Ask The CLO - 05.16.25

Relationship and life advice from our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
What time is it?

Speaker 2 (00:01):
It is time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey Nell and Syracuse says, my husband and I
are renovating our bathroom and he refuses to get us
a hotel room. He goes to the bathroom in the backyard.
But I can't do that, especially at night. I want
a nice shower and a toilet, and I don't want

(00:23):
to stay with his mother in her tiny, little dirty house.
Should I use my credit card and get a room?

Speaker 3 (00:30):
Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes you sure, wife man, Yes
you should, and he will deal with it.

Speaker 4 (00:38):
Uh huh.

Speaker 3 (00:39):
Marjorie has taught me a very, very valuable lesson that
I never knew. Her philosophy is I would rather ask
for forgiveness than to ask for permission.

Speaker 2 (00:51):
A permission.

Speaker 4 (00:54):
Yeah, I've had to live with that, uh huh.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
And it's actually a better way to live because after
she do it, I just don't even it's done.

Speaker 1 (01:03):
It's right. What can you do, honey?

Speaker 2 (01:05):
Forgive me? I'm sorry?

Speaker 3 (01:08):
Okay, Because they ask you, what does it sound like
when they say forgive me, honey, you go I ain't.

Speaker 4 (01:16):
Boy, boy, if.

Speaker 2 (01:18):
You want to forgiveness, you will give.

Speaker 3 (01:22):
Us our truspasses, as we forgive those who trespass against her.

Speaker 4 (01:25):
That's the Lawd's prayer. It was in steel for moments
just like.

Speaker 2 (01:29):
That, because you know you're gonna do something that you
need forgiveness for. All right. Moving on to Karen in
Saint Louis, Karen says, I'm a thirty three year old
single woman and I met a man that lives.

Speaker 1 (01:44):
With his ex wife.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
He's thirty six, no children, and he has been divorced
one year. He said it's his house and he's letting
her stay temporarily. When I went to visit him, it
appeared to be the other way around. Why is he
still living with his ex is?

Speaker 4 (02:00):
It's weird because he ain't got no money. He lying
because he ain't got no money. Now, if you went
went to the house.

Speaker 3 (02:09):
And it appears the other way around, it's because he
ain't got no money. M hm, he don't have money.
I'm just trying to flat out, he ain't got no money.
I might finished stay with their eccent over the Yeah,
I live in my car. I stay down and be home.
Before I do that, I promise you I'll be sitting

(02:34):
up in a shelter. Yeah, before I'll do that.

Speaker 4 (02:37):
And he ain't got no money.

Speaker 3 (02:44):
And then when you went over there, it appeared like
he was living in her house. That's because when they
was married, it was her house, just like in most marriages.
So what it's supposed to look like she decorated the house.
She ain't going nowhere. He ain't got no money.

Speaker 2 (03:00):
He just lied to Karen so he could get He
didn't lie to him. Well, what was it lie? Really? Well,
the line was, it's his house and he's letting her
stay temporarily.

Speaker 1 (03:12):
Be ex there you go, Yeah, it.

Speaker 3 (03:15):
Was his house at one point. Fix it. No, he's
not lying, And y'all stopped trying to make me in
lie all the time.

Speaker 4 (03:27):
I'll tell you, I'll tell you what'll be lying.

Speaker 2 (03:30):
I think you've done a pretty good job about yourself, sir.
All right, Corey and Newark says, I'm a twenty eight
year old single woman and I've had a few good
dates with a new guy. I went to his house
for dinner and he turned on porn. He said he
was joking and then switched it to Netflix. Was he

(03:53):
testing me to.

Speaker 1 (03:53):
See what kind of woman I am?

Speaker 3 (03:55):
Of course, of course there was a test if you
sit there and liked it. It's jackpot. Yeah. If you protest,
I'm joking, don't go gwaven watch that. But he showed
headed cube up though, didn't it.

Speaker 4 (04:18):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (04:19):
Oh and he's done this before. That's a move of his. Yeah,
because some dude, the man. What you do is when
they come over, you had that porn on and hit
press plate and if they get into it. Sometimes, man,
if they be right there, they be game for it.

Speaker 4 (04:36):
You know. Oh man, I'm gonna try that.

Speaker 3 (04:38):
Yeah, somebody tried and told it to it or he's
done it before in his work, one of the two.

Speaker 4 (04:43):
But yeah, it was a test.

Speaker 2 (04:45):
Dinner and peorn okay, yeah, all right in a movie, Yeah,
dinner in a movie. All right, moving on, this is
our last one see Patty in the Bay Areas as
I'm fifty two years old, I'm single. I wanted me
a handsome, financially stable man with a nice sized package.

(05:08):
But I don't think those men exist anymore because I
run into some runts in the bedroom.

Speaker 1 (05:15):
Is it crash to ask a man if he's packing what?

Speaker 4 (05:20):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (05:20):
That is because now, and I'm telling you right now,
it just seems like that's so high up on your
list of things. And so now once you ask a
man is he packing? What you wanted to say?

Speaker 4 (05:31):
No, I'm not. He could not.

Speaker 3 (05:33):
Now let me, I promise you that's gonna be a
lot well because if he ain't who you know?

Speaker 4 (05:44):
Excuse me? You packing a little bit sometime?

Speaker 1 (05:53):
You know that's my favorite?

Speaker 4 (05:56):
You know, you know you know? Let me ask you?
What is you used to?

Speaker 2 (06:04):
Yeah, I'm trying to figure out how do you open
that conversation up?

Speaker 4 (06:07):
What you know?

Speaker 3 (06:08):
I'm you know, you know, go ahead, sure to ask
me a couple of times. I'm gonna show you different some.

Speaker 1 (06:13):
Different res Oh, hi, how are you nice to meet you?
I have a quick question for you. Are you packing?

Speaker 2 (06:22):
No?

Speaker 4 (06:22):
I ain't going nowhere.

Speaker 1 (06:25):
No, I don't mean for a trip. I don't mean
for a trip.

Speaker 3 (06:32):
No what what?

Speaker 4 (06:33):
What?

Speaker 1 (06:33):
What?

Speaker 4 (06:35):
Oh? Am I am I packing?

Speaker 3 (06:38):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (06:38):
As far as your size go.

Speaker 4 (06:40):
No, I've been waiting.

Speaker 3 (06:41):
I've been I've been waiting on my good license. I
don't carry until I get take good.

Speaker 1 (06:47):
I think you're misunderstanding me.

Speaker 4 (06:50):
Go ahead, what did you say?

Speaker 2 (06:52):
You know I'm a very like sexual person, so I
want to know you know, what's happening down there?

Speaker 1 (06:59):
Are you know.

Speaker 4 (07:00):
What's going on? Oh? Am I packing?

Speaker 2 (07:03):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (07:03):
Are you packing?

Speaker 4 (07:04):
Well, that ain't the job. I'm a driver at the
meat packing plan. I don't want to do packing. I drive.

Speaker 2 (07:10):
No, no, baby, I don't think you understand.

Speaker 1 (07:14):
That's when I'm trying to ask.

Speaker 4 (07:16):
You, well you want to go out or what? What's
what's my sign?

Speaker 1 (07:20):
No that, what's your sign? What's your size?

Speaker 3 (07:24):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (07:24):
I'll tell you. Oh, look at the time, we gotta go.
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