July 11, 2025 • 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to ask the clo Ar Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. All right, Steve, this is from Krista and Mansfield,
Krista Wrights. I'm thirty seven and I've been engaged since
I was thirty two. I was supposed to move to
Arkansas to be with my fiance, but he changed my
moving date because of house repairs? How long do I
(00:21):
wait for him to get himself together?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Is he wasting my time?
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Well, with men, I say this all the time, the
usual delay in the marriage is finance. Always remember this, ladies.
Women and men operate on two different clocks. Women have
a biological clock. Women always say, or usually say, Hey,
I want to be married by this, I want to
(00:46):
start a family by this. I want to have a
baby by this. Blah blah blah blah blah. I don't
want to be this old trying to have no baby.
Blah blah blah ah. That's understandable, acceptable, respectable Men have
financial clock. We're trying to get it together financially, So
he's looking at everything from a cost perspective.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
House repair, that's all of that.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
But see, you know, now, Tommy, you gotta remember it's
it's all relative. You know you can't house repair is
gonna stop you from getting for chr. You don't have
to worry about highest repair costs, see because they don't
mean what you say.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
You because he because he got the money for it.
Oh but you know that's what you get. But see
the woman could what's wrong with the house that the
woman can't get in there with Tommy on this one? What?
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Hey, hey at Ruth twenty thirty thousand, but something's wrong
with it?
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Yeah? And how you're gonna punk the grapes on that? Hey?
You get you get you if they don't find a
crack in that foundation? Hey, but it's you.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
So she really thinks he might be wasting her time though.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
But if it's mold up in there, all these is
high in repairs and stop acting like y'all don't know.
Uh yeah, okay, okay, see see let me just remind
all y'all bushy people on this show.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
How I well, oh look who got to remind who?
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Now?
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (02:26):
How soon we forget when we get some money?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Remember when you was trying to put a generator on
your house?
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Hello, and Junior is still working for his fence, don't forget?
Speaker 4 (02:37):
And lord, why is we still discussing this fence? All right?
Stop being for getting married.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Moving on to Donathan in Birmingham. Donathan writes, my wife
and I have a small dog that's manageable. I want
a big dog for the backyard because we're in an
up and coming neighborhood or area. She said no to
another dog. I bought her what she wanted, So how
can she say no? Why can't I get a dog?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
See?
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Now, Junior that wrote this letter in what se Junior
then wrote this letter in Junior, wife got a small dog.
Junior want a big dog because they're in an up
and coming neighborhood. But now we can't get this big
dog because we ain't got no fence. And now he
(03:28):
wants to know why he can't get a big dog.
We can't keep the little dog in this yard. It's
all coming together now.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
I wrote this.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Yeah, all right, we're.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
Gonna get you an FFF thing started for you, Junior.
F fl that's that's a find me a fence fund.
We don't.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
All right? Moving on? Do we do we help her?
Speaker 4 (04:06):
All right?
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Did we help Yeah? I don't think we helped him though, See.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
He says that every day.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Now I can't help everybody, all right at last in
slide l Rights, I got a little freaky with one
of my ex husband's friends. We didn't go all the way,
but I was topless in the back of his suv.
Pictures circulated, and my ex wants to talk to me
about it.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
I think he should talk to his friend, not me,
Am I right or wrong?
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Of who of her in the in uh her ex's
friends suv. They were back there, you know, getting bitchy, feely,
getting freaky, having a freak off or something.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
I don't know, he said, getting freaky.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
So a friend of he has showed it to him.
He wanted to have a conversation with her about it
with she thinks he alady had a conversation with his friend.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Absolutely, Yes, Well his friend wasn't in the back seat,
Yeah he was, he was in there with her. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
I got a little freaky with one of my ex
husband's friends. We didn't go all the way, but I
was topless in the back of his SUV. Pictures circulated
and my ex wants to talk to me about it.
I think he should talk to his friend. Is right
or wrong?
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:28):
I don't you know? You know what again?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
It's different.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
With something crazy happening, and it's just normalist.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
I'm in the back seat, topless of an SUV with
his friend and he gonna call me and tell me
we need to talk about you need to talk your friend.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
Why was she in the back seat with your top off?
Speaker 2 (05:52):
She's his eggs.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
She could do whatever she wants, you know what?
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Yeah, I want to hear this what I let me?
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Just I don't care. I really don't.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
I don't know what to say. This ain't a CLO question,
No it ain't. I'm a chief. I'm the chief love officer.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Obviously, she in love with too many people, the ex,
the boyfriend, the ex ain't in love with her no
more because he the exd he have moved on to
something else. Where is the friend that that you was
in the back seat with. He probably ain't even picture
no more. She ain't nobody in love in this So
why would you call the CLO. It ain't nobody in
(06:39):
this story love?
Speaker 2 (06:40):
Well, they were former lovers because they were married.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Right, But see, I'm not the former CLO. I want
to I want to do current issues.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Well, this is her issue.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
You don't have No, I don't know, lady, you ain't
got to talk to your ex.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
If you don't want to.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Yeah, there you go.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
And you don't have the power to pass out instructions
though you need to talk to your friends everything.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Friend, h stopless, what.
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Do you mean? Just topless? See Shirley, see right there?
See you have.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
You're starting to let these people affect your thinking because
now you're sitting up here and acting like it's normal too.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
She was just topless.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
They didn't go all the way. She said that they.
Speaker 4 (07:31):
Didn't go all the way. That's what she said.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Well, halfway down is a lot, and happen halfway down.
I'm telling you right now, whole lot and have halfway.
I have some hell of times, ain't nobody had their
clothes off?
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Well enough, we're done. You're listening hard Morning show
It's time to ask the clo Ar Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. All right, Steve, this is from Krista and Mansfield,
Krista Wrights. I'm thirty seven and I've been engaged since
I was thirty two. I was supposed to move to
Arkansas to be with my fiance, but he changed my
moving date because of house repairs? How long do I
(00:21):
wait for him to get himself together?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Is he wasting my time?
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Well, with men, I say this all the time, the
usual delay in the marriage is finance. Always remember this, ladies.
Women and men operate on two different clocks. Women have
a biological clock. Women always say, or usually say, Hey,
I want to be married by this, I want to
(00:46):
start a family by this. I want to have a
baby by this. Blah blah blah blah blah. I don't
want to be this old trying to have no baby.
Blah blah blah ah. That's understandable, acceptable, respectable Men have
financial clock. We're trying to get it together financially, So
he's looking at everything from a cost perspective.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
House repair, that's all of that.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
But see, you know, now, Tommy, you gotta remember it's
it's all relative. You know you can't house repair is
gonna stop you from getting for chr. You don't have
to worry about highest repair costs, see because they don't
mean what you say.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
You because he because he got the money for it.
Oh but you know that's what you get. But see
the woman could what's wrong with the house that the
woman can't get in there with Tommy on this one? What?
Speaker 3 (01:43):
Hey, hey at Ruth twenty thirty thousand, but something's wrong
with it?
Speaker 4 (01:51):
Yeah? And how you're gonna punk the grapes on that? Hey?
You get you get you if they don't find a
crack in that foundation? Hey, but it's you.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
So she really thinks he might be wasting her time though.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
But if it's mold up in there, all these is
high in repairs and stop acting like y'all don't know.
Uh yeah, okay, okay, see see let me just remind
all y'all bushy people on this show.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
How I well, oh look who got to remind who?
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Now?
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (02:26):
How soon we forget when we get some money?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Remember when you was trying to put a generator on
your house?
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Hello, and Junior is still working for his fence, don't forget?
Speaker 4 (02:37):
And lord, why is we still discussing this fence? All right?
Stop being for getting married.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Moving on to Donathan in Birmingham. Donathan writes, my wife
and I have a small dog that's manageable. I want
a big dog for the backyard because we're in an
up and coming neighborhood or area. She said no to
another dog. I bought her what she wanted, So how
can she say no? Why can't I get a dog?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
See?
Speaker 3 (03:06):
Now, Junior that wrote this letter in what se Junior
then wrote this letter in Junior, wife got a small dog.
Junior want a big dog because they're in an up
and coming neighborhood. But now we can't get this big
dog because we ain't got no fence. And now he
(03:28):
wants to know why he can't get a big dog.
We can't keep the little dog in this yard. It's
all coming together now.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
I wrote this.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Yeah, all right, we're.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
Gonna get you an FFF thing started for you, Junior.
F fl that's that's a find me a fence fund.
We don't.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
All right? Moving on? Do we do we help her?
Speaker 4 (04:06):
All right?
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Did we help Yeah? I don't think we helped him though, See.
Speaker 4 (04:13):
He says that every day.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
Now I can't help everybody, all right at last in
slide l Rights, I got a little freaky with one
of my ex husband's friends. We didn't go all the way,
but I was topless in the back of his suv.
Pictures circulated, and my ex wants to talk to me
about it.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
I think he should talk to his friend, not me,
Am I right or wrong?
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Of who of her in the in uh her ex's
friends suv. They were back there, you know, getting bitchy, feely,
getting freaky, having a freak off or something.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
I don't know, he said, getting freaky.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
So a friend of he has showed it to him.
He wanted to have a conversation with her about it
with she thinks he alady had a conversation with his friend.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Absolutely, Yes, Well his friend wasn't in the back seat,
Yeah he was, he was in there with her. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
I got a little freaky with one of my ex
husband's friends. We didn't go all the way, but I
was topless in the back of his SUV. Pictures circulated
and my ex wants to talk to me about it.
I think he should talk to his friend. Is right
or wrong?
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (05:28):
I don't you know? You know what again?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
It's different.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
With something crazy happening, and it's just normalist.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
I'm in the back seat, topless of an SUV with
his friend and he gonna call me and tell me
we need to talk about you need to talk your friend.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
Why was she in the back seat with your top off?
Speaker 2 (05:52):
She's his eggs.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
She could do whatever she wants, you know what?
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Yeah, I want to hear this what I let me?
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Just I don't care. I really don't.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
I don't know what to say. This ain't a CLO question,
No it ain't. I'm a chief. I'm the chief love officer.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
Obviously, she in love with too many people, the ex,
the boyfriend, the ex ain't in love with her no
more because he the exd he have moved on to
something else. Where is the friend that that you was
in the back seat with. He probably ain't even picture
no more. She ain't nobody in love in this So
why would you call the CLO. It ain't nobody in
(06:39):
this story love?
Speaker 2 (06:40):
Well, they were former lovers because they were married.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Right, But see, I'm not the former CLO. I want
to I want to do current issues.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
Well, this is her issue.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
You don't have No, I don't know, lady, you ain't
got to talk to your ex.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
If you don't want to.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Yeah, there you go.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
And you don't have the power to pass out instructions
though you need to talk to your friends everything.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Friend, h stopless, what.
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Do you mean? Just topless? See Shirley, see right there?
See you have.
Speaker 3 (07:21):
You're starting to let these people affect your thinking because
now you're sitting up here and acting like it's normal too.
Speaker 4 (07:26):
She was just topless.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
They didn't go all the way. She said that they.
Speaker 4 (07:31):
Didn't go all the way. That's what she said.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Well, halfway down is a lot, and happen halfway down.
I'm telling you right now, whole lot and have halfway.
I have some hell of times, ain't nobody had their
clothes off?
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Well enough, we're done. You're listening hard Morning show
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