Ask The CLO - 12.10.25

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
You ready, colo absolutely all right, here we go.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Catherine in Buffalo writes, I'm getting a divorce and my
husband is still living in the guest bedroom. We had
sex this past weekend, and I'm all for trying to
work on our marriage. But he hit me with the cold,
hard fact that it was just sex for him. How
could he be so cruel to me? A?

Speaker 3 (00:22):
Well, the truth you understand that you all are getting
a divorce for a reason. The reason you're getting divorced
still stands, y'all having sex he just told you was
just sex for him. In the famous words of Judge
Len Tolder, who said something on my talk show years

(00:45):
back that I never forgot.

Speaker 1 (00:47):
She said her grandmother.

Speaker 3 (00:48):
Told her, don't let a man have to tell you
twice he don't want you.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
Okay, you're hear so now going bout you?

Speaker 2 (01:00):
Is?

Speaker 3 (01:01):
He don't won't you? How many times he got to
say you've already filed? He don't. Won't you stop passing
out yourself thinking it's going to change, So he don't
won't you.

Speaker 1 (01:14):
He'll take that, but he don't want the rest that come.

Speaker 2 (01:17):
With Yeah, okay, break it down, all right. Moving on
to Keith in Huntsville. Keith writes, I moved to a
new city for work, but my wife is still in
New York. She's moving after our house is sold. I
don't care if she comes or not because I have
a new side chick. I know.

Speaker 1 (01:37):
Isn't this horrible? I have a new side chick that
is great in bed?

Speaker 2 (01:41):
Should I tell our realtor in New York to slow
down on selling the house? What?

Speaker 1 (01:48):
Wow? So you need advice? I know, Brud, you ain't.
You ain't trying to.

Speaker 3 (01:54):
You ain't trying to find a way to tell your
wife you ain't you ain't trying. Ah. You trying to
do is keep the party going. I can't help you, bro,
I can't help you. You don't even care if she comes.

Speaker 1 (02:09):
He doesn't care if she comes or not.

Speaker 3 (02:12):
Well, you know it took this relocation to bring out
the real facts.

Speaker 1 (02:17):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:18):
Yeah, but I'm gonna tell I'm gonna tell you so,
I'm gonna just go out on the limb and say
this right here, he had a side chick in New
York too.

Speaker 1 (02:28):
Ah. Well, you dropping knowledge to that.

Speaker 3 (02:31):
I'm just telling you that right there. You ain't got
to go out of town to get no side chick.
He had a side chick in New York.

Speaker 1 (02:40):
We don't quote him on the show. Take it back,
Take it back, Take it back back, all right, come on,
all right.

Speaker 2 (02:55):
Moving on to Vet in Philly, ve Rights. My husband
of thirty years called me the B word in front
of my parents. He's never done that before, so we
were all shocked. Well, my mother, my mother wasn't she
agreed with my husband. I didn't see. I didn't know
she felt that way. Should I have a talk with
my mama?

Speaker 1 (03:16):
Wait? Wait, he did that in front of birth both
her parents.

Speaker 2 (03:21):
Her, Yes, her husband called her the B word, called
her a b in front of her parents.

Speaker 1 (03:27):
Everybody, something to you, my fault?

Speaker 2 (03:29):
What?

Speaker 1 (03:30):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (03:31):
My father, Slick Harvey, m hm, he did, he'd have
turned that whole thing out his daughter, Doug, you're gonna
call one of my sisters the B word in front
of my father?

Speaker 1 (03:45):
But that's unthinkable in my family.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
That's it's everyone thought. No, obviously, is not?

Speaker 1 (03:55):
Is not? Her mother agreed with him.

Speaker 2 (03:59):
No.

Speaker 3 (03:59):
In my family, this three would have had serious problem.
If me and my brothers had been over there or
my father and heard him call my sister b it
would have been on a cracking man.

Speaker 2 (04:11):
Yeah, yeah, we thought it was in every book. One's family.

Speaker 3 (04:14):
I'll say that, but I can't even imagine that man
not in my family.

Speaker 1 (04:21):
So she wants to know since her mom.

Speaker 3 (04:24):
I can't tell her none, Shirley, I can't help her.
I don't my family don't do that. No, No, that
should have been some form of violent reaction. That's all
I can say.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
Yeah, but that's what I'm trying to tell you. Her
mom got it, she agreed with the husband. She wants
to know should she.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
Have a talk with the mother. That's her question.

Speaker 3 (04:51):
Okay, you're going in there and talk with your mama,
But I need to go over there and talk to
my daddy too, though.

Speaker 1 (04:56):
Come trying to figure out how to.

Speaker 3 (04:57):
Daddy let another man come in his house and call
his daughter a bee.

Speaker 1 (05:02):
That's not making I can't. I'm gonna drive, I'm gonna drop.
I'm dropping. I can't even I can't. You can't do that.

Speaker 3 (05:11):
I wish one of my son in law's would call
my daughter a bee in my house. I wish either
one of them would. Yeah, they're younger than me, they
more physically fit than me. But I'm gonna tell you
something when they leave that house that day right there,

(05:32):
they will not be in the same condition it was
when they came in.

Speaker 1 (05:37):
But they were.

Speaker 2 (05:39):
Thirty years Stephen Gurney, they've been married for thirty years.

Speaker 1 (05:44):
This is craziness. Well years. He has done something before, exactly.
It's the mama that's agreeing with it. Yeah, mother, it
ain't father. He ain't say nothing. That's crazy. Yeah, but
her issue is with all right.

Speaker 3 (06:05):
Last one, I'm mad at my I'm mad at my
son in laws right now, dog, I won't be sitting
over there this year.

Speaker 1 (06:19):
Just looking at him. Say it, and Philly, just save
you say it. She needed your help on that one, Steve.
All right.

Speaker 2 (06:28):
Last one, This is the last one. Mac and Bethesda writes,
I'm bald by choice, but my wife likes me better
with hair. She doesn't care if it's thinning or not.
I'm self conscious, but she said it's sexy. Do I
grow it back for her or keep shaving it?

Speaker 1 (06:46):
Juliu, what that's what I said? Did you hear? Yeah?
I heard the question. How do you feel about it?
My hair is is none wrong? My hand?

Speaker 3 (06:58):
Let's let you go that you comb through this answer,
Go ahead, there's nothing to calm through. He said it's
thinny mm hmmm, and he's ball by choice and she
wants him, would have and she don't care if it's
thinning right now. You're the only one in this situation

(07:19):
right now because me and Tommy is bald.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
I'm not bald. I have hair. I have good hair.
We're not going to get an answer for that one, obviously.
Thank you guys coming to can think. He sexty, I
can think. I got had to you said you're quite good.
Thank you something tomorrow, send it to me so I
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