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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the c l O Chief
Love Officer, Steve Harvey Lowell and Saint Paul writes, my
boyfriend loves sleeping naked and I don't mind it.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
I don't mind it at all.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
But it would be great if he showered before getting
into bed with me. What he prefers to shower in
the morning, and I get it, But how can I
get him to wash up before he tries to spoon
with me?
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Well, you know, moo spooning, no mo sex. I need
that shower before bed, that's the Yeah, you can throw
some water on your face in the morning, but we're
gonna leave that bath before you climb up in here though.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Yeah, after all days, eight.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Hours under this cover which you ain't working, you need
to wrestle.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Yeah, yes, rach rang out range.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
All right, an easy one, see Sheila and Roanok says,
I'm fifty seven years old and my husband and I
are separated because I caught him sexting with the woman.
He had a new picture of her on his phone
and he said she just said it and he didn't
ask her to. He swears he hasn't cheated on me,
But isn't this the first step too cheating.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Should I go talk to the woman?
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Well, I don't see what going to talk to the
woman does. You're not married to her and she didn't
extend any bows to you. Your conversation is purely with
your husband. And if he says they haven't had sex yet,
that's a possibility. But now is that the first step
to haven't it? Well, let me just say this, if
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you talk about it long enough, once you start talking
about it sexty, then you got to wonder what it
would really be.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
Like words into action.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Yeah, if this don't stop, this could be a problem.
And no, you shouldn't go talk to the woman because no,
that ain't who you married to.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Yeah, okay, all right, part I like that. All right?
Moving on to Kamika and Jacksonville.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Kamika Rights, I'm twenty eight years old and I'm dating
a forty four year old married man and he pays
my rent. He had a kid to my apartment, so
I had my locks changed. He got upset and said
that I violated the rules. I never agreed to give
him full access to me. He's married, so why can't
I have my privacy to date others?
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Right? I mean, you know what Yeah, y'all need to
get these rules established early before. Yeah, you know, why
did he have a key in the first place? See,
you gave him McKy then you changed a lot. Now
he confused because if I'm paying for the place, it's
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because I can get a key. Now you ain't got
no key to his house. Nor will you get a key.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Oh no, he's married now, So.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
You got to re establish what it is. Now he
may stop paying. So you have to understand now what
it is you're in it for. That's right, because this
is a form of you know, this is an arrangement,
a contract. It's just an organized form of prostitution. That's
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what it is. It's an organized.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
Prostitute right now.
Speaker 3 (03:42):
So you call it what you want to call it.
But if you're doing performing sex for a monetary game,
that's prostitution. Matter of fact, that you'all regular.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
That happened all the time.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
There's a lot of prostitutes got regular because m hmm lot.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Yeah, is everyone clear on what it is? One more time, Steve.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
So it's just a verbalized, contractual form of prostitution, that's
what it is. For I will provide you monetary gain
in exchange for sexual faith. Okay, and the monitor's name
was an apartment with a key. You change the locks,
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you know, because you want to do some other stuff.
Why are you doing it? So now we got a problem.
He upset he changed the rules because he established the
rules when he gave you.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Yes, she said, I never agreed to give him full
access to me.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Well, when you give him a key to the apartment
and now the key don't work anymore? What what? Yeh? See?
What do you think that check was for? Yeah, I
don't know how you wanted to go your way anyway.
Didn't you say he was married?
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Yeah, he's married, and he had a key, she said,
he had a key.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
There's no right way to do this. You do know
that because all this is wrong?
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Yeah, because he's married. That's a right there.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Yeah, I don't know how. Y'all want some clear Oh
this works for me, and when the whole thing is wrong,
so you know, grow up, put your big girl panties on.
This is what you signed up for. Now y'all have
to renegotiate the deal.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
So now you may be down to just half.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Rent, shipping in on the.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
Rent, half access, I guess, Yeah, you're gonna mess around
and be one hundred dollars a visit in the middle.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Money. Here we go, last one, Steve, last one.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Uh. Falana in Arkansas says I'm married and I have
a male best friend. We are strictly platonic friends. We
talk twenty four to seven and enjoy shopping together. My
husband assumes that my bestie is a new female I
work with, and he wants to meet her. Would my
husband flip out if I introduced him to my tall,
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fine and chocolate new best friend.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, wouldn't you flip out of his new
best friend was a tall, fine, chocolate chick.
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Really yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Yeah, So yeah, he gonna flip out, And you know
you're wrong. That's why you write the letter. And he's
so fine. Yeah, okay, okay, now unless he's gay, get ready, Yeah,
the flip and you know it because.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
He fine, yeah, tall and fine.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Yeah yeah, y'all just talk twenty four to seven. You
gonna introduce him to your husband. Finna be a problem.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
But she's letting her husband think that it's her her
new coworker.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
She's letting your husband think that.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
Absolutely, that's deception. Yes, no, no, no, listen, that's lying.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
Yeah, Oh, oh, you're not upset that she's lying.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
That's not what I'm hearing, is it.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Oh see, I get over there with women lie. But
y'all so always talking about why I do me and lie?
Why you lie? Why aren't you just telling me they
ain't joke co working down there, that he's a big, tall,
fine man and he gonna shop it with me.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
And we talked twenty four we.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Talked twenty four seven. Why don't you tell that truth?
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Yeah, she's wrong, all right, Cela?
Speaker 2 (07:50):
You nailed it today, Yes you did. You're listening Hardy
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