Ask The CLO - 12.04.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to ask the clo our chief love Officer,
Steve Harvey. Here we go, Kay and Dayton writes, my
husband prefers sexy time in the morning, and I'm okay
with it, but he insists that I showered beforehand. I'd
have to wake up earlier to shower before and after sex,
so I won't be late for work. Why is he

(00:21):
trying to regulate when I take my showers?

Speaker 2 (00:24):
Why is any of that our business? That's like, you
know this, you know? Why are you trying to you
trying to tell me how to shower? Look, don't I
don't really know how that's how that's our business. Just
say no, you don't have a problem with getting frisky
in the morning. That ain't the problem you ain't it

(00:47):
ain't insistent that you be frisky. That ain't the problem.
You talking about whether you need to shower or not?
And he assists that you shower first. Hey, ma'am, Shirley,

(01:10):
what's the next question? I don't care.

Speaker 1 (01:14):
Went in down, Just say all right, Troy and Charlotte
Coelo says, I'm having an affair with a younger woman
and every time we have sex, she asks from ask
me for money or she wants me to buy her something.
When we met, she was fine with dinner and drinks
before sex. Was she asking for money? Why is she
asking for money and gifts?

Speaker 3 (01:35):
Now?

Speaker 1 (01:35):
Why?

Speaker 2 (01:37):
Because dog, you are a sugar daddy? Why you don't
understand this part? Right here? Fan with a younger woman.

Speaker 1 (01:52):
She thinks she likes him for him.

Speaker 2 (01:55):
She don't like you. Oh, you are means to an end.
You are supposed to be a benefit package. This is
an exchange you're having. Listen to me, though, Listen to me.
You are participating in the oldest profession known on record.

(02:20):
It's a form of it, and you are participating in it,
and you can call it what you want to call it.
First of all, she ain't your wife. You think she
gonna give you what you want without you giving her
what she want? How does that work?

Speaker 1 (02:39):
It's an affair. She's much younger, So there you go.

Speaker 2 (02:43):
This affair has a label to it. You are a
sugar daddy. I don't know how old you are, bro,
but you're older than her. Yeah, listen to me. If
Tommy myself were out there while guess what we'd have

(03:04):
to be sugar daddies.

Speaker 4 (03:09):
I would be I would be such a low budget
sugar daddy.

Speaker 2 (03:13):
See and now Tommy he you know tight? So wow,
that's it all right?

Speaker 1 (03:22):
Moving on Toesa and Seattle, Reesa writes, I overheard my
stepdad and my boyfriend talking about women. My stepdad said
he hates he's married because a lot of women want
to sleep with him. Really, he told my boyfriend not
to aver get married. Can I tell my mom that

(03:44):
her husband is unhappy? And he gave my boyfriend bad
advice about marriage? Wow?

Speaker 3 (03:51):
Well they own your boy they own them, they want them,
they come, they didn't.

Speaker 2 (04:00):
I'm hot. They're all on you. But I wasn't married,
which probably not true. Right, I'm just gonna go out
on the nail. Yeah, you knew how they wanted me. Boy,

(04:22):
I got them draped on there like a bad set
of curtains. Man, don't get married. I think it's a conversation.
You really just need to leave alone.

Speaker 1 (04:35):
She overheard it, Yeah, she overheard it, and she's considering
telling her mom what she heard or what she overheard
her dad say.

Speaker 2 (04:44):
It's her stepdad. Yeah, I don't think you need to
say that in that joking.

Speaker 4 (04:49):
Why wouldn't ladies get information? They just can't hold it
and use it to their knowledge. Why they gotta say
something immediately?

Speaker 1 (04:56):
Here's why? Why did mama doesn't care when the darky?
Why are men always saying stupid stuff?

Speaker 2 (05:06):
You know? Shirley answered the question, Yeah, don't deflect with
another question. Tony asked you why y'all came hold water
while y'all say something stupid?

Speaker 3 (05:19):
Because we stupid?

Speaker 1 (05:23):
We're not denied it all right? Last one, Steve, This
is from Misha or Yeah, Misha and Philly. Misha writes,
I had a work trip, so I cooked all day
on Sunday to leave meals for my husband and two kids.
When I got back home three days later, my food

(05:44):
was untouched. They said they ate fast food every day.
I was so hurt. How could they all take me
for granted?

Speaker 4 (05:51):
Wow?

Speaker 2 (05:53):
Now they didn't take you for granted? Oh no, what
she cooked that? This is a lesson.

Speaker 3 (05:59):
What's the they don't really care for you'll cook it?
You were gonna say that, saying about gratitude or nothing?

Speaker 1 (06:13):
She cooked all day Sunday so she could leave me
for her family.

Speaker 2 (06:18):
And what did you cook for three days?

Speaker 1 (06:24):
She didn't say?

Speaker 2 (06:25):
And and and and them kids and the daddy probably
like man, it's much quicker to just stop and grab
some fast food than to heat his food up.

Speaker 1 (06:34):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (06:35):
There getting the number one.

Speaker 2 (06:37):
Yeah. Oh, and let me tell you something else. They
opened that part up. They saw what you made, and
he didn't want it either. Yeah, anybody want that?

Speaker 1 (06:54):
Okay, So she's saying they took her for granted. What's
your response to that one.

Speaker 2 (07:00):
Well, they didn't take you for granted. You know, kids
don't really know the work that goes into cooking, so
they didn't take you for granted. Your husband was actually
grateful and and but here's the problem. You you've got
to go on the trip you had, you had some
free time, you got away from the family and kids,
enjoy yourself. Come back. You know, see me, now, I'd

(07:22):
have dumped all that food in the garbage. You'd never
knew when was at Wendy's.

Speaker 4 (07:27):
But that's like it's like it's Shirley cooking invite us,
so not playing, you know, you know, you know.

Speaker 1 (07:33):
First of all, that's never gonna happen. I'll have it
catered and invite you over.

Speaker 2 (07:39):
And Shirley, if you invite me over in dinners at six,
I already know just about eight thirty.

Speaker 3 (07:43):
I'll be there.

Speaker 2 (07:46):
We're late, we're not here to eat.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
Yeah, you're listening hard morning show