July 31, 2025 • 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, Colo, here we go, uh Shanda and Lexington rights.
I have two small dogs and the guy I'm dating
is allergic to them. He's willing to take allergy mads
to be with me. And my dad said, I'm selfish
for keeping the dogs. My fur babies come before a man.
I've only been dating four months. What should I do?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
You just said your fur babies come before man. Okay, coach,
that's just a decision you made. Ain't no problem, Ain't
no problem you get It's a good man said, he's
willing to take allergy medicine to be with you because
of your dogs.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
That's a good man.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Now if you go keep putting the fur babies in
front of him, then go ahead, and you gonna wind
up with the fur babies. That's all because if you
putting them dogs in front of this man, then you
gonna end up with the animals. And if that's your choice,
that's your choice. Can you would rather have the dogs
than man? That's all? It ain't no you know, because
(01:04):
that's what's going to happen. And I don't know if
you You may not be mentally in a position to
take on.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
A husband or a serious relationship you.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Certainly you're a dog Yeah, you're a dog lover.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
So Lord, and he'll be gone. I'm not a dog lover.
I'm a dog owner. Yeah, Now, I love him. My
dog is part of the family. I love him, but
he gets no deals over now one of the people.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Okay, all right.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
Not my family members, Okay, all right. Now, I got
a couple of staff members that all go before he goes.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
But family, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Good to know. Moving on to Lina and Columbia, really
good to know. Helena writes, my husband is mad because
he cooked a full Sunday dinner and I took my
mom a plate. He does like my mom and vice versa,
and he said if she wanted to eat, she should
come apologize to him. Is he right or is he
(02:07):
being unreasonable?
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa? What did
he say to his mama? I missed that?
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Well, okay, so he cooked the dinner. He doesn't. He
doesn't like his wife's mom. He doesn't like her, and
she doesn't like him. He said if the mother in
law wanted to eat, she should come and apologize to
him first. So Zelena and Columbia wants to know is
he right or is he being unreasonable?
Speaker 3 (02:32):
We ain't got the whole story.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Yeah, well you don't know what. They don't like each other.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Yeah right, they don't like each other. But I will
tell you this, brother. Let me just say this to you,
just as a man, if I were you, as here's
a strong suggestion, I would get on the high road
if I were you, and I would get on the
high road for the sake of my wife.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Yeah. So you're not having a problem with your wife.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
You having a problem with her mother, and her mother
has a problem with you. Now for the sake of
your wife. If I were you, I would get on
the high road. And as a man, just take it.
Whatever she did, man, whatever bro youn hell with the
sleep with her?
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Question? Is the mother, the mother in law going to
come over and apologize.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Though you waiting on you held the freeze over you,
he said, I want you. You wain't on the money
to start falling out the sky. No, she's not finna
do that, dog, And that's unreasonable for you to make
that a condition. See, we don't know what happened, how
it started. Maybe you need to be an apology to
(03:48):
just just from the standpoint, Hey, look, hey mom, listen, Hey,
my bad for the way I handled it. Because it's
two it's two people in this. She may have done
something wrong. Let's say she did something wrong. She was
the initiate, But bro, your reaction could have been different too,
And just as me and man, for the sake of
(04:10):
the family, it is our job to fix it.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Period.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Now that's your job. I'm sorry, man, Go ahead, tell
me what you know.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Everybody say take the higher road. They don't. Don't nobody
be on that road.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
That road be impact road that.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
There ain't nobody on it.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
And the words of the great musical producer Ricky Minor.
He had a book out that I one of my
favorite titles, ain't no traffic on the extra mile. If
you go the extra mile, ain't no traffic out there.
So yeah, the high road is empty. But that's the
(04:55):
road you gotta take for the sake of your wife, man.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
And that's that's it, all right.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Moving on to oh that probably why she by herself anyway.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Who herself say that? I just know your hello. She apologized,
she's starting and stuff. She messed you know, she started it.
You don't know, all right?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Moving on to ed and harrisburg Ed writes, I'm sixty
one and single. My wife died three years ago, so
I'm dating again. I invited a lady over for dinner,
and she asked if I planned to remove old family
photos from my house. I didn't see the pictures as
an issue. Is it best to take my wife's photos down?
Speaker 3 (05:41):
How did he say?
Speaker 1 (05:42):
He was sixty one?
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Yeah, yeah, starting to date again.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
He got some polaroids, He got old pictures up in there.
He got polaroids.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Come out to camera, he's been saying, in until it
came down. He got some, he got there, some he
got he still got picture frames leaning up there, all
up on the fire place, you know, And uh, it's
a fair question, it is. It's a fair question. So
what is? What is he is? What is he? Or
(06:14):
she wanting to know what?
Speaker 3 (06:16):
Shop? Well?
Speaker 1 (06:16):
She she asked him if he planned to take the
pictures down, their family pictures, and he said he didn't
see the pictures as an issue, but is it best
to take his wife's photos down? If he's going to
be dating again and having women over here?
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Well, yeah it is, it is, you know, like if
you have company come over, I would take them down
while they're over there, and then when they leave, you
put them back up until you get yourself used to
it to see where it's going. But just out of respect,
don't nobody want to sit at your house.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
I'm just gonna be real with you, you.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Know, because the whole time I'm sitting there, if I'm
over a woman house and she got her dead husband
all around the place, I'm thinking I showed on one
to be nuts. So you know this ain't gonna be
a comfortable date. Yeah, yeah, I think he should just
when you come over, out of respect.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
He don't see him as an issue. But he's sixty seven.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Years old, he's said in his wave, and he ain't
daated in a while, so he don't know nothing is
an issue.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Yeah, okay, now he does. He should take them down put.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
He probably don't think that BlackBerry is an issue.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Either you got a BlackBerry, an iPhone or an al.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
And still texting to MySpace people try to get his an.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
All right, Feelo, thank you you're listening. Harvey Morning Show
All right, Colo, here we go, uh Shanda and Lexington rights.
I have two small dogs and the guy I'm dating
is allergic to them. He's willing to take allergy mads
to be with me. And my dad said, I'm selfish
for keeping the dogs. My fur babies come before a man.
I've only been dating four months. What should I do?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
You just said your fur babies come before man. Okay, coach,
that's just a decision you made. Ain't no problem, Ain't
no problem you get It's a good man said, he's
willing to take allergy medicine to be with you because
of your dogs.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
That's a good man.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Now if you go keep putting the fur babies in
front of him, then go ahead, and you gonna wind
up with the fur babies. That's all because if you
putting them dogs in front of this man, then you
gonna end up with the animals. And if that's your choice,
that's your choice. Can you would rather have the dogs
than man? That's all? It ain't no you know, because
(01:04):
that's what's going to happen. And I don't know if
you You may not be mentally in a position to
take on.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
A husband or a serious relationship you.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Certainly you're a dog Yeah, you're a dog lover.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
So Lord, and he'll be gone. I'm not a dog lover.
I'm a dog owner. Yeah, Now, I love him. My
dog is part of the family. I love him, but
he gets no deals over now one of the people.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Okay, all right.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
Not my family members, Okay, all right. Now, I got
a couple of staff members that all go before he goes.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
But family, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Good to know. Moving on to Lina and Columbia, really
good to know. Helena writes, my husband is mad because
he cooked a full Sunday dinner and I took my
mom a plate. He does like my mom and vice versa,
and he said if she wanted to eat, she should
come apologize to him. Is he right or is he
(02:07):
being unreasonable?
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa? What did
he say to his mama? I missed that?
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Well, okay, so he cooked the dinner. He doesn't. He
doesn't like his wife's mom. He doesn't like her, and
she doesn't like him. He said if the mother in
law wanted to eat, she should come and apologize to
him first. So Zelena and Columbia wants to know is
he right or is he being unreasonable?
Speaker 3 (02:32):
We ain't got the whole story.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Yeah, well you don't know what. They don't like each other.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Yeah right, they don't like each other. But I will
tell you this, brother. Let me just say this to you,
just as a man, if I were you, as here's
a strong suggestion, I would get on the high road
if I were you, and I would get on the
high road for the sake of my wife.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Yeah. So you're not having a problem with your wife.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
You having a problem with her mother, and her mother
has a problem with you. Now for the sake of
your wife. If I were you, I would get on
the high road. And as a man, just take it.
Whatever she did, man, whatever bro youn hell with the
sleep with her?
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Question? Is the mother, the mother in law going to
come over and apologize.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Though you waiting on you held the freeze over you,
he said, I want you. You wain't on the money
to start falling out the sky. No, she's not finna
do that, dog, And that's unreasonable for you to make
that a condition. See, we don't know what happened, how
it started. Maybe you need to be an apology to
(03:48):
just just from the standpoint, Hey, look, hey mom, listen, Hey,
my bad for the way I handled it. Because it's
two it's two people in this. She may have done
something wrong. Let's say she did something wrong. She was
the initiate, But bro, your reaction could have been different too,
And just as me and man, for the sake of
(04:10):
the family, it is our job to fix it.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Period.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Now that's your job. I'm sorry, man, Go ahead, tell
me what you know.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Everybody say take the higher road. They don't. Don't nobody
be on that road.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
That road be impact road that.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
There ain't nobody on it.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
And the words of the great musical producer Ricky Minor.
He had a book out that I one of my
favorite titles, ain't no traffic on the extra mile. If
you go the extra mile, ain't no traffic out there.
So yeah, the high road is empty. But that's the
(04:55):
road you gotta take for the sake of your wife, man.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
And that's that's it, all right.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Moving on to oh that probably why she by herself anyway.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Who herself say that? I just know your hello. She apologized,
she's starting and stuff. She messed you know, she started it.
You don't know, all right?
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Moving on to ed and harrisburg Ed writes, I'm sixty
one and single. My wife died three years ago, so
I'm dating again. I invited a lady over for dinner,
and she asked if I planned to remove old family
photos from my house. I didn't see the pictures as
an issue. Is it best to take my wife's photos down?
Speaker 3 (05:41):
How did he say?
Speaker 1 (05:42):
He was sixty one?
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Yeah, yeah, starting to date again.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
He got some polaroids, He got old pictures up in there.
He got polaroids.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Come out to camera, he's been saying, in until it
came down. He got some, he got there, some he
got he still got picture frames leaning up there, all
up on the fire place, you know, And uh, it's
a fair question, it is. It's a fair question. So
what is? What is he is? What is he? Or
(06:14):
she wanting to know what?
Speaker 3 (06:16):
Shop? Well?
Speaker 1 (06:16):
She she asked him if he planned to take the
pictures down, their family pictures, and he said he didn't
see the pictures as an issue, but is it best
to take his wife's photos down? If he's going to
be dating again and having women over here?
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Well, yeah it is, it is, you know, like if
you have company come over, I would take them down
while they're over there, and then when they leave, you
put them back up until you get yourself used to
it to see where it's going. But just out of respect,
don't nobody want to sit at your house.
Speaker 3 (06:48):
I'm just gonna be real with you, you.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Know, because the whole time I'm sitting there, if I'm
over a woman house and she got her dead husband
all around the place, I'm thinking I showed on one
to be nuts. So you know this ain't gonna be
a comfortable date. Yeah, yeah, I think he should just
when you come over, out of respect.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
He don't see him as an issue. But he's sixty seven.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Years old, he's said in his wave, and he ain't
daated in a while, so he don't know nothing is
an issue.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Yeah, okay, now he does. He should take them down put.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
He probably don't think that BlackBerry is an issue.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Either you got a BlackBerry, an iPhone or an al.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
And still texting to MySpace people try to get his an.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
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