Ask The CLO - 10.01.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Right now it is time to ask the clo our
chief love Officer, Steve Harvey, that is you again. Welcome back, Steve.
This is from Tyrone in Auburn. Tyrone writes, My wife
called me on the way home and told me to
bring her smoothie and a dozen donuts. I told her
that she didn't need either one of those, but I
was joking and picked them up anyway. I got home

(00:22):
and she threw the smoothie on me. She said I
hurt her feelings. Should I stop joking with her altogether?

Speaker 2 (00:31):
Yeah? Yeah, she ain't got no sense of humor dog
at all.

Speaker 3 (00:35):
But I will tell you this though she threw that
smovie on you, but she ate them donuts though. I'm
just gone, and behind every joke is a touch of seriousness.

Speaker 2 (00:44):
So you had decided she don't need either one in im.
She know it. She know it, and you bought it.

Speaker 3 (00:52):
Anyway, she threw the smoothie on you, but she ate
them donut, all of them. You ain't get am donut.
So bro hanging there, man, Sometimes they go through that.
But you know, next time, just bring the smoothie and
the doughnuts and shut up.

Speaker 1 (01:07):
Yeah, all right?

Speaker 3 (01:10):
Next is Justine, what you could all you could do
is here next time you walk through the door, stumbling
the doe, waste the smoothie and oh donuts all in
the flow.

Speaker 2 (01:21):
God, don't just do that, my bad.

Speaker 3 (01:24):
They try to hear them, pick them up like like
she ain't looking from back in the box.

Speaker 1 (01:29):
There you go, All right, let's see this is Justine
and Charlotte now, colo Justin writes. A random guy commented
under one of my pictures that my boyfriend is a
lucky guy. My boyfriend responded with a nasty comment. I
was shamed. Should I block my boyfriend now? Ooh ooh, well,

(01:53):
you know, some random guy just comments.

Speaker 3 (01:58):
Well, but obviously she enjoys the random guy comments and
she don't want her boyfriend shutting it down. But now,
if you block your boyfriend, you're gonna have another But
see in a minute, he not finna be your boyfriend,
So go on block him, so y'all can start the
process of breaking up. Because this is where this is head. Yeah, yeah, this, this,

(02:19):
this is gonna break them up. Yeah if he block
her because she wants to continue hearing with these random
guys and saying about her, Yeah, that's because she's seeking
attention and he ain't giving it to her. And then
when she get attention, he gonna shut it down with
a nasty comment. I was so ashamed. Should I block him?

Speaker 2 (02:38):
Yes? Block him and get ready to break up? What
did he say?

Speaker 1 (02:42):
What did the boyfriend say?

Speaker 2 (02:44):
What was the nasty comment say? Man, she ain't yours
to be talking about.

Speaker 3 (02:49):
I'm lucky. You don't tell me I'm lucky. I can
get anybody. I won't talking about I'm lucky. So wise,
I'm lucky.

Speaker 2 (02:59):
You've seen me? Now, have you seen me?

Speaker 3 (03:05):
He had a real insecure, nasty Yeah.

Speaker 2 (03:08):
Yeah, they might break you after all. Yeah, oh yeah, yeah,
this ain't going nowhere. Uh uh all right.

Speaker 1 (03:14):
Moving on to Tron in Mount Vernon, Tron writes, I
was engaged to a woman that always asked me for money,
So I broke up with her after talking to my
pastor and my uncle's They said, that's my role in
my woman's life. But am I supposed to give her
money before I make her my wife? Before I make her?

Speaker 3 (03:35):
Well, here's the deal, man, If you're not gonna give
her no money before she's your wife, what's gonna make
you give her money because she is your wife. You know, y'all,
y'all don't understand. Y'all got to practice what you're gonna do.
You gonna get some idea of what it's like. You know,
if you how you gonna see you gonna all of
a sudden treat her wifey after she become the wife. Now,

(03:57):
I'm not saying you got to honor every single request,
but you know now you do have a job in
this thing, man, because you know you asking you steady
asking for stuff now right, steady asking for stuff. And
you know sometimes y'all want to just keep getting what
you want to get, but you don't want to. You

(04:18):
got all this costs money. Somebody told me this, he said, Man, listen,
quit calling women gold diggers. All women are expensive, all
of them. You just got to find the one you
can afford. Ain't go on and live your life. Yeah see,
you got to get out that high end business because

(04:39):
you ain't a high end player.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
That's all. All women are expensive.

Speaker 3 (04:44):
All women want something and needs something and they want
to marry somebody that can help provide it.

Speaker 2 (04:48):
It's called security.

Speaker 3 (04:50):
And if you don't want to demonstrate the security, man,
then go on and keep living like these cats. Out
here with all these bushwhack theories about you know, woman
got to bring something to the table, a lot to
the table. It's called herself and the ability to produce
another youth. You can't do that, dog, I don't know

(05:12):
what you think. This is what what's your job?

Speaker 2 (05:15):
Dog?

Speaker 3 (05:16):
If a woman's job is to support you, be loyal
to you, and provide you with a family and constant sex,
what is your role?

Speaker 1 (05:25):
But let me ask you this, Steve, where they get
that from.

Speaker 3 (05:30):
The table because we the older generation, this is our fault.
We stopped teaching it. See, we were so busy benefiting
from affirmative action in the civil rights movement. We forgot
to teach the generation below us that it was okay
to be cool, that was okay to love and take
care of your woman. And then we let it affect
the music. Now, ain't nobody loving on their women no more?

(05:53):
They got to have two, three, four. They talk about
all types of quad relationships and what I want in
on woman, and and we forgot to tell them, no, man,
this is your jo because our music change. We used
to write songs about how we loved and felt about women.
Now the music can't change. Where you they just are
innate objects.

Speaker 2 (06:13):
Tell me what the music is at. Oh, get out
the way, get out the way.

Speaker 3 (06:19):
That's all got blanks in different area because that's oh
that ain't even the new stuff. The new stuff is
worse than that because it's just trick. The new stuff
don't even They don't even take no time to write
no song.

Speaker 2 (06:31):
Now.

Speaker 3 (06:33):
Yeah, they just up in here talking now now the
women are countering with wop.

Speaker 2 (06:39):
All this whole, all this conversation about this is on
the radio.

Speaker 3 (06:44):
Now where we're going so now we didn't work to
a place now where I don't see how we're coming back.

Speaker 1 (06:52):
All right, welcome back, Steve, Thank you for having me.
You don't want to add anything else to that.

Speaker 2 (07:03):
What happened? I got shine, We gotta go the cloud?
What happened to that? Coming out with my girl?

Speaker 1 (07:13):
Coming up at the top of the hour.

Speaker 2 (07:14):
I like strength tricks everywhere for you. Right after this,
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