Ask the CLO - 12.12.25

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Right now it is time to ask the CLO.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
I'm on cloak ready, let's go.

Speaker 1 (00:08):
CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey, Here we go. Gail
in Cleveland writes, I'm a fifty five year old single
woman and I have a guy that really likes me,
but I'm not ready to be intimate. He gave me
lingerie for my birthday, and he keeps begging me to
let him see me in it. He swears that he

(00:29):
won't try anything. Should I let him come over and
model it for him? Or is that for sending him
a wrong message?

Speaker 3 (00:36):
So good and real, Well, he lied when he said
he ain't gonna try nothing.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
He ain't gonna try nothing. Oh he going your first
birthday guilt is launerie?

Speaker 3 (00:49):
You fifty five? Stop acting like you ain't bit at
this movie before, h Gail from Cleveland, fifty five. You
know good hell well, and he's gonna try something, and
and and then if you modeled the lingerie, he gonna
think that you want him to try something because you

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can come out in what he bought. You must want
him to be happy. So if you put the lingerie on,
you know he won't to try.

Speaker 2 (01:20):
Darl Look, this is what you gill know this. They'll know.

Speaker 3 (01:25):
You're trying to just play the game. You want to
give it to it. You ain't offended by the lingerie.
You ain't offended that he wants you. You've just decided
to try the ninety day rule Property eighteen. You tied,
He tied this.

Speaker 2 (01:49):
Even I have stopped.

Speaker 3 (01:55):
I have stopped trying to tell women how to do
this because y'all not gonna listen.

Speaker 2 (02:01):
And you're fifty five. You've seen this movie before.

Speaker 3 (02:04):
You know how this going at modeled for him. If
you do model for him, he's gonna try. So you
already know that.

Speaker 2 (02:11):
Let's go to the next year.

Speaker 1 (02:12):
Yeah, all right, Cammy and Fort Myers says, my husband
and I have been married for six years and he
has a strange habit of calling me by his ex
wife's name or his ex sister in law's name. It's
either Pam or Tammy. And when he does it, he
thinks it's no big deal. He's sixty nine years old
and getting forgetful. But this is unacceptable. How do I

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get him to stop this?

Speaker 4 (02:35):
Her name is.

Speaker 1 (02:36):
Cammy, Cammy, Pam, Tammy, that's.

Speaker 2 (02:39):
What he calls Tammy.

Speaker 3 (02:40):
That's way that ain't mmy. It rhymes. He's in trouble
because he's fas. He was probably married longer than you
all have been to kesthery okay, and their names is similar,
so I wouldn't hold nothing to it.

Speaker 2 (02:58):
He's just old school cat. He getting it all mixed up.

Speaker 3 (03:02):
You're talking too fast because he said these names a manytime.
Calling you the wrong name is is just so, it's not.
It's not an all bad thing. He don't mean it.
He's still seeing her, he don't want her. He's just
in grain. He been calling them that for so long,
his sister in it and his wife. Your name and

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your name, it just sounds so similar, Pam.

Speaker 2 (03:27):
You go with baby something like that? Baby, Yeah, he
gotta go. Hey, hey girl, Hey, you.

Speaker 4 (03:34):
Gotta good point view?

Speaker 2 (03:40):
Yes, all right.

Speaker 1 (03:41):
Moving on to Mary Anne in Baltimore, Mary Anne says
I got drunk a few weeks ago and I called
my husband to pick me up. I urinated on myself
in the car, and he decided to tell the story
at dinner on Thursday in front of my boss.

Speaker 4 (03:58):
And my mom.

Speaker 1 (03:59):
I'm so embarrassed. How can I pay him back?

Speaker 2 (04:05):
Pay him back?

Speaker 3 (04:06):
I'm not gonna uns hisself somewhere. It's gonna be hard
to pay him back unless you catch him peeing on
hisself and you import it in front of his mama
and his I don't know what you're playing on doing
unless you won't take a pair of them draws down
there to his job and showing what you gotta wash.

(04:28):
I don't really know, and I don't see why he's
trying to pay somebody back.

Speaker 2 (04:32):
You need to quit drinking. You need to let this
story die down.

Speaker 3 (04:37):
As long as it ain't posted nowhere, this story can
have a chance to die down. And next thing, he
don't like you, the story of the take you don't
like you, Yeah, he don't.

Speaker 2 (04:51):
He don't like you. He trying to do something to
you because you don't know.

Speaker 3 (04:54):
He don't like you. He loved you, he in love
with you, but he he don't like youth to that like.

Speaker 2 (05:00):
Clean up this story sided uk at the table they
working to they yeah, over old day. I picked up Gwen. Yeah,
because you.

Speaker 4 (05:15):
Know she owns what Marianne together, you can stand together
out here, bro.

Speaker 3 (05:31):
I picked when off when say she had been you
know she had been drinking a little bit. So I'll
get my wife and I'm gonna protect her.

Speaker 2 (05:40):
Now.

Speaker 3 (05:40):
She's sitting there looking him with her eyes. She done
bumped her eyes like, wait a minute, I know you're queen.

Speaker 2 (05:52):
Queen, that's funny. Anyway, I picked up she in the car.

Speaker 3 (05:57):
She's so drunk, so I kept noticing her squirming in
the seat, you know.

Speaker 2 (06:04):
Squirming like this.

Speaker 4 (06:06):
I want you to be chilling some food, you know.

Speaker 2 (06:13):
Butter in your bread, having that Maggie right there.

Speaker 3 (06:21):
Anyway, she was sit up there, uh huh. And I
look over that laugh. All I heard was squeez. I
heard squeezed, squeeze. She's squirming in all.

Speaker 2 (06:38):
Oh god, I got some drunk. I'm gonn drunk your
beat all like that.

Speaker 3 (06:42):
But let me tek you heat on only one laugh.
My dolls can't laugh because the boss is going, what
mama going?

Speaker 2 (06:55):
Her food? Didn't? Yeah? Because see here what she ain't
typing this or it's Thanksgiving? He drunk change loss, drunk drunk?

Speaker 3 (07:08):
Did you say pat that magazinoie squish squish back, oh baby,
oh man.

Speaker 1 (07:21):
And all she wants to know is how does she
pay him back?

Speaker 2 (07:26):
How about cleaning his car?

Speaker 1 (07:27):
First question, is Mary Baltimore, that's cold?

Speaker 2 (07:33):
He told her business. Yeah, that's terrible.

Speaker 1 (07:37):
Oh man, all right, thank you, Cellos.

Speaker 2 (07:40):
Steve Harbin Martin show Man.

Speaker 3 (07:42):
Men that wear throngs don't pay money back. Thro wearing
men do not pay money back.

Speaker 2 (07:51):
I don't know, it's just a rule.

Speaker 3 (07:53):
I don't know where the rule came from anybody.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
I know where.

Speaker 3 (07:57):
Throne don't pay money back. And who wear throngs.

Speaker 2 (08:01):
That think they sexy?

Speaker 3 (08:02):
It's usually not tholl And some don't even go in
the same can't have a throng on and all they
see is the love V in the front.

Speaker 2 (08:16):
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Speaker 2 (08:21):
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