Ask The CLO - 06.12.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the colo. This is from
Quinn and Minneapolis. Quinn writes, my husband takes my cell
phone at times if he's out, running out to get
coffee or anywhere quick. I have nothing to hide, but
it's annoying that he grabs my phone. That's over sharing

(00:20):
and he needs to take his own phone. Am I
overreacting on it?

Speaker 2 (00:25):
I don't think you are. I don't think you are.
I don't understand why.

Speaker 3 (00:31):
While I'm taking your phone, you ain't got none of
my contacts in there.

Speaker 2 (00:36):
I don't want to talk.

Speaker 3 (00:37):
None of your friends.

Speaker 2 (00:40):
That about I. I just don't. I don't know. I
don't know what that is.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
I don't know. You know it called itself taking the phone.
You ain't talking nobody while I'm gone. It could be
that insecurity he could be checking your phones whatever. But no,
you're not overreacting. It's your phone. To take your phone.
Even if you're married, you don't belong to somebody just well,
I can't say that.

Speaker 2 (01:06):
Let me put it to you this way.

Speaker 3 (01:08):
Just because you're married, you still have to have some
things that are yours. You can't give up your individuality completely, right,
You know, a woman and a man You deserve your
own phone, your own bank account. Every married person should
have their own bank account. You got to have something
of yours that you can control. You can't just give

(01:29):
yourself over to somebody else and let them do what
they want to do. Who do that?

Speaker 4 (01:33):
That ain't fun at all?

Speaker 2 (01:35):
All right?

Speaker 4 (01:36):
Thank you.

Speaker 3 (01:39):
Sent me into sum right that left the house with.

Speaker 5 (01:41):
The phone with it.

Speaker 4 (01:44):
What that couldn't happen to you.

Speaker 2 (01:48):
If you had got to run that car off the road?

Speaker 4 (01:54):
All right? Moving on to Brittany and Northcross.

Speaker 1 (01:58):
Brittany writes, my dad was not in my life until
I got married and had a child. Now he's the
best grandfather ever. He was even there for my son's birth,
and I got jealous and resentful.

Speaker 4 (02:09):
Because of that. I'm almost thirty.

Speaker 1 (02:12):
So should I tell my dad or let go of
the past.

Speaker 3 (02:16):
Well, I'm not a psychologist or psychiatrist, but let me
just say this. You can ruin your future dwelling on
your past. You can do that. I know a lot
of people who have done it.

Speaker 2 (02:29):
Now.

Speaker 3 (02:30):
I know you might have some daddy issues because you
didn't have a father. That's very very reasonable, that's very
doable in you, and you might have to discuss that
with him. But he's grown into a new person. People
have a right to change. You're in his life now,
he's a great grandfather, you know what I mean? He said, Man,

(02:51):
I messed up on trying to get it right. I
don't think you're looking at that part. You're only looking
at the part of what he didn't do for you. You're
not looking at what he's doing for you now and
what he's providing for the grandchild. So you can go.
I mean, you might as well have a talk with
him and just say, hey, look, I felt resentful. Forgive me.
I've been thinking these ways. I'm sorry I was upset

(03:13):
with you because you weren't there for me. Now you're
there all the time, and now I don't know why
you mad because he there now though, But people have
to deal with issues they way. You might have to
bring it up and say something to him about it,
or get counseling, which I don't you know, I'm not
a counsel type person, but a lot of people are.
So you might have to get therapy to talk through

(03:35):
the issues about it because him not being there has
created something for sure.

Speaker 1 (03:39):
Absolutely, Yeah, okay, all right, Celo, thank you for that
one Asia in Baltimore says, my boyfriend will take my
car to the car wash, but he will not get
the inside cleaned and vacuumed.

Speaker 4 (03:51):
I get tired.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
I got tired of it, so I hired the young
man across the street to vacuum and wash my windows
to get back at him.

Speaker 4 (03:58):
It worked. Am I petty for doing it?

Speaker 3 (04:02):
Yeah? You said, to get back at him and it worked? Yeah, yeah,
am I petty? Yeah? Yeah, you petty?

Speaker 2 (04:08):
The next question, all right, the last one, and you
know you petty?

Speaker 1 (04:13):
You said, yeah, yeah yeah. Eric and Dothan writes that
my wife talks in her sleep.

Speaker 3 (04:21):
Dothan, Alabama, thirty one baby, Holiday in Express, Go ahead, shah.

Speaker 4 (04:26):
My wife? What lounge?

Speaker 2 (04:30):
Parrot parrot lounge?

Speaker 3 (04:31):
I'm sticking outside Holiday in Express on two thirty one
at Dothan.

Speaker 1 (04:36):
Okay uh anyway, Eric writes that my wife talks in
her sleep, and last night she said, hey, Steve. I
assumed it was Steve Harvey because we watched Family Feud
before bed. Survey says, my wife is dreaming about you, Steve.
Is it normal to dream or fantasize about a.

Speaker 3 (04:58):
Absolutely not, absolutely not, absolutely not. And she didn't say,
Steve Harvey. So you know, it could be Steve Wilco. Uh,
he got a show. Used to be Jerry Springer's bodyguard.

Speaker 1 (05:13):
You yeah, before bed.

Speaker 2 (05:19):
Yeah, it could be him. Yeah, it's you. It could be.
It's a lot of Steve's. I know, you could just
be one of them.

Speaker 3 (05:27):
You could be dreaming about Steve Stout and then that'll
be a problem because he ain't that family.

Speaker 5 (05:32):
But he lived in New York. And then you know, yeah,
it's either you of steven A Smith. It's one of
the two. But there you go, oh stephen A right here.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
She would say, no, she wouldn't.

Speaker 3 (05:48):
There's Steve. They don't they cool? You know?

Speaker 4 (05:51):
So I don't.

Speaker 3 (05:51):
I'm not in her dreams. Dog, No I ain't. I
ain't finna be that, No, no, sir.

Speaker 4 (06:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (06:05):
All the people shout out to Monica Barnes, who was
at the golf tournament and who has been on some
type of program and looked absolutely amazing yesterday. Shout out
to Monica Bard straight out of Mississippi on some type
of program and they was on hall at the golf

(06:27):
tournament yesterday. They were on hall. Yeah, she was out there,
she was out there winning Shirley in college.

Speaker 4 (06:36):
Get your dub girl a win.

Speaker 1 (06:39):
She looks great and that's all her own hair, thank you, yes,
beauty po And.

Speaker 3 (06:45):
I told him that too. I said, she's single and
that's her hair.

Speaker 2 (06:50):
That's all.

Speaker 3 (06:51):
That's her hair.

Speaker 4 (06:52):
If she bought it is her hair.

Speaker 3 (06:55):
Now, no, she ain't bought that though. That ain't come
out the bag, that comes right out the roots.

Speaker 4 (07:04):
All right.

Speaker 1 (07:05):
So, uh so you're you're convinced that it wasn't you
she was dreaming about.

Speaker 4 (07:09):
We're all in disagreement.

Speaker 3 (07:12):
That's way too many, Steve.

Speaker 1 (07:14):
Yeah, but they watched Family Feud right before bed. Okay,
so it stands to reason that I.

Speaker 2 (07:19):
Don't they don't stand what you stand to reason me.

Speaker 4 (07:25):
Because they watched the show.

Speaker 2 (07:27):
I don't never understood that. He's stand to reason.

Speaker 4 (07:31):
She doesn't say, you could have been the show.

Speaker 3 (07:36):
She was on her far, she was on her phone.
She was on her phone. She could have been talking
about Steve jobs.

Speaker 4 (07:42):
Everybody in Family Feuds have tast Steve.

Speaker 1 (07:46):
Yeah, you're listening, Steve Harvey Morning Show