October 20, 2025 • 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the clo. This is from
Derek and Philly. Derek writes, I'm dating a woman that
lives over an hour from me. I see other women
because I can, and it doesn't mean that I don't
love my girlfriend. I would be devastated if my girlfriend
ever found out. How do I remain faithful when I
(00:21):
can't be with my girl?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
That ain't no dimember, that's a stupid question. You're asking me.
How do I be faithful without my girl? And all
your excuse is she stay an hour away. That's that's all.
It takes one hour.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Drive travel time.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
And now you've got to have somebody else. Hey, brother, really, dog,
let me let me explain. You just got the man up.
You got to make the decision. Stop trying to act
like you want this girl so bad, because you don't.
You want her and them two. You're a player right now,
that's all you are. Now, you're not finn stop. I
(01:06):
would be devastated if you lost my girl. Now you
wouldn't you just get some more of them that you
got local whoa Okay? So bro, let's come on, man,
let's let's stop playing this game. You don't even really
have a problem. See you trying to you trying to
get some help, trying to figure out how you can
keep being a player, but you ain't trying to stop
(01:26):
being a player.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Yeah I can justified, bro. So come on man, yeah all.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Right, playing the game. Now you trying to write a
letter in like you? Like you some serious dude?
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Man?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Bye dag Really what you are.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Moving on to? Avius Clo and Denver Avias right to
have two cars? One I paid for it and one
my dad gave me. I moved into my boyfriend's house.
So he thinks my cars are his cars too. My
dad said he better not see him in the car.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
That he gave me.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Should it be what's his mine or vice versa.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Well, your dad is right, The dad is one hundred right.
Your dad bought the car for you. Now you got
this man that you have moved in with because you
got two cars. Now he thinks that's you. May maybe
you don't have to make better choices. She ain't got
(02:25):
no car. You have moved in with a man that
ain't got no car? What's or did the man move
in with you?
Speaker 1 (02:35):
No, she moved in with him, but.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
He ain't got no car. Well, daddy, said he better
not see him in the car he bought. Ye, hedne
told him, And and that's what you need to tell
your boyfriend. My daddy said, you can't drive this car period,
because he bought that for me.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Not so that's what she should tell him.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Don't drive her dad, Yeah, you can't. But see once again,
y'all move in. Do y'all understand what that means? So
now he acted like what's yours is his, it's what's
he is yours. See, y'all playhouse, but don't understand house rules.
(03:20):
Y'all getting up here, you're doing all the wifey stuff.
You're sleeping with him, laughing and all this here. Nah,
but you all he can't drive your car? Why y'all together? Yeah,
y'all want to be together and all that. Man getting married,
and see, your father knew if you, if you marry
my daughter, he let all that be one. But you
(03:43):
ain't y'all y'all in here playing house. Yeah, do like
y'all want to.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
I don't care, bottom, No, I just I don't care.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Man.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Moving on to Cheyenne and Tessa Lusa, Cheyenne writes, my
brother's girlfriend is twenty one and ask to borrow a
dress for a job interview. I never got the dress back,
and it was one of my more expensive dresses. My
brother refuses to pay me for the dress. Since they're young.
Should I let it slide?
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Yeah, just let it go.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Just let it go.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Now you've she ain't even thought about that dress. She
the ward again too. Ain't just a job interview? Your
brother don't want to pay you for it? You know
she ain't paying you for it. I just let it
go right off. Not guess what. They can't come over
there and get nothing else. Now that's the joy of
(04:40):
people not paying you back. They can't come get nothing else,
and they gonna need something else.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
You can need that, yeah, yeah, because they are young.
Twenty one? All right? Last one? Last one Colo. This
is from Simeon and Greensboro. Simeon says, I talked to
a girl all night at a bar. At the bar
after game. My wife found out, and she wanted to
know who the girl is. I tell my wife who
(05:05):
she is, and she looked the woman up on Instagram.
Is it normal for my wife to investigate? Or is
she insecure and nuts? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:16):
All that?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
I can't believe though, you told your wife that you
set up all night at a bar talking to a woman. Stude,
you told her that.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Yeah, he told his wife who the woman was.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
And but bro, what what what'd you do that for?
You was at the bar with your friends, and then
that would be none of this all night? But yeah,
my friends all night, don't do You don't think that
sounds way better than with this woman all night?
Speaker 1 (05:49):
I absolutely do.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
See. I tried to tell y'all the significance and the
importance of a loud Oh no, here, y'all won't try
the truth. Okay, all right, okay, but well you ain't
gonna be mad about that. You're gonna be looking nobody else.
(06:12):
And you know her name and all that she done
looked down up. You gotta be crazy.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
That's too much information.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Yeah, you shouldn't even knew her name. I don't even
know her name. We was just talking. I never even
asked her n I ain't got it. We were gonna
stay in touching curler.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Well, my thing is you're talking about telling the truth
and a lot the dumb part is his action. Yeah,
why didn't you just talk to the woman all night?
Because he wouldn't want his wife talking to a man
all night. So the fact that he lied about that,
it's like, why are you talking to this woman all night?
Speaker 2 (06:48):
No? No, no, no, ladies, ladies, this is that wasn't
the dumb part.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
She was what.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
What was it?
Speaker 2 (06:58):
The dumb part was telling.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
Me can we disagree?
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Don't worry about you could do something.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
What he ha said he's at a bar all night
talking to a woman.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
So after the game with his friends all night? What what?
Why would you say all night? I was talking to
this woman. That's the dumbest thing.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
No, the dumbest thing was to do it. That was
the dumbest thing.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
But you can't double down on your dumb No. I
got it was dumb talking to the woman. But the
dumbest thing was to go home and tell your wife
you was talking to the woman.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Coming up at the top of the hour, thank you,
oh god, you're listening. Steve Harvey Morning Show
It is time to ask the clo. This is from
Derek and Philly. Derek writes, I'm dating a woman that
lives over an hour from me. I see other women
because I can, and it doesn't mean that I don't
love my girlfriend. I would be devastated if my girlfriend
ever found out. How do I remain faithful when I
(00:21):
can't be with my girl?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
That ain't no dimember, that's a stupid question. You're asking me.
How do I be faithful without my girl? And all
your excuse is she stay an hour away. That's that's all.
It takes one hour.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Drive travel time.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
And now you've got to have somebody else. Hey, brother, really, dog,
let me let me explain. You just got the man up.
You got to make the decision. Stop trying to act
like you want this girl so bad, because you don't.
You want her and them two. You're a player right now,
that's all you are. Now, you're not finn stop. I
(01:06):
would be devastated if you lost my girl. Now you
wouldn't you just get some more of them that you
got local whoa Okay? So bro, let's come on, man,
let's let's stop playing this game. You don't even really
have a problem. See you trying to you trying to
get some help, trying to figure out how you can
keep being a player, but you ain't trying to stop
(01:26):
being a player.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Yeah I can justified, bro. So come on man, yeah all.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Right, playing the game. Now you trying to write a
letter in like you? Like you some serious dude?
Speaker 3 (01:39):
Man?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Bye dag Really what you are.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Moving on to? Avius Clo and Denver Avias right to
have two cars? One I paid for it and one
my dad gave me. I moved into my boyfriend's house.
So he thinks my cars are his cars too. My
dad said he better not see him in the car.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
That he gave me.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Should it be what's his mine or vice versa.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Well, your dad is right, The dad is one hundred right.
Your dad bought the car for you. Now you got
this man that you have moved in with because you
got two cars. Now he thinks that's you. May maybe
you don't have to make better choices. She ain't got
(02:25):
no car. You have moved in with a man that
ain't got no car? What's or did the man move
in with you?
Speaker 1 (02:35):
No, she moved in with him, but.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
He ain't got no car. Well, daddy, said he better
not see him in the car he bought. Ye, hedne
told him, And and that's what you need to tell
your boyfriend. My daddy said, you can't drive this car period,
because he bought that for me.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Not so that's what she should tell him.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Don't drive her dad, Yeah, you can't. But see once again,
y'all move in. Do y'all understand what that means? So
now he acted like what's yours is his, it's what's
he is yours. See, y'all playhouse, but don't understand house rules.
(03:20):
Y'all getting up here, you're doing all the wifey stuff.
You're sleeping with him, laughing and all this here. Nah,
but you all he can't drive your car? Why y'all together? Yeah,
y'all want to be together and all that. Man getting married,
and see, your father knew if you, if you marry
my daughter, he let all that be one. But you
(03:43):
ain't y'all y'all in here playing house. Yeah, do like
y'all want to.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
I don't care, bottom, No, I just I don't care.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Man.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Moving on to Cheyenne and Tessa Lusa, Cheyenne writes, my
brother's girlfriend is twenty one and ask to borrow a
dress for a job interview. I never got the dress back,
and it was one of my more expensive dresses. My
brother refuses to pay me for the dress. Since they're young.
Should I let it slide?
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Yeah, just let it go.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Just let it go.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Now you've she ain't even thought about that dress. She
the ward again too. Ain't just a job interview? Your
brother don't want to pay you for it? You know
she ain't paying you for it. I just let it
go right off. Not guess what. They can't come over
there and get nothing else. Now that's the joy of
(04:40):
people not paying you back. They can't come get nothing else,
and they gonna need something else.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
You can need that, yeah, yeah, because they are young.
Twenty one? All right? Last one? Last one Colo. This
is from Simeon and Greensboro. Simeon says, I talked to
a girl all night at a bar. At the bar
after game. My wife found out, and she wanted to
know who the girl is. I tell my wife who
(05:05):
she is, and she looked the woman up on Instagram.
Is it normal for my wife to investigate? Or is
she insecure and nuts? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:16):
All that?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
I can't believe though, you told your wife that you
set up all night at a bar talking to a woman. Stude,
you told her that.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Yeah, he told his wife who the woman was.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
And but bro, what what what'd you do that for?
You was at the bar with your friends, and then
that would be none of this all night? But yeah,
my friends all night, don't do You don't think that
sounds way better than with this woman all night?
Speaker 1 (05:49):
I absolutely do.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
See. I tried to tell y'all the significance and the
importance of a loud Oh no, here, y'all won't try
the truth. Okay, all right, okay, but well you ain't
gonna be mad about that. You're gonna be looking nobody else.
(06:12):
And you know her name and all that she done
looked down up. You gotta be crazy.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
That's too much information.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Yeah, you shouldn't even knew her name. I don't even
know her name. We was just talking. I never even
asked her n I ain't got it. We were gonna
stay in touching curler.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Well, my thing is you're talking about telling the truth
and a lot the dumb part is his action. Yeah,
why didn't you just talk to the woman all night?
Because he wouldn't want his wife talking to a man
all night. So the fact that he lied about that,
it's like, why are you talking to this woman all night?
Speaker 2 (06:48):
No? No, no, no, ladies, ladies, this is that wasn't
the dumb part.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
She was what.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
What was it?
Speaker 2 (06:58):
The dumb part was telling.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
Me can we disagree?
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Don't worry about you could do something.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
What he ha said he's at a bar all night
talking to a woman.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
So after the game with his friends all night? What what?
Why would you say all night? I was talking to
this woman. That's the dumbest thing.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
No, the dumbest thing was to do it. That was
the dumbest thing.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
But you can't double down on your dumb No. I
got it was dumb talking to the woman. But the
dumbest thing was to go home and tell your wife
you was talking to the woman.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Coming up at the top of the hour, thank you,
oh god, you're listening. Steve Harvey Morning Show
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