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It is time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey. Phil and Queen says, I've been going to
the same dentist for a while, but since my divorce, she's.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Becoming a big blurt.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
At my appointment yesterday, she rubbed my temples while I
waited for her assistant to come.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Clean my teeth.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
She's not my type, but something about her is kind
of sexy.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Should I cross the line and do this?
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Woman?
Speaker 3 (00:28):
No, man, not nobody to be in your mouth?
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Uh huh, that is drill.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
Dog, dog, Listen to me, she's not really your type.
Now you're gonna cross the line. This already ain't your type,
so it ain't worth it. But now when something go wrong,
and it will go wrong because she ain't your type. Look,
once you crossed the line and do it, she gon't
expect something that you ain't willing to give. Next time
(00:57):
you sit in the chair. Okay, you here now, gums bleeding, No, dog,
it ain't worth it. No, it ain't worth it.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Man, all you can all you can see it and
get a new dinnist.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Oh okay, then there's that. Okay, she's been his dentist
for a while. Okay, all right. Moving on to Katanya
in Chicago. Katanya writes, my husband loves to stunt like
he's got big money. And wherever we go out, he
plops down our Amex cards to paper everyone's drinks and food.
(01:45):
He blows our monthly budget. And I'm sick of it.
Why does he feel the need to flex all the time?
Why I'm balling?
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (01:58):
He said, Everybody thinking he more than he is. You know,
uh huh, that's all that is. I mean, I ain't
asked to.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Wake you up at the end of the month, though
thirty days it's coming.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
It's all that whoa, whoa. Let me tell you something.
I didn't have some American Express bill. I didn't open
it and sat down.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Yeah, daggering, staggering amount.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
I've been there, I've been there.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
So can she stop him? I mean, she's sick of it.
He blows the monthly bunchet. What what can she do?
Speaker 4 (02:34):
She got to talk to about it. But this dude
he flexing. You know, I got this man can express.
Everybody see me. You know that's it's a male ego thing, you.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Know, Cut it up, cut it out.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
Yeah, past the bill, the bill come to me every
time I sit down and eat so and I don't.
I don't want to flex. It's just don't nobody pay.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
I know, we don't. I'm not picking up check. I
know when we go out to eat with ye what
you and Shirley Mississippi, they just sit there and look.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Thank you and right on over to the head of
the table over there.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
I'll pick up now, I'll pick up I'm not when
I went with Harvard, like, I didn't even see it
come to the table.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, tell me to grab it. But he
the only one I did. I did, do you right
one time?
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:31):
You did? You did me right one time?
Speaker 4 (03:32):
But then I saw that the other time you open
and clothes and set it back on easy way right
on down there to me, I seen Boong do that
fast dog.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Moving on.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Minon and uh nasa. She says.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
I met a man online and we went up for dinner.
We met up for dinner. He asked for separate check
after dinner.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Speaking of Checkee.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
So I paid my bill and I went and sat
at the bar. Another man bought me a drink, and
the guy I had dinner with got mad. I didn't
consider dinner as a date since I paid for my food?
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Was I wrong for leaving him at the table?
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Well, I mean, you know, that's just a sign.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
I don't know how men think now that you're not
supposed to pay for the food.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
You know.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
And all you women that want to be you know
or whatever independent and want to be you know, bosses,
what do they call it? That's cool, you can be that.
But I would want to know if a man was
willing to do for me, I would want to know,
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and you should expect that.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
And then if he doesn't.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
Pay for your bill like you did and gonna do
like you want to do because he ain't the one.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
He asked for, separate checks got the dude?
Speaker 4 (04:56):
Is this man? A woman's time is valuable? What about?
Oh dog? You pass it out every chance you get?
Speaker 3 (05:03):
Get up there?
Speaker 1 (05:06):
She met him online and she just wants to know
what she wrong for leaving him at the table.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
You say, no, clo.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
You ain't to say. This relationship ain't going nowhere?
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Right?
Speaker 3 (05:17):
What else? He won't for free?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
And he got mad because she left?
Speaker 4 (05:23):
Yeah, she got mad because he left, and there somebody
else bought her drink because the dude was up at
the bar.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
He know what he got to do. That's right.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Yeah, all right, you did the right thing. Last one, Steve,
last one Desia and Baton Rouge says, I graduated from
college a year ago and I have a decent job
and an apartment. I am four months pregnant, and when
I told my parents, they insisted that I moved back
home and dumped my boyfriend. Well, my parents resent me
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if I don't do that.
Speaker 4 (05:55):
Well, I don't know if you understand the difficulty that's
coming your way, and I think your parents do, and
they realize you're gonna have to have help, and your
boyfriend ain't gonna make a commitment. That's obvious, and your
parents are just being parents because they know the road
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ahead for you. It's going to be difficult. And if
you live at home, you'll have some help with the baby, yeah,
you know. And if you stay over there by yourself,
it's gonna be hard because he's not gonna help you, right.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Because if he was already doing that already, right.
Speaker 4 (06:33):
He's not gonna help you, and it don't make him
a bad He don't know what to do.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
Yeah, yeah, they're young, they're young.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
He doesn't know your parents know that. Mm hmm.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
So you're telling her to listen to her parents and
go ahead and move back, and.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Well, are they gonna be resentful? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (06:53):
But I think you are too, though, And I understand
you got a good job and you graduated and everything,
but you know, I don't think you understand what this
pregnancy is now. You can't know until you have the baby.
And I've heard women say that all the time. Oh,
you can't know what this is until that baby get here.
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Because I didn't know what it was the mine got here.
I wanted all the mind to go back.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
No instruction, and our parents didn't have instruction.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
No, I'm not ready for none of.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
This's some work. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
So she doesn't want her parents to resent her, but
they're actually trying if she, you know, she doesn't move
move back home.
Speaker 4 (07:39):
I mean, look, she can stay where you are, but
you're gonna need some help, and help is back at
your parents house because you're gonna find out this boy
can't help you.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Yeah, right, all right, thank you, So ellow you're listening,
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