Ask The CLO - 08.11.25

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Well, we got Alicia in Columbia, Colo. She says, I'm
closer to my aunt than my mom. My aunt put
me through college and bought me my first car. My
mom resents her from being financially able to do those things,
and I'm tired of trying to make her make my
mom feel whole. Am I responsible for her feelings for

(00:21):
her mom?

Speaker 2 (00:22):
Absolutely not? Absolutely not, absolutely not. Your mother is jealous
of her sister, period, and that's something she got to
work through. She ought to be grateful to her sister
for taking care of her daughter. That's what she ought
to do. But see, when you don't practice gratitude, you

(00:43):
end up with attitude. Just think about anything, anybody. If
you're having a problem with anybody that you've ever helped,
and everybody has that, remember this, what's they don't operate
with gratitude? You finny get the attitude? Hello?

Speaker 1 (01:07):
Okay, all right, okay, okay, all right. Moving on to
Darla in Knoxville. Darla writes, my birthday was Friday, and
I told my husband what I wanted for my birthday,
and I showed him a picture of it. He went
and got what he wanted and had the nerve to
be hurt by my reaction? Am I supposed to be

(01:27):
thrilled over this gift that I don't want?

Speaker 2 (01:32):
Well, you know why he didn't do what you asked
him to do. I just don't understand that fellas. Now,
he might have called himself surprising you because he didn't
want to get you what you asked for, because then
it wouldn't be a surprise, but not a surprised and backfire.
But then you got to also remember, lady, you're not five.

(01:55):
You're not five. That could be another time to get this.
But once again, let me go back to this. When
you do something with somebody and they don't exhibit gratitude,
what you will get is attitude. Now, I got what
you told him, but the fact that he did something,

(02:18):
Why didn't you ask him why he gave you that?
Did he say, I really thought put some thought into this,
and I thought you might like this instead. I know
that's what you want, but I wanted to try to
surprise you with something. They may have a good reason
for that, but you're so busy wanting what you want
because you five. I ain't getting no bike for Christmas,
you know, So that's whatever?

Speaker 3 (02:38):
Lady?

Speaker 2 (02:39):
Okay, I hate being told what to go get, I
might as well just give you the money to go
get it.

Speaker 3 (02:46):
Yeah, don't feel like a surprise, I get. Well, we
can narrow it down, we come on because yeah it's easier.

Speaker 1 (02:59):
He got what he wanted her to have, but not
what she wanted, you know, But anyway it back. Yeah,
now he's hurt. Okay, yeah, all right. Moving on to
Sean and Alexandria, Sean writes, my husband got laid off
and he's been down and neglecting his hygiene. But I
still try to make him feel special by having sex

(03:21):
whenever he wants to. How do I encourage him to
take showers and keep himself groomed while he's unemployed? Ew?

Speaker 2 (03:30):
Well, you know one way to get him the shower
is quit having sex just because he won't to.

Speaker 3 (03:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (03:38):
Now, I don't know what you not working got to
do with you being funky. But I don't understand. It's like,
you know, when I'm on vacation, I still bathe I
got that. I ain't on TV. Now I might not.

Speaker 3 (03:52):
Shave, but we're gonna wash.

Speaker 2 (03:56):
Yeah, we're gonna do that. And I live with a
woman where you can't come up in there. You because
I'm married to a blood hound. So she got a
sense that I you know.

Speaker 4 (04:09):
Yeah, see your sneakers by the dope. Yeah, you know,
you know the little stuff like that, was you smoking
a cigar outside? It was outside, it was too close
to the dope, you know, stuff like that.

Speaker 1 (04:21):
So yeah, so what she wants to.

Speaker 3 (04:30):
Yes, just stop the letter stink.

Speaker 1 (04:34):
I know. Yeah, the sex part with no showers and
all that. Okay, all right, last one.

Speaker 3 (04:42):
You're holding up, bro, gross she got a mask on.

Speaker 1 (04:48):
I don't know, all right, last one, last one and
Stella and Syracuse says, I've planned this destination wedding, but
most of our family members are not coming because they
are scared to leave the country right now. My fiance's
dad has offered to pay for our wedding in New York.
Do we have to change our plans for them?

Speaker 2 (05:09):
Yes, you do, because ain't nobody going nowhere with you
right now? Not in this crazy climbing win. Yeah, you
can still have a destination wedding without getting on the
plane and going nowhere. Go to Pennsylvania. You can have
a destination wedding in Pennsylvania.

Speaker 3 (05:25):
It is a different destination.

Speaker 2 (05:27):
Than no, no, no. In an Amish country. You could
do it in Amish country because then you know it
ain't nobody. It'd be like you're in a different whole,
nother world. You can be down there and just have
everything because they got a lot of candles down there.
You can have candles everything right there. Oh, it's gonna
be nice. Didn't have you have butterchurn? You have fresh butter.

(05:48):
Oh that butter good. And then and they'll make you
a wedding gown you ain't ever seen before, come with
a bonnet and everything. You have to wear them little
lace up boots. But other than that, you're gonna bear
them high heels. It's not a diamish window. You're gonna
have to wear them boots that lay up with about

(06:08):
the thirty on it. Yeah, yeah, you're gonna wear them
little page boys shoes look like you deliver newspapers.

Speaker 3 (06:15):
You gonna take to get out them clothes, though, after
the wed.

Speaker 2 (06:20):
It's gonna take to get that too, because that horse,
horse traffic, crazy.

Speaker 3 (06:29):
Pet up in there. Man, would you be all day?

Speaker 2 (06:32):
Tie your little cans on that little orange triangle on
the back. Have your little cans on that?

Speaker 3 (06:37):
What about the reception.

Speaker 2 (06:39):
Had a reception in that barn half all that hay
around here. Yeah, they ain't got no music. Though you're
gonna have to harm everything.

Speaker 3 (06:48):
You ain't gonna be h This carriage right now coming
over in the town. Speed that right there, that's top
speed right there.

Speaker 2 (07:06):
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Speaker 1 (07:11):
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