September 26, 2025 • 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time for you, Steve. People want to ask
you questions.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
The l O.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
Here we go, Cheyenne and Raleigh writes, for my thirtieth birthday,
I invited my cousin to come to visit. She brought
her boyfriend, and she had just met him a week
before she came. So I told her that he couldn't
stay in my house. She got mad and drove back home.
Was that wrong for this?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
No? No, absolutely not. It's your house. She don't even
know him.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
You don't know him, and she just told her he's
staying at your staying at your house.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
That's not how it works, man.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Manam, people don't even understand orders and and and just
being civil towards one another. You bring a stranger to
your cousin's house talking about he's staying.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Here with me. I just met him last week.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Nobody waking up standing, nobody with no over there bed,
with no acc in the hands.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
What come on? High?
Speaker 3 (00:57):
You know y'all ain't going out of here, no MODI?
Now come on, put your duct tape on your arms,
mouth shut up crying now you know you don't know me.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Nobody do that?
Speaker 1 (01:08):
No, that's crazy, that's really all right, Sammy and Tribeca says,
I'm a thirty nine year old married man, and I
have to share my wife with her male best friend,
which is very annoying. His husband is just as irritated
as I am with their friendship. And I had plans
to see a movie and she'd already seen it on
(01:28):
her lunch break with her bestie. How do I set
boundaries without offending them?
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Okay, excuse me, I'm missing all right something.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Married man, married man. His wife has a best friend
who's also married to a man. It's a gay couple.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Okay, I don't give it.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Yeah, the husband is irritated because the wife spends more
time with the bestie with their best friend.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
I don't give it. If he married to several men,
that ain't none of my bis. You do what you want, right,
But do you spending so much time with him?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Yeah? The thing?
Speaker 3 (02:06):
You know, man, you'll find something else to do. He
got a husband, Go to movie with him. You got
a husband, Go to the movie with your husband. It's
gonna make no sense. Man.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
I keep man, okay, yeah, keep male and female.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
The opposite sex friendships lead to problems. That's your best man.
Get another bestie. Where girl is at.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
So the question is he wants to know Steve. How
does he set boundaries? He he's worried about offending them?
How do I set boundaries without Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Don't give it who offenished? No? No, no, no. I
tell you what we're gonna do, all of us be.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
There, you go. I'm I'm gonna treat that that offensive
thing gonna fit to be like peanut butter.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Don't finn to get something on. Everybody breaths, spread it around.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
You know, when I make my peanut butter sandwich, I
put the peanut butter all all the.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Way to the egg.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
You can't see no bread for myself. I spreads my panu.
But now I don't get to jelly all the way
to the edge because I don't want to leak it out.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
But they peedup on a thick.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Yeah, I'm spreading this offical. He don't want to feel
nobody man leave.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, all right. Moving on to Joanne and Indiana,
Joanne writes, my husband was ill for three years before
he died. Before he died, I started dating someone else.
My marriage had been over for years, but I stayed
with my husband because he was sick. My boyfriend moved
(03:50):
in two weeks after my husband died. His mom thinks
I'm dead? Wrong, Do I owe her an explanation?
Speaker 2 (03:58):
Well, i'm gonna tell you right now. Ain't a good.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Look, right two weeks I'm just.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Telling you right now. Now.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
I know the man was probably six sick, incapacitated or something,
and you should have gave it a little more time
because of the way it looked.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
But two weeks after he moved.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
In, Yeah, what was all the neighbors saying, Well, they
ain't even.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Lowered the casket in the ground yet.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
They ain't even put all the dirt on it, right,
it's still got that green AstroTurf round it. And well,
oh my god, here's the key word. He isn't even
cold yet. Well that's where people wrong. Oh he ice cold?
(04:54):
Quitch saying that if I ain't even cold, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
the fact when you die you called that first morning goods.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
About your finger?
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Does she owe the mom an explanation?
Speaker 2 (05:13):
Who's mother?
Speaker 1 (05:14):
His mother? His mother? Does she owe her an explanation?
Speaker 2 (05:21):
His mama tripping?
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Like what two weeks after my son?
Speaker 2 (05:25):
She already knows this was going on while he was sick.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
But Nobody understands that about life.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
So you just gotta tell her mom.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Look, you might, you might, but no matter what you say,
how you think it's gonna.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Go with his mother, she'd have lost her son. Yeah
a year, she's gonna hate you forever.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Why did you move in with him? There you go.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
He ain't got nothing now, he all up in her son. Girl,
You fore to be involved in.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
The drive.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Oh god, yeah, that when they started flying shots.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Up in the house.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
If I was here, I moved back to my house.
I had to lest some time.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Cool.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
That ain't an Yeah, every time they pulled out the driveway,
go to church, our shopping.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Peter's kit forever?
Speaker 2 (06:29):
All right?
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Moving on last one. Camy in Toronto says, I'm a
beginning swimmer. My boyfriend is a professional diver. I learned
to swim, but I hate being in water. We're going
on vacation. He's planning water activities for us. He's forcing
me to face my fears. Should I make my own plans?
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Well, you're gonna die on this vacation, ye say that?
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Hall water sport.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
What is he doing there? Man? I love going onder
the water?
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Uh huh?
Speaker 3 (07:05):
In all the water trips, out and took out a
jet ski three times.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
Last time, I just went circle the boat came right
on back.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
We saw it on you. Yeah all right.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Thanks.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Hello, we gotta wrap this up.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
You're listening Hardy Morning Show
It is time for you, Steve. People want to ask
you questions.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
The l O.
Speaker 1 (00:05):
Here we go, Cheyenne and Raleigh writes, for my thirtieth birthday,
I invited my cousin to come to visit. She brought
her boyfriend, and she had just met him a week
before she came. So I told her that he couldn't
stay in my house. She got mad and drove back home.
Was that wrong for this?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
No? No, absolutely not. It's your house. She don't even
know him.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
You don't know him, and she just told her he's
staying at your staying at your house.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
That's not how it works, man.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Manam, people don't even understand orders and and and just
being civil towards one another. You bring a stranger to
your cousin's house talking about he's staying.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Here with me. I just met him last week.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Nobody waking up standing, nobody with no over there bed,
with no acc in the hands.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
What come on? High?
Speaker 3 (00:57):
You know y'all ain't going out of here, no MODI?
Now come on, put your duct tape on your arms,
mouth shut up crying now you know you don't know me.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Nobody do that?
Speaker 1 (01:08):
No, that's crazy, that's really all right, Sammy and Tribeca says,
I'm a thirty nine year old married man, and I
have to share my wife with her male best friend,
which is very annoying. His husband is just as irritated
as I am with their friendship. And I had plans
to see a movie and she'd already seen it on
(01:28):
her lunch break with her bestie. How do I set
boundaries without offending them?
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Okay, excuse me, I'm missing all right something.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Married man, married man. His wife has a best friend
who's also married to a man. It's a gay couple.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Okay, I don't give it.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Yeah, the husband is irritated because the wife spends more
time with the bestie with their best friend.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
I don't give it. If he married to several men,
that ain't none of my bis. You do what you want, right,
But do you spending so much time with him?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Yeah? The thing?
Speaker 3 (02:06):
You know, man, you'll find something else to do. He
got a husband, Go to movie with him. You got
a husband, Go to the movie with your husband. It's
gonna make no sense. Man.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
I keep man, okay, yeah, keep male and female.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
The opposite sex friendships lead to problems. That's your best man.
Get another bestie. Where girl is at.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
So the question is he wants to know Steve. How
does he set boundaries? He he's worried about offending them?
How do I set boundaries without Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Don't give it who offenished? No? No, no, no. I
tell you what we're gonna do, all of us be.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
There, you go. I'm I'm gonna treat that that offensive
thing gonna fit to be like peanut butter.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Don't finn to get something on. Everybody breaths, spread it around.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
You know, when I make my peanut butter sandwich, I
put the peanut butter all all the.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Way to the egg.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
You can't see no bread for myself. I spreads my panu.
But now I don't get to jelly all the way
to the edge because I don't want to leak it out.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
But they peedup on a thick.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Yeah, I'm spreading this offical. He don't want to feel
nobody man leave.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, all right. Moving on to Joanne and Indiana,
Joanne writes, my husband was ill for three years before
he died. Before he died, I started dating someone else.
My marriage had been over for years, but I stayed
with my husband because he was sick. My boyfriend moved
(03:50):
in two weeks after my husband died. His mom thinks
I'm dead? Wrong, Do I owe her an explanation?
Speaker 2 (03:58):
Well, i'm gonna tell you right now. Ain't a good.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Look, right two weeks I'm just.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Telling you right now. Now.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
I know the man was probably six sick, incapacitated or something,
and you should have gave it a little more time
because of the way it looked.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
But two weeks after he moved.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
In, Yeah, what was all the neighbors saying, Well, they
ain't even.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Lowered the casket in the ground yet.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
They ain't even put all the dirt on it, right,
it's still got that green AstroTurf round it. And well,
oh my god, here's the key word. He isn't even
cold yet. Well that's where people wrong. Oh he ice cold?
(04:54):
Quitch saying that if I ain't even cold, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
the fact when you die you called that first morning goods.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
About your finger?
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Does she owe the mom an explanation?
Speaker 2 (05:13):
Who's mother?
Speaker 1 (05:14):
His mother? His mother? Does she owe her an explanation?
Speaker 2 (05:21):
His mama tripping?
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Like what two weeks after my son?
Speaker 2 (05:25):
She already knows this was going on while he was sick.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
But Nobody understands that about life.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
So you just gotta tell her mom.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Look, you might, you might, but no matter what you say,
how you think it's gonna.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Go with his mother, she'd have lost her son. Yeah
a year, she's gonna hate you forever.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Why did you move in with him? There you go.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
He ain't got nothing now, he all up in her son. Girl,
You fore to be involved in.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
The drive.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Oh god, yeah, that when they started flying shots.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Up in the house.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
If I was here, I moved back to my house.
I had to lest some time.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Cool.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
That ain't an Yeah, every time they pulled out the driveway,
go to church, our shopping.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Peter's kit forever?
Speaker 2 (06:29):
All right?
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Moving on last one. Camy in Toronto says, I'm a
beginning swimmer. My boyfriend is a professional diver. I learned
to swim, but I hate being in water. We're going
on vacation. He's planning water activities for us. He's forcing
me to face my fears. Should I make my own plans?
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Well, you're gonna die on this vacation, ye say that?
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Hall water sport.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
What is he doing there? Man? I love going onder
the water?
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Uh huh?
Speaker 3 (07:05):
In all the water trips, out and took out a
jet ski three times.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
Last time, I just went circle the boat came right
on back.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
We saw it on you. Yeah all right.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Thanks.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Hello, we gotta wrap this up.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
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