Ask The CLO - 08.14.25

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the clo Our chief love Officer,
Steve Harvey. This is from Gabe in Chesterfield, Colo, Gabe Wrights.
My wife made our home office her second closet and
it's too cluttered for me to work in there, so
I moved my desk to the sitting area in our bedroom.
She told me that my desk can't stay there. Should

(00:22):
I put her stuff out and get my office back?

Speaker 2 (00:26):
Well, bro, let me ask you a question. When you
take her stuff out, what how you think that's gonna work?

Speaker 3 (00:38):
Now?

Speaker 2 (00:39):
She didn't already decided that her clothes she needs more
closet space, So she then took your office and turned
that into a closet, which was a bit rude. Yeah,
especially without especially without conferring with you, talking to you
about it. And then when you said, well, I'm gonna
move my desk in the bedroom, she said, can't stay that. Well,

(01:01):
then ask her where does she propose that you take
care of the business from.

Speaker 4 (01:08):
Okay, I like it, I like it.

Speaker 3 (01:11):
Where do you propose that I take care of this
business from?

Speaker 2 (01:14):
Because you done took my office and turned it into
a closet, right, and you know, look, an office should
have a certain aura to it to put you in
the mind frame to work, work, not like you jammed
up in somebody's closet, sleeves all on the back of
your neck.

Speaker 4 (01:32):
Yeah, what is all of that? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:36):
I don't know the size of y'all's house, but you
all do.

Speaker 2 (01:39):
All have a space problem because if you turning offices
into closets, and you turn the bedroom into offices, you know,
y'all's only solution is or you can go in there
to her and say.

Speaker 3 (01:50):
Hey, look we need a bigger place and see how
that fly.

Speaker 2 (01:55):
Oh, but you're gonna have to get this man a space,
because every man should have at his house, especially if
he's a homeowner, well apartment everybody. Every man should have
his version of a man kve his little area, a
little space in the corner. That's his computer. Kids can't
use it. That's his monitor, that's his game control center,

(02:19):
whatever it is, that's just his Okay, maybe he got
a little sofa in the TV in the basement somewhere,
whatever size house y'all got, every man should have that.

Speaker 3 (02:29):
All right. All right, Well, we're gonna get your bra
off the frontato off this. We're gonna get your braw
for them.

Speaker 1 (02:36):
Moving on to Calendra and Macon, Calenda writes, after sex,
my husband is all almost always gets out of bed
and sleeps on the sofa. It's a big disconnect for me,
and I've told him that I don't like it. I
even asked him if the sex is that bad. He
won't give me a reason. Why does he get out

(02:58):
of bed and sleep on the sofa?

Speaker 2 (03:01):
Probably because he's hot? Hot, and hell on here you know,
not keep you from cutting, and he don't want to
push you off and all this here.

Speaker 3 (03:13):
But she ain't bad. It's not because it's bad. That
ain't it.

Speaker 4 (03:18):
Yeah, but he won't get well.

Speaker 2 (03:21):
If it's bad, they're gonna go somewhere. So that ain't
what it is. It ain't bad because.

Speaker 4 (03:26):
He married, won't Why won't he just.

Speaker 3 (03:30):
He don't want to hurt the feelings.

Speaker 2 (03:31):
I don't want your own me touching me and asking
me nothing talking.

Speaker 4 (03:37):
You don't want her touching talking.

Speaker 3 (03:39):
To you, going here on the couch.

Speaker 4 (03:46):
Up.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
You got to recover, all right.

Speaker 1 (03:53):
Moving on to Ricky and Little Rock, Ricky writes, my
girlfriend compares me to her exes a lot, so I've
decided to give her a taste of her own medicine,
and I told her that no one makes spaghetti like
my ex wife.

Speaker 4 (04:08):
She told me that she will remember that.

Speaker 1 (04:10):
Is it cool to be playing these types of games?

Speaker 2 (04:15):
No, she said, I'm gonna remember that. Okay, they don't
forget anyway. No, now she remember that. I don't know
why she does that. Ladies, you can't bruise a man's
ego like that. Yeah, you're always comparing you to your.

Speaker 3 (04:35):
Ex's and all like that. That what's wrong with you? Lady?
You're wrong now, my man? Now, how you get back
at her is not that way?

Speaker 4 (04:47):
Who my ex wife can make some spaghetti. I love
her spagetti? Do you make it like my ex wife?

Speaker 3 (04:54):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (04:55):
Okay, well, you know the thing about the spaghett It
wasn't good enough to keep y'all together?

Speaker 3 (05:02):
So how good that spaghetti was?

Speaker 2 (05:03):
You left it and her?

Speaker 1 (05:07):
That was her name though, Steve, his name is Ricky Edith.

Speaker 4 (05:13):
Yeah, you go so deep on the old.

Speaker 3 (05:18):
Ricky and Edith.

Speaker 4 (05:21):
Edith Edith eat itth Edith.

Speaker 1 (05:24):
Wow, she said, I'll remember that all right, Last one, Steve,
Last one.

Speaker 4 (05:29):
Charita in Memphis.

Speaker 1 (05:31):
Sharita writes, I've been married for almost fifteen years, and
i stopped having sex with my husband because he does
not know how to talk to me. He stopped asking
for sex after month two? Why has he lost interest
in having sex? Does he have someone else?

Speaker 2 (05:50):
Well, he stopped asking for sex after month too. Y'all
been married almost fifteen years.

Speaker 4 (05:56):
Fifteen years.

Speaker 3 (05:58):
You're just not right near.

Speaker 4 (06:02):
It hasn't been bothering you.

Speaker 2 (06:08):
I don't even understand. I don't even want to stand
the concern anymore.

Speaker 4 (06:14):
She's wanting a wyse he lost interest in sex?

Speaker 3 (06:17):
And does you lost interest in sex in me? Thirteen
years ago?

Speaker 4 (06:21):
I know.

Speaker 2 (06:23):
I don't think it's time for a letter. Yeah, yeah,
I don't know. What's you know?

Speaker 4 (06:36):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (06:36):
Who deaf? A long way?

Speaker 1 (06:38):
So he was he was talking to her crazy, so
she says, So she stopped having sex with him.

Speaker 4 (06:44):
That was the problem, and initially.

Speaker 2 (06:47):
Well talking to him crazy, talking to her in general
or why they was in the act in general?

Speaker 4 (06:54):
Yeah, just period? Yeah, in general.

Speaker 1 (06:59):
Yeah, that's that's why she stopped having sex in the
first place, because he does not know how to talk
to her.

Speaker 2 (07:05):
Okay, so something wrong with him? He ain't you rap right?
I can't help you. It's just too much in here.
And that's missing thirteen years, fifteen, talking to you crazy.

Speaker 3 (07:19):
I don't know. I can't help you.

Speaker 4 (07:21):
He stopped having sex after month two.

Speaker 3 (07:23):
Yes, thelo just don't know.

Speaker 4 (07:28):
Thank you, Celo, see all them all. You're listening to
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