July 4, 2025 • 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the clo cheaf love officer
Steve Harvey. All right. Leah in New Jersey writes, I
was dating a guy that was separated but had not
gotten a divorce.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
His wife accused me of being a homewrecker.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
But when I met her husband, he had his own
apartment and he was honest about everything. She blames their
separation on me. Why do some women have misplaced anger
in these situations?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Well, you gotta blame somebody, And she figured, if you
want this dating you the one that calls it real,
that's an automatic.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
Then how many times that didn't happen? That ain't nothing new?
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
Why do women have displace a it's this place to you?
She thinks she'd nailed it.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
Why you think it ain't you?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
You know, but when you met him, you had his
apartment and that's probably true. But she gonna blame somebody
the moment. This is all the evidence she got. She
don't know as she don't know as her, She don't
knows him, so she don't found a reason. And it's you,
and it's really not you. It probably not even her.
(01:10):
It's probably just a shortcoming in him. Why do women
always try to find another reason other than they pick
choice of men.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
That makes it the cause and effect. Sometimes you just
picked the wrong man. That's all. Ain't a big deal.
You can get it right, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Moving on to Tandra in Phoenix, Tandra says, I've been
dating a man for eight months and I've only been
to his house once. He lives an hour away from me,
and he comes to visit me, or we meet up
in the middle. He facetimes me from his house. So
I don't think he lives with anyone. Is there a
reason he doesn't invite me to his home? What's up
(01:50):
with him?
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Yeah? He got other things happening.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Yeah, like what I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
I don't know if it's a pedans in there. But
you're not coming on. You've been over there one time.
That was a close call. You can't come back over here.
That's all to it, y'all meeting halfway in all this here,
you don't never come out there, so you know, come on, now,
use your intuition. Whatever your intuition is telling you, that's
(02:16):
probably what it is.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
So what part of the house is he in?
Speaker 3 (02:20):
God, he is close to the balcony. Wherever he close
close to it the way he can step out any second.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
So if you see movement in their kitchen or something.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Hell, now he ain't in no clothes, He ain't in
the den where it ain't no out.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
No, he got he got to be able to step
out real quick. It's a strategic and I mean tell
him to take a tour.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Let him tell him. You want to see his apartment
on tour? Tell me the FaceTime you tour. Then you
see all this stuff in that crib in the corner, you.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
Know, like that PhiX Now little swings it over there,
dividing in the you know, open defrigerator.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
What is all that similar in that? All right?
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Moving on to U Katina in Chicago.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Katina writes, my husband and I went to a graduation
party for his knie. One of his exes was at
the party, and I had a conflict with her recently
because she d MD my husband and he showed it
to me. She apologized after I called her out on it,
and my husband is upset because I didn't speak to her.
Do I have to be nice to her?
Speaker 4 (03:34):
No?
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Not really. I don't really know how you gonna be nice? No,
you ain't got it, you know you confronted her. She apologized,
Now he wants you to be nice. That's his that's
his world. You ain't gotta be in that. You didn't
pick her. He picked her. You didn't ex her, he
exed her. So now we access let's be exes.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
I'm to your ex. You don't. You don't speak to
your ex?
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Well?
Speaker 2 (03:58):
What what?
Speaker 4 (04:03):
What are we talking about?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
I mean, it's just a common court.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
I wanted to be an ex so we could stop talking.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
That was your goal.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
That was one of the key key That was one
of the key developmental parts of this breakup. How can
I not talk to this person no more. I don't
got to hear this.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
I don't care what you think. That's fine. Whatever you think,
that's fine. What is we talking about?
Speaker 4 (04:34):
Why? What are we talking about it?
Speaker 2 (04:36):
It's not like you moved away. You still got to exist,
live in the same world. You might run in.
Speaker 4 (04:41):
World, live in the world. You ain't finished stay over here, though.
I hope I do run into you.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
And then what I must be pretty because I ain't.
Speaker 6 (04:52):
Look, I'm not saying nothing.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
If I encouraging, yeah, if I do see you, wow.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
Okay, give me some places I could see and let
me tell.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
You what I did well, like at the grocery store
in the problem, Huh, I lost my APPETI.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Starbus, never eat again, Starbucks.
Speaker 4 (05:20):
I like, I like, I like.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
I like a Dunky donut coffee. You know, sometime I
run it into him like that, you said, I running
in I got Oh you was talking about what the car.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
On the freeway.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Yeah, we're moving on with these killers.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
We're moving on all right.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Last one Steve, Marie and Grand Prairie says, I work
with the lady that smells like bacon grease every day.
It's in her wigs and her clothes and her work bag.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I am embarrassed for her, she says.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Marie says, I'm embarrassed for her because our coworkers call.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Her a grease ball.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
There are only four blacks at our job, so I
don't like this at all. Should I get out of
my comfort zone and tell her that she smells that?
Speaker 2 (06:12):
I mean, you know that's what Marie wants to know.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
Oh, you could just bring eggs and toast.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Worker a meal.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Well, that way she would just smell like breakfast.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
And I want to say baker. She loved bacon. She
had she and that cooking bacon, but you might have to.
I don't know if you all are close enough for that.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
It doesn't sound like it. She just says, I work
with a lady. She's they're just both black women at
the same job.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
You know, her wig smell like Greece, so maybe she
got a studio apartment.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Yeah, it's all that bothers me. How does your wigs
smell like Greek.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
At least, you know, probably love it.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
At least the quality of wig And the words of
Ricky Smiley he dated a girl wig was so country,
it was so crunchy that it felt like a easter basket.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
Grass. I heard Ricky Smiley.
Speaker 6 (07:22):
Say that, like easter basket grass.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
I remember that.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
Grass, green grass. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
All right, well, thank you, Clo. That's all we have
for you today. You're listening Dave Harvey Morning Show
It is time to ask the clo cheaf love officer
Steve Harvey. All right. Leah in New Jersey writes, I
was dating a guy that was separated but had not
gotten a divorce.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
His wife accused me of being a homewrecker.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
But when I met her husband, he had his own
apartment and he was honest about everything. She blames their
separation on me. Why do some women have misplaced anger
in these situations?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Well, you gotta blame somebody, And she figured, if you
want this dating you the one that calls it real,
that's an automatic.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
Then how many times that didn't happen? That ain't nothing new?
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
Why do women have displace a it's this place to you?
She thinks she'd nailed it.
Speaker 4 (00:46):
Why you think it ain't you?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
You know, but when you met him, you had his
apartment and that's probably true. But she gonna blame somebody
the moment. This is all the evidence she got. She
don't know as she don't know as her, She don't
knows him, so she don't found a reason. And it's you,
and it's really not you. It probably not even her.
(01:10):
It's probably just a shortcoming in him. Why do women
always try to find another reason other than they pick
choice of men.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
That makes it the cause and effect. Sometimes you just
picked the wrong man. That's all. Ain't a big deal.
You can get it right, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Moving on to Tandra in Phoenix, Tandra says, I've been
dating a man for eight months and I've only been
to his house once. He lives an hour away from me,
and he comes to visit me, or we meet up
in the middle. He facetimes me from his house. So
I don't think he lives with anyone. Is there a
reason he doesn't invite me to his home? What's up
(01:50):
with him?
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Yeah? He got other things happening.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Yeah, like what I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
I don't know if it's a pedans in there. But
you're not coming on. You've been over there one time.
That was a close call. You can't come back over here.
That's all to it, y'all meeting halfway in all this here,
you don't never come out there, so you know, come on, now,
use your intuition. Whatever your intuition is telling you, that's
(02:16):
probably what it is.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
So what part of the house is he in?
Speaker 3 (02:20):
God, he is close to the balcony. Wherever he close
close to it the way he can step out any second.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
So if you see movement in their kitchen or something.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Hell, now he ain't in no clothes, He ain't in
the den where it ain't no out.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
No, he got he got to be able to step
out real quick. It's a strategic and I mean tell
him to take a tour.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Let him tell him. You want to see his apartment
on tour? Tell me the FaceTime you tour. Then you
see all this stuff in that crib in the corner, you.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
Know, like that PhiX Now little swings it over there,
dividing in the you know, open defrigerator.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
What is all that similar in that? All right?
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Moving on to U Katina in Chicago.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Katina writes, my husband and I went to a graduation
party for his knie. One of his exes was at
the party, and I had a conflict with her recently
because she d MD my husband and he showed it
to me. She apologized after I called her out on it,
and my husband is upset because I didn't speak to her.
Do I have to be nice to her?
Speaker 4 (03:34):
No?
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Not really. I don't really know how you gonna be nice? No,
you ain't got it, you know you confronted her. She apologized,
Now he wants you to be nice. That's his that's
his world. You ain't gotta be in that. You didn't
pick her. He picked her. You didn't ex her, he
exed her. So now we access let's be exes.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
I'm to your ex. You don't. You don't speak to
your ex?
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Well?
Speaker 2 (03:58):
What what?
Speaker 4 (04:03):
What are we talking about?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
I mean, it's just a common court.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
I wanted to be an ex so we could stop talking.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
That was your goal.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
That was one of the key key That was one
of the key developmental parts of this breakup. How can
I not talk to this person no more. I don't
got to hear this.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
Thank you.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
I don't care what you think. That's fine. Whatever you think,
that's fine. What is we talking about?
Speaker 4 (04:34):
Why? What are we talking about it?
Speaker 2 (04:36):
It's not like you moved away. You still got to exist,
live in the same world. You might run in.
Speaker 4 (04:41):
World, live in the world. You ain't finished stay over here, though.
I hope I do run into you.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
And then what I must be pretty because I ain't.
Speaker 6 (04:52):
Look, I'm not saying nothing.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
If I encouraging, yeah, if I do see you, wow.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
Okay, give me some places I could see and let
me tell.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
You what I did well, like at the grocery store
in the problem, Huh, I lost my APPETI.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Starbus, never eat again, Starbucks.
Speaker 4 (05:20):
I like, I like, I like.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
I like a Dunky donut coffee. You know, sometime I
run it into him like that, you said, I running
in I got Oh you was talking about what the car.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
On the freeway.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Yeah, we're moving on with these killers.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
We're moving on all right.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Last one Steve, Marie and Grand Prairie says, I work
with the lady that smells like bacon grease every day.
It's in her wigs and her clothes and her work bag.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I am embarrassed for her, she says.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Marie says, I'm embarrassed for her because our coworkers call.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Her a grease ball.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
There are only four blacks at our job, so I
don't like this at all. Should I get out of
my comfort zone and tell her that she smells that?
Speaker 2 (06:12):
I mean, you know that's what Marie wants to know.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
Oh, you could just bring eggs and toast.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Worker a meal.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Well, that way she would just smell like breakfast.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
And I want to say baker. She loved bacon. She
had she and that cooking bacon, but you might have to.
I don't know if you all are close enough for that.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
It doesn't sound like it. She just says, I work
with a lady. She's they're just both black women at
the same job.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
You know, her wig smell like Greece, so maybe she
got a studio apartment.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Yeah, it's all that bothers me. How does your wigs
smell like Greek.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
At least, you know, probably love it.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
At least the quality of wig And the words of
Ricky Smiley he dated a girl wig was so country,
it was so crunchy that it felt like a easter basket.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
Grass. I heard Ricky Smiley.
Speaker 6 (07:22):
Say that, like easter basket grass.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
I remember that.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
Grass, green grass. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
All right, well, thank you, Clo. That's all we have
for you today. You're listening Dave Harvey Morning Show
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