June 3, 2025 • 7 mins
Our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey has advice for...
- April in Paramus – I hid my husband’s phone and I went walking in the neighborhood. I wanted to see how he’d react. He pulled up on me and accused me of trying to check his calls and texts. Why was he so mad? Is it a sign that he’s hiding something from me?
- Leon in Burbank – My wife and I can argue and scream at each other and an hour later, she’s calling me ‘baby’ and acting normal. I’m usually still be mad about whatever caused the argument, but she’s not. Why does my wife pick fights with me over nonsense?
- Robin in Milwaukee – I’ve practically begged my husband for sex the last five times we’ve had it. He said it’s him and not me. If his sex drive has decreased, I get it, but I’ve heard him in the shower and everything seems fine with him. So why doesn’t he want sex?
- Kenneth in Grand Prairie – My girlfriend invited me to a wedding in Hawaii and I don’t want to spend the money on the two airline tickets. That’s the only reason she invited me. Can I be honest and tell her I don’t want to spend the money or should I lie to her?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer,
Steve Harvey. Ready, Steve, uh yeah, okay, thank you. This
is from April and Paramus. April writes, I hit my
husband's phone and I went walking in the neighborhood.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
I wanted to see how he'd react.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
He pulled up on me and accused me of trying
to check his calls and texts.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Why was he so mad? Is it a sign that
he's hiding something from me?
Speaker 3 (00:30):
No, he pulled up on you.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
Yeah, what you're trying to do?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
What's up?
Speaker 4 (00:40):
But you know, ma'am ladies, you don't have to play
them games, but you know, but you're gonna hide the
man's phone? Why you go for a walk now, Don't
nobody want to be that long without a phone. It
ain't no sign or nothing. That's that's a sign that
you didn't hear this man's phone. Suppose somebody took your
phone and hid it while they went for a walk.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Come on, man, yeahs to me.
Speaker 4 (01:06):
I got to have my phone on me, man, because
I got to stay in touch. Yeah, it's too much,
because my wife laid her phone down all over the house.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Just walk away from it. The kids already know.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
Let me call daddy because he got he gonna have
his phone in his pocket.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Dad is mom there? Yeah, she here. She ain't answering
her phone, y'all already know. She just laid down, walk off.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Yeah, she wants to know why was he so mad?
And you answered that for sure? Coelo, all right. Moving
on to Leon and Burbank, Leon writes, My wife and
I can argue and scream at each other, and an
hour later she's calling me baby and acting normal. I'm
usually still mad about whatever caused the argument, but she's not.
Why does my wife pick fights with me over noncent
(01:54):
rum bruh?
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Listen to me if an hour later she over it
go enjoy your day.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
But no, bro, you you you're the man. Let it go?
Speaker 4 (02:08):
How you still mad? The fire in the house has
been put out. How it got put out? Don't worry
about that. Just go back in your house and enjoy
your peace. Now you want to stay mad? I don't understand.
I'm not finna out mad my wife. That's not what
I'm finna do. No, we have an argument and then
she come to me and let it go. You best
(02:30):
to know we're finnah.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
Let this go.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Yeah, because it could go really badly, right, she could
give you.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Yeah, this moment and enjoy yourself fall. Yeah, there's no
way let it go.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
I'm not I'm not. I'm just not gonna stay.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Mad, all right? Advice, Yeah, all right.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Moving on to Robin in Milwaukee, Robin writes, I'm practically
I've practically begged my husband for sex the last five
times we've had it.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
He said it's him and not me. If his sex.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Drive has decreased, I get it. But I've heard him
in the shower and everything seems fine with him.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
So why doesn't he want sex?
Speaker 3 (03:17):
He's doing it in a shower?
Speaker 2 (03:21):
She answered her own questions. What's wrong, Steve, There's.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
So many angles this could be coming.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
From, you know, like he's telling you it's him, it's
not you, right, But you think he and the shower
doing something alone.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Yeah, she says she's heard him there and everything thinks fine.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
Well, then it's something he's doing alone.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
It's better than when y'all together?
Speaker 4 (03:56):
Wow ah, or or another option. Yeah, he's found a
better way to accomplish something.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
And it's just but he's telling you it's not you.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
It could be him because been know how long you've
been married, you know you could lose attraction for a person.
Here's what I heard the guy say one time, and
this is going to be horrible, lady, so I just
want to tell say it. A guy said one time,
he said, he man, you love your wife, right, And
the other guy said yeah. He said, so what's your
(04:36):
favorite meat? And the guy said steak. He said, cool,
you love steak? He said, yes, I do. He said
you don't want them on fish and chicken.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
I know.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
He did not use meat to describe.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
And I had to sit back. And that's a good one,
good horrible. You're right, told y'all. So I said, y'all,
don't hate you practiced it?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Yeah boom, I just said it was good.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
But y'all, he said, you don't want no more fish
or ship?
Speaker 1 (05:20):
God, what a dilemma.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
So that's that's what you're saying. That's happening here, could
possibly no.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
I was just using ass and nogic. I thought it was.
Speaker 4 (05:34):
Very cute, calling to make it cute because she got
off the zoom.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
You thought that was cute?
Speaker 3 (05:43):
Yeah, I thought it was very funny. You better be
killed for though. He gonna follow the next show later.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
He could hold on right, all right, you're done with
that one, clo.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
We're moving on. Okay, last one, last one. That's it.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
That's all.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
This is from Kenneth in Grand Prairie. Kenneth writes, my
girlfriend invited me to a wedding in Hawaii, and I
don't want to spend the money on the two airline tickets.
That's the only reason she invited me. Can I be
honest with her? Can I be honest and tell her
I don't want to spend the money or should I
lie to her?
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Well, just say you don't want to spend the money, man,
tell the truth and that well, because this is easy,
because it's going to open up the conversation you need
to have. He feels as though the only reason she
invited him to this wedding in Hawaii is so he
could pay for these tickets. Now, all he got to
(06:47):
do is say, Hey, I ain't really that cool with
them people, and I don't want to go in the
hole trying to go over here and see these two
people get married.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
I don't really know them like that. They ain't even
invite me.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
They invited you and gave you the plus one, But
I don't want to go over there and spend that
kind of money. I don't really know these people, and
then she'll go. So you don't want to go with me? Now,
I don't want to go with you all the way
to Hawaii to go to they win, which I think
that's why you want me to go, so I can
pay for these tickets.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Oh lord, he mess, that's the truth. That's the truth.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
I didn't say, don't ever tell me when the truth
fit you. Oh you don't need a never waste a
good lie.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
I mean, why would he say I gotta work that
week and then waste a lot?
Speaker 2 (07:43):
Where's the logic in that? Huh? Save you? Yes, really
truly need him? All right, you're listening Hard Morning Show
It is time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer,
Steve Harvey. Ready, Steve, uh yeah, okay, thank you. This
is from April and Paramus. April writes, I hit my
husband's phone and I went walking in the neighborhood.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
I wanted to see how he'd react.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
He pulled up on me and accused me of trying
to check his calls and texts.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Why was he so mad? Is it a sign that
he's hiding something from me?
Speaker 3 (00:30):
No, he pulled up on you.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
Yeah, what you're trying to do?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
What's up?
Speaker 4 (00:40):
But you know, ma'am ladies, you don't have to play
them games, but you know, but you're gonna hide the
man's phone? Why you go for a walk now, Don't
nobody want to be that long without a phone. It
ain't no sign or nothing. That's that's a sign that
you didn't hear this man's phone. Suppose somebody took your
phone and hid it while they went for a walk.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Come on, man, yeahs to me.
Speaker 4 (01:06):
I got to have my phone on me, man, because
I got to stay in touch. Yeah, it's too much,
because my wife laid her phone down all over the house.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Just walk away from it. The kids already know.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
Let me call daddy because he got he gonna have
his phone in his pocket.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Dad is mom there? Yeah, she here. She ain't answering
her phone, y'all already know. She just laid down, walk off.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Yeah, she wants to know why was he so mad?
And you answered that for sure? Coelo, all right. Moving
on to Leon and Burbank, Leon writes, My wife and
I can argue and scream at each other, and an
hour later she's calling me baby and acting normal. I'm
usually still mad about whatever caused the argument, but she's not.
Why does my wife pick fights with me over noncent
(01:54):
rum bruh?
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Listen to me if an hour later she over it
go enjoy your day.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
But no, bro, you you you're the man. Let it go?
Speaker 4 (02:08):
How you still mad? The fire in the house has
been put out. How it got put out? Don't worry
about that. Just go back in your house and enjoy
your peace. Now you want to stay mad? I don't understand.
I'm not finna out mad my wife. That's not what
I'm finna do. No, we have an argument and then
she come to me and let it go. You best
(02:30):
to know we're finnah.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
Let this go.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
Yeah, because it could go really badly, right, she could
give you.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Yeah, this moment and enjoy yourself fall. Yeah, there's no
way let it go.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
I'm not I'm not. I'm just not gonna stay.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Mad, all right? Advice, Yeah, all right.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Moving on to Robin in Milwaukee, Robin writes, I'm practically
I've practically begged my husband for sex the last five
times we've had it.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
He said it's him and not me. If his sex.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Drive has decreased, I get it. But I've heard him
in the shower and everything seems fine with him.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
So why doesn't he want sex?
Speaker 3 (03:17):
He's doing it in a shower?
Speaker 2 (03:21):
She answered her own questions. What's wrong, Steve, There's.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
So many angles this could be coming.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
From, you know, like he's telling you it's him, it's
not you, right, But you think he and the shower
doing something alone.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Yeah, she says she's heard him there and everything thinks fine.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
Well, then it's something he's doing alone.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
It's better than when y'all together?
Speaker 4 (03:56):
Wow ah, or or another option. Yeah, he's found a
better way to accomplish something.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
And it's just but he's telling you it's not you.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
It could be him because been know how long you've
been married, you know you could lose attraction for a person.
Here's what I heard the guy say one time, and
this is going to be horrible, lady, so I just
want to tell say it. A guy said one time,
he said, he man, you love your wife, right, And
the other guy said yeah. He said, so what's your
(04:36):
favorite meat? And the guy said steak. He said, cool,
you love steak? He said, yes, I do. He said
you don't want them on fish and chicken.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
I know.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
He did not use meat to describe.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
And I had to sit back. And that's a good one,
good horrible. You're right, told y'all. So I said, y'all,
don't hate you practiced it?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Yeah boom, I just said it was good.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
But y'all, he said, you don't want no more fish
or ship?
Speaker 1 (05:20):
God, what a dilemma.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
So that's that's what you're saying. That's happening here, could
possibly no.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
I was just using ass and nogic. I thought it was.
Speaker 4 (05:34):
Very cute, calling to make it cute because she got
off the zoom.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
You thought that was cute?
Speaker 3 (05:43):
Yeah, I thought it was very funny. You better be
killed for though. He gonna follow the next show later.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
He could hold on right, all right, you're done with
that one, clo.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
We're moving on. Okay, last one, last one. That's it.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
That's all.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
This is from Kenneth in Grand Prairie. Kenneth writes, my
girlfriend invited me to a wedding in Hawaii, and I
don't want to spend the money on the two airline tickets.
That's the only reason she invited me. Can I be
honest with her? Can I be honest and tell her
I don't want to spend the money or should I
lie to her?
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Well, just say you don't want to spend the money, man,
tell the truth and that well, because this is easy,
because it's going to open up the conversation you need
to have. He feels as though the only reason she
invited him to this wedding in Hawaii is so he
could pay for these tickets. Now, all he got to
(06:47):
do is say, Hey, I ain't really that cool with
them people, and I don't want to go in the
hole trying to go over here and see these two
people get married.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
I don't really know them like that. They ain't even
invite me.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
They invited you and gave you the plus one, But
I don't want to go over there and spend that
kind of money. I don't really know these people, and
then she'll go. So you don't want to go with me? Now,
I don't want to go with you all the way
to Hawaii to go to they win, which I think
that's why you want me to go, so I can
pay for these tickets.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Oh lord, he mess, that's the truth. That's the truth.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
I didn't say, don't ever tell me when the truth
fit you. Oh you don't need a never waste a
good lie.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
I mean, why would he say I gotta work that
week and then waste a lot?
Speaker 2 (07:43):
Where's the logic in that? Huh? Save you? Yes, really
truly need him? All right, you're listening Hard Morning Show
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