December 19, 2025 • 8 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is time to check in with the Cheap Love Officer,
you to answer all of everybody's love questions.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Mike and Clearwater, Florida says, I went on a blind
dave with the finest girl I have ever met. She's
got beautiful teeth, eyes, and hair, and she's a little
on the.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Thick side, which I love.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
The only problem is that she smokes cigars and I
could taste it on her breast when we kiss. She
only does it on the weekend, So should I deal
with it or move on?
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Hey?
Speaker 4 (00:32):
Dog, it's just on the weekends. That's along it, Lane.
I mean, you know, there being a cigar smoker, there
are some things you can do, you know, to help
the situation, like what I mean, like, don't smoke fo
you kiss. That's a big one.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Yeah, it's they got stuff for that.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
But when you actual cigar placing, you lean over a kiss,
you fin to eat some cigar.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
Dog, that's just all to it your kissing schedule. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
you're gonna work that out.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Was fine, for fine, for fine, make that absolutely yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:18):
We're finn to be blowing cigare smoke all over each other.
We all smokeing cigars.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Yeah fine, how fine she is?
Speaker 3 (01:34):
Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, it has a lot to.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Do it Okay, so he should deal with it and
not move on. Just stay there and take it.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Take absolutely. I mean, come on, man, come on man.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
What a model of doctor Tishan and they all have merschool.
Take all her taste, buzz on everything. Doctor Trishner removes
one layer of mouth landed.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
All right.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Moving on to Felicity in Topeka, Felicity writes, I have
been seeing a man that is twelve years my junior,
and he's handsome and muscular up top, but lacking down below.
He tries to overcompensate for his shortcomings and is too
much for me to handle. I have a schedule to
keep up with and kids to look after, so I
(02:31):
can't be lying around for hours with him. Is it
cool to tell him to hurry up?
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Or will he be offended?
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Please advice, It's not going to send him if you
tell him to hurry up. What will offend him is
you tell him why he needs to hurry I know
why you putting in all this extra time? You're yeah,
(02:57):
you know, you know? Once again, you know what I'm saying.
Being on the other side of this one right here,
I can tell.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
You, you know.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
What, in my life, I've been too much, but I
ain't never been not enough. I've been here, Lord, I've
been O lawd, but I ain't never been Okay.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
I think you're gonna have to tell him to hurry up.
You got things to do.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
But in a nice way?
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Is he a really great guy? Does he treat you
really well? They treat the kids great? How is he
as a man? You can work through some of these things?
You know some things you can do to speed up
the process.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
I don't know a Felicity. Moving on to Carolyn and
making Georgia. Carolyn says, is luck would have it. I'm
broke again at the wrong time of the year. I
was talking to my coworker about my issues and he said,
and he could help me out if I showed him
two things. The two things are right under my chin,
(04:06):
and he wants to see them. I've never been propositioned
like this, but he said he'd give me two hundred
dollars and that would.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Help me get my little girl that bike she wants.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
It is so terrible. If I show him what if
he wants to pay to see more.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
What you what you what you? What you think is
going to be leading to this is this is to
see what you're willing to do. Now, if you do
this for two hundred dollars, he already know he got
five hundred. Mean you marking like, hey, Ian, you go
in there and tell your little girl, we ain't getting
no bike this year. You know, many years I heard
(04:41):
that bike. Oh you working, I'd heard stuff like that bike.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
What's wrong with the bike you got out there? You're
talking about the board you gave me from the construction site.
That bike, Daddy, that's never been new, like a new bike. Well,
I want a new car. You don't see, No, you
don't see what I say out the day.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
That's take a lot, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
So every time I asked him for something, he every
time I told my daddy I wanted something, he told
me something he wanted.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
I want a new bike, I want a new car.
Yeah I want to go home. Well, hell, I want
to go home too, But now I got to go
to work. So you can eat what they got to
do with what I said.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
So, Carolyn, I hope you're getting something from this, okay.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
I mean, if you show him to him for two
hundred dollars. The next offer fing to be five hundred.
What you're gonna do?
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Yeah, and they work together, so that's really not cool.
It's inappropriate, car, yeah, really.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
All the way. But two hundred dollars that ain't nothing.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Yeah, yeah, one hundred dollars each? Oh you didne divided
it up?
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (06:04):
Cool?
Speaker 3 (06:05):
He's horrible, all right, all right?
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Misty and rustin Louisiana says, I'm forty years old and
I purchased my first home for my son and I
my son is fifteen years old and refuses to do
the yard work for me. He told me that I
need to get my boyfriend to do it, since he's
always over there. I lit into him when he spoke
to me that way, and I called my father to
(06:28):
come and talk to him. My father sided with him.
I expected my son to have pride in his home.
So am I wrong to demand that he do the
yard work at this house?
Speaker 4 (06:39):
Well, I understand what you're saying. You're exactly right and
feeling what you're feeling. But your fifteen year old son going,
So what this lazy dude doing is coming over here
sleeping with my mama. See, at fifteen, he got some
feelings about that that you haven't addressed. The fifteen year
old boy is jealous that you're in this relationship with
this man, and he tried to figure God, what's the
(07:00):
value him because he don't see him doing nothing except
sleeping with his mama. That's the problem you have, and
them feelings ain't fitna leave that boy no time soon.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
So the conversation you should have.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Really is with this man of yours as to what
kind of example he's setting for your son, Because all
boys want to be some type of man.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
It's gonna be a good man or bad man.
Speaker 4 (07:25):
And right now that's the example of manhood that's been
put in front of him, and he don't see much
of a.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
Man coming out of him.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Great advice I was on that.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
If you went to the bath, if you went to
the boyfriend and said, I wish you'd talk to my son,
maybe y'all could do it together or something, it would
mean a lot to him and then you could finally
see what you're dealing with, which don't sound like much
or nothing.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
All right, Thank you, CLO.
Speaker 5 (07:49):
Good morning. This is your girl Carla Farrell from the
Steve Harvey Morning Show and my favorite Christmas memory is
every year my mom and grandma would decorate the home
and play the Temptations Christmas album.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
When we were here. Donnie Hathaway come mom with.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
Jam every Christmas season, So have a wonderful Holiday season.
We would have agnaw my grandmother would make homemade egnaw.
Just wonderful, wonderful memories. But have a wonderful Holiday season.
From Carla Ferrell and all of us here our family
to yours at the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
It is time to check in with the Cheap Love Officer,
you to answer all of everybody's love questions.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Mike and Clearwater, Florida says, I went on a blind
dave with the finest girl I have ever met. She's
got beautiful teeth, eyes, and hair, and she's a little
on the.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Thick side, which I love.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
The only problem is that she smokes cigars and I
could taste it on her breast when we kiss. She
only does it on the weekend, So should I deal
with it or move on?
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Hey?
Speaker 4 (00:32):
Dog, it's just on the weekends. That's along it, Lane.
I mean, you know, there being a cigar smoker, there
are some things you can do, you know, to help
the situation, like what I mean, like, don't smoke fo
you kiss. That's a big one.
Speaker 3 (00:55):
Yeah, it's they got stuff for that.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
But when you actual cigar placing, you lean over a kiss,
you fin to eat some cigar.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
Dog, that's just all to it your kissing schedule. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
you're gonna work that out.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Was fine, for fine, for fine, make that absolutely yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:18):
We're finn to be blowing cigare smoke all over each other.
We all smokeing cigars.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Yeah fine, how fine she is?
Speaker 3 (01:34):
Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, it has a lot to.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Do it Okay, so he should deal with it and
not move on. Just stay there and take it.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Take absolutely. I mean, come on, man, come on man.
Speaker 4 (01:43):
What a model of doctor Tishan and they all have merschool.
Take all her taste, buzz on everything. Doctor Trishner removes
one layer of mouth landed.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
All right.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Moving on to Felicity in Topeka, Felicity writes, I have
been seeing a man that is twelve years my junior,
and he's handsome and muscular up top, but lacking down below.
He tries to overcompensate for his shortcomings and is too
much for me to handle. I have a schedule to
keep up with and kids to look after, so I
(02:31):
can't be lying around for hours with him. Is it
cool to tell him to hurry up?
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Or will he be offended?
Speaker 4 (02:37):
Please advice, It's not going to send him if you
tell him to hurry up. What will offend him is
you tell him why he needs to hurry I know
why you putting in all this extra time? You're yeah,
(02:57):
you know, you know? Once again, you know what I'm saying.
Being on the other side of this one right here,
I can tell.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
You, you know.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
What, in my life, I've been too much, but I
ain't never been not enough. I've been here, Lord, I've
been O lawd, but I ain't never been Okay.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
I think you're gonna have to tell him to hurry up.
You got things to do.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
But in a nice way?
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Is he a really great guy? Does he treat you
really well? They treat the kids great? How is he
as a man? You can work through some of these things?
You know some things you can do to speed up
the process.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
I don't know a Felicity. Moving on to Carolyn and
making Georgia. Carolyn says, is luck would have it. I'm
broke again at the wrong time of the year. I
was talking to my coworker about my issues and he said,
and he could help me out if I showed him
two things. The two things are right under my chin,
(04:06):
and he wants to see them. I've never been propositioned
like this, but he said he'd give me two hundred
dollars and that would.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Help me get my little girl that bike she wants.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
It is so terrible. If I show him what if
he wants to pay to see more.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
What you what you what you? What you think is
going to be leading to this is this is to
see what you're willing to do. Now, if you do
this for two hundred dollars, he already know he got
five hundred. Mean you marking like, hey, Ian, you go
in there and tell your little girl, we ain't getting
no bike this year. You know, many years I heard
(04:41):
that bike. Oh you working, I'd heard stuff like that bike.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
What's wrong with the bike you got out there? You're
talking about the board you gave me from the construction site.
That bike, Daddy, that's never been new, like a new bike. Well,
I want a new car. You don't see, No, you
don't see what I say out the day.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
That's take a lot, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
So every time I asked him for something, he every
time I told my daddy I wanted something, he told
me something he wanted.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
I want a new bike, I want a new car.
Yeah I want to go home. Well, hell, I want
to go home too, But now I got to go
to work. So you can eat what they got to
do with what I said.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
So, Carolyn, I hope you're getting something from this, okay.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
I mean, if you show him to him for two
hundred dollars. The next offer fing to be five hundred.
What you're gonna do?
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Yeah, and they work together, so that's really not cool.
It's inappropriate, car, yeah, really.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
All the way. But two hundred dollars that ain't nothing.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Yeah, yeah, one hundred dollars each? Oh you didne divided
it up?
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (06:04):
Cool?
Speaker 3 (06:05):
He's horrible, all right, all right?
Speaker 1 (06:07):
Misty and rustin Louisiana says, I'm forty years old and
I purchased my first home for my son and I
my son is fifteen years old and refuses to do
the yard work for me. He told me that I
need to get my boyfriend to do it, since he's
always over there. I lit into him when he spoke
to me that way, and I called my father to
(06:28):
come and talk to him. My father sided with him.
I expected my son to have pride in his home.
So am I wrong to demand that he do the
yard work at this house?
Speaker 4 (06:39):
Well, I understand what you're saying. You're exactly right and
feeling what you're feeling. But your fifteen year old son going,
So what this lazy dude doing is coming over here
sleeping with my mama. See, at fifteen, he got some
feelings about that that you haven't addressed. The fifteen year
old boy is jealous that you're in this relationship with
this man, and he tried to figure God, what's the
(07:00):
value him because he don't see him doing nothing except
sleeping with his mama. That's the problem you have, and
them feelings ain't fitna leave that boy no time soon.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
So the conversation you should have.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Really is with this man of yours as to what
kind of example he's setting for your son, Because all
boys want to be some type of man.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
It's gonna be a good man or bad man.
Speaker 4 (07:25):
And right now that's the example of manhood that's been
put in front of him, and he don't see much
of a.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
Man coming out of him.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Great advice I was on that.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
If you went to the bath, if you went to
the boyfriend and said, I wish you'd talk to my son,
maybe y'all could do it together or something, it would
mean a lot to him and then you could finally
see what you're dealing with, which don't sound like much
or nothing.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
All right, Thank you, CLO.
Speaker 5 (07:49):
Good morning. This is your girl Carla Farrell from the
Steve Harvey Morning Show and my favorite Christmas memory is
every year my mom and grandma would decorate the home
and play the Temptations Christmas album.
Speaker 2 (08:01):
When we were here. Donnie Hathaway come mom with.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
Jam every Christmas season, So have a wonderful Holiday season.
We would have agnaw my grandmother would make homemade egnaw.
Just wonderful, wonderful memories. But have a wonderful Holiday season.
From Carla Ferrell and all of us here our family
to yours at the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.
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