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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. All Right, Gena and Philly writes, my uncle
brought his much younger wife over to meet me and
my husband. She was cute, but her lashes were too
long and her dress was too tight. I caught my
husband staring at her a few times. He talks bad
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about women like this, but he didn't have one bad
thing to say about her. Is this really what he likes?
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Yeah? Quit looking at her. Yeah, that's answer that question.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Next question, show you don't want to elaborate.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
That's what he liked, that's what he likes, and that
ain't what you do.
Speaker 3 (00:42):
And always remember this to he talk about women who
do that, that's a deflection. Sitting here with all them
tight clothes on them, long eyelashes.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
I like eye lashes, Uh huh.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
But I mean there's a point where they can be
too long, though.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
Me. But long as it ain't on Margine, I don't care.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Ah. Moving on to Tanya in New Mexico. Tanya, right,
seven years ago, I was dating a man that sold drugs,
and now he's changed his life and is a preacher.
He's wanting me back in his life. But I'm still
a dancer, and I make great money and I get
paid for appearances. I'm sure he hasn't changed all of
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his ways, So why is he trying to change me
all of a sudden?
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Because he a preacher trying to say they're the sole
conversion business. So why is he trying to change you?
How long you think you're gonna be able to get
up on that pole?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Hello? Hello, she said, a dancer. It's the pole, she said,
a dancer. Sure, he didn't say the stripper.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
She ain't nobody paying no money to come see you
do Alving Haley, And.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
It's Ailee, Ailee. Ain't nobody going out here and see
you do the nut Cracker?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Well?
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Crazy?
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Well now so Shirley, Yeah, that's why. And uh, you
know he wants you back in his life. But you're
still a dancer, now you know. Why is he trying
to change you? But that's it, skip it gone, keep dancing.
If you keep doing what you've been doing, you're gonna
keep getting what you've been getting. So keep on dancing,
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get that money, and your life won't go forward anywhere.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
But are you working to night? Though? Here's here's the
other problem too. When people change.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Don't expect everybody to go along with the change, because
the majority of the people will always reference you to
where you were when they knew you. And so her
reference point is you out in them streets. Now you're
a preacher trying to talk to her differently, and all
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she sees is you are selling drugs. Now, I'm the baddie.
So you gotta be careful when you make your change
and you approach people with the new youth.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Be very careful, that's right. Yeah, no judgments, Yeah, because
we all have a past, all right. Moving on to
Florida and Tuskegee, Florida says, I have a question. If
I'm dating a man and he tells me that he's
had orgies and threesomes a lot in the past, well,
he eventually want me to do this sort of thing too.
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The dating pool is so terrible. Now what am I
getting myself into with him?
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Yeah? Some orgies are some threesome that's what I know.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
That's you're dating a man, and that's what he keeps
telling you.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
So he's throwing that out there. That's bait.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
And if you cool with it, you want to see
him anyway, and you gonna have to see him and
rested in people.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Well, she's saying the dating pool is so terrible now,
so it sounds like she is gonna keep saying him because.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Well you're stupid.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Yeah, because the dating pool just because it's terrible now,
don't mean you have to be in it.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Yeah, you don't have to date him.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
You have to just yeah, upgrade your standards.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
See, in order to not be treated badly, you must
first start with not accepting bad treatment.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Amen.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
That's just the beginning of it all. But if you're
willing to even entertain it, did he it come? If
I think for one minute you're gonna go along with
this here, then along with it we go.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Yeah, what you know, threesome ain't bad treatment though, I mean,
it ain't.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Why you're looking at it like that. You tell you
to do equal treatments in a threesome.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
You know you can't figure out how they work?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Two difficult balance des out Why are you rubbing your
fore heads.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
One two three four past stop and kiss one two
and rub one circles stop, turn and rub.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Exercise.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
And bounce one two thief and turn bounce one two
three four five. I was trying to distribute that to you,
and I said, man, I stop this hell right here,
I'm wearing myself. I'm losing count. This ain't going good
at all.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Yeah, don't get involved, Florida, Please, We'll all right. Vanya
in Ohio says, this is the last one.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Steve.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
There's a part of town where couples go to have
sex in the car. My cousin joked about, saying, my
car parked there last week. I've never been up there,
but I let my boyfriend use my car. My cousin
has no reason to lie. So should I confront my
man with a rumor or wait to catch him slipping
and bust him myself?
Speaker 3 (06:23):
You really think that he finish? Say he was up
there with your card confronting him right now. I'm telling you,
right now, he is going to din to lie.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Now. On the other hand, you ain't the only one
with that kind of car.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Oh that's first, that's out the gate. That's a lie
out the gate.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Thank you. Yeah, you're the only one. What you think,
I'm the only one.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
I love how you flip.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
I'm gonna tell you right now. You go right on
here to.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
The blue he stationed and run the track and you'll
find out how many he calls it.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I see him all the time. You know how many
times I thought that was you? Oh help it God.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Was in that parking lot over there by the Walmart.
I thought I saw your car got out with a
baby seat in the bag.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
Wasn't even you?
Speaker 3 (07:19):
And then you have my all time. I thought I
saw you down that CBS some day. That wasn't you.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
I pull up on you to drive through down there
that windy That wasn't you. Now your cousin's seeing your
car there? Did he see me? Did he see me?
He saw the car? Did he see me? All right?
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Thank you, Clo. You're listening hard Morning Show