May 26, 2025 • 8 mins
Love and life advice from our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer
Steve Harvey in the building.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
Rodney in Spartanburg writes, I'm involved with a mysterious woman.
She won't tell me where she lives, and when her
phone rings, she goes away from me to take the call.
I pick her up from work when we go out,
and she's met all my friends. But I've only met
a few of her coworkers. It's been four months. So
why is she so reserved?
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Well, Rodney, a couple of things.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Either she has no plans for you in the future,
or is she shame you? That's it.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Those are his choices.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
I mean, what else could it be? She has no
plans for you in the future, or she shame you.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
But she couldn't be just taking it easy, taking it slow,
get to know them all. That couldn't be that.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Well, then she has no plans for her Yeah, that's
all it is. Almost Come on, shall as it is
to find a good man out here? You find one
and now you don't want him round nobody. Come on,
let's stop this. Let's stop this right here? Who playing
this circus trick?
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Right here? He has met a few of her co workers.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
See just coworkers. That's because he got to go down
there to pick her up. Yeah, he can't come by
the house, this mysterious.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Woman she married.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
All right, hey, Rodney, it's time for you to take
a self check, partner. Really, you need to look at
yourself real close and just make some ignisis h. It'll
help you, man, It will just help you in your
life in your future. Rodney, just be real with yourself.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
All right, here we go, moving on to my Issha
and Tempe. My Issha says, I'm twenty nine years old
and I'm engaged. My fiance was dming a woman that's
eleven years older than me, and she told him that
he should experience an older woman before he gets married.
And he said, all right, bet, he swears that he
has no intentions of having sex with her. Doesn't all right,
(02:00):
bet mean that he wants.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
To do it? Well?
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Usually when I say bet, okay, it's because I know
something going to pop off.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Bet Bet, I bet I'm coming over there.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
I bet you won't bet uh huh. Yeah, that's what
it means. Yeah, But if he said there's no intention,
then you have to find a way in your world
to believe that.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
But what is the d m's fault exactly?
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Lord, these people with just social media? Man, what y'all doing?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
I bet bet?
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Yeah, she's eleven years older.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Yeah, that's that's a good way to say.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
No. Yeah, I'm creative, your creator.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
All right.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
So you think he's gonna he's gonna do it with
the older woman.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Well, she told him, you need to experience an older woman,
he said. Bet. I felt that way when I was
young too. I felt I.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Should experience the older woman.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Everybody feels that way to get the experience.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Uh, then when you get older, you're older, you think
you should experience a younger woman. You're always lying to yourself.
A man is constantly alive with hisself.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
All right, here we go, moving on to Alexis in Harlem.
Alexis writes, my five year old daughter grabbed my faith
and pressed her tiny little lips on mine and moans.
I asked her what she was doing, and she said
her daddy kissed her aunt my sister like that. My
husband called our child a liar, who's really.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Like, hell, yeah, yeah, that little baby lying, yeah baby,
Well yeah, that little baby that busted.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Is the baby got to be home.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Look at that from what daddy kills Auntie?
Speaker 2 (04:17):
What your baby? She lying?
Speaker 1 (04:23):
That's what he said, what her husband said his child?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Yeah, hell yeah he got to say that. Now, wow,
that's amazing.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Where you get that from daddy when he kills Auntie?
All right, now she's gonna get a whooping.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Put out that child. Beat your hands.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
You can't spankle for that. No, you can't spank your
child because you stupid.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Right right right. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
It's like when I was cussing around my grandson and
I wasn't supposed to, and uh, he was in the
high chair and Marjorie came in the room and he said.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
Papau mofo.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
What I looked at him? I said, black, uncle Tom,
what is your here telling his fat? But I was
on the phone talking to one of my boys, and
he heard me cussing and he was just eating his
little crackers. And when Marjorie came in the room, she said,
he said papau mofo, but he couldn't say it, but
(05:37):
he was trying to say Papa said mother, and you know,
but all he got out was mofo. So if that's
what I realized, he was Uncle Tom, and I had
to stop taking him place.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
You didn't say he's lying.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
No, I just looked at him and tried to get up,
She says, Steve, Steve, where did he get that front?
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Babe? How you know?
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:05):
At all? All right?
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Moving on to last one, Steve Sonya in Texas. Sonya says,
I'm married to a man that has a grooming schedule
better than mine. And when he told me he couldn't
move a box in the garage because he might damage
his nails, I used an app on my phone to
get two guys to help me clean the garage. My
husband didn't approve. But what am I supposed to do
(06:30):
if he's slacking off?
Speaker 2 (06:32):
This is this is her husband? Uh huh yeah, yeah, yeah,
you married you married her. He can't move a box
because it'll mess up his nails.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
It's manicure.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Yeah, no, that's all. That's that's what you call tendencies.
But he ain't got no gloves, And I'll give it
what it is.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
It's called tendacis you can't tell your wife you can't
move a box in the garage because it'll mess up
your nails.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
He's okay, particular.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
And what do you mean by true tendencies.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
He has tendencies. That's all that is.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
He has tendencies that may not be pertaining to being
just a full time hug.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Don't need no explanation. Everybody know to hell tendencies. Do
they Okay, yeah, do they? Yes, they do. I'm just
making sure he got tendencies.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Okay, all right.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
He coming up shop. All right, he's standing in on
the free Thank you, clo.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
He playing in the water tendencies to close out this
segment right here, Thank you, Celo.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
It'ster Steve Harbin Martin show Man.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Men that wear throngs don't pay money back.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
Wearing men do not pay money back. I don't know.
It's just a rule.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
I don't know where the rule came from anybody.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
I know where. Throne don't pay money back.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
And men who wear thrones that think they sexy it's
usually not.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Thong and stomach don't even go in the same city.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
You can't have a thong on and all they see
is the love v in the front. Steve Morning Show
coming up right after you
It is time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer
Steve Harvey in the building.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
Rodney in Spartanburg writes, I'm involved with a mysterious woman.
She won't tell me where she lives, and when her
phone rings, she goes away from me to take the call.
I pick her up from work when we go out,
and she's met all my friends. But I've only met
a few of her coworkers. It's been four months. So
why is she so reserved?
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Well, Rodney, a couple of things.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Either she has no plans for you in the future,
or is she shame you? That's it.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Those are his choices.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
I mean, what else could it be? She has no
plans for you in the future, or she shame you.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
But she couldn't be just taking it easy, taking it slow,
get to know them all. That couldn't be that.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Well, then she has no plans for her Yeah, that's
all it is. Almost Come on, shall as it is
to find a good man out here? You find one
and now you don't want him round nobody. Come on,
let's stop this. Let's stop this right here? Who playing
this circus trick?
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Right here? He has met a few of her co workers.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
See just coworkers. That's because he got to go down
there to pick her up. Yeah, he can't come by
the house, this mysterious.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Woman she married.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
All right, hey, Rodney, it's time for you to take
a self check, partner. Really, you need to look at
yourself real close and just make some ignisis h. It'll
help you, man, It will just help you in your
life in your future. Rodney, just be real with yourself.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
All right, here we go, moving on to my Issha
and Tempe. My Issha says, I'm twenty nine years old
and I'm engaged. My fiance was dming a woman that's
eleven years older than me, and she told him that
he should experience an older woman before he gets married.
And he said, all right, bet, he swears that he
has no intentions of having sex with her. Doesn't all right,
(02:00):
bet mean that he wants.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
To do it? Well?
Speaker 3 (02:05):
Usually when I say bet, okay, it's because I know
something going to pop off.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Bet Bet, I bet I'm coming over there.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
I bet you won't bet uh huh. Yeah, that's what
it means. Yeah, But if he said there's no intention,
then you have to find a way in your world
to believe that.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
But what is the d m's fault exactly?
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Lord, these people with just social media? Man, what y'all doing?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
I bet bet?
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Yeah, she's eleven years older.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Yeah, that's that's a good way to say.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
No. Yeah, I'm creative, your creator.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
All right.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
So you think he's gonna he's gonna do it with
the older woman.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Well, she told him, you need to experience an older woman,
he said. Bet. I felt that way when I was
young too. I felt I.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Should experience the older woman.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Everybody feels that way to get the experience.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Uh, then when you get older, you're older, you think
you should experience a younger woman. You're always lying to yourself.
A man is constantly alive with hisself.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
All right, here we go, moving on to Alexis in Harlem.
Alexis writes, my five year old daughter grabbed my faith
and pressed her tiny little lips on mine and moans.
I asked her what she was doing, and she said
her daddy kissed her aunt my sister like that. My
husband called our child a liar, who's really.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Like, hell, yeah, yeah, that little baby lying, yeah baby,
Well yeah, that little baby that busted.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Is the baby got to be home.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Look at that from what daddy kills Auntie?
Speaker 2 (04:17):
What your baby? She lying?
Speaker 1 (04:23):
That's what he said, what her husband said his child?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Yeah, hell yeah he got to say that. Now, wow,
that's amazing.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Where you get that from daddy when he kills Auntie?
All right, now she's gonna get a whooping.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Put out that child. Beat your hands.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
You can't spankle for that. No, you can't spank your
child because you stupid.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Right right right. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
It's like when I was cussing around my grandson and
I wasn't supposed to, and uh, he was in the
high chair and Marjorie came in the room and he said.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
Papau mofo.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
What I looked at him? I said, black, uncle Tom,
what is your here telling his fat? But I was
on the phone talking to one of my boys, and
he heard me cussing and he was just eating his
little crackers. And when Marjorie came in the room, she said,
he said papau mofo, but he couldn't say it, but
(05:37):
he was trying to say Papa said mother, and you know,
but all he got out was mofo. So if that's
what I realized, he was Uncle Tom, and I had
to stop taking him place.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
You didn't say he's lying.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
No, I just looked at him and tried to get up,
She says, Steve, Steve, where did he get that front?
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Babe? How you know?
Speaker 3 (06:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:05):
At all? All right?
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Moving on to last one, Steve Sonya in Texas. Sonya says,
I'm married to a man that has a grooming schedule
better than mine. And when he told me he couldn't
move a box in the garage because he might damage
his nails, I used an app on my phone to
get two guys to help me clean the garage. My
husband didn't approve. But what am I supposed to do
(06:30):
if he's slacking off?
Speaker 2 (06:32):
This is this is her husband? Uh huh yeah, yeah, yeah,
you married you married her. He can't move a box
because it'll mess up his nails.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
It's manicure.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Yeah, no, that's all. That's that's what you call tendencies.
But he ain't got no gloves, And I'll give it
what it is.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
It's called tendacis you can't tell your wife you can't
move a box in the garage because it'll mess up
your nails.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
He's okay, particular.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
And what do you mean by true tendencies.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
He has tendencies. That's all that is.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
He has tendencies that may not be pertaining to being
just a full time hug.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Don't need no explanation. Everybody know to hell tendencies. Do
they Okay, yeah, do they? Yes, they do. I'm just
making sure he got tendencies.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Okay, all right.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
He coming up shop. All right, he's standing in on
the free Thank you, clo.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
He playing in the water tendencies to close out this
segment right here, Thank you, Celo.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
It'ster Steve Harbin Martin show Man.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Men that wear throngs don't pay money back.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
Wearing men do not pay money back. I don't know.
It's just a rule.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
I don't know where the rule came from anybody.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
I know where. Throne don't pay money back.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
And men who wear thrones that think they sexy it's
usually not.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Thong and stomach don't even go in the same city.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
You can't have a thong on and all they see
is the love v in the front. Steve Morning Show
coming up right after you
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