Ask The CLO - 05.27.25

Love and life advice from our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. This is from Kristen in DeSoto Christian Rights.
I'm forty two years old and I'm divorced. I haven't
dated since my divorce because my ex wife's mother still
lives in my house. My ex says she can only
afford a one bedroom place. And I love her mom dearly,

(00:23):
So is it my responsibility to keep housing her?

Speaker 2 (00:27):
What?

Speaker 3 (00:28):
Yeah, yeah, I don't understand. I'll get a divorce the
woman I'm divorcing, Mama lea with.

Speaker 2 (00:34):
Me right right right?

Speaker 4 (00:37):
What the ex wife is gone with her one room apartment.

Speaker 2 (00:40):
That's not a divorce.

Speaker 3 (00:43):
That's how she she can't afford the mama.

Speaker 4 (00:50):
I know, come get your get your MoMA.

Speaker 2 (00:53):
I've done the show.

Speaker 4 (00:55):
Come get your mama period.

Speaker 2 (00:59):
How you got know how you got in this deal?
Right here? How the first day happened? You going to
get your mama? Except in all this discussion, y'all ain't
y'all ain't know. I ain't nobody mentioned your mama.

Speaker 3 (01:15):
Everything. I ain't never man that got a divorce that
wanted the mother in law. Yes, Dave, I've had people
have custody battles over their kids.

Speaker 2 (01:27):
I've had people have custody battles over their pet.

Speaker 3 (01:30):
Ain't nobody never said who gonna get the mother in?
You packed all your stuff, You loaded everything in your
car and left your mama.

Speaker 1 (01:40):
All right, mama, I see you later, mama. He hasn't
dated because of this. Now he's divorced, only forty two
years old. He hasn't dated because her mom lives in
his house.

Speaker 3 (01:52):
Still, Hey, let me explain something to you. This man
was in a very domineering relationship. They want, very dominian
because if she make you take care of her mama.

Speaker 2 (02:04):
No, you've got to be crazy if you don't get
your mom. What the rest of it? She got some
other kids.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
She said, she can only afford a one bedroom apartment.

Speaker 3 (02:15):
Where where her husband where the mama, husband.

Speaker 4 (02:19):
And the other kids. Yeah, only fun.

Speaker 2 (02:23):
She got a one bedroom apartment.

Speaker 4 (02:25):
One bed, she said, that's all she can afford.

Speaker 2 (02:28):
Well, you and your mom fee to be tight.

Speaker 4 (02:30):
Oh yeah, yeah, that's it, sleeper sofa. Come on afford
a one bedroom.

Speaker 2 (02:37):
That's fine. You're gonna come get your mama though, today
the last day? All right?

Speaker 1 (02:47):
Moving on to Maryland in New Orleans, Maryland, writes, my
husband and I rent our house out in Colorado and
we moved to New Orleans. My husband told me he
had to go check on the house and he's been
there a month. Is it a sign that he's cheating?
Should I pop up to see what he's up to?

Speaker 3 (03:08):
Let me do them say? Please don't pop up. Yeah,
he said he's going check on something. He been going
for a month. It's on he in Colorado. This was
a move right here?

Speaker 4 (03:23):
Yeah, what this house up in Colorado?

Speaker 2 (03:25):
Mood in New Orleans.

Speaker 3 (03:27):
As soon as we get in New Orleans, I'm gonna
tell her I'm going to check on the house in Colorado.

Speaker 4 (03:36):
A month.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
That's crazy.

Speaker 1 (03:38):
Yeah, so you're saying for her not to pop up.

Speaker 3 (03:43):
You ain't got to check on the house for a month.
First of all, these ain't like real, real rich people.
So I know the house he went to check on.

Speaker 4 (03:52):
What is he coming back? Is Is he coming back
to New Orleans?

Speaker 2 (03:56):
That's what I want to know?

Speaker 4 (03:57):
Is he coming back? Hell?

Speaker 1 (03:59):
No?

Speaker 2 (03:59):
Would you?

Speaker 4 (04:00):
And what does rich have to do with this?

Speaker 3 (04:02):
See?

Speaker 4 (04:02):
Why did you say that?

Speaker 2 (04:03):
Well, see, you.

Speaker 3 (04:04):
Can say you're checking on the house with a whole
lot of amenities, but you ain't got to check on
the house in Colorada.

Speaker 2 (04:10):
He went up there. It ain't the house that he
checking on.

Speaker 4 (04:13):
Oh got you that part?

Speaker 1 (04:16):
Okay, all right, okay, all right.

Speaker 4 (04:20):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (04:21):
Moving on to Kalisa and Richmond, Kalisa writes, I had
a one night stand and the guy stalked me and
showed up at my job. My co worker said it's sweet,
but I think it's scary. I did a background check
on him, and everyone he knows says he's a good guy.
Should I hang out with him again?

Speaker 2 (04:41):
He turned him. I don't understand these letters.

Speaker 4 (04:46):
One night stand and then the guy showed up. It's
from a job.

Speaker 2 (04:57):
The job though, not just be one night the folliol
You're right after that creep, creep right on up to
that job.

Speaker 1 (05:15):
And her coworkers thought it was a sweet gesture, but
she thinks it's a little scary.

Speaker 3 (05:20):
She said, well, lady, you ain't you ain't you wasn't
scared at the one nice thing?

Speaker 2 (05:26):
Why you scared he at your job? At least the
lights is on. You got some witnesses.

Speaker 3 (05:32):
If you was not scared at the one nice stand,
what are you scared the next day at the job?

Speaker 1 (05:36):
For well, she doesn't want to lose her job to
some random guy coming up there.

Speaker 3 (05:42):
She didn't not what the letter was about. Next, that
is not what this letter was about. The letter was
about not losing her job. She did a background check
and everybody says he's a nice guy. It's her that's
the problem. See, she don't know how not to be tricky.

(06:02):
First of all, she's done the one night stand before.
That's why she ain't used to nobody showing back up. Now,
how many one night stands you need to have for you?

Speaker 2 (06:11):
Fray? Figure out?

Speaker 3 (06:12):
This ain't really what you do. Now you run up
into a good guy and they had one nice stand.
You don't even know how to handle that. What is
he back over here for? It was for one night?

Speaker 1 (06:21):
What is.

Speaker 2 (06:24):
What is you trying to have a relationship for?

Speaker 4 (06:28):
I like ye? So should she? Should she go out
with him again? Now?

Speaker 3 (06:38):
This girl is in the one night stands and this
is what she do Now? This wanting you again is.

Speaker 4 (06:45):
Confusing to just threw her into something and yeah I.

Speaker 3 (06:49):
Want somebody after that one night stay.

Speaker 4 (06:55):
Yeah, that's not what she does him up?

Speaker 3 (06:59):
All right?

Speaker 4 (07:00):
That's one.

Speaker 1 (07:02):
Sonya in Tampa writes there have been four men in
my life that showed me that men are dogs. I
have a hard time trusting the new guy I'm dating
because of that. How do I let go of the
past and move on?

Speaker 2 (07:16):
See that's the problem. That isn't that the problem?

Speaker 3 (07:19):
You can't drive your car looking in your real view
mirror and it's the law of attraction.

Speaker 2 (07:25):
All me and are dogs.

Speaker 3 (07:26):
Well guess what now you're fin to meet all of them.
Then when you meet a good one, you automatically want
to put him in the dog category because your pickers off.
Now four men in my life has showed me me
and her dogs. Once you make that statement, that's what
you're going to attract to yourself. Stop putting that in

(07:48):
your energy in your universe. Okay, stop, Ask God to
help all of your steps and introduce you to the
right kind of guy.

Speaker 2 (07:59):
But be still from you need to quit picking. Yeah,
you've got it wrong. Full time

Speaker 4 (08:05):
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