is coming.
The lesson is coming.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
See. He uses them to bring them to meet you.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
That's one of his ploys to get them hooked a
little bit deeper.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Then he ghost them.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
It's a really stupid technique that your seun is applying
here because it's going to backfire.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
So it's nothing you can tell him, but the life.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Gonna teach it to him because women are not not dumb,
and somebody gonna flip the script on homeboy. So that
not coming to meet you. He bring him to meet
you so he can get them hooked in tighter. Then
he ghost them.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Okay, all right, little boomerang with Eddie he was all about, yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
All right, yeah, let's see how long this's work.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
Thank you, Coelo. Coming up next is Irma in Indianapolis.
Irma says, Colo, you've been married for too long and
you're out of the loop on what's going on. I'm
your age and I have multiple sexual partners and enjoy
dating and having choices. Is it wrong to date multiple
(01:35):
people because you can't do it anymore?
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Because you.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Yeah, I mean, hey, lady, you can do what you
want to do, knock yourself out. But I'm gonna tell
you something right now. Though I don't know, a whole
lot of people buy and use tires expound.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
What does that mean?
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Please?
Speaker 3 (01:56):
Well, you can keep letting everybody drive you if you
want to. Point in time, you gonna want to get bought,
and I don't know a lot of people buying.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
You's tired, so you can go.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I can be old fashioned of what I'm gonna do,
and I'm just a little bit more traditional.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
But it's not gonna work out for you, ma'am. I'm sorry.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
In the words of Slick Hobby my daddy, you can't
do what I do and still be a lady.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
So go ahead.
Speaker 3 (02:18):
You can date all the men, you won't have all
the choices you want. You can knock yourself out. Make
that your choice. But when you get tired of it
and you ready to settle down, and you will, and
you gonna want somebody to take care of you.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Hardly get somebody to take care of you that was
only there to do you.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Oh she's your age, Steve, you do know that, right.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Irma, Well, you know you don't care. First of all,
very few people get married anymore, name Irma.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
It's just I'm getting it in.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
She's like, you're judging her, Steve's I.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Ain't judging her. She judged me, she told me, she
wrote me. I didn't write.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
I don't even know her. She could have just been
living her best life. But you're gonna write to see
her Lord and tell me I'm out of touch and
all that.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
I'm gonna just be out of touch, yeah, she says she.
But in a minute, you're gonna get tired of getting touched.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Well, okay, okay, run, I guess you all will agree
to disagree on this one, all right. Moving on to
Arisha in Miami, Risha writes, I'm thirty six years old
and I have six children. I had two kids before marriage,
and my late husband and I had four more. It
(03:40):
has been two years since he died, and I would
like to remarry one day. Should I tell a man
that I have six kids upfront or wait a while?
Speaker 3 (03:50):
Either way, it's gonna be shocking. What day you tell
him that you you can tell it to him on
the first day, or you can tell him after the
first time. Y'all entered it, By the way, tell them
before they ddom.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
I hope you. I hope you enjoyed it. Yeah, how
would you say that? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:15):
You know, I hope you enjured. Was it good for
you? You know? I got six babies.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Just segue right on into it after that.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
And they're young too, because she's thirty six.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Yeah, she's thirty six.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Yeah, oldest one probably eighteen. It's cool, you know, I mean,
you know it can happen. People find love anybody. I
don't want to be discouraging to you. But when you
tell them really ain't important. How they gonna handle their news.
Surely it don't matter when you tell them is how
(04:49):
they gonna handle the news.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
They gonna sound just like Kevin Hard when he was
with Don Cheelah.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
I'm sorry. That is classic, isn't it. All right, So
I like that, So Cilo, you're saying it doesn't matter
when she tells them. Okay, no, its okay, all right,
moving on, last one, last one, Steve. This is from
Fleming in Bethesda. Fleming writes, my wife thinks she won't
(05:25):
have to work after our baby is born. I told
her that's impossible because childcare is expensive. She said, She's
asked her family to help us, and it's all figured out.
What can I do to keep her from quitting her
good job? That's what the husband wants to know. Fleming can't.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
I can't help you, brother, I can't help you. I
can't help you. I have my advice. I mean, well,
I have no advice for you. I don't know how
to get a woman to quit her job after she
done had a baby. I've never had a baby. It
looks pretty, looks pretty taxing to me. It looks like
looks pretty grueling to me. So keep working, Get on
(06:04):
back out there, get on your job. You ain't did
nothing but had a baby. I don't really know how
you're gonna breach this sabject, but she wants to stay
home and be a.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
House Yeah more dog, you could just could what just
going to be the provider that you signed up to be.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
There's that, But he's saying it's impossible because childcare is
so expensive. He is thinking about the money for sure.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Well, he said it's impossible, and it's not impossible. People
do it all the time. There are people doing it
on one household incomes all over the world. It is doable.
I admit it's expensive. Yeah, you're saying it's impossible. Uh,
you know, you went into this think marriage thinking it
(06:58):
was too equal endeavor to household income. And now she
don't want to go back to work. She wants to
take care of the baby. So it's about priority. So
good luck, man, I got nothing for you.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
I mean, I don't know. I'm the one work in
my house. I don't know what to tell you.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
I don't know how to get nobody to go get
a job. Tell me the only one work in his house.
I don't know how to you can't. I don't know
how to do the job.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
I'm going to become a uber broup. My wife was
trying to retire and we just got a dog. So
what she don't want to baby. You're just saying, yeah,
you're going to become an uber dron. Yeah, that got
people know the job. I gotta be back.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
You can't have that heat on on hot and people
with you.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
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