December 29, 2025 • 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time for ask the clo with our Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey, and the building ready for your love questions.
Chanelle and Roanoke says, I found out my sixteen year
old son is having sex and snuck a.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Girl in the house.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Our dogs walk through the kitchen with a condom wrapper
in his mouth, and my son turned red as a
single mom.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Do I get his dad involved? How do I handle this? Well?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
First of all, let me command your dog because the
rappers is really hard to swallow, and he knew by
the smell of this that this was very interesting, had
never been this before, so this let me get this
outside in the garage where I can see what this
really is.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
That's what. So kudos to the dog first of all.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Secondly, you need to get his father involved. And it's
not going to be the reprimand that you think, but
you do need to get the father involved.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
He's sixteen.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Uh, you can forget having the conversation of this is
wrong and you shouldn't do that. You can you can
throw that conversation out the window.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Once the boy tastes.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
The fruit, it's it's his quest to he died. It's
no backing out of this okay out and tried it
one time. Now I'm a wait till I get married.
That that conversation, you think, what conversation you've didn't had
with this boys? The best thing he did was use protection.
The deed is already done. And I'm telling you right now,
(01:35):
once the deed is done, that is you can't close
that cupet door. That door don't shut. No that that
door don't shut. It's it's your whole life quest from
that moment on.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Once you get that fruit, a piece of that pie.
Listen to me, he's what did it well earlier? It
makes me feel just the whole motivation?
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Why buy calls and jewelry, rainy swimming and houses, homes, dreams,
calls watching, Oh yes.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Yes, okay, Steve, thank you Coello. Yeah it's clear, uh Andy.
Moving on to Andy and Detroit, Andy says, I was
initially attracted to my wife because she's wealthy and loves
nice things. I have a great job, but she makes
a lot more money than I do. Her friends say,
I'm an opportunist. Why is it acceptable if a woman
(02:39):
marries up, but if a man does it not so much?
Speaker 3 (02:44):
Well, you know it's called double standards. Bro, You know
it's the same reason. If a man sleep with everybody
in the office, he's still mister Jackson. And if a
woman do it, she everything but her name because it's
double standards.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
And it's such a rare garanty. But when it happens,
you know, I mean, but why you're letting it bother you?
But you said, yeah, you were first attracted to her
because she was wealthy.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
That's what you're saying. He did. He did.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
So, now that was your first attraction. And she liked
nice things, Okay, cool. It wasn't her eyes, it wasn't
her dreams, the way she looked at you, the way
she treated you. No, you liked her because she was wealthy.
So now that's what you put out. That's what everybody
then picked up on. Because trust me, bro, there is
(03:34):
no way to hide that I first got with my
wife and failed for her because of she was wealthy, okay.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
And and loves nice things.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
You ain't saying nothing about her being a beautiful person.
I don't know, Hockey, you can imagine her making a
great mother for your children.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
You ain't say none of that.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
You said that, So now if you don't think that
that's what exudes from your body. Don't think other people
can pick up on that, especially women. I don't know
what to tell you. Man. Congratulations, you accomplished the mission.
Now you got to live the life, because I'm tell
you right now, the riches ain't gonna last. Hmmm.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
You're gonna need to be in love and you're gonna
need to like somebody, all right. A lot of rich.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Women ain't got no men.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
All right.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Moving on to Dana in Fairview, Dana says, my husband
and I are separated because I sent a picture of
my VIJJ to him while he was at work. I
had never done anything like that, but my coworker said
it was it was a way to keep my marriage spicy.
He didn't like it. How do I fix things? What? What?
Speaker 2 (04:48):
What is it not to like?
Speaker 1 (04:51):
What?
Speaker 3 (04:52):
It was?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
Because she sent it at work to him while he
was at work.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Okay, what what?
Speaker 3 (04:58):
What did it hit the Was it on the thread
with the coworkers?
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Now? That was it? But I don't understand why you
separate it though? What so this.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Dude, listen to me. I want you to pay careful closest.
I want you to pay pay careful attention to what I'm
about to say, Okay, if a man leaves you and
separates from you for that reason, right there, I can
tell you, as a man, and I've been a man
a long time, that ain't the reason.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
He is using that as a reason.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
But that ain't no real It ain't a man living
nowhere if you send him a picture of the Promised Land,
that he is gonna stop talking to you and pack
his stuff up. Who is this guy? What are you
talking about? You need to look a little bit deeper
(05:55):
into this situation. First of all, why did you need
to spice up the relationship.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Because their coworker told us?
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Well?
Speaker 3 (06:02):
But see, but see, guess what your coworker told you
that because y'all done had some unspicy conversations about your relationship.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
I agree.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Now, your coworker didn't tell you nothing wrong. She was
trying to help you. But your man, because you needed
some spicing up and he needed out. Your spicy picture
of the Promised lad gave him the out he needed.
Ain't no man nowhere leaving his wife because she sent
a picture of her thing to the job.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Who is this food?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
So to her question, Steve of how do I fix things?
Speaker 2 (06:42):
There's The thing is not the picture. The thing is
the real reason he wants to leave, and the real
reason you.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
Needed to send it to spice up the relationship in
the first place.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
I promise you that's it. No dude, no where, what?
All right?
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Shorty and Pensacola says. I'm a waitress at a topless bar.
One of my married customers offered to pay me a
monthly fee for sex. If I get two more customers
like him, I can work from home. I'm not big
on adult Tree. Wait I'm not big on adult Tree,
So should I only offer my services to single men?
Speaker 3 (07:24):
What you are already considering this business proposition, Make your
decision and make your move.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
You just need too mo Now you're listening Hardy Morning
Show
It's time for ask the clo with our Chief Love Officer,
Steve Harvey, and the building ready for your love questions.
Chanelle and Roanoke says, I found out my sixteen year
old son is having sex and snuck a.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Girl in the house.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Our dogs walk through the kitchen with a condom wrapper
in his mouth, and my son turned red as a
single mom.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Do I get his dad involved? How do I handle this? Well?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
First of all, let me command your dog because the
rappers is really hard to swallow, and he knew by
the smell of this that this was very interesting, had
never been this before, so this let me get this
outside in the garage where I can see what this
really is.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
That's what. So kudos to the dog first of all.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Secondly, you need to get his father involved. And it's
not going to be the reprimand that you think, but
you do need to get the father involved.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
He's sixteen.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Uh, you can forget having the conversation of this is
wrong and you shouldn't do that. You can you can
throw that conversation out the window.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Once the boy tastes.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
The fruit, it's it's his quest to he died. It's
no backing out of this okay out and tried it
one time. Now I'm a wait till I get married.
That that conversation, you think, what conversation you've didn't had
with this boys? The best thing he did was use protection.
The deed is already done. And I'm telling you right now,
(01:35):
once the deed is done, that is you can't close
that cupet door. That door don't shut. No that that
door don't shut. It's it's your whole life quest from
that moment on.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Once you get that fruit, a piece of that pie.
Listen to me, he's what did it well earlier? It
makes me feel just the whole motivation?
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Why buy calls and jewelry, rainy swimming and houses, homes, dreams,
calls watching, Oh yes.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Yes, okay, Steve, thank you Coello. Yeah it's clear, uh Andy.
Moving on to Andy and Detroit, Andy says, I was
initially attracted to my wife because she's wealthy and loves
nice things. I have a great job, but she makes
a lot more money than I do. Her friends say,
I'm an opportunist. Why is it acceptable if a woman
(02:39):
marries up, but if a man does it not so much?
Speaker 3 (02:44):
Well, you know it's called double standards. Bro, You know
it's the same reason. If a man sleep with everybody
in the office, he's still mister Jackson. And if a
woman do it, she everything but her name because it's
double standards.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
And it's such a rare garanty. But when it happens,
you know, I mean, but why you're letting it bother you?
But you said, yeah, you were first attracted to her
because she was wealthy.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
That's what you're saying. He did. He did.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
So, now that was your first attraction. And she liked
nice things, Okay, cool. It wasn't her eyes, it wasn't
her dreams, the way she looked at you, the way
she treated you. No, you liked her because she was wealthy.
So now that's what you put out. That's what everybody
then picked up on. Because trust me, bro, there is
(03:34):
no way to hide that I first got with my
wife and failed for her because of she was wealthy, okay.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
And and loves nice things.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
You ain't saying nothing about her being a beautiful person.
I don't know, Hockey, you can imagine her making a
great mother for your children.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
You ain't say none of that.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
You said that, So now if you don't think that
that's what exudes from your body. Don't think other people
can pick up on that, especially women. I don't know
what to tell you. Man. Congratulations, you accomplished the mission.
Now you got to live the life, because I'm tell
you right now, the riches ain't gonna last. Hmmm.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
You're gonna need to be in love and you're gonna
need to like somebody, all right. A lot of rich.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
Women ain't got no men.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
All right.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Moving on to Dana in Fairview, Dana says, my husband
and I are separated because I sent a picture of
my VIJJ to him while he was at work. I
had never done anything like that, but my coworker said
it was it was a way to keep my marriage spicy.
He didn't like it. How do I fix things? What? What?
Speaker 2 (04:48):
What is it not to like?
Speaker 1 (04:51):
What?
Speaker 3 (04:52):
It was?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
Because she sent it at work to him while he
was at work.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Okay, what what?
Speaker 3 (04:58):
What did it hit the Was it on the thread
with the coworkers?
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Now? That was it? But I don't understand why you
separate it though? What so this.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Dude, listen to me. I want you to pay careful closest.
I want you to pay pay careful attention to what I'm
about to say, Okay, if a man leaves you and
separates from you for that reason, right there, I can
tell you, as a man, and I've been a man
a long time, that ain't the reason.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
He is using that as a reason.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
But that ain't no real It ain't a man living
nowhere if you send him a picture of the Promised Land,
that he is gonna stop talking to you and pack
his stuff up. Who is this guy? What are you
talking about? You need to look a little bit deeper
(05:55):
into this situation. First of all, why did you need
to spice up the relationship.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Because their coworker told us?
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Well?
Speaker 3 (06:02):
But see, but see, guess what your coworker told you
that because y'all done had some unspicy conversations about your relationship.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
I agree.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Now, your coworker didn't tell you nothing wrong. She was
trying to help you. But your man, because you needed
some spicing up and he needed out. Your spicy picture
of the Promised lad gave him the out he needed.
Ain't no man nowhere leaving his wife because she sent
a picture of her thing to the job.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Who is this food?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
So to her question, Steve of how do I fix things?
Speaker 2 (06:42):
There's The thing is not the picture. The thing is
the real reason he wants to leave, and the real
reason you.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
Needed to send it to spice up the relationship in
the first place.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
I promise you that's it. No dude, no where, what?
All right?
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Shorty and Pensacola says. I'm a waitress at a topless bar.
One of my married customers offered to pay me a
monthly fee for sex. If I get two more customers
like him, I can work from home. I'm not big
on adult Tree. Wait I'm not big on adult Tree,
So should I only offer my services to single men?
Speaker 3 (07:24):
What you are already considering this business proposition, Make your
decision and make your move.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
You just need too mo Now you're listening Hardy Morning
Show
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