November 5, 2025 • 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. This is from Joy in Charlotte. Joy writes,
my boyfriend is a crybaby and I'm embarrassed by him.
His son lost his little league game and my boyfriend
cried over it. This child is ten. The child is
(00:20):
ten years old and he held it together better than
his dad did. Is it great that he's so sensitive?
Or is this a sign of weakness and men?
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Well, here's a deal.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
You can be sensitive, yeah, or you can be emotional.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
You can't be both.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
What's the difference?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Sensitive is you'll I don't want to use the word
to describe a word, but you are in touch with
not only your feelings but others, you know, like like
I'm sensitive to if you're having a bad day, I
could be sensitive to that. Yeah, you know, if I
(01:08):
could be sensitive to that emotional?
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Is this here? Though you're having a bad day? How
bad is your day? I have a bad day too? Hey? Hey,
hey dog? Hold up.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
So now you're sensitive and emotional. You get to pick one.
As a man could be sensitive or emotional, You don't
get to pick two. He both of them sensitive to
his son's.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Loss, crying about it, and his son isn't even ten
year old? Son?
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Isn't hey.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
Sensitive and emotional to everything? That would be a problem. Now,
there are certain things that a man or a woman
should be sensitive and emotional too.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Grief is one of them.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
You know, you should be sensitive and emotional about that.
That's acceptable, you know, grief. After that, though, we gotta
start watching you.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Well, that's what she wants to know. That's what Joy
and Charlotte wants to know. Is this a sign of
weakness and men?
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Well, okay, yeah, because let me explain something. If he
cried over the loss of a little game, and what
you think would happen if he lose his job?
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Woh indicator, great guy, great guy, you great job. Guys
hanging there, Craig, Yeah right, yeah, you gonna have a promo.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Moving on to Hassim and Auburn, Hassim writes, my ex
wife asked me if we can have sex. I'm all
for it, but she's getting married on December twentieth. She
cheated on me when we were married, so I'd hate
to help her cheat on her fiance. But she's great
in bed. Should I give her what she wants? What?
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Well, you know, let's go over a couple of technical things. Okay,
let's go Number one, she not married.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
Not until December twentieth.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
Number two, she asked you.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
No, so he has to oblige because she has.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Number three, she's great in bed. I don't know how
you're not over it. Wait, you don't know how. I
don't know how you ain't over there? Right now? Yeah,
I will. I would be typing this letter from the hotel.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Room to this question, should I give her what she wants?
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Your response, well, bro, you know she cheated on you
and all this here. You know this is not a
good person, so I don't I wouldn't advise it. I
wouldn't advise it. But then I don't know how you're
not gonna do it. See, Tommy, Tommy, it makes a
(03:59):
lot of sense.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Look problem that you're trying to make sense That she
listened to me.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Tommy, Tommy, it makes perfect sense. Do you know how
many times we have advised ourself against something and done
it anyway?
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Oh? Yeah, okay, See how that don't make sense.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
I've told myself not to do it. I gave myself
all the reasons why I shouldn't do it. Yeah, my
stupid behind what over that?
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Did it? Anyway? God don't.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
But when you were younger, right, more so when you
were younger, right.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Stuff?
Speaker 3 (04:53):
I told myself not to do I did something at sixty.
I did something I should and it did at sixty.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Huge mistake at sixty, all right.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Moving on to Kamika and Queens, Kamika writes, I already
bought lots of Christmas gifts for our three daughters. My
husband flipped out because he instructed me to buy one
really nice gift for each girl. Since we're taking them
to Paris? Why can't I do both? Should I return
all of these gifts.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
And go to Paris? What is what? How are these kids?
She doesn't say they don't know that.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Yeah, she doesn't say she bought lots of Christmas gifts
and were going to Paris?
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Yeah, do you know where?
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Do you know what's waiting on you in Paris? Emotion
that goes to do? Paris is for shopping and eating?
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Yeah you know that.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Now you can go over there, you can look at
the louver and all that. I'm not a museum guy.
Don't ask me to go I don't want to walk
around look at your old pitches.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
That ain't. I don't like that. I don't get who
painted it white? Mona, listen, little ugly white woman. Why
do we keep looking at her like this is such
a nice pitch. I'm going who is she? She's not
(06:21):
an attractive woman. Dog. It ain't like they drew nobody. Fine,
it's the crooked smile, you know, you know, I.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Just don't get it, you know, the sixteen chappling all
all these white people up on this wall.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
But it ain't. No, ain't no black angels. What is weak?
Why is oh man, it's weak? Going to heaven? Why
is everybody else? All the cherubs is white? White? At
the white kid got these bow and arrows and shooting?
Speaker 3 (06:49):
Where is the black kids out not sitting over here
watching this.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Black chairdren woman.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
No, and mother Mary, and Jesus is black anyway, And
I saw him in Croatia.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
They got a museum in Croatia.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
With the original artwork of Jesus' mother Mary and everything.
They got the artwork in this museum. When the Italians
and Romans came over there and took over, they whitewashed
all them pictures. Where as them pictures at Wow, Now
all the all the all the hiccaic, come hic, Come
Valentine's Day.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
All these little white babies with these bow and row
stopped shooting me.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
You're listening, Hardy Morning Show
It is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. This is from Joy in Charlotte. Joy writes,
my boyfriend is a crybaby and I'm embarrassed by him.
His son lost his little league game and my boyfriend
cried over it. This child is ten. The child is
(00:20):
ten years old and he held it together better than
his dad did. Is it great that he's so sensitive?
Or is this a sign of weakness and men?
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Well, here's a deal.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
You can be sensitive, yeah, or you can be emotional.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
You can't be both.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
What's the difference?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Sensitive is you'll I don't want to use the word
to describe a word, but you are in touch with
not only your feelings but others, you know, like like
I'm sensitive to if you're having a bad day, I
could be sensitive to that. Yeah, you know, if I
(01:08):
could be sensitive to that emotional?
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Is this here? Though you're having a bad day? How
bad is your day? I have a bad day too? Hey? Hey,
hey dog? Hold up.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
So now you're sensitive and emotional. You get to pick one.
As a man could be sensitive or emotional, You don't
get to pick two. He both of them sensitive to
his son's.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Loss, crying about it, and his son isn't even ten
year old? Son?
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Isn't hey.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
Sensitive and emotional to everything? That would be a problem. Now,
there are certain things that a man or a woman
should be sensitive and emotional too.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Grief is one of them.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
You know, you should be sensitive and emotional about that.
That's acceptable, you know, grief. After that, though, we gotta
start watching you.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Well, that's what she wants to know. That's what Joy
and Charlotte wants to know. Is this a sign of
weakness and men?
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Well, okay, yeah, because let me explain something. If he
cried over the loss of a little game, and what
you think would happen if he lose his job?
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Woh indicator, great guy, great guy, you great job. Guys
hanging there, Craig, Yeah right, yeah, you gonna have a promo.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Moving on to Hassim and Auburn, Hassim writes, my ex
wife asked me if we can have sex. I'm all
for it, but she's getting married on December twentieth. She
cheated on me when we were married, so I'd hate
to help her cheat on her fiance. But she's great
in bed. Should I give her what she wants? What?
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Well, you know, let's go over a couple of technical things. Okay,
let's go Number one, she not married.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
Not until December twentieth.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
Number two, she asked you.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
No, so he has to oblige because she has.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Number three, she's great in bed. I don't know how
you're not over it. Wait, you don't know how. I
don't know how you ain't over there? Right now? Yeah,
I will. I would be typing this letter from the hotel.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Room to this question, should I give her what she wants?
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Your response, well, bro, you know she cheated on you
and all this here. You know this is not a
good person, so I don't I wouldn't advise it. I
wouldn't advise it. But then I don't know how you're
not gonna do it. See, Tommy, Tommy, it makes a
(03:59):
lot of sense.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Look problem that you're trying to make sense That she
listened to me.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Tommy, Tommy, it makes perfect sense. Do you know how
many times we have advised ourself against something and done
it anyway?
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Oh? Yeah, okay, See how that don't make sense.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
I've told myself not to do it. I gave myself
all the reasons why I shouldn't do it. Yeah, my
stupid behind what over that?
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Did it? Anyway? God don't.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
But when you were younger, right, more so when you
were younger, right.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Stuff?
Speaker 3 (04:53):
I told myself not to do I did something at sixty.
I did something I should and it did at sixty.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Huge mistake at sixty, all right.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Moving on to Kamika and Queens, Kamika writes, I already
bought lots of Christmas gifts for our three daughters. My
husband flipped out because he instructed me to buy one
really nice gift for each girl. Since we're taking them
to Paris? Why can't I do both? Should I return
all of these gifts.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
And go to Paris? What is what? How are these kids?
She doesn't say they don't know that.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Yeah, she doesn't say she bought lots of Christmas gifts
and were going to Paris?
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Yeah, do you know where?
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Do you know what's waiting on you in Paris? Emotion
that goes to do? Paris is for shopping and eating?
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Yeah you know that.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Now you can go over there, you can look at
the louver and all that. I'm not a museum guy.
Don't ask me to go I don't want to walk
around look at your old pitches.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
That ain't. I don't like that. I don't get who
painted it white? Mona, listen, little ugly white woman. Why
do we keep looking at her like this is such
a nice pitch. I'm going who is she? She's not
(06:21):
an attractive woman. Dog. It ain't like they drew nobody. Fine,
it's the crooked smile, you know, you know, I.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Just don't get it, you know, the sixteen chappling all
all these white people up on this wall.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
But it ain't. No, ain't no black angels. What is weak?
Why is oh man, it's weak? Going to heaven? Why
is everybody else? All the cherubs is white? White? At
the white kid got these bow and arrows and shooting?
Speaker 3 (06:49):
Where is the black kids out not sitting over here
watching this.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Black chairdren woman.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
No, and mother Mary, and Jesus is black anyway, And
I saw him in Croatia.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
They got a museum in Croatia.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
With the original artwork of Jesus' mother Mary and everything.
They got the artwork in this museum. When the Italians
and Romans came over there and took over, they whitewashed
all them pictures. Where as them pictures at Wow, Now
all the all the all the hiccaic, come hic, Come
Valentine's Day.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
All these little white babies with these bow and row
stopped shooting me.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
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