June 25, 2024 • 7 mins
How dangerous is it to date a woman who is separated and not yet divorced? Son and step-father have a strained relationship because of the latter's lack of respect for the mother. Steve also has to warn a woman about a man that is locked up.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, guys, it's time now for as the clo.
She love Officer Steve Harvey in the building. When it's cute,
sell look at him this one.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Steve C is from Santana in Detroit.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Santana writes, I've been dating a woman that's separated from
her husband. She recently moved in my apartment complex, and
we both have six year old sons, so that's how
we met. Her son told his dad that mommy had
a boyfriend, and all hell broke loose. He came to
my apartment one day and threatened me, saying he is
getting his.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Family back and I'm in the way.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
I told him i'd respect his wishes because I don't
need the drama. My girlfriend says it's a lie and
he's crazy, and she still wants to be with me.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
What do I do?
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Save your life?
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Doog right?
Speaker 4 (00:50):
Save your life? You just said it ain't worth to drama.
You won't respect his wishes, So now let it play out.
Let's some time go between. If she want to be
with you, let's just see how they workout. But this
food right here, you got to be careful. Heat that
already came to your apartment. I ain't like he don't
(01:11):
know where you live, and that little damn boy, he
gonna tell it again. I'm a boy free and back
as soon as she said it, boyfrie her back. Yes,
who's coming back?
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Daddy?
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
If there's not just worce, they're just separated.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
So yeah, yeah, yeah, all right, moving on? Uh huh
Keipsa and Houston says, my fifty one year old stepfather
and I don't get along, and uh, it's putting a
strain on my relationship with my mother. I hang out
in a popular downtown area and so does he. He
seems to like girls around my age and it's disgusting.
(01:49):
He flirts and sends drinks to ladies, and one of
my former classmates says he even d md her on Instagram.
My mother knows I don't like him, but she doesn't
know why. She keeps lecturing me about being rude and said,
I need to work on my attitude.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Should I tell her why I'm rude?
Speaker 3 (02:07):
Hmmm, that's a tough one because it's your mother, so
she can see your damn father in.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Law, damn stepdad.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Yeah, I mean stepdad, Damn. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
I don't know, you know, but I would just say, Mom,
I've seen him out before where I go. Do you
know he goes out?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
I don't know. No, I see it's hard believe you
feel you.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Know, I mean, but this is her mother, got a
strain on relationship. Here's what I know. You're not finn
play my mama. That's what I'm not fiting. Now, you know,
some boyfriend girls and one of my dudes or something.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
I might stay out of it.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
But once I see you playing my mama, you're not
playing my mama. Dog, that's not gonna happen, not me,
not as a man. You can't do nothing to my mama.
So I'm assuming a lot of women feel that way
about their mama. What so the playing my mama thing,
I don't. That's off limits. My mother in any disrespect
(03:11):
towards her is off limits.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
So so what does she do though?
Speaker 2 (03:16):
So does she tell?
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Well, if she was me, I whoop his ass. But
that ain't what's going to happen.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
But she ain't me, So I think I think she
may have to pull her mother's coat and just say, Mom,
do you know that dad goes out to the same
places I go to? And that's the problem I have.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
And I've seen him out there doing the mast and.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
I think he is doing the most And that's why
I don't care from him, because I don't want you
to get hurt. Yeah, and then maybe maybe she needs
to know that because you because you're nothing to.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Clown my mama.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
No, not in front of me.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
Oh you sure ain't going to do that, partner, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
all right, that's good.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
That's good.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Yeah, that it is. Uh uh.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Develle in North Carolina says, I'm forty year old, single
woman with three children from a previous relationship, and I
recently met a man that was about to go to
prison and he will be out in sixteen months. We're
getting to know each other while he's inside. He was
charged with he was charged with being an accessory to
a crime, and he's never been in legal trouble before.
(04:21):
He's forty four and will have to start all over
again when he gets out. So that's my only concern.
There aren't many good men left, so I'm trying to
do something different. Am I foolish to fall for a
man in jail?
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Well, you say you want to do something different? This
really different? So now you.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Have hooked up with a man that did she say
he was on his way to prison. So now he
got to go for sixteen most and you all are
spending this time to get to know each other.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
How how is he getting to know him?
Speaker 4 (05:02):
What?
Speaker 3 (05:03):
No, I'm listening now, lady.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
I think I think you need to hold type before
you put a lot of stock in this because you're
not gonna really know this guy until you spend time
with him.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
You have to spend time with him. He can't be
doing time.
Speaker 4 (05:24):
You have to spend time different We're talking about time,
but it's two different ways. You need to spend time
with him. But he got to do sometime first. And
until you spend time with him, you're not gonna know.
You're not getting to know nobody that's locked up. What
he right is, what he wants, what you want to hear? Yeah,
you know he's enjoying this. And now you know, I'm
not saying you are just you know this?
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Uh? What what am I looking for? The word?
Speaker 4 (05:51):
I'm not saying you just own a guy or disassociate
yourself with I'm not saying that because some good brothers
is locked away. But you need to wait. You need
to wait until you find out who he is because
you don't know none about this man. That's true and
accessory to what crime?
Speaker 2 (06:06):
What about this?
Speaker 1 (06:07):
A woman has kids, right, Steve? And when how soon
should she introduce her kids to a man that she
is dating and has been dating for a while.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
If you've been dating for a while, that must mean
there's some serious interest in So as soon as you
think a guy is a serious contender, I think that's
when you have to introduce the kids. But I think
you have to do it at a public place.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
I think. I don't think you bring them to the home.
I think you meet up.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Park or McDonald's with a little play area in it
so the kid can go off and play and just
see how he reacts to the child and how the
child reacts to him.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
But don't do it in your home that way.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
If you don't get the reaction you need, or you won't,
then it won't know where my dad at? You know,
you just some dude at the park you talk to.
You know, kids equate things in their house into them.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Oh, you know you're listening to the day Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
H
All right, guys, it's time now for as the clo.
She love Officer Steve Harvey in the building. When it's cute,
sell look at him this one.
Speaker 2 (00:10):
Steve C is from Santana in Detroit.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
Santana writes, I've been dating a woman that's separated from
her husband. She recently moved in my apartment complex, and
we both have six year old sons, so that's how
we met. Her son told his dad that mommy had
a boyfriend, and all hell broke loose. He came to
my apartment one day and threatened me, saying he is
getting his.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Family back and I'm in the way.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
I told him i'd respect his wishes because I don't
need the drama. My girlfriend says it's a lie and
he's crazy, and she still wants to be with me.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
What do I do?
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Save your life?
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Doog right?
Speaker 4 (00:50):
Save your life? You just said it ain't worth to drama.
You won't respect his wishes, So now let it play out.
Let's some time go between. If she want to be
with you, let's just see how they workout. But this
food right here, you got to be careful. Heat that
already came to your apartment. I ain't like he don't
(01:11):
know where you live, and that little damn boy, he
gonna tell it again. I'm a boy free and back
as soon as she said it, boyfrie her back. Yes,
who's coming back?
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Daddy?
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
If there's not just worce, they're just separated.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
So yeah, yeah, yeah, all right, moving on? Uh huh
Keipsa and Houston says, my fifty one year old stepfather
and I don't get along, and uh, it's putting a
strain on my relationship with my mother. I hang out
in a popular downtown area and so does he. He
seems to like girls around my age and it's disgusting.
(01:49):
He flirts and sends drinks to ladies, and one of
my former classmates says he even d md her on Instagram.
My mother knows I don't like him, but she doesn't
know why. She keeps lecturing me about being rude and said,
I need to work on my attitude.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Should I tell her why I'm rude?
Speaker 3 (02:07):
Hmmm, that's a tough one because it's your mother, so
she can see your damn father in.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Law, damn stepdad.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Yeah, I mean stepdad, Damn. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
I don't know, you know, but I would just say, Mom,
I've seen him out before where I go. Do you
know he goes out?
Speaker 3 (02:29):
I don't know. No, I see it's hard believe you
feel you.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Know, I mean, but this is her mother, got a
strain on relationship. Here's what I know. You're not finn
play my mama. That's what I'm not fiting. Now, you know,
some boyfriend girls and one of my dudes or something.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
I might stay out of it.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
But once I see you playing my mama, you're not
playing my mama. Dog, that's not gonna happen, not me,
not as a man. You can't do nothing to my mama.
So I'm assuming a lot of women feel that way
about their mama. What so the playing my mama thing,
I don't. That's off limits. My mother in any disrespect
(03:11):
towards her is off limits.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
So so what does she do though?
Speaker 2 (03:16):
So does she tell?
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Well, if she was me, I whoop his ass. But
that ain't what's going to happen.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
But she ain't me, So I think I think she
may have to pull her mother's coat and just say, Mom,
do you know that dad goes out to the same
places I go to? And that's the problem I have.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
And I've seen him out there doing the mast and.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
I think he is doing the most And that's why
I don't care from him, because I don't want you
to get hurt. Yeah, and then maybe maybe she needs
to know that because you because you're nothing to.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Clown my mama.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
No, not in front of me.
Speaker 4 (03:50):
Oh you sure ain't going to do that, partner, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
all right, that's good.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
That's good.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Yeah, that it is. Uh uh.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Develle in North Carolina says, I'm forty year old, single
woman with three children from a previous relationship, and I
recently met a man that was about to go to
prison and he will be out in sixteen months. We're
getting to know each other while he's inside. He was
charged with he was charged with being an accessory to
a crime, and he's never been in legal trouble before.
(04:21):
He's forty four and will have to start all over
again when he gets out. So that's my only concern.
There aren't many good men left, so I'm trying to
do something different. Am I foolish to fall for a
man in jail?
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Well, you say you want to do something different? This
really different? So now you.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Have hooked up with a man that did she say
he was on his way to prison. So now he
got to go for sixteen most and you all are
spending this time to get to know each other.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
How how is he getting to know him?
Speaker 4 (05:02):
What?
Speaker 3 (05:03):
No, I'm listening now, lady.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
I think I think you need to hold type before
you put a lot of stock in this because you're
not gonna really know this guy until you spend time
with him.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
You have to spend time with him. He can't be
doing time.
Speaker 4 (05:24):
You have to spend time different We're talking about time,
but it's two different ways. You need to spend time
with him. But he got to do sometime first. And
until you spend time with him, you're not gonna know.
You're not getting to know nobody that's locked up. What
he right is, what he wants, what you want to hear? Yeah,
you know he's enjoying this. And now you know, I'm
not saying you are just you know this?
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Uh? What what am I looking for? The word?
Speaker 4 (05:51):
I'm not saying you just own a guy or disassociate
yourself with I'm not saying that because some good brothers
is locked away. But you need to wait. You need
to wait until you find out who he is because
you don't know none about this man. That's true and
accessory to what crime?
Speaker 2 (06:06):
What about this?
Speaker 1 (06:07):
A woman has kids, right, Steve? And when how soon
should she introduce her kids to a man that she
is dating and has been dating for a while.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
If you've been dating for a while, that must mean
there's some serious interest in So as soon as you
think a guy is a serious contender, I think that's
when you have to introduce the kids. But I think
you have to do it at a public place.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
I think. I don't think you bring them to the home.
I think you meet up.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Park or McDonald's with a little play area in it
so the kid can go off and play and just
see how he reacts to the child and how the
child reacts to him.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
But don't do it in your home that way.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
If you don't get the reaction you need, or you won't,
then it won't know where my dad at? You know,
you just some dude at the park you talk to.
You know, kids equate things in their house into them.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
Oh, you know you're listening to the day Harvey Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
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