May 2, 2025 • 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the COLO, our chief love Officer,
Steve Harvey in the building right now. This is from
Tia in Youngstown. Tia writes, I went to a work
conference and the food at the hotel was bad, so
I ordered two bottles of wine, some wings, and a
big cheese tray. My husband flew in the next day,
(00:20):
and he assumed I had company the day before. Should
I entertain his foolishness?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
I mean you got to say something.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Yeah, why would you leave your husband thinking that you
had you had company and you didn't. Why don't you
just tell him what really happened? Should I entertain his foolishness?
I'll tell you what. Let's just reverse that. You fly
in to see your husband and he got cheese, trade,
two bottles of wine.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
There's some chicken wing yummy.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Okay, you would have them do one to you. I
would take some time to explain it to this man.
It looks two bottles of wine.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Yeah, just first comfort level.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
You're right, A big cheese tray.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Uh huh. She does what she said, A big cheese tray.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Okay, hooter, all right, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Moving on to Aaron in Shreveport. Aaron says, my wife
and I went to a party and she was smiling
all up in another man's face. I made it a
point to introduce myself to him, and I told him
that Pam is my wife. He said he didn't know
a Pam. Was he trying to throw me off? What
is Pam up to?
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Come on, Pam, bruh? How you how you asking me?
I know what Pam up to? The dude told you
he don't know no Pam.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Yeah, but he ain't your problem though, right Pam? Yeah,
talk to Pam because he don't know Pam. But obviously
Pam know him. You need to talk to Pam. She
wasn't running up on these dudes for he said, he's
not married to your wife?
Speaker 2 (02:06):
You are? You and your wife took the vials? He
ain't took no vows.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
So what is Bam up to? What do you think?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
I don't know what Pam up to? But she grinted
in this man's face and he the road.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
He can Yeah, yeah, just like you just I don't
know who he is.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
But I think that you do the situation that garment.
Who is he and what is he to you?
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Pam?
Speaker 2 (02:43):
A man we passed has tried to still be down
and when how I.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Looked at you, you looked at at the ground.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Yeah, I got a song?
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Fair all right, We're gonna move on now to Vanessa
and Heart. Vanessa writes, I'm dating a guy that's engaged,
but he said he's not going to get married. I
feel bad for this dance because she doesn't know. On Facebook,
it's all she talks about. I told him he's being
(03:21):
cruel by waiting to break it off. What's taking him
so long?
Speaker 3 (03:26):
Wow? You you the one? You can you know? Are
you stupid? Peter gave you the information to keep you
playing along?
Speaker 2 (03:37):
He gonna marry that girl tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Peter told you he ain't getting married. He just ain't
getting married right now? Why while he giveing it to you?
But he gonna marry that girl.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
But she feels badly for the fiance though.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
You're stupid.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Oh wow, you're dating a man who's given you just
the information you need to keep giving him what he
needs and won't And now it's gonna be over for you.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
They gonna get married.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Yeah, she's waiting for him to break it off with
the fiancee.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
That's what she's little.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Little girl, Little girl, you would be the fiance if
this was going.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Somehow, Okay, all right, I like that again. Say that again,
Say that again.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Make sure I just forgot if you was the one,
you would be the fiance. You're not the one. She's
the fiance. She's getting married. And I didn't know you
could keep telling people that kind of stuff.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Yeah, yeah, I think too. With young girls, a young woman,
sometimes they just don't know.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
You don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
May be awake up, call you know.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
This guy has given you the piece of information you
need that will keep you on the hook.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
That's it. He'd have done.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Everything, first of all the mass So anyway, has he
broke up with the fiance?
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Is that on face?
Speaker 3 (05:08):
Because since she posted everything about the wedding when she pays,
he's getting hesitant. He cold feet, ain't heard none of that.
You don't want to think and he got cold feet,
and he don't you know why you don't have cold feet,
because you're keeping them warm to you, keeping them warm
into the wedding.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
You're gonna get the cold shoulder.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
And then he gonna say he had to because he
felt pressured, but he always wanted you, and he regrets
the decision, and then that may be enough to make
you stay on board as the mistress promote you.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Oh wow, so even beyond the ment wow?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Okay, way, yes, it's levels to this.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Yeah, I hear all.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Right, lest one and last one, Felo. This is from
Dewanda and Charleston. Dewanda writes, I got a text from
an old friend and she asked me to borrow some money.
She is having a financial crisis, but she didn't give
any details. She opened up to our other friend who
told me, should I tell her to go ask that
girl for the money?
Speaker 2 (06:20):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
I mean, you know, I don't know. What does she
do it make if she told you what it was for?
She just says she having a financial crisis. She tells
certain people certain things.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
But when you're lending money, don't you want to know
or you don't have to know you're saying what it's for.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
Look, if you don't want to help the lady, Dan
tell her you can't do it. What are you looking
for a reason not to give it to her or
reason to help her? And if you look for a
reason not to give it to it, then your reason
is she told your other friend what it was about it?
She never told you? Okay, so now, don't give it
to her. You really don't want to give her the money.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
It doesn't sound like it. So go ahead.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
If if we ask you for some money, do we
have to tell you what it's for?
Speaker 2 (07:12):
No, we don't. No, he's just gonna say no.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Don't you see that, He's just gonna say no.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
I'm in a hole. I need five thousand dollars.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
If you want to crist the situation and you asked
me for help, I would help anybody on this show.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
You see it's so sweet.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
I need five grand
Speaker 1 (07:37):
Listener on the show, you're listening hard Morning Show
It is time to ask the COLO, our chief love Officer,
Steve Harvey in the building right now. This is from
Tia in Youngstown. Tia writes, I went to a work
conference and the food at the hotel was bad, so
I ordered two bottles of wine, some wings, and a
big cheese tray. My husband flew in the next day,
(00:20):
and he assumed I had company the day before. Should
I entertain his foolishness?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
I mean you got to say something.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Yeah, why would you leave your husband thinking that you
had you had company and you didn't. Why don't you
just tell him what really happened? Should I entertain his foolishness?
I'll tell you what. Let's just reverse that. You fly
in to see your husband and he got cheese, trade,
two bottles of wine.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
There's some chicken wing yummy.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Okay, you would have them do one to you. I
would take some time to explain it to this man.
It looks two bottles of wine.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Yeah, just first comfort level.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
You're right, A big cheese tray.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Uh huh. She does what she said, A big cheese tray.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Okay, hooter, all right, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Moving on to Aaron in Shreveport. Aaron says, my wife
and I went to a party and she was smiling
all up in another man's face. I made it a
point to introduce myself to him, and I told him
that Pam is my wife. He said he didn't know
a Pam. Was he trying to throw me off? What
is Pam up to?
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Come on, Pam, bruh? How you how you asking me?
I know what Pam up to? The dude told you
he don't know no Pam.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Yeah, but he ain't your problem though, right Pam? Yeah,
talk to Pam because he don't know Pam. But obviously
Pam know him. You need to talk to Pam. She
wasn't running up on these dudes for he said, he's
not married to your wife?
Speaker 2 (02:06):
You are? You and your wife took the vials? He
ain't took no vows.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
So what is Bam up to? What do you think?
Speaker 3 (02:15):
I don't know what Pam up to? But she grinted
in this man's face and he the road.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
He can Yeah, yeah, just like you just I don't
know who he is.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
But I think that you do the situation that garment.
Who is he and what is he to you?
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Pam?
Speaker 2 (02:43):
A man we passed has tried to still be down
and when how I.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Looked at you, you looked at at the ground.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Yeah, I got a song?
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Fair all right, We're gonna move on now to Vanessa
and Heart. Vanessa writes, I'm dating a guy that's engaged,
but he said he's not going to get married. I
feel bad for this dance because she doesn't know. On Facebook,
it's all she talks about. I told him he's being
(03:21):
cruel by waiting to break it off. What's taking him
so long?
Speaker 3 (03:26):
Wow? You you the one? You can you know? Are
you stupid? Peter gave you the information to keep you
playing along?
Speaker 2 (03:37):
He gonna marry that girl tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Peter told you he ain't getting married. He just ain't
getting married right now? Why while he giveing it to you?
But he gonna marry that girl.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
But she feels badly for the fiance though.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
You're stupid.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Oh wow, you're dating a man who's given you just
the information you need to keep giving him what he
needs and won't And now it's gonna be over for you.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
They gonna get married.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Yeah, she's waiting for him to break it off with
the fiancee.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
That's what she's little.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Little girl, Little girl, you would be the fiance if
this was going.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Somehow, Okay, all right, I like that again. Say that again,
Say that again.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
Make sure I just forgot if you was the one,
you would be the fiance. You're not the one. She's
the fiance. She's getting married. And I didn't know you
could keep telling people that kind of stuff.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Yeah, yeah, I think too. With young girls, a young woman,
sometimes they just don't know.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
You don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
May be awake up, call you know.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
This guy has given you the piece of information you
need that will keep you on the hook.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
That's it. He'd have done.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Everything, first of all the mass So anyway, has he
broke up with the fiance?
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Is that on face?
Speaker 3 (05:08):
Because since she posted everything about the wedding when she pays,
he's getting hesitant. He cold feet, ain't heard none of that.
You don't want to think and he got cold feet,
and he don't you know why you don't have cold feet,
because you're keeping them warm to you, keeping them warm
into the wedding.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
You're gonna get the cold shoulder.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
And then he gonna say he had to because he
felt pressured, but he always wanted you, and he regrets
the decision, and then that may be enough to make
you stay on board as the mistress promote you.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Oh wow, so even beyond the ment wow?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Okay, way, yes, it's levels to this.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Yeah, I hear all.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Right, lest one and last one, Felo. This is from
Dewanda and Charleston. Dewanda writes, I got a text from
an old friend and she asked me to borrow some money.
She is having a financial crisis, but she didn't give
any details. She opened up to our other friend who
told me, should I tell her to go ask that
girl for the money?
Speaker 2 (06:20):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
I mean, you know, I don't know. What does she
do it make if she told you what it was for?
She just says she having a financial crisis. She tells
certain people certain things.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
But when you're lending money, don't you want to know
or you don't have to know you're saying what it's for.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
Look, if you don't want to help the lady, Dan
tell her you can't do it. What are you looking
for a reason not to give it to her or
reason to help her? And if you look for a
reason not to give it to it, then your reason
is she told your other friend what it was about it?
She never told you? Okay, so now, don't give it
to her. You really don't want to give her the money.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
It doesn't sound like it. So go ahead.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
If if we ask you for some money, do we
have to tell you what it's for?
Speaker 2 (07:12):
No, we don't. No, he's just gonna say no.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Don't you see that, He's just gonna say no.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
I'm in a hole. I need five thousand dollars.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
If you want to crist the situation and you asked
me for help, I would help anybody on this show.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
You see it's so sweet.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
I need five grand
Speaker 1 (07:37):
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