June 16, 2025 • 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to ask the celo our chief love Officer,
(00:02):
Steve Harvey. This is from Miles in Newark. Miles writes,
I'm thirty seven and just ended a long term relationship
because my girlfriend cheated on me. We're still friends and
I am trying to move on, but she keeps calling
me and asking me to give her another chance. I
love her, but is she worth another try? Wow?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
I can't do it. Yeah, and I'm not wanted a man,
so I can't do it.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Okay, because she cheated, she slept.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Well, I mean, you know, look, it's like this though.
It's a difference, man, It's just a difference. It's a
double standard.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
It is a difference.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
It's a double standard. And that's a horbwe it's a hallwar.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Get with somebody, but usually it's the other way around.
A woman takes the man back a lot of times,
a lot of women are yeah, the men will not Yeah, yeah,
yeah yeah. It is a double standard. Sure, and that's it.
(01:24):
Look at them, look at the man on the show.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
Yeah, it is what it is.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Thirty seven, Time to move on because you can find
somebody ain't gonna do that to you.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Mm hmm. But why is why do you want her
to take you back if you've cheated, because the same
kind of and we can find somebody else.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
As were always having this one.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Discussion, because this is one that will never go wherever.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
The other week we hear this right here.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
Okay, well answer the question though, don't don't answer? Can
you answer it?
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Just go by the rules.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
You don't make me what the rules.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Is for the layer of the land. I just tried
to a whole bunch of questions that I don't understand,
but I don't want to hear it. I can go
how many people? How many people in the Bible Shirley
had five, six wives? How many of them had five?
Speaker 1 (02:21):
But it was okay, I mean, look at King Solomon,
it was okay back in the day.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
You go ahead after the I got five six, seven
wives over there. But when we came over here, how
come we didn't bring that with us? How come we
left that over there?
Speaker 1 (02:33):
And how come women can have more than one husband?
Speaker 2 (02:36):
I met a guy in Africa. I met a guy
in Africa that had five wives, and I met the
five wives. I'm sitting there the whole time, going just
to five you picked.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
You know what? Sure? I can.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
All right, five cracks ated and it's what you came up.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
We're out of this one movie. Onto tank, Tink Tink
in Penola, nobody we have We have since left that one,
all right, Tink and Pensacola rights. I dressed very conservatively usually,
but I was rushing to church and I wore a
low cut blouse. My aunt saw it and said that
(03:19):
I should go change. I'm fifty one and married. She's
sixty six and a side chick. Can I tell her
about herself? Or should I continue to be respectful?
Speaker 2 (03:29):
To just continue to be respectful. But she's sixty six
at the side chick. Go home and change for what?
Speaker 3 (03:37):
You know?
Speaker 2 (03:37):
What they wear to church?
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Now?
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Did you see Tamar singing gospel will Kirk Franklin? She
had low cut, short split everything. Yeah, don't judge.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Me, you're shit. Yeah he's sick.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Yeah, I ain't, no chick. That's a turkey, that's.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Jesus geese.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Yeah sad, Oh goodness, all right, that sad. So tinking
and hanging off your neck everything.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
All right.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Moving on to Jamie and Dover, Jamie writes, I've been
married seventeen years and my wife started sleeping naked I
don't like it. It doesn't seem clean. I am a
neat freak, so I've been changing the sheets more often.
How do I get her to at least wear panties
to bed? Is that too much to what? Stupid?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
What? You're just stupidness? Had ye.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Created?
Speaker 2 (05:03):
How can I get at least all wearing panni?
Speaker 3 (05:06):
What? What?
Speaker 1 (05:07):
What's not about that? If she's going yeah, said stupid.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
You don't need no way. You got some issues, dog,
you need you need counseling.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Oh now you recommend now because he doesn't want his
wife naked?
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Who don't want naked?
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Woman? You don't want that? I have never heard she's
trying to figure out who.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Come on, I'm gonna take that now.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
She's gonna climb in this bed naked with some pannies
her pajamas at like mine?
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Crazy man?
Speaker 2 (05:49):
You know how fast I see you coming to the bed, niggad?
You know how fan when you bury the time you
get the covers back, I'm already naked.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
You ain't got to wait on me.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Bro if I fall asleep with a hoodie, said on,
and I see you coming to the bed naked by
the time you put your foot up on that bed.
By the time you pull them covers up, you roll over,
kiss me good night. I'm naked too.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Hey baby? All right, so he's saying, isn't too much
to ask? So you're you're not even doing it's too much? Yeah,
come on, stupid, Come on stupid?
Speaker 3 (06:26):
All right?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Last one, last one, Celo. This is from Mika and Sacramento.
Mika says, I've got two guys that are interested in me,
but I'm not over my ex yet. Is it best
to date someone to move on? Or is it unfair
to waste another man's time? She needs some advice, she says,
please advice.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Of course, it's unfair to waste their time. Of course
it's unfair.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
And how you ain't.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Over him yet? What what you hanging on for? He don't,
won't you?
Speaker 1 (06:55):
You go that part?
Speaker 3 (06:58):
Yeah? Promise you. He over you.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
And under somebody else.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
He's sitting nowhere worrying about you. M he done got
over you with another you?
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Oh that part? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (07:14):
So you need to pull yourself together, young lady.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Okay and move on. You're telling her to move on
to basically yeah, I mean did he gone? Yeah, he's out? Okay,
what's just worried about? Waiting the other guys.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Hold on part to do When He Loves Gone.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
You're still watching a barcue video at Johnny Gill's house,
aren't you. You're listening Hardy Morning Show
It's time to ask the celo our chief love Officer,
(00:02):
Steve Harvey. This is from Miles in Newark. Miles writes,
I'm thirty seven and just ended a long term relationship
because my girlfriend cheated on me. We're still friends and
I am trying to move on, but she keeps calling
me and asking me to give her another chance. I
love her, but is she worth another try? Wow?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
I can't do it. Yeah, and I'm not wanted a man,
so I can't do it.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Okay, because she cheated, she slept.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Well, I mean, you know, look, it's like this though.
It's a difference, man, It's just a difference. It's a
double standard.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
It is a difference.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
It's a double standard. And that's a horbwe it's a hallwar.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Get with somebody, but usually it's the other way around.
A woman takes the man back a lot of times,
a lot of women are yeah, the men will not Yeah, yeah,
yeah yeah. It is a double standard. Sure, and that's it.
(01:24):
Look at them, look at the man on the show.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
Yeah, it is what it is.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Thirty seven, Time to move on because you can find
somebody ain't gonna do that to you.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Mm hmm. But why is why do you want her
to take you back if you've cheated, because the same
kind of and we can find somebody else.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
As were always having this one.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Discussion, because this is one that will never go wherever.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
The other week we hear this right here.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
Okay, well answer the question though, don't don't answer? Can
you answer it?
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Just go by the rules.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
You don't make me what the rules.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Is for the layer of the land. I just tried
to a whole bunch of questions that I don't understand,
but I don't want to hear it. I can go
how many people? How many people in the Bible Shirley
had five, six wives? How many of them had five?
Speaker 1 (02:21):
But it was okay, I mean, look at King Solomon,
it was okay back in the day.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
You go ahead after the I got five six, seven
wives over there. But when we came over here, how
come we didn't bring that with us? How come we
left that over there?
Speaker 1 (02:33):
And how come women can have more than one husband?
Speaker 2 (02:36):
I met a guy in Africa. I met a guy
in Africa that had five wives, and I met the
five wives. I'm sitting there the whole time, going just
to five you picked.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
You know what? Sure? I can.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
All right, five cracks ated and it's what you came up.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
We're out of this one movie. Onto tank, Tink Tink
in Penola, nobody we have We have since left that one,
all right, Tink and Pensacola rights. I dressed very conservatively usually,
but I was rushing to church and I wore a
low cut blouse. My aunt saw it and said that
(03:19):
I should go change. I'm fifty one and married. She's
sixty six and a side chick. Can I tell her
about herself? Or should I continue to be respectful?
Speaker 2 (03:29):
To just continue to be respectful. But she's sixty six
at the side chick. Go home and change for what?
Speaker 3 (03:37):
You know?
Speaker 2 (03:37):
What they wear to church?
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Now?
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Did you see Tamar singing gospel will Kirk Franklin? She
had low cut, short split everything. Yeah, don't judge.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Me, you're shit. Yeah he's sick.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Yeah, I ain't, no chick. That's a turkey, that's.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Jesus geese.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
Yeah sad, Oh goodness, all right, that sad. So tinking
and hanging off your neck everything.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
All right.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Moving on to Jamie and Dover, Jamie writes, I've been
married seventeen years and my wife started sleeping naked I
don't like it. It doesn't seem clean. I am a
neat freak, so I've been changing the sheets more often.
How do I get her to at least wear panties
to bed? Is that too much to what? Stupid?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
What? You're just stupidness? Had ye.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
Created?
Speaker 2 (05:03):
How can I get at least all wearing panni?
Speaker 3 (05:06):
What? What?
Speaker 1 (05:07):
What's not about that? If she's going yeah, said stupid.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
You don't need no way. You got some issues, dog,
you need you need counseling.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Oh now you recommend now because he doesn't want his
wife naked?
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Who don't want naked?
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Woman? You don't want that? I have never heard she's
trying to figure out who.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Come on, I'm gonna take that now.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
She's gonna climb in this bed naked with some pannies
her pajamas at like mine?
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Crazy man?
Speaker 2 (05:49):
You know how fast I see you coming to the bed, niggad?
You know how fan when you bury the time you
get the covers back, I'm already naked.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
You ain't got to wait on me.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Bro if I fall asleep with a hoodie, said on,
and I see you coming to the bed naked by
the time you put your foot up on that bed.
By the time you pull them covers up, you roll over,
kiss me good night. I'm naked too.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Hey baby? All right, so he's saying, isn't too much
to ask? So you're you're not even doing it's too much? Yeah,
come on, stupid, Come on stupid?
Speaker 3 (06:26):
All right?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Last one, last one, Celo. This is from Mika and Sacramento.
Mika says, I've got two guys that are interested in me,
but I'm not over my ex yet. Is it best
to date someone to move on? Or is it unfair
to waste another man's time? She needs some advice, she says,
please advice.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Of course, it's unfair to waste their time. Of course
it's unfair.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
And how you ain't.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Over him yet? What what you hanging on for? He don't,
won't you?
Speaker 1 (06:55):
You go that part?
Speaker 3 (06:58):
Yeah? Promise you. He over you.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
And under somebody else.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
He's sitting nowhere worrying about you. M he done got
over you with another you?
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Oh that part? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (07:14):
So you need to pull yourself together, young lady.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Okay and move on. You're telling her to move on
to basically yeah, I mean did he gone? Yeah, he's out? Okay,
what's just worried about? Waiting the other guys.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Hold on part to do When He Loves Gone.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
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