Ask The CLO - 05.14.25

Our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey has advice for...

• Monique in Riverside – My husband and I sleep in separate beds because he sleeps with a C-Pap machine. He said I’m supposed to be with him through sickness and health but I need my rest so I am not sleeping with him. Am I going against my wedding vows?

 

• Landré in Detroit – My side chick was blowing up my phone and I texted her to wait a few minutes. I mistakenly sent the text to my wife. I swore to my wife that I’m not cheating but now she’s made me share my location with her at all times. What should I do now?

 

• Dina in San Antonio – I drove 200 miles to see my boyfriend and he told me to let myself in, and get comfy. He got home after 2am and he told me that he was out with friends. Why didn’t he ask me to come join them? Is he ready for a long-distance relationship?

 

• Eric in Evanston – I owe a lot of money on my credit cards and all my wife wants to do is waste money at expensive restaurants and on designer clothes. She said the bills are not her concern. Am I supposed to keep funding her lifestyle or should I cut her off?

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Right now it is time to ask the CLO our
chief love Officer, Steve Harvey. Here we go. This is
from Monique in Riverside. Colo. Monique writes, my husband and
I sleep in separate beds because he sleeps with a
seapack machine. He said, I'm supposed to be with him
through sickness and health, but I need my rest, so

(00:21):
I'm not sleeping with him. Am I going against my wedding? Vows?

Speaker 2 (00:25):
No? No, really, I used to be on that seapack machine,
did you. Yeah?

Speaker 3 (00:29):
I was on a seapack machine for almost a year
and I hated it. Man, Yeah, I hated it. Noise,
they got some bed ones now that's very quiet. Tell
you what I did discover it? Or that mask? I
was sitting up going to the bathroom one morning. I

(00:51):
take that mask off and it fell in my lap,
you know, sleep nicked. That mask fell in my lap
and it blowed that air on. Let me tell you something.
The seapack got two purposes. What Yeah, you lay that
thing in your lap?

Speaker 2 (01:06):
Let that air blown you? Right? I won't let me
tell you something. That seapack na thank god?

Speaker 1 (01:15):
Yeah, wants to know is she going against her wedding?
Vowels because she sleeps separately.

Speaker 3 (01:22):
I don't think I think your husband here's here would
cure the problem. Get off the seapack machine. Now does
it take some work to get off of it? Yes,
it does, but I just don't enjoy it. I didn't
enjoy it, and so I think that's the solution. You're
not going to get your wedding vows. He said you
should be in that well, he prayed. He might not
have that good machine.

Speaker 1 (01:41):
Oh oh, okay, okay, you might have that.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
He might have that one to one that sound like
a compressor.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
How does that sound?

Speaker 3 (01:49):
Yeah, yeah, you know, like we're out there power washing
the driveway.

Speaker 2 (01:57):
He might have that one. Glad you sleep all right?

Speaker 1 (02:07):
Moving on to Landre and Detroit, Landre writes my side
chick was blowing up my phone, and I texted her
to wait a few minutes. I mistakenly sent the text
to my wife. I swore to my wife that I'm
not cheating. But now she made me share my location
with her at all times. What should I do now?

Speaker 2 (02:31):
I think this is my suggestion that it call me crazy. Okay,
I think you should stop cheating. What you cain't do that?
Come on, now because listen to Wow and this.

Speaker 3 (02:48):
I've had to learn this lesson recently. Not about that,
but listen. God gives everybody a warning shot. You can
heed the warning. The first one, the first bullet goes
over your head. The second bullet takes a little bit
of your ear lob off, just a little if you
don't adhere to the one to take a little ear

(03:09):
meat off.

Speaker 2 (03:10):
The next one is in the teeth. The next one
goes in your teeth.

Speaker 1 (03:16):
Okay, all right, so that's your suggestion. Okay, stop cheating. Finally,
not gonna last call.

Speaker 3 (03:28):
I've never promoted cheating on this show. I have been
a staunch supporter of.

Speaker 1 (03:36):
Lie yes, yes.

Speaker 2 (03:42):
And cheating is different.

Speaker 1 (03:43):
They go together, they do go together. They go together,
all right. Moving on to Dina and San Antonio. Dina said, right,
you won't have to Yeah, he doesn't know how to cheat.
I drove two hundred miles to see my boyfriend and

(04:04):
he told me to let myself in and get comfy.
He got home after two am, and he told me
that he was out with his friends. Why didn't he
ask me to come join them? Is he ready for
a long distance relationship?

Speaker 2 (04:18):
Yeah? He ready for the long distant relationship. He in it.

Speaker 3 (04:22):
You drove a long distance two hundred hih. He told
you to let yourself in, make self comfortable. He came
in at two am.

Speaker 1 (04:30):
When he felt like it told you, told.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
You he was out with his boys. Why didn't he
have me come out? Because you didn't get that in.

Speaker 1 (04:39):
Time, Not because he didn't want her to come or
he was out with another woman.

Speaker 2 (04:44):
He was already out.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (04:48):
See, then you to drove, went to the house and
took a shower and then had to get ready.

Speaker 2 (04:55):
Oh that's too much.

Speaker 1 (04:56):
That's not going to work for you.

Speaker 2 (04:59):
No, I thought that there is nothing. Why didn't he
ask you to come? Y'all?

Speaker 3 (05:02):
In a long distan relationship, you're not in a local relationship.
Local long distance, you don't get to do everything.

Speaker 1 (05:15):
Yeah, it's distance. Yeah, it has to do with where
you live.

Speaker 2 (05:20):
Long this relationship is very different from local.

Speaker 1 (05:25):
Okay, all right, last one, Steve. This is from Eric
and Evanston. Eric writes, I owe a lot of money
on my credit cards, and all my wife wants to
do is waste money at expensive restaurants and designer clothes.
She said the bills are not her concern. I love
that line, Bill, I heard that my concern? Yeah, am

(05:50):
I supposed to keep funding her lifestyle? Or should I
cut her off?

Speaker 2 (05:55):
Now? He said? This is his wife.

Speaker 1 (05:58):
Yeah, yeah, she wants to do is waste money at
expensive restaurants and buy designer clothes.

Speaker 2 (06:05):
Well, the wasting money I don't.

Speaker 1 (06:09):
At expensive restaurants.

Speaker 2 (06:11):
I think that. Well, you know you should try and
stuff like that.

Speaker 3 (06:13):
I recommend trying nicer things in life because it conditions
your mind and it kind of helps you. But she
done told you it ain't her concern. Well, all she's
saying is I'm not worried about it. Yeah, because guess
what you are?

Speaker 2 (06:28):
You love her? I know, have you ever heard this before? Junior?
You ever heard this before?

Speaker 1 (06:36):
The bills are not my concern. This is what I'm doing.

Speaker 3 (06:41):
I've had somebody act like that, like they had nothing
to do with it. Right, you see your name on
the charger through. Yeah, it's interesting. You'll have all the
interesting species to even say that I ain't got nothing
to do with it.

Speaker 2 (06:58):
That's not like a personal Yeah, yeah, you know the
how much what they gotta do with me?

Speaker 1 (07:05):
This is what I liked.

Speaker 3 (07:06):
All I did was all I did was eat your food,
and then they gonna bring a bill or with it win.

Speaker 2 (07:16):
You go my card. The nerve of them.

Speaker 1 (07:20):
I love that long bill to be myself. That's what
I like to do.

Speaker 3 (07:29):
I ain't even like the flamboy here, and I didn't
care for the s Cargo or the Caveo.

Speaker 2 (07:36):
They're gonna bring me the bill anyway.

Speaker 1 (07:40):
Bills is not my concern though. Okay, you're listening Hardy
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