May 6, 2025 • 7 mins
Our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey has advice for:
- Chuck in Queens – My neighbor is a single mom of 2 young boys. I saw the boys kicking a ball around in the parking lot so I went to meet them and their mom. I told my girlfriend that the lady seems like she’s a good mom. Why did she get mad at my observation?
- Sharisse in College Park – I’m married to a handsome man that loves to go out on the weekends. I used to trust him but he has been coming home lately and sleeping on the couch. He said he doesn’t want to wake me up. What has caused him to change?
- Donte in Minneapolis – I met a new woman online and I really like her but she’s always on her phone. When we go eat, she’s got to take pictures of our food. She takes selfies with me and photos in my sportscar. I don’t want to be plastered on social media. I’m 60 and so is she. Who is she trying to impress with all of that mess?
- Millicent in Sumpter – I can’t keep my child’s dad from popping up at my house. Last night he came by and was beating on my door because I had my locks changed after he cheated again. How do I break it off for good so we can focus on being good co-parents?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, clo, this is from Chuck and Queen's. Chuck writes,
my neighbor is a single mom of two young boys.
I saw the boys kicking a ball around in the
parking lot, so I went to meet them and their mom.
I told my girlfriend that the lady seems like she's
a good mom. Why does she get mad at my observation? Interesting?
Speaker 2 (00:22):
So what you're over there noticing she a good mom?
Because I'm gonna tell you what the problem was the
single mama? Fine, Now you're stupid behind paid the fine
chick a compliment that was not the compliment you really
(00:43):
wanted to just say. You said, she seems like a
good single mom. What you got to do with the
boys kicking the ball? All boys kickballs? So what you
really in your mind was how you could bring up
this good mother without saying she fun?
Speaker 3 (01:04):
And what is your interest in the single mother?
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Full?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
And since where did you turn into a soccer coach?
All of it?
Speaker 2 (01:15):
See all that, all that's coming out?
Speaker 3 (01:19):
You see your point?
Speaker 4 (01:21):
Yeah, all the way down?
Speaker 3 (01:25):
All right?
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Moving on to Sharisson College Park, Cherise writes, I'm married
to a handsome man that loves to go out on
the weekends. I used to trust him, but he has
been coming home lately and sleeping on the couch. He said,
he doesn't want to wake me up. What has caused
him to change? Well, and somebody loves to go out
(01:47):
on the weekend.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Well you know when you come in late, Yeah, and
you tired. Sometimes you don't want to go up them steps.
Now your question is what is he tired from?
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Huh?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Just ex Yeah, is where he at or what he
doing does not allow him to get the body odor
of another person off him. It could be glitter, it
could be perfume, it could be anything. He is going
(02:27):
to take her half to start taking a change of clothes.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
But if he comes some smelling fresh, that's a dead
giveaway too. But he said, Celosa, change clothes.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Yeah, it's better to come home fresh than perfume.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Me.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Yeah, I can't get the cologne.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
That means he shouted somewhere though.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
Right, yeah, see that's not what's happening.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
And then you know, but if he changes clothes, she's
gonna notice.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Well that's true.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Here's a problem, though, get married and he goes out
on the weekend without you.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
I'm struggling.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
I don't understand Yeah, she used to trust him, but
she doesn't anymore. So I guess she used to trust
him to go out and hang out, you know, have
his own space.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Why he ain't doing nothing with his life?
Speaker 2 (03:21):
That's what the question is, right, Yeah, I mean you're
going out every weekend.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Answer himself going out way. I know other people that
can't go out on weekends too. I just want to
put that out there.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Do you care? Cut help off?
Speaker 2 (03:46):
God man, I know why he's calling because we wasn't
ready for that.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
I was ready for that.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
I know other people who can't go out on the weekend,
Ugly people.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
He said, all right, so there is a change of
behavior that's you always.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Yeah, lady, you have to figure that out. I can't
help you. I don't know why I sleeping on the county.
You know, maybe you'd be over there on his side
of the bed when he come in.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
M Well, he simply said he didn't want to wake her.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
That was his Well, you hate to stay up and
wait for him to get home.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
Or go out?
Speaker 2 (04:25):
How lately is like coming in? It's too much good. Yeah,
that's a lot of freedom in that marriage. I can't
go nowhere when I'm just telling you that. Right, if
I dress to go out, my wife will go. Steve,
where are you going?
Speaker 3 (04:41):
All going out?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
And I ain't ever been out more? Yeah, this is
me or some friends. Steve, you ain't got no friends.
What you're talking about?
Speaker 4 (04:55):
I'm your friend? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Well you you know she's concerned because he's a handsome man. Anyway,
all right, Moving on to Dante in Minneapolis, Dante says,
I met a new woman online and I really like her.
Speaker 4 (05:14):
But she's always.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
On her phone when we go eat, she's got to
take pictures of our food. She takes selfies with me
and photos in my sports car. I don't want to
be plastered on social media. I'm sixty and so is she.
Who is she trying to impress with all of this mess?
Speaker 2 (05:32):
A bunch of old people. There's some old people that
impressed me. Girl, what kind of cars?
Speaker 3 (05:39):
That got a.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
COVID that looks like a racing car?
Speaker 3 (05:46):
You better live your life.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
I sure wish I could meet somebody to take me
out to dinner. Uh huh, Yeah, she got a post.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
She's creating memories. Okay, she's acting.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
He's not acting her age, but you know, yeah, why
do they take pictures of food, though, dog, what is that?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
What are you gonna do with these food? I don't know,
I really oh, I like taking pictures of my wife.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Do that?
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Let me get your picture of your food for you?
But what are you gonna do with it?
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Last one, Steve, This is the last one. This is
from Millicent In Sumter, Milicine writes, I can't keep my
child's dad from popping up at my house. Last night
he came by and was beating on my door because
I had my lots changed after he cheated again. How
do I break it off for good so we can
(06:45):
focus on being.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Good parents, good co parents? What do you think, Steve?
Speaker 3 (06:51):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (06:52):
I mean he's beating on the door. He's mad.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Because you opened the door. Wants before. That's why y'all
got that baby. Now he beating on that door so
he can come in. You know what, He won't what
y'all trying to focus on being good parents? He trying
to He trying to get back over there, get in.
But that's all it is.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
On the door. Yeah, that's how you do it. Prop up,
pop up and beat on the hill.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
I was never a proponent of that. I always wanted
you to be fixed up or something. I ain't want
to just pop up.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
Yeah, they were cheated. He cheated on her, so wow, girl,
he cheated. Now he's popping up, beating on the door.
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All right, clo, this is from Chuck and Queen's. Chuck writes,
my neighbor is a single mom of two young boys.
I saw the boys kicking a ball around in the
parking lot, so I went to meet them and their mom.
I told my girlfriend that the lady seems like she's
a good mom. Why does she get mad at my observation? Interesting?
Speaker 2 (00:22):
So what you're over there noticing she a good mom?
Because I'm gonna tell you what the problem was the
single mama? Fine, Now you're stupid behind paid the fine
chick a compliment that was not the compliment you really
(00:43):
wanted to just say. You said, she seems like a
good single mom. What you got to do with the
boys kicking the ball? All boys kickballs? So what you
really in your mind was how you could bring up
this good mother without saying she fun?
Speaker 3 (01:04):
And what is your interest in the single mother?
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Full?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
And since where did you turn into a soccer coach?
All of it?
Speaker 2 (01:15):
See all that, all that's coming out?
Speaker 3 (01:19):
You see your point?
Speaker 4 (01:21):
Yeah, all the way down?
Speaker 3 (01:25):
All right?
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Moving on to Sharisson College Park, Cherise writes, I'm married
to a handsome man that loves to go out on
the weekends. I used to trust him, but he has
been coming home lately and sleeping on the couch. He said,
he doesn't want to wake me up. What has caused
him to change? Well, and somebody loves to go out
(01:47):
on the weekend.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Well you know when you come in late, Yeah, and
you tired. Sometimes you don't want to go up them steps.
Now your question is what is he tired from?
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Huh?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Just ex Yeah, is where he at or what he
doing does not allow him to get the body odor
of another person off him. It could be glitter, it
could be perfume, it could be anything. He is going
(02:27):
to take her half to start taking a change of clothes.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
But if he comes some smelling fresh, that's a dead
giveaway too. But he said, Celosa, change clothes.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Yeah, it's better to come home fresh than perfume.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Me.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Yeah, I can't get the cologne.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
That means he shouted somewhere though.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
Right, yeah, see that's not what's happening.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
And then you know, but if he changes clothes, she's
gonna notice.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Well that's true.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Here's a problem, though, get married and he goes out
on the weekend without you.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
I'm struggling.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
I don't understand Yeah, she used to trust him, but
she doesn't anymore. So I guess she used to trust
him to go out and hang out, you know, have
his own space.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Why he ain't doing nothing with his life?
Speaker 2 (03:21):
That's what the question is, right, Yeah, I mean you're
going out every weekend.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
I don't.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Answer himself going out way. I know other people that
can't go out on weekends too. I just want to
put that out there.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Do you care? Cut help off?
Speaker 2 (03:46):
God man, I know why he's calling because we wasn't
ready for that.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
I was ready for that.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
I know other people who can't go out on the weekend,
Ugly people.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
He said, all right, so there is a change of
behavior that's you always.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Yeah, lady, you have to figure that out. I can't
help you. I don't know why I sleeping on the county.
You know, maybe you'd be over there on his side
of the bed when he come in.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
M Well, he simply said he didn't want to wake her.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
That was his Well, you hate to stay up and
wait for him to get home.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
Or go out?
Speaker 2 (04:25):
How lately is like coming in? It's too much good. Yeah,
that's a lot of freedom in that marriage. I can't
go nowhere when I'm just telling you that. Right, if
I dress to go out, my wife will go. Steve,
where are you going?
Speaker 3 (04:41):
All going out?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
And I ain't ever been out more? Yeah, this is
me or some friends. Steve, you ain't got no friends.
What you're talking about?
Speaker 4 (04:55):
I'm your friend? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Well you you know she's concerned because he's a handsome man. Anyway,
all right, Moving on to Dante in Minneapolis, Dante says,
I met a new woman online and I really like her.
Speaker 4 (05:14):
But she's always.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
On her phone when we go eat, she's got to
take pictures of our food. She takes selfies with me
and photos in my sports car. I don't want to
be plastered on social media. I'm sixty and so is she.
Who is she trying to impress with all of this mess?
Speaker 2 (05:32):
A bunch of old people. There's some old people that
impressed me. Girl, what kind of cars?
Speaker 3 (05:39):
That got a.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
COVID that looks like a racing car?
Speaker 3 (05:46):
You better live your life.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
I sure wish I could meet somebody to take me
out to dinner. Uh huh, Yeah, she got a post.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
She's creating memories. Okay, she's acting.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
He's not acting her age, but you know, yeah, why
do they take pictures of food, though, dog, what is that?
Speaker 3 (06:06):
What are you gonna do with these food? I don't know,
I really oh, I like taking pictures of my wife.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Do that?
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Let me get your picture of your food for you?
But what are you gonna do with it?
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Last one, Steve, This is the last one. This is
from Millicent In Sumter, Milicine writes, I can't keep my
child's dad from popping up at my house. Last night
he came by and was beating on my door because
I had my lots changed after he cheated again. How
do I break it off for good so we can
(06:45):
focus on being.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Good parents, good co parents? What do you think, Steve?
Speaker 3 (06:51):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (06:52):
I mean he's beating on the door. He's mad.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Because you opened the door. Wants before. That's why y'all
got that baby. Now he beating on that door so
he can come in. You know what, He won't what
y'all trying to focus on being good parents? He trying
to He trying to get back over there, get in.
But that's all it is.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
On the door. Yeah, that's how you do it. Prop up,
pop up and beat on the hill.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
I was never a proponent of that. I always wanted
you to be fixed up or something. I ain't want
to just pop up.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
Yeah, they were cheated. He cheated on her, so wow, girl,
he cheated. Now he's popping up, beating on the door.
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