October 7, 2025 • 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the colo ready colo right here?
Speaker 2 (00:05):
All right? This is from Shelley and Philly. Shelley writes,
I'm in love with.
Speaker 1 (00:10):
A man that just got married. I'm in love with
a man that just got married. He's my coworker and
we had sex a few times, but he said it
was just a fling. He still flirts with me at
work and he takes me out to lunch often. I
feel like he's giving me mixed signals of what should
I do?
Speaker 3 (00:31):
See, listen to me. The person who has to straighten
out to signals is you.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Yeah, he's still flirting with you, y'all. Has sex a
few times. He didn't forget. He told you it's just
a fleeing.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Now, he's a halfway decent guy because he don't want
you feel in some kind of way. So he trying
to take you to lunch. But if you keep going
to lunch, you're gonna do more than eating a snack
on one of the breaks. I'm just telling you that
right now, you in love with the man that just
got married. Here's my suggestion to you. Fall out of
(01:09):
love with him as a p Yeah, because this is
this ain't going nowhere for you.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
He picked her.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Here's a question. How do you fall out of love?
Speaker 4 (01:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Just find something to hate on it to me. Go
on Facebook, find his wedding pictures, look at his wife's wedding.
They on line somewhere and find they wedding pictures and
just look at him and know that that ain't you
and start developing a hatred for him.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Okay, Yeah, you.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
Have to fall out of love. You have to form
or develop some form of hatred.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Yeah, because that's the opposite, the very opposite of love.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Yeah, that's what you gotta do. Like all my exes,
I found, you know, something to hate, not about you,
a halimony, child support, anything, Just pick something.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
Just get to and get to Hayton.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Moving on to Amazing and Teck Amazing Rights. I'm a
sixty year old, sixty nine year old divorced woman. I
went on a date with my ex husband's cousin, and
I feel that it's okay for us to date. He
wants to keep it a secret. I've been divorced for
seventeen years, so why should we hide? Are we doing
something wrong? This is from Amazing. Her name is Amazing.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Well, he know you was married to his cuks.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Uh huh, yeah, and he know if he show up
with you at the house for Thanksgiving, the hell that's
gonna break loose. And he wants to keep it a
secret because it ain't going nowhere. Oh he wanted you
when you was married to his cuk.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Oh, but he knew he'd better not cross that line.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Right, So now he got you. He not gonna introduce
you to the family. Y'all not going the way.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
You ain't in no real.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Relationship, and you're not a secret. Don't let him keep
using it.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
And you sixty nine you know them?
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Yeah, yeah, yes, that's true, all right. Moving on to
Carl in Houston, Carl writes, my wife has a bad
habit of donating my clothes if she does not like them.
My favorite sweats were missing, and so were my favorite sneakers.
She said, I don't know when stuff is too old
to wear. I don't care how old it is. It's mine.
(03:36):
How do I stop her?
Speaker 3 (03:38):
You ain't she gonna get rid away though, y'all gives
yourself some new sweatpants. There's an opportunity to get some
new sweatpants, had some new sneakers.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
She throw it away.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
You get to wear some new the little nasty little sneaches.
They ain't even white no more. They got dirt all
on them. Yeah, they sweatpants. They don't fit right.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Surely from Houston?
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Sure from using Yes, yes it is his last name, Matt.
I don't know why you asked call back to do
the same thing. What the same sweats shoes?
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Calling over?
Speaker 4 (04:09):
He wear old stuff. He's just a partner I made
at the barber shop years ago. He's still wear the same.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Sweat no more as your wife then gave him away.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
I made shim. Have you ever have you ever gotten
your stuff thrown away?
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Steve?
Speaker 4 (04:32):
What happened? Oh man? Just do all my hats in
the swimming pool one time? All your hats.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Hey, that's what he'll get over her, He.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Get over her like that.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
You're really.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:00):
What?
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:03):
And what did you say when you saw your hats
in the pool.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Well, I can't say. What I said on the radio.
Would be our last day.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Please don't nice working with you guys, Yeah no, please don't. Okay,
all right, Last one, Steve, last one. This is from
Angie and Pensacola. Angie writes, my husband's phone was vibrating
at one a m. From the drawer bedside his bed. Well,
from the drawer beside his bed. He got the phone
(05:33):
and turned off the power. He never puts his phone
in the drawer, and it's never on vibrate. Did he
expect that late night call? What is going on.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
The phone is in the drawer?
Speaker 2 (05:46):
What are you saying?
Speaker 3 (05:47):
See, somebody ain't understanding the room. That's exactly what he
am unless he has lied about his.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Status to the person who's calling.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Yeah, so she thinks she got free reign, free access.
Speaker 4 (06:06):
He she may not know he married. But the phone
in the.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Drawer, Yeah, yeah, he's something.
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Ain't nothing knocking. I can't even help you, homie. Once
you put it in the drawer, Yeah, put it.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
In the drawer.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Why did you just turn it off?
Speaker 3 (06:23):
Why does he happen on ends vibrating the drawer Now
it's making that was dump you know me, I'm just
I wan't apologize to y'all ladies, because sometimes just me.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
And we're just stupid, really stupid.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
Why, Yeah, it would he got that cheap drawer. He
got that drawer from my kill. That ain't real wood,
So it's shake all through the flow.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
What would you have done though back in the day, would.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
You Yeah, I buy a burner, I buy it. I
buy a phone from seven eleven of Walmart, put some
cam on it.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
What are you gonna informant?
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Yeah, well that's their number, that's who I get that number.
You don't get the main number.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Oh okay, okay. And where is this said burner phone?
It's not in the drawer besides the It's in the
trunk of the car. Trumpet of a car. Oh that's
where my crump. That's where my shoes used to be.
That I don't want to bring in the house.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
Okay, I got my wife gonna check the glove box
and all that, and the tray and under the seat.
They very rarely go in the trunk, not if you
put it under that tie.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
They don't even know.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Oh okay, all right, all right, thank you, CLO. We
learned ourselves something today, didn't we. Thank you, CLO. You're
listening Harvey Morning Show.
It is time to ask the colo ready colo right here?
Speaker 2 (00:05):
All right? This is from Shelley and Philly. Shelley writes,
I'm in love with.
Speaker 1 (00:10):
A man that just got married. I'm in love with
a man that just got married. He's my coworker and
we had sex a few times, but he said it
was just a fling. He still flirts with me at
work and he takes me out to lunch often. I
feel like he's giving me mixed signals of what should
I do?
Speaker 3 (00:31):
See, listen to me. The person who has to straighten
out to signals is you.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Yeah, he's still flirting with you, y'all. Has sex a
few times. He didn't forget. He told you it's just
a fleeing.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Now, he's a halfway decent guy because he don't want
you feel in some kind of way. So he trying
to take you to lunch. But if you keep going
to lunch, you're gonna do more than eating a snack
on one of the breaks. I'm just telling you that
right now, you in love with the man that just
got married. Here's my suggestion to you. Fall out of
(01:09):
love with him as a p Yeah, because this is
this ain't going nowhere for you.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
He picked her.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Here's a question. How do you fall out of love?
Speaker 4 (01:21):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Just find something to hate on it to me. Go
on Facebook, find his wedding pictures, look at his wife's wedding.
They on line somewhere and find they wedding pictures and
just look at him and know that that ain't you
and start developing a hatred for him.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Okay, Yeah, you.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
Have to fall out of love. You have to form
or develop some form of hatred.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Yeah, because that's the opposite, the very opposite of love.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Yeah, that's what you gotta do. Like all my exes,
I found, you know, something to hate, not about you,
a halimony, child support, anything, Just pick something.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
Just get to and get to Hayton.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Moving on to Amazing and Teck Amazing Rights. I'm a
sixty year old, sixty nine year old divorced woman. I
went on a date with my ex husband's cousin, and
I feel that it's okay for us to date. He
wants to keep it a secret. I've been divorced for
seventeen years, so why should we hide? Are we doing
something wrong? This is from Amazing. Her name is Amazing.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Well, he know you was married to his cuks.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Uh huh, yeah, and he know if he show up
with you at the house for Thanksgiving, the hell that's
gonna break loose. And he wants to keep it a
secret because it ain't going nowhere. Oh he wanted you
when you was married to his cuk.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Oh, but he knew he'd better not cross that line.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Right, So now he got you. He not gonna introduce
you to the family. Y'all not going the way.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
You ain't in no real.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Relationship, and you're not a secret. Don't let him keep
using it.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
And you sixty nine you know them?
Speaker 1 (03:12):
Yeah, yeah, yes, that's true, all right. Moving on to
Carl in Houston, Carl writes, my wife has a bad
habit of donating my clothes if she does not like them.
My favorite sweats were missing, and so were my favorite sneakers.
She said, I don't know when stuff is too old
to wear. I don't care how old it is. It's mine.
(03:36):
How do I stop her?
Speaker 3 (03:38):
You ain't she gonna get rid away though, y'all gives
yourself some new sweatpants. There's an opportunity to get some
new sweatpants, had some new sneakers.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
She throw it away.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
You get to wear some new the little nasty little sneaches.
They ain't even white no more. They got dirt all
on them. Yeah, they sweatpants. They don't fit right.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Surely from Houston?
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Sure from using Yes, yes it is his last name, Matt.
I don't know why you asked call back to do
the same thing. What the same sweats shoes?
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Calling over?
Speaker 4 (04:09):
He wear old stuff. He's just a partner I made
at the barber shop years ago. He's still wear the same.
Speaker 3 (04:15):
Sweat no more as your wife then gave him away.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
I made shim. Have you ever have you ever gotten
your stuff thrown away?
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Steve?
Speaker 4 (04:32):
What happened? Oh man? Just do all my hats in
the swimming pool one time? All your hats.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Hey, that's what he'll get over her, He.
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Get over her like that.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
You're really.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:00):
What?
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (05:03):
And what did you say when you saw your hats
in the pool.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Well, I can't say. What I said on the radio.
Would be our last day.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Please don't nice working with you guys, Yeah no, please don't. Okay,
all right, Last one, Steve, last one. This is from
Angie and Pensacola. Angie writes, my husband's phone was vibrating
at one a m. From the drawer bedside his bed. Well,
from the drawer beside his bed. He got the phone
(05:33):
and turned off the power. He never puts his phone
in the drawer, and it's never on vibrate. Did he
expect that late night call? What is going on.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
The phone is in the drawer?
Speaker 2 (05:46):
What are you saying?
Speaker 3 (05:47):
See, somebody ain't understanding the room. That's exactly what he
am unless he has lied about his.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Status to the person who's calling.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Yeah, so she thinks she got free reign, free access.
Speaker 4 (06:06):
He she may not know he married. But the phone
in the.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Drawer, Yeah, yeah, he's something.
Speaker 3 (06:14):
Ain't nothing knocking. I can't even help you, homie. Once
you put it in the drawer, Yeah, put it.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
In the drawer.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Why did you just turn it off?
Speaker 3 (06:23):
Why does he happen on ends vibrating the drawer Now
it's making that was dump you know me, I'm just
I wan't apologize to y'all ladies, because sometimes just me.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
And we're just stupid, really stupid.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
I'm so sorry.
Speaker 3 (06:39):
Why, Yeah, it would he got that cheap drawer. He
got that drawer from my kill. That ain't real wood,
So it's shake all through the flow.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
What would you have done though back in the day, would.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
You Yeah, I buy a burner, I buy it. I
buy a phone from seven eleven of Walmart, put some
cam on it.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
What are you gonna informant?
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Yeah, well that's their number, that's who I get that number.
You don't get the main number.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Oh okay, okay. And where is this said burner phone?
It's not in the drawer besides the It's in the
trunk of the car. Trumpet of a car. Oh that's
where my crump. That's where my shoes used to be.
That I don't want to bring in the house.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
Okay, I got my wife gonna check the glove box
and all that, and the tray and under the seat.
They very rarely go in the trunk, not if you
put it under that tie.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
They don't even know.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Oh okay, all right, all right, thank you, CLO. We
learned ourselves something today, didn't we. Thank you, CLO. You're
listening Harvey Morning Show.
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