August 5, 2025 • 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Now it's time to ask the clo. You ready, Steve,
see ready? All right, here we go Trinity in Lake Charles.
She says, I'm moving in with my older sister and
she hates my boyfriend. I don't say anything about who
she dates, but as the big sister, she judges everything
I do. I am thirty one years old. So should
(00:22):
I have to sneak around her or should I stand.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Up to her? Well, you ain't got to do either one.
But let me tell you what.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
He can't come over there though her house, right yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah yeah. You ain't got to sneak around. But he
can't come over there, and you can't expect her to
allow him in the house. If you know she don't
like her, you can't bring him to her house. That's
rule number one. Now, you ain't got to sneak around.
(00:50):
Because you're thirty one. You can openly date the guy.
But hopefully he got a house, cause he can't come
over there. When he come to pick you up, he
can call you and let you know he outside. He
can come and meet you at the door and walk
you to the car and open your car door and
put you in and shut the door and drive off.
And when you get back from the date, he can
(01:11):
get out the car, open your door, walk you back
up to the house.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
He can't come in. Big sister does not like him.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
No, no, that's how I don't let nobody in my house.
I don't like no bad all. I don't care who
you are.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
All right? All right?
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Moving on to there you go, Trinity, Moving on to
Melissa and Jacksonville, dou.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Ball do all yup.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
My son's tutor told me that she won't be able
to come to our house anymore because my husband makes
her uncomfortable. She's almost sixty, so I doubt my husband
came on to her. He laughed and denied it. Should
I take her seriously?
Speaker 2 (01:55):
She fined him. That's all that's a fine sixty dough.
I let me tell you that right now. She should
have it a ma'am, and she's smart, I know a rithmetic.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
He laughed at off, uh and denied it and denied it.
This is what Melissa and Jacksonville said.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Well, what what he got to deny it? That that's obvious?
But what is it that the woman is saying? She
made the feel? Is he staring at her? You know?
Speaker 2 (02:33):
No specific in this from Melissa.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
My son's tutor told me that she won't be able
to come to our house anymore because my husband makes
her uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
She didn't say what exactly he is doing.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Well, well, she's not coming to the house no more.
Now if you're not going to find out what's making
her uncomfortable, then your question was should I take her seriously?
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Well, yeah, you have to take.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Her seriously because because we're in a culture now where
anything can turn into a lawsuit, so you have to
take her seriously. But I think to keep your family
together and to keep everybody safe, just get another tutor. Yeah,
because if the woman is lying, you don't need up
around your family no more. And if she's telling the truth,
(03:21):
and you don't need UP around the family no more.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
So the boy gonna flunk for a minute.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Yeah, he'd be all right though. I got a lot
of help. I got a lot of made Look at
you now, Yeah, everything worry about there else?
Speaker 2 (03:38):
You said?
Speaker 3 (03:39):
He gets them?
Speaker 2 (03:40):
He recovered. How old is the boy here? A tutor?
You know he needs a tutor? Yeah, you know, so
he'd be all right. Maybe he's find another place to tutor,
like I don't know library or something like that. Anyway,
Moving on Rico and Trenton, New jer Zy.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
My wife and I heard our fourteen year old daughter
on the phone cursing out a boy that rubbed her
butt at school. I think my daughter gets a pass
for how she handles the situation, but my wife wants
to punish her.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Should she be punished or praised?
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Punish her? Hey, tell me who the little boy is, right,
so I can go up to the school and talk
to his daddy. Yeah, see, that's all that is. You
know what you want to punish her for? Cause let
me tell you something. Your kids is cussing when you
(04:39):
ain't around ISA at mcgridson's basketball game. Uh huh BJ
a couple of weeks ago. Oh, by the way, they
won the championship.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
UB grabs BJ and the team good job.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
And they get they get rings when they wear ring.
Everybody get a ring and a trophy. And the rings
are heavy. They they look like NBA rings, you know
they have they fake diamonds, of course, but they real heavy.
They got weight on them like a real wing. I
was going and here in third grade, we won the
elementary school championship. When I was in sixth grade.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
I got a patch anyway, back to.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
The iron on patch.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
So anyway, that's in the seventies.
Speaker 4 (05:24):
Dog dogs that was in his sixties. Seventies, Come on.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Help Rico. Should they punish the girl?
Speaker 3 (05:37):
No, I don't think you should punish the girl. But
I think you all need to realize your kids are
talking a little bit different. I had his basketball team
down at the ranch for his birthday, and boy, I
drove up and they didn't know I was there. Boy,
they was out there letting them fly ifew little he
and you don't know nothing to all beat sen up?
(05:58):
You run around right here, and why you can't dribble h?
You shouldn't have been there. Tell me you better get
out of my mL faith. You don't know who you
mess with. You're about to be something up in here.
We going all right. I was impressed.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
You you know, you know you're not walked in and
tried to be his grandparent. Hey watch your language. Language.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
But then as soon as I got their attention, I said, nah,
good all you little mose get over there on that
other side.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Stupid, you're all out here. It wasn't you.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Oh God, my daughters, hey man, my daughter Carly said,
she said, Dad so embarrassed.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Daddy? All right, so recoing Trenton.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
You know, y'all shouldn't punish the girl, all right, moving
punish the girl.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
She probably caught it like her mama, cuss, mama, do
it all right, let's move on. Last one, Kelvin and Philly.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
I kept my kids this past weekend, and my ex
wife went to Ohio with her new husband.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
For his ten year old daughter's birthday party.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
My kids are eight and eleven, and they're wondering why
they weren't invited. Is it my place to talk to
my ex wife about this?
Speaker 2 (07:10):
No, the ex he kept his kids, and then you.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Know, yeah, yeah they may not. Y'all them too. Them
kids may not get in there. Y'all ain't a blended family.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
So you don't think he should talk about.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
Yeah, yeah, you're not a blended family. If what of
y'all would have to be, they'd have to be living together. Now,
this doesn't matter. You ain't going to the party, okay never.
You ain't going to the war next year either
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Okay, you're listening Hardy Morning Show
Now it's time to ask the clo. You ready, Steve,
see ready? All right, here we go Trinity in Lake Charles.
She says, I'm moving in with my older sister and
she hates my boyfriend. I don't say anything about who
she dates, but as the big sister, she judges everything
I do. I am thirty one years old. So should
(00:22):
I have to sneak around her or should I stand.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Up to her? Well, you ain't got to do either one.
But let me tell you what.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
He can't come over there though her house, right yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah yeah. You ain't got to sneak around. But he
can't come over there, and you can't expect her to
allow him in the house. If you know she don't
like her, you can't bring him to her house. That's
rule number one. Now, you ain't got to sneak around.
(00:50):
Because you're thirty one. You can openly date the guy.
But hopefully he got a house, cause he can't come
over there. When he come to pick you up, he
can call you and let you know he outside. He
can come and meet you at the door and walk
you to the car and open your car door and
put you in and shut the door and drive off.
And when you get back from the date, he can
(01:11):
get out the car, open your door, walk you back
up to the house.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
He can't come in. Big sister does not like him.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
No, no, that's how I don't let nobody in my house.
I don't like no bad all. I don't care who
you are.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
All right? All right?
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Moving on to there you go, Trinity, Moving on to
Melissa and Jacksonville, dou.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Ball do all yup.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
My son's tutor told me that she won't be able
to come to our house anymore because my husband makes
her uncomfortable. She's almost sixty, so I doubt my husband
came on to her. He laughed and denied it. Should
I take her seriously?
Speaker 2 (01:55):
She fined him. That's all that's a fine sixty dough.
I let me tell you that right now. She should
have it a ma'am, and she's smart, I know a rithmetic.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
He laughed at off, uh and denied it and denied it.
This is what Melissa and Jacksonville said.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Well, what what he got to deny it? That that's obvious?
But what is it that the woman is saying? She
made the feel? Is he staring at her? You know?
Speaker 2 (02:33):
No specific in this from Melissa.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
My son's tutor told me that she won't be able
to come to our house anymore because my husband makes
her uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
She didn't say what exactly he is doing.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Well, well, she's not coming to the house no more.
Now if you're not going to find out what's making
her uncomfortable, then your question was should I take her seriously?
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Well, yeah, you have to take.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Her seriously because because we're in a culture now where
anything can turn into a lawsuit, so you have to
take her seriously. But I think to keep your family
together and to keep everybody safe, just get another tutor. Yeah,
because if the woman is lying, you don't need up
around your family no more. And if she's telling the truth,
(03:21):
and you don't need UP around the family no more.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
So the boy gonna flunk for a minute.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Yeah, he'd be all right though. I got a lot
of help. I got a lot of made Look at
you now, Yeah, everything worry about there else?
Speaker 2 (03:38):
You said?
Speaker 3 (03:39):
He gets them?
Speaker 2 (03:40):
He recovered. How old is the boy here? A tutor?
You know he needs a tutor? Yeah, you know, so
he'd be all right. Maybe he's find another place to tutor,
like I don't know library or something like that. Anyway,
Moving on Rico and Trenton, New jer Zy.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
My wife and I heard our fourteen year old daughter
on the phone cursing out a boy that rubbed her
butt at school. I think my daughter gets a pass
for how she handles the situation, but my wife wants
to punish her.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Should she be punished or praised?
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Punish her? Hey, tell me who the little boy is, right,
so I can go up to the school and talk
to his daddy. Yeah, see, that's all that is. You
know what you want to punish her for? Cause let
me tell you something. Your kids is cussing when you
(04:39):
ain't around ISA at mcgridson's basketball game. Uh huh BJ
a couple of weeks ago. Oh, by the way, they
won the championship.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
UB grabs BJ and the team good job.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
And they get they get rings when they wear ring.
Everybody get a ring and a trophy. And the rings
are heavy. They they look like NBA rings, you know
they have they fake diamonds, of course, but they real heavy.
They got weight on them like a real wing. I
was going and here in third grade, we won the
elementary school championship. When I was in sixth grade.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
I got a patch anyway, back to.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
The iron on patch.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
So anyway, that's in the seventies.
Speaker 4 (05:24):
Dog dogs that was in his sixties. Seventies, Come on.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Help Rico. Should they punish the girl?
Speaker 3 (05:37):
No, I don't think you should punish the girl. But
I think you all need to realize your kids are
talking a little bit different. I had his basketball team
down at the ranch for his birthday, and boy, I
drove up and they didn't know I was there. Boy,
they was out there letting them fly ifew little he
and you don't know nothing to all beat sen up?
(05:58):
You run around right here, and why you can't dribble h?
You shouldn't have been there. Tell me you better get
out of my mL faith. You don't know who you
mess with. You're about to be something up in here.
We going all right. I was impressed.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
You you know, you know you're not walked in and
tried to be his grandparent. Hey watch your language. Language.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
But then as soon as I got their attention, I said, nah,
good all you little mose get over there on that
other side.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Stupid, you're all out here. It wasn't you.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Oh God, my daughters, hey man, my daughter Carly said,
she said, Dad so embarrassed.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
Daddy? All right, so recoing Trenton.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
You know, y'all shouldn't punish the girl, all right, moving
punish the girl.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
She probably caught it like her mama, cuss, mama, do
it all right, let's move on. Last one, Kelvin and Philly.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
I kept my kids this past weekend, and my ex
wife went to Ohio with her new husband.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
For his ten year old daughter's birthday party.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
My kids are eight and eleven, and they're wondering why
they weren't invited. Is it my place to talk to
my ex wife about this?
Speaker 2 (07:10):
No, the ex he kept his kids, and then you.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Know, yeah, yeah they may not. Y'all them too. Them
kids may not get in there. Y'all ain't a blended family.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
So you don't think he should talk about.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
Yeah, yeah, you're not a blended family. If what of
y'all would have to be, they'd have to be living together. Now,
this doesn't matter. You ain't going to the party, okay never.
You ain't going to the war next year either
Speaker 2 (07:35):
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