August 6, 2025 • 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the clo. This is from
Malcolm in Brooklyn Colo. Malcolm writes, my wife and I
had a bad blowout because I hung out with her
ex and we ended up on some pictures together. She
hates him, so I'm supposed to hate him, but he's
a cool guy. We were in a group setting. So
was I wrong for kicking it with him?
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Absolutely?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Absolutely, one hundred percent wrong, one hundred percent wrong.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Let me ask you something, though. All you gotta do
is reverse it.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Suppose your wife was somewhere kicking it with the X,
her ex, your wife, and he's a great guy. Now
I remember, how happy would you be? And they just
up in these pictures kicking it?
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Exes is out.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Don't come over here, don't mean, don't bring them up.
I don't want to hear.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
No here he he's a cool guy, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Here cool got what dog? What's wrong with you? Dog?
What's wrong with you?
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Now?
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Dog?
Speaker 2 (01:08):
I ain't that's yeah, man.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
You wrong?
Speaker 2 (01:12):
She hates him.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
He obviously she has some unfond memories some things he
did to her and she didn't forgive them, which coach
caused the divorce. And now you cool with him?
Speaker 1 (01:24):
No?
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Man? Hey, man, you you don't know, You don't know
what the problem is. You might want to check into
why she's so mad, because if there was any type
of abuse of any kind, and you over there laughing
with the dude, you you are lying.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
You should be hearing that too.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
No, dog, that's all it is.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
If you if you do something to somebody I love,
and I hear about it, and I wasn't in your life,
then when I see you, I'm slapping you.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
And yeah, absolutely love and support her, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Moving on to Sandra Anne Sandra Anne in Houston. Sandra
Ann writes, I didn't. I don't tell my husband everywhere
I go in a day, and I'm sure he doesn't
tell me every stop he makes. He had started calling
me to ask where I am and what I'm doing
more than he used to. Should I do the same
thing to him so he'll stop it.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Oh, now you gotta understand what's going Okay, Come on,
where you at? What you're doing?
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Sometimes you gotta know where the bus is at, that's right.
Sometimes you just gotta keep a try. It's like a tracker.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Tell the truth.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Let me tell ay where you at? Okay, that's eight
miles away?
Speaker 3 (02:40):
All right, what you're doing. I'm getting my hair done.
That's three hours.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Okay, cool, all have a great day. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
So now if you reverse it on him, nah, problem.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
Now we can see what's going on, so you know.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
But you're not gonna say just say what it could be.
You're just gonna hint at it.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Yeah, you know, because you don't know. You know, he
just could be insecure. He could actually suspect you of cheating.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
But is he though? You don't know that.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
I just these are the two scenarios. Look, you know,
just say it just out of no where? Hey, where
you at?
Speaker 2 (03:26):
What you doing? How long you're gonna be? What you
You don't know how to ask? You know, how to
get that information? Get a tracker?
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Yeah, there you go. All right, here we go next.
Andrew and Andrew and dover.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Were you think?
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Andrew says, uh, I have a friends with benefits relationship
with a lady I met online.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
Every two or three weeks.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
She's asking me if we can be more than friends,
and she cooks for me and buys me things. How
do I keep a friendly sexual relationship with her? Is
that possible?
Speaker 4 (04:03):
He wants to know?
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Andrew and dope, Well, yeah, if that's all it's gonna be.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
But I'm telling you what she wants, and she's saying
what she wants. But you got to stay the course,
you know. But you're gonna have to get into why
in a minute. And why is oh, well he got somebody.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Oh oh, which is why he only has the friends
with benefits with her.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Yeah, he's not gonna commit to her somebody else.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Is all saying, Yeah, okay, this this easy. Men ain't
that complicated, y'all.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
But he still wants to have sex with her on
the side. Yeah, nothing more permanent. Okay, Well, is he
gonna stop taking the gifts and stuff and eating her food?
Speaker 2 (04:59):
That's the that's all of them.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
All the benefits. She got too big of a package.
So you can you see see you donet gave too
much without getting enough. Agreed.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Yeah, all right, Last one, Steve, last one. This is
from Panina in Charlotte, Banina, right, Mike, Panina, Panina.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
I don't know no Panina. You know any Panica.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
I don't, I don't.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Probably probably live in the Salvado go here.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
She lives in Charlotte. Okay, she's from Charlotte, and by well,
well you know the door random.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
I can't get it, Bina, go ahead here. You know
I've been black sixty eight years. I don't know a
black person named Panela. I mean whatever, Pinata, whatever her
name is.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
And Charlotte writes, my neighbor speeds through the neighborhood. I
sent an email about it to our h o A.
The h o A sent the neighbor my email and
she stopped speaking to me. My husband said that I
am messy. What's the purpose of an h o A
if we can't complain?
Speaker 2 (06:18):
You ain't the ho AO? But she why are you
all in this here? Well?
Speaker 3 (06:24):
And guess what she's still speeding? What you're telling it for?
See you at h o A neighborhood block watch? Two
different things. Now what you want to be? You want
to head of the you want to be hered a
block watch or you want to be the homeowner's associated.
Make sure everybody grass cut, make sure everybody mailbox two feet.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
From the curve. Everybody got decorating stuff.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
She doesn't want to get hit or you know, yahhood,
this is this is not right, beating through the neighborhood.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
What do you speaking?
Speaker 2 (07:01):
What's her name again? Say her name again?
Speaker 4 (07:03):
Panina? What they have to do with it.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
And Charlotte kids is farty? What kids is Farty? That's
a old that's an old name from all you know.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
But she's with somebody's kids, yes, or someone or direct
someone's car.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
There's so much she can do speeding through the neighborhood.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
I tell you right now, with a name like that,
I would not be writing in on the radio.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Leave her name over, I like Banina, think you all right?
Thank you, Celo.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Not really listen your pretty name, but it pretty name.
Be on a plane.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
Keep on you're listening. Hardy Morning Show
It is time to ask the clo. This is from
Malcolm in Brooklyn Colo. Malcolm writes, my wife and I
had a bad blowout because I hung out with her
ex and we ended up on some pictures together. She
hates him, so I'm supposed to hate him, but he's
a cool guy. We were in a group setting. So
was I wrong for kicking it with him?
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Absolutely?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Absolutely, one hundred percent wrong, one hundred percent wrong.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Let me ask you something, though. All you gotta do
is reverse it.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Suppose your wife was somewhere kicking it with the X,
her ex, your wife, and he's a great guy. Now
I remember, how happy would you be? And they just
up in these pictures kicking it?
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Exes is out.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Don't come over here, don't mean, don't bring them up.
I don't want to hear.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
No here he he's a cool guy, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Here cool got what dog? What's wrong with you? Dog?
What's wrong with you?
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Now?
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Dog?
Speaker 2 (01:08):
I ain't that's yeah, man.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
You wrong?
Speaker 2 (01:12):
She hates him.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
He obviously she has some unfond memories some things he
did to her and she didn't forgive them, which coach
caused the divorce. And now you cool with him?
Speaker 1 (01:24):
No?
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Man? Hey, man, you you don't know, You don't know
what the problem is. You might want to check into
why she's so mad, because if there was any type
of abuse of any kind, and you over there laughing
with the dude, you you are lying.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
You should be hearing that too.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
No, dog, that's all it is.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
If you if you do something to somebody I love,
and I hear about it, and I wasn't in your life,
then when I see you, I'm slapping you.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
And yeah, absolutely love and support her, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Moving on to Sandra Anne Sandra Anne in Houston. Sandra
Ann writes, I didn't. I don't tell my husband everywhere
I go in a day, and I'm sure he doesn't
tell me every stop he makes. He had started calling
me to ask where I am and what I'm doing
more than he used to. Should I do the same
thing to him so he'll stop it.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Oh, now you gotta understand what's going Okay, Come on,
where you at? What you're doing?
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Sometimes you gotta know where the bus is at, that's right.
Sometimes you just gotta keep a try. It's like a tracker.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Tell the truth.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Let me tell ay where you at? Okay, that's eight
miles away?
Speaker 3 (02:40):
All right, what you're doing. I'm getting my hair done.
That's three hours.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Okay, cool, all have a great day. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
So now if you reverse it on him, nah, problem.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
Now we can see what's going on, so you know.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
But you're not gonna say just say what it could be.
You're just gonna hint at it.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Yeah, you know, because you don't know. You know, he
just could be insecure. He could actually suspect you of cheating.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
But is he though? You don't know that.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
I just these are the two scenarios. Look, you know,
just say it just out of no where? Hey, where
you at?
Speaker 2 (03:26):
What you doing? How long you're gonna be? What you
You don't know how to ask? You know, how to
get that information? Get a tracker?
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Yeah, there you go. All right, here we go next.
Andrew and Andrew and dover.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Were you think?
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Andrew says, uh, I have a friends with benefits relationship
with a lady I met online.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
Every two or three weeks.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
She's asking me if we can be more than friends,
and she cooks for me and buys me things. How
do I keep a friendly sexual relationship with her? Is
that possible?
Speaker 4 (04:03):
He wants to know?
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Andrew and dope, Well, yeah, if that's all it's gonna be.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
But I'm telling you what she wants, and she's saying
what she wants. But you got to stay the course,
you know. But you're gonna have to get into why
in a minute. And why is oh, well he got somebody.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Oh oh, which is why he only has the friends
with benefits with her.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Yeah, he's not gonna commit to her somebody else.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Is all saying, Yeah, okay, this this easy. Men ain't
that complicated, y'all.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
But he still wants to have sex with her on
the side. Yeah, nothing more permanent. Okay, Well, is he
gonna stop taking the gifts and stuff and eating her food?
Speaker 2 (04:59):
That's the that's all of them.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
All the benefits. She got too big of a package.
So you can you see see you donet gave too
much without getting enough. Agreed.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Yeah, all right, Last one, Steve, last one. This is
from Panina in Charlotte, Banina, right, Mike, Panina, Panina.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
I don't know no Panina. You know any Panica.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
I don't, I don't.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Probably probably live in the Salvado go here.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
She lives in Charlotte. Okay, she's from Charlotte, and by well,
well you know the door random.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
I can't get it, Bina, go ahead here. You know
I've been black sixty eight years. I don't know a
black person named Panela. I mean whatever, Pinata, whatever her
name is.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
And Charlotte writes, my neighbor speeds through the neighborhood. I
sent an email about it to our h o A.
The h o A sent the neighbor my email and
she stopped speaking to me. My husband said that I
am messy. What's the purpose of an h o A
if we can't complain?
Speaker 2 (06:18):
You ain't the ho AO? But she why are you
all in this here? Well?
Speaker 3 (06:24):
And guess what she's still speeding? What you're telling it for?
See you at h o A neighborhood block watch? Two
different things. Now what you want to be? You want
to head of the you want to be hered a
block watch or you want to be the homeowner's associated.
Make sure everybody grass cut, make sure everybody mailbox two feet.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
From the curve. Everybody got decorating stuff.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
She doesn't want to get hit or you know, yahhood,
this is this is not right, beating through the neighborhood.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
What do you speaking?
Speaker 2 (07:01):
What's her name again? Say her name again?
Speaker 4 (07:03):
Panina? What they have to do with it.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
And Charlotte kids is farty? What kids is Farty? That's
a old that's an old name from all you know.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
But she's with somebody's kids, yes, or someone or direct
someone's car.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
There's so much she can do speeding through the neighborhood.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
I tell you right now, with a name like that,
I would not be writing in on the radio.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Leave her name over, I like Banina, think you all right?
Thank you, Celo.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Not really listen your pretty name, but it pretty name.
Be on a plane.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
Keep on you're listening. Hardy Morning Show
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