November 21, 2025 • 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the clo. This is from
Avis and Birmingham. Avis writes, My boyfriend is sensitive and
can't stand it when I tell him about things he
does that annoy me. I'm tired of sugarcoating everything and
tiptoeing around his feelings. Why can't he accept the criticism
(00:20):
and do better? Is that hard for men?
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Bill? Why? Why don't you break up with it?
Speaker 1 (00:27):
That what she just wants to do better?
Speaker 3 (00:31):
No, no, go down the list again or stuff she said?
Go ahead read it?
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Okay, all right. She can't stand it when she tells
him about things that he does that annoy her, and
she's tired of sugarcoating it everything and tiptoeing around his feelings.
Why can't he just accept the criticism and do better?
Is that hard for men?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
How much stuff you telling him annoying?
Speaker 1 (00:56):
She nagging him?
Speaker 3 (00:57):
See, I'm telling you, man, you won't dude out? You
done want this dude out. It ain't that we can't
take it, it's just how much you want us to take.
If you steady coming to your man with what you
don't like about him, there's there's no appreciation in that
constant barrage of statements, and then I'm tired of tippy
(01:22):
toyn around him. So you just want to crack him
every time.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
You feel like it.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Okay, go ahead, because because let me tell you something,
there's some things about you he don't care for. I
want you to know that, but he already knows he
can't go down that dog all it.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
So no, lady, I don't like the way you worded
your question, so.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
It kind of it seems to be like, yeah, yeah,
it just seems like it's a lot And why can't
he take criticizerm why man don't want to be criticized?
Speaker 2 (01:59):
No, won't that?
Speaker 1 (02:01):
No?
Speaker 2 (02:02):
What woman you know? Won't her? Man always tell her
what's wrong? Man? Man?
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Man by Hey, go get whoever gonna make you happy?
Because it ain't.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
All right. Moving on to Jason and t Neck, Jason writes,
I met a gorgeous and amazing woman and we have
a lot of chemistry. I was all in until I
went to her nasty, funky house. She had to light
every like everything was fine? Can the good outweigh the
(02:37):
bad in this case? And what if I help her
clean up?
Speaker 3 (02:42):
I'd have been the dog I've been in that exact situation.
I was twenty two years old.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Lord, what happened? Lordiest girl was fine, she had a baby,
But I ain't. She was fine, she had a baby.
Don't care.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
I ain't here twenty two. I had to think about that,
and I can't. I ain't finna take care of nobody else.
But went over there, man, I walked in. I couldn't
believe it.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
I couldn't.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
The whole house was tore up from she opened up
the front door. The living room was destroyed.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Now.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
The baby wasn't no taught to where he was running around.
He was a high chair, baby food all over the
baby chair, hard food that had been there for dishes,
all in the sink. You know how people have a
pile of clothes somewhere. They were everywhere. They was everywhere,
(03:43):
I mean, man, clothes on the couch. And I came in,
and you know, she said, just sit down anywhere, well
where because it's from Mary where I see. It's clothes
on all the chairs. Hey, man, But the warmth. The
girl was so gorgeous. Man, Lord, this girl was fine.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
But that didn't turn you off though? Seeing her house
like that, yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Turned me off? Uh huh so yeah, yeah, tell me,
you to take your clothes off in that hugo your
clothes the pile. Hey man, he man. Let me tell
you something. She made me some food.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
She bought it on the plate, and I was looking
at the plate and the plate didn't look clean. No,
and I was just but I kept looking at how fine?
She was like, you know, I'm twenty two. I'm trying
to work.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Size it, yeah, make it work?
Speaker 1 (04:37):
And you did you did you?
Speaker 2 (04:41):
Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Yeah, foo?
Speaker 2 (04:46):
I eat the food.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Now.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
I ain't take clothes off that night. You know. I
was trying to keep that you went back. Yeah, but boy,
let me tell you some went upstairs.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Uh huh?
Speaker 3 (05:01):
You thought downstairs was was raggedy?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Man? This girl.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Finally we had a we had we had, we had
a conversation. I went, I went to take her to dinner.
I said, can I ask you a question? I said,
your house is always uh, it's like dis a symbol.
It's always stuff all over the place.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
What's wrong? She says, So are you complaining? Oh?
Speaker 1 (05:33):
You? Uh? And what did you say?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
No, I'm just trying to do you did you see it?
See it? Did you what you're trying to say?
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Now?
Speaker 2 (05:44):
I ain't trying to say nothing. Then it just it
went from there.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Man. So she knew it.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
She was fine, she knew. It's no way you could
not know it. Uh wow. Let me tell you something.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
If Selles was out, then I'd have called somebody and
told somebody. If phone cameras was out, then I'd have
took a picture of it.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Uh huh. So, so how do you help this guy?
Speaker 2 (06:11):
He says?
Speaker 1 (06:12):
Can the good outweigh the bad in this case? And
would help? What if he helps her clean up?
Speaker 3 (06:19):
Okay? And then when you leave, what you think? Yeah, hey, man,
this is what I know right here, me.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Personally, but you know for sure, uh huh, you have.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
To be a clean woman. It's it's just nowhere, right.
I'm not making an exception for that. It's just not
because I'm messy, so I ain't away hell.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
But messy is not nasty and funky.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Okay, he's I'm messy, and I'm not nasty and funky.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
If I'm messy, though, I lay stuff down all the time, Margie,
get on me all the time. Why do you just
lay that there because someone will pick it up?
Speaker 1 (07:01):
And that someone will not be me?
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Yeah? All right, all right?
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Moving on to Ronda in Seattle. Ronda says, I'm thirty
nine and my husband is thirty two. He married me
and then realized he doesn't want kids until he's at
least thirty five years old. That won't work from my
body timeline? How can I convince him to do this sooner?
Will he resent me if I keep pressuring him?
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Nah?
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Just don't have a bag, really get pregnant. He don't
want kids to he thirty something. She's seven years old
in the hill. She gonna be forty something.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Don't get prend she got a clock to think about.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Yeah, TikTok, thank you. Cel I did not want not
now child.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
You're listening, Harvey Morning Show
It is time to ask the clo. This is from
Avis and Birmingham. Avis writes, My boyfriend is sensitive and
can't stand it when I tell him about things he
does that annoy me. I'm tired of sugarcoating everything and
tiptoeing around his feelings. Why can't he accept the criticism
(00:20):
and do better? Is that hard for men?
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Bill? Why? Why don't you break up with it?
Speaker 1 (00:27):
That what she just wants to do better?
Speaker 3 (00:31):
No, no, go down the list again or stuff she said?
Go ahead read it?
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Okay, all right. She can't stand it when she tells
him about things that he does that annoy her, and
she's tired of sugarcoating it everything and tiptoeing around his feelings.
Why can't he just accept the criticism and do better?
Is that hard for men?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
How much stuff you telling him annoying?
Speaker 1 (00:56):
She nagging him?
Speaker 3 (00:57):
See, I'm telling you, man, you won't dude out? You
done want this dude out. It ain't that we can't
take it, it's just how much you want us to take.
If you steady coming to your man with what you
don't like about him, there's there's no appreciation in that
constant barrage of statements, and then I'm tired of tippy
(01:22):
toyn around him. So you just want to crack him
every time.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
You feel like it.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Okay, go ahead, because because let me tell you something,
there's some things about you he don't care for. I
want you to know that, but he already knows he
can't go down that dog all it.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
So no, lady, I don't like the way you worded
your question, so.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
It kind of it seems to be like, yeah, yeah,
it just seems like it's a lot And why can't
he take criticizerm why man don't want to be criticized?
Speaker 2 (01:59):
No, won't that?
Speaker 1 (02:01):
No?
Speaker 2 (02:02):
What woman you know? Won't her? Man always tell her
what's wrong? Man? Man?
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Man by Hey, go get whoever gonna make you happy?
Because it ain't.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
All right. Moving on to Jason and t Neck, Jason writes,
I met a gorgeous and amazing woman and we have
a lot of chemistry. I was all in until I
went to her nasty, funky house. She had to light
every like everything was fine? Can the good outweigh the
(02:37):
bad in this case? And what if I help her
clean up?
Speaker 3 (02:42):
I'd have been the dog I've been in that exact situation.
I was twenty two years old.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Lord, what happened? Lordiest girl was fine, she had a baby,
But I ain't. She was fine, she had a baby.
Don't care.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
I ain't here twenty two. I had to think about that,
and I can't. I ain't finna take care of nobody else.
But went over there, man, I walked in. I couldn't
believe it.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
I couldn't.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
The whole house was tore up from she opened up
the front door. The living room was destroyed.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Now.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
The baby wasn't no taught to where he was running around.
He was a high chair, baby food all over the
baby chair, hard food that had been there for dishes,
all in the sink. You know how people have a
pile of clothes somewhere. They were everywhere. They was everywhere,
(03:43):
I mean, man, clothes on the couch. And I came in,
and you know, she said, just sit down anywhere, well
where because it's from Mary where I see. It's clothes
on all the chairs. Hey, man, But the warmth. The
girl was so gorgeous. Man, Lord, this girl was fine.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
But that didn't turn you off though? Seeing her house
like that, yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Turned me off? Uh huh so yeah, yeah, tell me,
you to take your clothes off in that hugo your
clothes the pile. Hey man, he man. Let me tell
you something. She made me some food.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
She bought it on the plate, and I was looking
at the plate and the plate didn't look clean. No,
and I was just but I kept looking at how fine?
She was like, you know, I'm twenty two. I'm trying
to work.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Size it, yeah, make it work?
Speaker 1 (04:37):
And you did you did you?
Speaker 2 (04:41):
Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Yeah, foo?
Speaker 2 (04:46):
I eat the food.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
Now.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
I ain't take clothes off that night. You know. I
was trying to keep that you went back. Yeah, but boy,
let me tell you some went upstairs.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Uh huh?
Speaker 3 (05:01):
You thought downstairs was was raggedy?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Man? This girl.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Finally we had a we had we had, we had
a conversation. I went, I went to take her to dinner.
I said, can I ask you a question? I said,
your house is always uh, it's like dis a symbol.
It's always stuff all over the place.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
What's wrong? She says, So are you complaining? Oh?
Speaker 1 (05:33):
You? Uh? And what did you say?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
No, I'm just trying to do you did you see it?
See it? Did you what you're trying to say?
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Now?
Speaker 2 (05:44):
I ain't trying to say nothing. Then it just it
went from there.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Man. So she knew it.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
She was fine, she knew. It's no way you could
not know it. Uh wow. Let me tell you something.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
If Selles was out, then I'd have called somebody and
told somebody. If phone cameras was out, then I'd have
took a picture of it.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Uh huh. So, so how do you help this guy?
Speaker 2 (06:11):
He says?
Speaker 1 (06:12):
Can the good outweigh the bad in this case? And
would help? What if he helps her clean up?
Speaker 3 (06:19):
Okay? And then when you leave, what you think? Yeah, hey, man,
this is what I know right here, me.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Personally, but you know for sure, uh huh, you have.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
To be a clean woman. It's it's just nowhere, right.
I'm not making an exception for that. It's just not
because I'm messy, so I ain't away hell.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
But messy is not nasty and funky.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Okay, he's I'm messy, and I'm not nasty and funky.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
If I'm messy, though, I lay stuff down all the time, Margie,
get on me all the time. Why do you just
lay that there because someone will pick it up?
Speaker 1 (07:01):
And that someone will not be me?
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Yeah? All right, all right?
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Moving on to Ronda in Seattle. Ronda says, I'm thirty
nine and my husband is thirty two. He married me
and then realized he doesn't want kids until he's at
least thirty five years old. That won't work from my
body timeline? How can I convince him to do this sooner?
Will he resent me if I keep pressuring him?
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Nah?
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Just don't have a bag, really get pregnant. He don't
want kids to he thirty something. She's seven years old
in the hill. She gonna be forty something.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Don't get prend she got a clock to think about.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Yeah, TikTok, thank you. Cel I did not want not
now child.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
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