December 5, 2025 • 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, angel and Valdosta writes, my ex boyfriend and
his wife invited me to their baby shower. My husband
thinks it's a little strange, but I'm friends with my
ex and I'm thinking about going. What's wrong with celebrating
with the mommy to be and my ex boyfriend?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
What's wrong with that?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
I don't understand how y'all keep trying to keep these
relationships alive. And your husband then told you that seems
a little bit strange to him, but you're gonna go anywhere.
How important is that baby shower to you? How important
is it for him that you are there? You see
what I'm saying, y'all got too much importance and relevance
(00:39):
put on each other at the expense of someone else.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
It don't make no sense. He ain't cho. Man? Is
your ex boyfriend? That ain't cho? Baby? And your husband.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Said that seems a little strange because we're friends, really really,
so I guess y'all was friends for y'all start a date,
and then if y'all was dating, he was your friend,
and now y'all have broke up, y'all steal friend.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Well see how that sound crazy? You see how that.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
Sounds all right, So she just wants to know what's
wrong with it. You just laid it out for Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
It doesn't make any sense your husband. It seems strange to.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
Him, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Moving on to Nathaniel in the Bronx, Nathaniel writes, my
wife called when I was in a meeting with a
female co worker. I mentioned for my co I motioned
for my co worker to be quiet. My coworker called
me a sucker for telling her to be quiet when
my wife knows I'm at work. Did I handle that
the right way or not?
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Wait a minute, she called you a sucker? Why you
was on the phone.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Well, well, it doesn't say that. It doesn't say that.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
She he motioned for his coworker to be quiet.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Then she called him a sucker for telling her to
be quiet when his wife knows that he's at work.
But she could have You're absolutely right, she could have.
Sounds like she did it later.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
Either way, your coworker is out of line. Yeah, that's
an out of line. You know, people that's not in
relationships and marriage don't really know the dynamics of it
all the time, and they always oh you, so you
can't have a you can't have a female friend exactly.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Oh so you ain't allowed to talk to nobody. No, no,
I'm not.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
No, I wouldn't be in a relationship like that. Uh yeah,
Boddy tells me.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
You can't have no female friends. No I can't.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
No, she can't have male friends my wife, so no, no.
So yeah, well who.
Speaker 5 (02:46):
Is it that don't know? That sign that that you
when you do that sign language and say I'm on
the phone, I'm gonna take this call.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
Yeah, who over? They're talking, but she's gonna call you
a sucker.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
You don't need You.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Don't need to have because you know, if your wife
hears this voice, she gonna go, who is that? And
then you that's my coworker. They can't wait a minute.
Where are you right now?
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Then here we go.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Yeah, the question you're right.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
Thing you're saying is right.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
Watch she up on you? Where where she can hear
your conversation?
Speaker 4 (03:25):
That part all of that work to do?
Speaker 1 (03:29):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, maybe I need to come down there
and meet her.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Every time I call you, she in your office.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
Right.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
So to his question, did I handle it the right
way or not, you're saying.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
You handled it the perfect way, and man and let
me tell you something, man, Don't keep trying to justify
nothing to your single coworker that's got nobody.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
That's what I wanted you to say. You got it
with her?
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Yeah? Man, Yeah, she's troubled.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
For sure's messy.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
I ain't a good work wife, you know what I'm saying.
Let me let me just.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Moving on to a mirr in Inglewood, A mirror writes,
my seventeen year old son snuck his girlfriend and a
friend into my house. I found him and the girls
in his bed, but still fully clothed, still fully clothed.
I didn't embarrass him, but I wanted to. He swore
he wasn't going to have sex with him. Why sneak
(04:31):
around with them? Why sneak around?
Speaker 4 (04:32):
Then? Huh, what's gonna happen at my house?
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Because he's seventeen?
Speaker 3 (04:42):
I wish at seventeen I had the conversation to get
two girls to come in late on a sofa withness.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
No, if I could go to the girls to come
and go to.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
The park with me at seven, anything, brother, let me
tell him if I had the verbal skills to able
to be able to talk.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
In nineteen seventy four. In nineteen seventy four.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
I was seventeen years old, because I went to college
at seventeen. If I had to skill sick to talk
two of them chicks into doing anything with me, i'd
of did.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Jude.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
All the guys.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Agree, Yes, Yes, I guess me two women, y'all gonna
come lay down on my bed?
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Uh huh?
Speaker 5 (05:41):
Now, but well, clearly he don't know what he doing
in now all they club?
Speaker 4 (05:49):
But what about the mother saying she didn't want to
embarrass him?
Speaker 5 (05:56):
Yell, do you know I would have.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Exactly we all got beat with the belt me and yeah,
and she ain't even got to know your mama.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
You just in her house, right, ain't sitting up in
here with your.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
Exactly bad tale.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Throws off and make chills in him. And I'm not cheer,
ain't grandma? Yeah? All right?
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Last one, Steve, Last one. This is from Cassie and
Saint Paul. Cassie writes, my husband wants to move his
mother in with us, and I'm all for it because
she's a great cook. He said, his mom is not
going to lift a finger if she comes to live
with us. That's not going to work for me. That's
not going to work for me, why can't she contribute
(06:48):
to the household?
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Wo see, listen to me, don't listen to.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Your hus because when you are already there and his
mama coming in and you want her to come in,
he's not gonna run anything anyway. And all you got
to do is say it to his mother, you know, Mama, Mama,
Mama Williams. I show love your chicken and dumplings, or
mama to all the way you made that dressing, Thank
(07:13):
you so much.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Uh huh.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
The woman is going to contribute. Most grown women want
to contribute. Yeah, so don't my mama ain't gonna lift
the finger.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Boy, Shut up, I know, why do we even say
that to his wife?
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Shut up, lady, don't even worry about that.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Yeah, all right, all right, thank you, clo.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
You're listening to Harvey Morning Show.
All right, angel and Valdosta writes, my ex boyfriend and
his wife invited me to their baby shower. My husband
thinks it's a little strange, but I'm friends with my
ex and I'm thinking about going. What's wrong with celebrating
with the mommy to be and my ex boyfriend?
Speaker 2 (00:17):
What's wrong with that?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
I don't understand how y'all keep trying to keep these
relationships alive. And your husband then told you that seems
a little bit strange to him, but you're gonna go anywhere.
How important is that baby shower to you? How important
is it for him that you are there? You see
what I'm saying, y'all got too much importance and relevance
(00:39):
put on each other at the expense of someone else.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
It don't make no sense. He ain't cho. Man? Is
your ex boyfriend? That ain't cho? Baby? And your husband.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Said that seems a little strange because we're friends, really really,
so I guess y'all was friends for y'all start a date,
and then if y'all was dating, he was your friend,
and now y'all have broke up, y'all steal friend.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Well see how that sound crazy? You see how that.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
Sounds all right, So she just wants to know what's
wrong with it. You just laid it out for Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
It doesn't make any sense your husband. It seems strange to.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
Him, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Moving on to Nathaniel in the Bronx, Nathaniel writes, my
wife called when I was in a meeting with a
female co worker. I mentioned for my co I motioned
for my co worker to be quiet. My coworker called
me a sucker for telling her to be quiet when
my wife knows I'm at work. Did I handle that
the right way or not?
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Wait a minute, she called you a sucker? Why you
was on the phone.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Well, well, it doesn't say that. It doesn't say that.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
She he motioned for his coworker to be quiet.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Then she called him a sucker for telling her to
be quiet when his wife knows that he's at work.
But she could have You're absolutely right, she could have.
Sounds like she did it later.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
Either way, your coworker is out of line. Yeah, that's
an out of line. You know, people that's not in
relationships and marriage don't really know the dynamics of it
all the time, and they always oh you, so you
can't have a you can't have a female friend exactly.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Oh so you ain't allowed to talk to nobody. No, no,
I'm not.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
No, I wouldn't be in a relationship like that. Uh yeah,
Boddy tells me.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
You can't have no female friends. No I can't.
Speaker 4 (02:39):
No, she can't have male friends my wife, so no, no.
So yeah, well who.
Speaker 5 (02:46):
Is it that don't know? That sign that that you
when you do that sign language and say I'm on
the phone, I'm gonna take this call.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
Yeah, who over? They're talking, but she's gonna call you
a sucker.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
You don't need You.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Don't need to have because you know, if your wife
hears this voice, she gonna go, who is that? And
then you that's my coworker. They can't wait a minute.
Where are you right now?
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Then here we go.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Yeah, the question you're right.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
Thing you're saying is right.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
Watch she up on you? Where where she can hear
your conversation?
Speaker 4 (03:25):
That part all of that work to do?
Speaker 1 (03:29):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, maybe I need to come down there
and meet her.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Every time I call you, she in your office.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
Right.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
So to his question, did I handle it the right
way or not, you're saying.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
You handled it the perfect way, and man and let
me tell you something, man, Don't keep trying to justify
nothing to your single coworker that's got nobody.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
That's what I wanted you to say. You got it
with her?
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Yeah? Man, Yeah, she's troubled.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
For sure's messy.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
I ain't a good work wife, you know what I'm saying.
Let me let me just.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Moving on to a mirr in Inglewood, A mirror writes,
my seventeen year old son snuck his girlfriend and a
friend into my house. I found him and the girls
in his bed, but still fully clothed, still fully clothed.
I didn't embarrass him, but I wanted to. He swore
he wasn't going to have sex with him. Why sneak
(04:31):
around with them? Why sneak around?
Speaker 4 (04:32):
Then? Huh, what's gonna happen at my house?
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Because he's seventeen?
Speaker 3 (04:42):
I wish at seventeen I had the conversation to get
two girls to come in late on a sofa withness.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
No, if I could go to the girls to come
and go to.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
The park with me at seven, anything, brother, let me
tell him if I had the verbal skills to able
to be able to talk.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
In nineteen seventy four. In nineteen seventy four.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
I was seventeen years old, because I went to college
at seventeen. If I had to skill sick to talk
two of them chicks into doing anything with me, i'd
of did.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Jude.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
All the guys.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Agree, Yes, Yes, I guess me two women, y'all gonna
come lay down on my bed?
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Uh huh?
Speaker 5 (05:41):
Now, but well, clearly he don't know what he doing
in now all they club?
Speaker 4 (05:49):
But what about the mother saying she didn't want to
embarrass him?
Speaker 5 (05:56):
Yell, do you know I would have.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Exactly we all got beat with the belt me and yeah,
and she ain't even got to know your mama.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
You just in her house, right, ain't sitting up in
here with your.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
Exactly bad tale.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Throws off and make chills in him. And I'm not cheer,
ain't grandma? Yeah? All right?
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Last one, Steve, Last one. This is from Cassie and
Saint Paul. Cassie writes, my husband wants to move his
mother in with us, and I'm all for it because
she's a great cook. He said, his mom is not
going to lift a finger if she comes to live
with us. That's not going to work for me. That's
not going to work for me, why can't she contribute
(06:48):
to the household?
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Wo see, listen to me, don't listen to.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Your hus because when you are already there and his
mama coming in and you want her to come in,
he's not gonna run anything anyway. And all you got
to do is say it to his mother, you know, Mama, Mama,
Mama Williams. I show love your chicken and dumplings, or
mama to all the way you made that dressing, Thank
(07:13):
you so much.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Uh huh.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
The woman is going to contribute. Most grown women want
to contribute. Yeah, so don't my mama ain't gonna lift
the finger.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Boy, Shut up, I know, why do we even say
that to his wife?
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Shut up, lady, don't even worry about that.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Yeah, all right, all right, thank you, clo.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
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