November 4, 2025 • 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. Here we go. This one's from Tristan and Philly.
Tristan writes him, twenty five years old, and I've been
with my girlfriend for almost five years. She and her
mama have baby fear. But I don't want a child
until I figure out if I want to marry my girlfriend.
(00:21):
I want to wait a couple of more years. Is
that too much to ask of my girl?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Well?
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Dog, if you been with a woman five years and
you don't think this is the one after five years?
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Yeah? See?
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Or could you be not phrasing what your concerns are
the correct way?
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Yeah? At twenty five, Well, at.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Twenty five it's young to get married. Maybe your fear
is you're financially not where you want to be right
now to get married. And now you just said you're
trying to figure out if she the one.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
I don't know now.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
If it's true then that you don't know if she's
the one. Then if I was you, I going by
my business because you done got five years in you
don't know this the one? I going by my business?
Maybe she not? And the baby talking all like this?
Or is it that you're financially not ready yet, which
is often the case in some men.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
And you're not verbalizing that.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
But if you're right about what you're saying, you don't
think she's the one. You're gonna wait a couple of years.
What's gonna change in two years? I mean you've been
with her five years? What's finished change with two more
years that you ain't feeling right?
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Now? Good food for though information you missing now? Yeah? Yeah,
all right?
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Moving on to Lakeisha and Tampa. Lakeisha writes, my daughter
moved into a new apartment and her dad told her
to hire movers. She couldn't afford movers. Boyfriend and his
friends helped her move instead. Okay, her dad is upset
and he thinks my boyfriend was out of line? Was
he really?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
No, it's they moving.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Yeah, the boyfriend is out of line for helping for
helping your daughter move.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
No, I don't. I don't think the guy's out of line. Right,
sounds like a decent guy.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Next guy.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Ye, See, here's what's here's what's wrong. Let me just
tell you what's wrong.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Break it down.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
The mama.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
The mama found out that you told y'all's daughter to
hire a mover. You know your daughter don't have the money.
You told your boyfriend. Your boyfriend said, hey, will help
her move. Now you got a problem with the boyfriend
(03:01):
because he didn't done something you didn't do. Because if
you had a found out that she didn't have the
money for the movers, as her dad, you could have
helped her move.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
But you didn't.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
And maybe they didn't share the news with you that
your daughter couldn't afford to So the man just stepped up.
The man was not a line. He was just feeling
the knee. You do know you're not married to her anymore.
You just share you know, he over there doing some
other things to wow, moving is the least of your ware?
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Would she do with helping move it? They're over there
moving furniture. It's just in the same.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Room, all right. Moving on to Rico in Seattle. Rico writes,
I have a male coworker that we call Sandy. He
has saved in my phone as Sandy. When I call
Sandy at six fifteen am yesterday to tell him that
I was going to be late, my wife cursed me
(04:05):
out for saying good morning to my girlfriend. How do
I get her to stop going through my phone and
making assumption. What wait a minute, Yeah, it's a guy's name.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
Sandy is a guy.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Well, okay, I'm confused me two women that's in the relationship,
because let's ask again.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Okay, listening, Okay, this the letter of the question is
from Rico. Rico says, I have a male co worker
that we call Sandy. He is saved in my phone
as Sandy. When I call Sandy, the male co worker
at six fifteen am yesterday to tell him that I
was going to be late, my wife then cursed me
(04:53):
out for saying good morning to my girlfriend. How do
I get her to stop going through my phone and
making assumptions so her his wife assumed that Sandy was
a female.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's that's an assumption.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Now, bro, how do you stop your wife from going
through your phone? That's not your problem. Your problem is
you got to straighten out who Sandy is. See, that's
what you need to do. I can't tell you how
to get your wife to stop going through your phone
because she done went through it. Yeah, and I don't
know what I'm gonna tell you to tell your wife
(05:36):
to get her to quit going through your phone. Not
Rico I'm just gonna go out on the limb here.
I don't know you, but with a name like Rico,
you have acted out several times in your life with that.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Name Rico Suave. Yeah, go Rico beanco Oh.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
I got a pardoner name Rico. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
He has done the most and that's what causes the suspicion.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
I don't know if he's cute.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
He is, come on now, So that's all he has
to do is tell his wife that Sandy is his coworker.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Well, that'll get you off the hook with this one.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Why she's going through your phone has something to do
with something altogether different that you didn't mention in this letter.
And that's something you got to cope with. But right now,
you just need to straighten out who Sandy is.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
That's her, all right?
Speaker 5 (06:37):
All right?
Speaker 2 (06:37):
He just changed the name. Can he change the name
in the phone to it's that or something something more?
Speaker 3 (06:42):
Mastering?
Speaker 1 (06:45):
All right, let's too late. Rashida in New Orleans. Rashida writes,
my husband told me to shut up in front of
our nine year old daughter. She got sassy and told
him not to talk to her. Mama like that. My
husband punished her. I don't allow my child to be sassy.
But is there a lesson in what happened here?
Speaker 3 (07:04):
Well, children do what they see. They don't always do
what you're telling me to do. Uh, she was correct.
You don't talk to my mama like that. He done
punished her. I think you now you got to punish him.
He has to have some consequences for telling you to
shut up in front of anybody or period.
Speaker 5 (07:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
I would love to tell my wife to shut up.
I really want.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Yeah, yeah, but I know the consequences part.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I'm here you all right, all right, up, you're listening
Hardy Morning Show
It is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. Here we go. This one's from Tristan and Philly.
Tristan writes him, twenty five years old, and I've been
with my girlfriend for almost five years. She and her
mama have baby fear. But I don't want a child
until I figure out if I want to marry my girlfriend.
(00:21):
I want to wait a couple of more years. Is
that too much to ask of my girl?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Well?
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Dog, if you been with a woman five years and
you don't think this is the one after five years?
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Yeah? See?
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Or could you be not phrasing what your concerns are
the correct way?
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Yeah? At twenty five, Well, at.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Twenty five it's young to get married. Maybe your fear
is you're financially not where you want to be right
now to get married. And now you just said you're
trying to figure out if she the one.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
I don't know now.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
If it's true then that you don't know if she's
the one. Then if I was you, I going by
my business because you done got five years in you
don't know this the one? I going by my business?
Maybe she not? And the baby talking all like this?
Or is it that you're financially not ready yet, which
is often the case in some men.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
And you're not verbalizing that.
Speaker 3 (01:26):
But if you're right about what you're saying, you don't
think she's the one. You're gonna wait a couple of years.
What's gonna change in two years? I mean you've been
with her five years? What's finished change with two more
years that you ain't feeling right?
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Now? Good food for though information you missing now? Yeah? Yeah,
all right?
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Moving on to Lakeisha and Tampa. Lakeisha writes, my daughter
moved into a new apartment and her dad told her
to hire movers. She couldn't afford movers. Boyfriend and his
friends helped her move instead. Okay, her dad is upset
and he thinks my boyfriend was out of line? Was
he really?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
No, it's they moving.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Yeah, the boyfriend is out of line for helping for
helping your daughter move.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
No, I don't. I don't think the guy's out of line. Right,
sounds like a decent guy.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Next guy.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Ye, See, here's what's here's what's wrong. Let me just
tell you what's wrong.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Break it down.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
The mama.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
The mama found out that you told y'all's daughter to
hire a mover. You know your daughter don't have the money.
You told your boyfriend. Your boyfriend said, hey, will help
her move. Now you got a problem with the boyfriend
(03:01):
because he didn't done something you didn't do. Because if
you had a found out that she didn't have the
money for the movers, as her dad, you could have
helped her move.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
But you didn't.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
And maybe they didn't share the news with you that
your daughter couldn't afford to So the man just stepped up.
The man was not a line. He was just feeling
the knee. You do know you're not married to her anymore.
You just share you know, he over there doing some
other things to wow, moving is the least of your ware?
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Would she do with helping move it? They're over there
moving furniture. It's just in the same.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Room, all right. Moving on to Rico in Seattle. Rico writes,
I have a male coworker that we call Sandy. He
has saved in my phone as Sandy. When I call
Sandy at six fifteen am yesterday to tell him that
I was going to be late, my wife cursed me
(04:05):
out for saying good morning to my girlfriend. How do
I get her to stop going through my phone and
making assumption. What wait a minute, Yeah, it's a guy's name.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
Sandy is a guy.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Well, okay, I'm confused me two women that's in the relationship,
because let's ask again.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Okay, listening, Okay, this the letter of the question is
from Rico. Rico says, I have a male co worker
that we call Sandy. He is saved in my phone
as Sandy. When I call Sandy, the male co worker
at six fifteen am yesterday to tell him that I
was going to be late, my wife then cursed me
(04:53):
out for saying good morning to my girlfriend. How do
I get her to stop going through my phone and
making assumptions so her his wife assumed that Sandy was
a female.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's that's an assumption.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
Now, bro, how do you stop your wife from going
through your phone? That's not your problem. Your problem is
you got to straighten out who Sandy is. See, that's
what you need to do. I can't tell you how
to get your wife to stop going through your phone
because she done went through it. Yeah, and I don't
know what I'm gonna tell you to tell your wife
(05:36):
to get her to quit going through your phone. Not
Rico I'm just gonna go out on the limb here.
I don't know you, but with a name like Rico,
you have acted out several times in your life with that.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Name Rico Suave. Yeah, go Rico beanco Oh.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
I got a pardoner name Rico. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
He has done the most and that's what causes the suspicion.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
I don't know if he's cute.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
He is, come on now, So that's all he has
to do is tell his wife that Sandy is his coworker.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Well, that'll get you off the hook with this one.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
Why she's going through your phone has something to do
with something altogether different that you didn't mention in this letter.
And that's something you got to cope with. But right now,
you just need to straighten out who Sandy is.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
That's her, all right?
Speaker 5 (06:37):
All right?
Speaker 2 (06:37):
He just changed the name. Can he change the name
in the phone to it's that or something something more?
Speaker 3 (06:42):
Mastering?
Speaker 1 (06:45):
All right, let's too late. Rashida in New Orleans. Rashida writes,
my husband told me to shut up in front of
our nine year old daughter. She got sassy and told
him not to talk to her. Mama like that. My
husband punished her. I don't allow my child to be sassy.
But is there a lesson in what happened here?
Speaker 3 (07:04):
Well, children do what they see. They don't always do
what you're telling me to do. Uh, she was correct.
You don't talk to my mama like that. He done
punished her. I think you now you got to punish him.
He has to have some consequences for telling you to
shut up in front of anybody or period.
Speaker 5 (07:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
I would love to tell my wife to shut up.
I really want.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Yeah, yeah, but I know the consequences part.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
I'm here you all right, all right, up, you're listening
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