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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to ask the CLO or Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. All right, this is from Angel in Teck.
Thelo Angel writes, I spent a week with my parents
in Ohio. My dad told me that he doesn't love
my mom anymore and he wants to move out. But
he needs to know that I'll take care of my
mom if he leaves her. I don't want that responsibility.
(00:23):
What do I tell him? God? Yeah, I said, well, you.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Know, I mean, what do I tell him? Tell him
that you don't want the responsibility? You know, I mean,
I don't know what else to tell you. See, he
wants you to take care of her, but he wants
to leave. See right, First of all, Daddy got something, Elsey,
did Daddy want to go do something?
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Mel Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
People do fall out of love, People change, people view
things differently. Who you are today is not who you
were yesterday. That's the case with all of us. So
your dad made a decision. That's not your responsibility, though,
and you just have to tell him that. Dad, just
like you, have to honor your decisions and you're free
(01:13):
to make yours. I want to be able to be
free to make mine too, and that doesn't include taking
care of your mom. Now how old are they is
the number one question, right because now if your mama
was bedridden or something like that and he tied and
he leave it, then he got to make some other arrangements.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
It can't be.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
You, you know, because what you can't do. If it's
a medical reason why your mother needs caring for, or
he just saying stop buying check on her because it's
gonna devastate her, that's a whole nother thing. So I
don't know enough particulars, but I mean, i'd always look
out for my mom if I was you. But at
the same time, if he's talking about becoming a caregiver,
(01:54):
then popgnna had to make some arrangements.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
Okay, all right? Moving on to Marcus in Monroe. Marcus
says I had sex with my cousin's girlfriend. I didn't
know they were dating. She had sex with me on purpose.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
To start over shows.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
All right, This is from Marcus Monroe, Steve. He said,
I had sex with my cousin's girlfriend. He didn't know
they were dating. She had sex with me on purpose
to make my cousin mad. I don't want any parts
of this. Should I be honest with him about how
it went down, or wait to see if she tells him,
(02:33):
Oh wow, yeah, that's that's a lot.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
I could have hit her in.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Yeah, this is the case where what he should do?
Speaker 3 (02:42):
What blo? That's tough one. Well, see the truth is that.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
See he don't have to lie, but the truth ain't
gonna be good. No, but you understand, So I ain't
saying you gotta lie. It's all we're trying to figure
out is should you say something or not?
Speaker 3 (03:07):
Period?
Speaker 2 (03:09):
But now if you wait and and she says something first,
how she frames it could look messed up for you.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
If you try to get out in front of.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
This m this is gonna look bad anyway.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
This this this chick is trifling. Yeah, yeah, she's.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Gonna use two relatives to get back at each other. Now,
I don't see why either one of y'all want her myself?
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Well, what is it gonna?
Speaker 2 (03:42):
So he didn't know that that his cousin was dating
the girl.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Man, I had no idea. She came to me to
get with me. Boy, that's cancer.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
But he's got don't you think he's got to say
something though? Because if she says something, it's really gonna
be bad get Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Yeah, yeah, see but what is she gonna say though
I slept with she?
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Yeah, she she's trifling, So she'll say I slept with
your cousin.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Well, then I'll get ahead try to get with me.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
He tried to get with me your.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Cousin, I will get ahead of him. Yeah yeah, because.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Look, man, I ain't know nothing about this being your girlfriend.
But here's what happened. And man, this is crazy. And
then she told me that afterwards, and she tried to
get mad with you.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
But had I known this, it's no way I would
have did this. But I didn't know.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Bro.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
I'm just coming to you like a man, so you
can know what you're dealing with. Yeah, so tell the truth.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
He's gonna be mad.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Is the only truth we're gonna tell y'all to.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Tal the only one, all right, and let's get back
to line next, coming on to Rosandra in Risonda writes,
I was entertaining a man in my bedroom and my
seven year old knocked on the door and asked if
my company was spending the night. Oh, I was in parrass,
(05:11):
So I asked the man to leave. He said, I
need to discipline my son. What did he do wrong.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Sure, well he's seven. Yeah, I don't know that he
did nothing wrong. Right, Hey, man, I live here.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
You don't live here. That's my mama, Dad, ain't your mama.
I don't see nothing that the seven year old did wrong.
Discipline your son. He's seven, right, I won't talk to
my mama now. I don't care who in.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
There he spending at night?
Speaker 3 (05:43):
Is he spending a mama?
Speaker 1 (05:45):
What?
Speaker 3 (05:46):
You having a sleepover? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Yeah, because I need to know because normally I come
in there around two.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Get in the bend with my mama.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
There's nothing like sleeping with your parents.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
I like it all right.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Moving on, last one, Steve, this is This is Jarvis
and Inglewood. Jarvis writes, I'm thirty nine years old and
my wife is twenty seven. I always make excuses to
avoid hanging out with her friends because they are so young.
She said, it's unfair that I don't want to be
involved in her personal life. Do I have to get
(06:24):
to know these young people? Well?
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Your wife young, don't.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:32):
You know. Now, every now and then you're gonna have
to swallow it and just you know, go out on
a couple of little nice things with them, you know.
But you married this girl. She's twelve years younger than you.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
They doing young stuff. Yeah, people have to go. You
don't have to go.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Yeah, hey man, you're gonna get your joystick in practice,
video games, work, you choine, sticking practicing, you know. Hey man,
when y'all sitting around each other, get on your iPhone
and your text, text your wife while she's sitting right
next to you, you know, and and and be on
your smartphone and just google stuff while they talking.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
That's all they do. Man. I saw a whole group
of young people outside of the park sitting under a tree.
They was all on their.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Phone, no interaction.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
Yeah, get you al album. You gotta go to the
concerts right all right, J you're listening Harvey Morning Show.
It's time to ask the CLO or Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. All right, this is from Angel in Teck.
Thelo Angel writes, I spent a week with my parents
in Ohio. My dad told me that he doesn't love
my mom anymore and he wants to move out. But
he needs to know that I'll take care of my
mom if he leaves her. I don't want that responsibility.
(00:23):
What do I tell him? God? Yeah, I said, well, you.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Know, I mean, what do I tell him? Tell him
that you don't want the responsibility? You know, I mean,
I don't know what else to tell you. See, he
wants you to take care of her, but he wants
to leave. See right, First of all, Daddy got something, Elsey,
did Daddy want to go do something?
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Mel Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:53):
People do fall out of love, People change, people view
things differently. Who you are today is not who you
were yesterday. That's the case with all of us. So
your dad made a decision. That's not your responsibility, though,
and you just have to tell him that. Dad, just
like you, have to honor your decisions and you're free
(01:13):
to make yours. I want to be able to be
free to make mine too, and that doesn't include taking
care of your mom. Now how old are they is
the number one question, right because now if your mama
was bedridden or something like that and he tied and
he leave it, then he got to make some other arrangements.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
It can't be.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
You, you know, because what you can't do. If it's
a medical reason why your mother needs caring for, or
he just saying stop buying check on her because it's
gonna devastate her, that's a whole nother thing. So I
don't know enough particulars, but I mean, i'd always look
out for my mom if I was you. But at
the same time, if he's talking about becoming a caregiver,
(01:54):
then popgnna had to make some arrangements.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
Okay, all right? Moving on to Marcus in Monroe. Marcus
says I had sex with my cousin's girlfriend. I didn't
know they were dating. She had sex with me on purpose.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
To start over shows.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
All right, This is from Marcus Monroe, Steve. He said,
I had sex with my cousin's girlfriend. He didn't know
they were dating. She had sex with me on purpose
to make my cousin mad. I don't want any parts
of this. Should I be honest with him about how
it went down, or wait to see if she tells him,
(02:33):
Oh wow, yeah, that's that's a lot.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
I could have hit her in.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Yeah, this is the case where what he should do?
Speaker 3 (02:42):
What blo? That's tough one. Well, see the truth is that.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
See he don't have to lie, but the truth ain't
gonna be good. No, but you understand, So I ain't
saying you gotta lie. It's all we're trying to figure
out is should you say something or not?
Speaker 3 (03:07):
Period?
Speaker 2 (03:09):
But now if you wait and and she says something first,
how she frames it could look messed up for you.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
If you try to get out in front of.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
This m this is gonna look bad anyway.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
This this this chick is trifling. Yeah, yeah, she's.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Gonna use two relatives to get back at each other. Now,
I don't see why either one of y'all want her myself?
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Well, what is it gonna?
Speaker 2 (03:42):
So he didn't know that that his cousin was dating
the girl.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Man, I had no idea. She came to me to
get with me. Boy, that's cancer.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
But he's got don't you think he's got to say
something though? Because if she says something, it's really gonna
be bad get Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Yeah, yeah, see but what is she gonna say though
I slept with she?
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Yeah, she she's trifling, So she'll say I slept with
your cousin.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Well, then I'll get ahead try to get with me.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
He tried to get with me your.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Cousin, I will get ahead of him. Yeah yeah, because.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Look, man, I ain't know nothing about this being your girlfriend.
But here's what happened. And man, this is crazy. And
then she told me that afterwards, and she tried to
get mad with you.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
But had I known this, it's no way I would
have did this. But I didn't know.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Bro.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
I'm just coming to you like a man, so you
can know what you're dealing with. Yeah, so tell the truth.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
He's gonna be mad.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Is the only truth we're gonna tell y'all to.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Tal the only one, all right, and let's get back
to line next, coming on to Rosandra in Risonda writes,
I was entertaining a man in my bedroom and my
seven year old knocked on the door and asked if
my company was spending the night. Oh, I was in parrass,
(05:11):
So I asked the man to leave. He said, I
need to discipline my son. What did he do wrong.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
Sure, well he's seven. Yeah, I don't know that he
did nothing wrong. Right, Hey, man, I live here.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
You don't live here. That's my mama, Dad, ain't your mama.
I don't see nothing that the seven year old did wrong.
Discipline your son. He's seven, right, I won't talk to
my mama now. I don't care who in.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
There he spending at night?
Speaker 3 (05:43):
Is he spending a mama?
Speaker 1 (05:45):
What?
Speaker 3 (05:46):
You having a sleepover? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Yeah, because I need to know because normally I come
in there around two.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Get in the bend with my mama.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
There's nothing like sleeping with your parents.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
I like it all right.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Moving on, last one, Steve, this is This is Jarvis
and Inglewood. Jarvis writes, I'm thirty nine years old and
my wife is twenty seven. I always make excuses to
avoid hanging out with her friends because they are so young.
She said, it's unfair that I don't want to be
involved in her personal life. Do I have to get
(06:24):
to know these young people? Well?
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Your wife young, don't.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:32):
You know. Now, every now and then you're gonna have
to swallow it and just you know, go out on
a couple of little nice things with them, you know.
But you married this girl. She's twelve years younger than you.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
They doing young stuff. Yeah, people have to go. You
don't have to go.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Yeah, hey man, you're gonna get your joystick in practice,
video games, work, you choine, sticking practicing, you know. Hey man,
when y'all sitting around each other, get on your iPhone
and your text, text your wife while she's sitting right
next to you, you know, and and and be on
your smartphone and just google stuff while they talking.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
That's all they do. Man. I saw a whole group
of young people outside of the park sitting under a tree.
They was all on their.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
Phone, no interaction.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
Yeah, get you al album. You gotta go to the
concerts right all right, J you're listening Harvey Morning Show.
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