Ask The CLO - 07.21.25

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. This is from Sherry and Tallula. Sherry writes,
my boyfriend called my ex husband to ask why we
broke up. My ex husband said, I should not be
upset because my boyfriend wants to marry me. I don't

(00:21):
care because he crossed the line. Am I supposed to
forgive my boyfriend? Or was he wrong? FeelA? I think
he was stupid very to call her ex husband.

Speaker 2 (00:34):
How would you take advice from somebody who's failed at
the very.

Speaker 3 (00:41):
Thing you're trying.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
To accomplish, See, young brother, if you were unsure.

Speaker 3 (00:48):
About her, you should go to her.

Speaker 2 (00:52):
Yeah that part now, obviously she's done something that you
don't like and you trying to find out is it
a trending past, a reoccurring pattern, that's what you're trying
to do.

Speaker 3 (01:04):
But to go to her ex.

Speaker 2 (01:05):
Husband for that, that don't make no sense at all.

Speaker 3 (01:09):
Man, that's a that's a real weak move.

Speaker 1 (01:11):
Broh Okay, all.

Speaker 2 (01:14):
Right, you know thinking about man, oh man, but I
wanted to talk to you for a minute.

Speaker 1 (01:18):
What what? Yes?

Speaker 3 (01:21):
That's crazy?

Speaker 1 (01:22):
Yeah, all right, all right? Moving on to Monte in Chicago,
Monte writes, I told my wife I was going to
a day party with my brother. She hates when I
hang with him because he cheated on his wife. She's
afraid of him being a bad influence on me. I
am tired of her judging my brother. How do I

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stop her from doing that?

Speaker 3 (01:45):
She ain't judge your brother. She found out what your
brother did.

Speaker 1 (01:52):
She didn't your brother.

Speaker 2 (01:53):
Your brother's wife may have said something to her. She
don't want your brother to win fluence you. She judge
your brother cheated.

Speaker 3 (02:05):
On his wife. How your wife find out about it?

Speaker 1 (02:09):
Mmmm mm hmm.

Speaker 2 (02:12):
So, Broughton, all women are gonna do that because they
go because they're gonna sympathize with her.

Speaker 1 (02:19):
Yeah, the wife for sure.

Speaker 2 (02:21):
So brou how do you get her to stop hating
on your brother? Judge and your brother?

Speaker 3 (02:25):
So what? M hm?

Speaker 2 (02:29):
Yeah, I don't think that's the issue. Man, You're tripping
for no reason. She gonna feel what she want to feel.

Speaker 1 (02:36):
Yeah, he's not gonna be able to stop her.

Speaker 3 (02:39):
Oh no, I promise you that.

Speaker 1 (02:41):
Yeah, all right. Moving on colo to Arisha and Philly.
Arisha writes, my friend introduced me to a man that
she she had sex with three years ago. On our
first stop bull say that again. My friend introduced me
to a man that she had sex with three years ago. Okay,

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on our first date, he said, he's relieved that I
didn't care about him hooking up with my friend in
the past. I was so outdone that I ended the
friendship with her. Did I overreact?

Speaker 3 (03:14):
Why did you end her friendship with her?

Speaker 1 (03:17):
Because she had sex with the guy she introduced her
to and three years ago. And I guess she didn't
tell her at the time, Oh, you can't have sex,
but as she found out through the guy, he told
her and he said, I'm glad you're not tripping about it.

Speaker 2 (03:33):
Well, that means that the ex hit her friend must
have told him that I told her about us.

Speaker 3 (03:44):
See.

Speaker 2 (03:46):
Well, for the guy to say I'm glad you're not
tripping about it means that the girlfriend must have told
He must be under the impression that the girlfriend who's saying, Hey,
I'm introducing you to this guy, but I want you
to know I slept with him three years ago.

Speaker 1 (03:59):
Yeah, I'm assuming he figured she told him and that's
why she introduced him. She's and and the girl went
out with him thinking it was okay. That they had
sex three years ago.

Speaker 2 (04:10):
Yeah, but obviously the girl didn't tell.

Speaker 3 (04:16):
The girl that.

Speaker 1 (04:18):
No, she didn't.

Speaker 2 (04:18):
Girl didn't tell her that, right, She like she found
out from the game from the guy.

Speaker 1 (04:24):
Exactly she found out from the guy, and she.

Speaker 3 (04:27):
I don't think that's the reason to break up the friendship.

Speaker 2 (04:30):
I think you should have just said, girl, I think
you should have You didn't think you should have told
me this.

Speaker 3 (04:35):
Why would you stop being friends with her?

Speaker 1 (04:37):
Yeah? Yeah, you know.

Speaker 2 (04:40):
And maybe the reason she didn't tell you that was
because she wanted you to give the guy a fair chance.

Speaker 3 (04:46):
Man, but that ain't gonna fly with women. So that
didn't work.

Speaker 1 (04:52):
Can't move on. Yeah. So to the question she says,
did she overreact in the answer is yes, you did react.
Don't react all right. Last one, Steve, This is from
Khalid and Baltimore. Khaled says, my child's mom wants to
have another child by me. I have a great relationship

(05:15):
with her, but I don't want to pay for another
child that doesn't live with me full time. I want
to start a family with someone I love, not her.
How do I explain it to her?

Speaker 2 (05:27):
Wow, I'm not I don't want to have a baby
with you. I don't want to have a baby with you.
I ain't even in love with you like that. Yeah yeah, no, really,
I want to have a family with somebody I love.
I'm gonna spend no more money on some kid just

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over that. Just because you want a baby, go find
somebody and have a baby that wants you and the baby. Yeah,
because I don't want you or the baby like that.

Speaker 1 (05:57):
Yeah. Man, that's an easy conversation, right. It's because you
have a great relationship with her, doesn't mean that he
wants to father another child by you. You have a
great relationship, y'all got a great relationship.

Speaker 3 (06:08):
Y'all are in love, right, and he wants to have
a family.

Speaker 1 (06:13):
Yeah, and that's for the child.

Speaker 3 (06:15):
You're a great and the lady.

Speaker 2 (06:17):
I got news for you. Wait, who said that? The
guy says they have a great relationship.

Speaker 1 (06:22):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, he says relationship with her. Yeah,
well it.

Speaker 3 (06:27):
Ain't that great.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
It won't be after you. You don't want a fan
bomb on her head.

Speaker 3 (06:33):
Oh you got a great relationship, but I don't want
it though.

Speaker 1 (06:38):
It ain't all that great.

Speaker 3 (06:39):
No, yeah, I'll tell you that right now.

Speaker 1 (06:41):
We had this baby, he said, Yeah, he doesn't want
to pay for another child that doesn't live with him
full time, like you say. He wants a family, yeah,
with someone he's in love with, and it's not her. Well, Steve,
just broad conversation one more time, team, So if we
could be clear, I.

Speaker 2 (07:01):
Don't want to have no baby, especially with you.

Speaker 3 (07:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (07:11):
The great relationship they have is not a love relationship.
It is not that. Yeah, all right, all right, that
was the last one.

Speaker 3 (07:20):
Why you keep talking to me? I don't want listen, listen, listen.
It's bad enough.

Speaker 2 (07:29):
Never got just one baby over here, and I'm paying
this money for I don't even live with full time.

Speaker 3 (07:33):
Next baby I pay for, I will see him every day.

Speaker 1 (07:36):
Yeah, Yeah, and he's gonna live with me. Yeah, or
she's gonna live with me. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (07:41):
I don't like you like that, thank you. That's the
other thing I don't like you. I ain't feeling you
like that.

Speaker 1 (07:50):
Okay, all right, all right, clo, thank you. I think
we got it now. Coming up at the top of
the hour, we got clarity on that's.

Speaker 3 (07:57):
What I wanted to hand this baby.

Speaker 1 (08:02):
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