Ask The CLO - 08.12.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer. Steve
Harvey's all right, Kenya and Atlantic City writes, my husband
is going on a cruise with his siblings to celebrate
his retirement. I think his sisters planned this trip because
they know I get really bad motion sickness and I
won't go. I understand they probably don't care for me,

(00:21):
But why wouldn't my husband speak up on my behalf
and plan a better vacation?

Speaker 2 (00:27):
Mmm?

Speaker 3 (00:28):
Hey on, Well, let me say this to you, sister.

Speaker 2 (00:31):
There is a medication that you can get from your doctors.
There's prescription meds that you could take four days before
you go for altitude sickness and four days before you
can go for motion sickness, and it will solve all
your problems. Quit tripping. You'd make me sick. Always call

(00:52):
me a complains? I said, why ain't got to exclude me?
You learn how to swim?

Speaker 1 (00:56):
Hell, that's your response from the person. Do you know
how to swear?

Speaker 3 (01:03):
Yet? So y'all know how I know how to swim?
Get back? But you know, when you don't want to
deal with the letter, I just tell him.

Speaker 1 (01:10):
Anything that's not helping.

Speaker 3 (01:16):
This ain't a long question.

Speaker 2 (01:17):
She mad because they don't playing the cruise. Everybody want
to go on cruise, but you're a little sick. Take
the pills, call your doctor and get on the boat
and celebrate your busband's retirement.

Speaker 1 (01:27):
Mad at her husband, that's what it is.

Speaker 2 (01:29):
No, but why you're mad at him? It's his retirement.
They throwing something from him. Naw, you want him to
go to his sisters and make them replaying it because
YO gets see sick.

Speaker 3 (01:40):
Go to your doctor and get to.

Speaker 2 (01:43):
Let me find out what the name of this medicine is,
because I just had a.

Speaker 3 (01:48):
Drama. Meaning is over the counter medicine.

Speaker 2 (01:50):
It don't work, you get sleepy, You gonna miss the
whole trip, sleeping, gonna be sleeping.

Speaker 3 (01:58):
The name of the medicine is. I can't say it,
but it's a ce.

Speaker 2 (02:08):
A z O l A M I d e okaya.

Speaker 3 (02:16):
To zola mine.

Speaker 2 (02:18):
Okay, that's a prescription, man, Your doctor has a prescribety
Please check it to it and go enjoy your trip.

Speaker 1 (02:23):
Next question, Journey in TWUSNS says, I'm in my late
thirties and I had a daughter when I was a
junior in high school. Now that she's grown, I want
to move into a smaller home and travel. My daughter
feels like I'm pushing her out of my life. But
she doesn't understand how much I gave up by being
a young mom. How do I get her to understand that.

Speaker 2 (02:44):
Ain't her fault, No, it's not her fault. All she
got this whole mama. Yeah, all she knew is her mama.
Y'all been more like friends anyway. Y'all was close in age. Yeah,
Now she gonna lose her mama and her friend. That's
what it sounds nunlike to hurt. Now you're talking about
what you gave up. You you made that decision junior high,

(03:11):
junior in high.

Speaker 3 (03:12):
School grade the same thing.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
No, No, hey, junior in high school two years before
junior high. Now see you're talking about now. Junior high
was seven through nine. High school was ten through twelve.

Speaker 3 (03:36):
Now, go ahead. Shirley was different than that, all right?

Speaker 1 (03:42):
Well, Lauren in d MB area says, I'm a professional
woman with a history of emotionally abusing my boyfriend, or
at least that's what he told our therapist. He won't
stand up to me when we argue, and that bothers me.
Why won't he take control of this relation ship?

Speaker 2 (04:00):
Cause you crazy? What that hell up to me? Stand
up to you? He is tied of you. All this
fighting and stuff. You are emotionally abusive to man. And
why won't he stand up you? Because when he stand up,
you stand up?

Speaker 1 (04:17):
Mo. Yeah, you're already in therapy.

Speaker 3 (04:20):
Dang, she won't s up in here? Now you won't hit?
Why won't he fight me?

Speaker 1 (04:27):
Why won't he take control of this relationship?

Speaker 3 (04:30):
Why don't you quit? Ag?

Speaker 2 (04:32):
He needs to leave, He don't want the relationship. This
therapy is just so he can say he tried. He
he already got somebody else.

Speaker 3 (04:40):
Now go home.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
Fight about that now? Now, anybody taking all that nagging off?

Speaker 3 (04:46):
You? Please her? Boy? They't married?

Speaker 1 (04:51):
No, no, no, no.

Speaker 3 (04:52):
It's he got somebody else. No, no, he got somebody else.

Speaker 1 (04:55):
She emotionally abuses him.

Speaker 2 (04:57):
And he got he'd have wint somewhere where he don't
get emotionally abauting?

Speaker 3 (05:01):
What man? Don't do that? All right?

Speaker 1 (05:05):
Lauren? You about to lose your man.

Speaker 3 (05:07):
He goes he's your man. You're about to lose.

Speaker 1 (05:10):
Your man you love. And she didn't say she's a
professional woman with the history of emotionally abusing her boyfriend.
And that's what he told his therapist, at least that's what.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
He told That's why he got somebody when we argue
because you nutty.

Speaker 1 (05:31):
Yeah, this is crazy. That's right here, all right, last one.

Speaker 2 (05:38):
I probably nutted and probably got banned off the things.
You can't say no more. But but since I ain't
got the least, okay, nutty.

Speaker 3 (05:49):
Empire over?

Speaker 1 (05:53):
Yeah, all right, Moving on to Andrea and Lake Charles.
Andrea writes, my seventeen year old, seventeen year old son
snuck a female in my house and my husband caught
them in the act. He came and told me not
to go into the game room because he didn't want
to embarrass our son. He said he'd handle our son
later a few days past, and he didn't punish our son.

(06:17):
Shouldn't he be punished?

Speaker 2 (06:18):
What he's seventy? Let me ask you a question, what
is the punishment fit to be that's gonna make him
not do that again? You break the seal on the
cookie job all you won't cookies?

Speaker 3 (06:40):
So now whatment shure the go ahead? I'm listening.

Speaker 1 (06:43):
I mean, he's snug a female in the house.

Speaker 3 (06:46):
Just what that bell?

Speaker 2 (06:49):
That?

Speaker 3 (06:50):
Okay? He can't drive a car.

Speaker 2 (06:52):
Uh yeah, all of that focus on one thing.

Speaker 3 (06:57):
Dog, But can I keep breaking this girl up here?
Can I know.

Speaker 1 (07:02):
He cannot sneak another female?

Speaker 3 (07:04):
They got face turned? Okay, what else you got?

Speaker 1 (07:06):
No?

Speaker 3 (07:06):
If we take his phone, he don't. Yeah, they take
no seventeen year old phone. Seventeen.

Speaker 1 (07:13):
Yeah, that's the punishment. Though he's seventeen.

Speaker 3 (07:17):
He's You don't think he gonna go down there and
get a track phone.

Speaker 1 (07:22):
He's gonna Does he have a job? You have to
ask me for the money or his dad for the money.

Speaker 2 (07:26):
You think you're.

Speaker 3 (07:27):
Closed my life.

Speaker 2 (07:28):
There's way too much technical stuff going on this boy.
I mean, I appreciate y'all wanting to put him more
punishment all the time.

Speaker 3 (07:37):
The dad is probably one boy, crowd boy. I'll tell
you so. Come on now, thank you.

Speaker 1 (07:46):
C l Ow coming up right after