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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Coming up at the top of the hour.

Speaker 2 (00:01):
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That's all coming up at the top of the hour,
but right now it is time to ask the CLO

(00:23):
our chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This is from Alan Tulsa.
Al says, my five year old daughter takes money from me.
When I put my cash on the dresser, it goes
straight into my daughter's piggybank. My wife taught her to
do this, and she thinks it's funny. I'm tired of
one hundred dollars bills disappearing. How do I stop these thieves?

Speaker 3 (00:44):
I student must at piggybank open.

Speaker 4 (00:48):
The best way to teach a lesson is you can't
put no money in a piggybank that you don't have.
You know now, change is cute one hundred dollar bills.
I recommend that as a saving technique because I used
to do it and that's how I always had money.
Every change that I got, every coin, at the end

(01:10):
of the day, I rake it off and I put
it in the job. Every single every single I got,
I would roll it up as tight as I could,
And the next time I got a single, I would
roll it up as tight as I could, until I
had singles rolled up that made a thig, a thick
little band look like a cigar, and then I put

(01:31):
a rubber band on it. Then I'd start another single
up like that. At the end of the year, you
will be stunned how much money you saved. If you
just saved singles and change, just singles, and then if
you can graduate up to fives and tens and stuff
like that, and then that's how. But I've also attracted

(01:52):
that in my life too, because I don't accept change
and I don't accept other bills. I only take hundreds. Okay, well,
I'm like the little his little baby. She yeah, I
got smart too. I get what you attract. Go ahead,
I'm sorry.

Speaker 1 (02:10):
To all right.

Speaker 2 (02:11):
Moving on to Bell in Dover, Bell writes, my son's
dad popped up to see at ten pm, and.

Speaker 1 (02:17):
He is supposed to call first.

Speaker 2 (02:19):
I had company in my bedroom with my door closed,
my son's dad said, I shouldn't have men in my
bed if our son is home, our son is fourteen,
why can't I have male company?

Speaker 3 (02:31):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (02:32):
Well, I mean I can't tell you what to do. Obviously,
you having some people over there on him, or how
many it was just one, I don't know. Oh, it's
it's tight. I'm just gonna I'm will tell you. Let
me just say this. It affects the boy in a

(02:54):
way that's hard to explain. Oh, okay, because you gotta
understand something about your son. I don't know how it
affects a girl. I've never been a girl. I'm pretty
sure it affects him too. I wouldn't. I don't recommend
it to girls because that's sending the wrong message, especially
to them. But when your boy sees you sleeping with
another man that ain't his father. See, he don't know

(03:17):
what caused the divorce or all this here. All he
know is that's my daddy, you my MoMA. And it
has an effect on the boy. So just know that. Well,
you could do like you want to do because it's
your house and you deserve to see somebody else too,
But it has an effect on the boy. It's a

(03:37):
crushing blow because you're the first woman he loved, and
he don't get this. My daddy, this other man. He
ain't putting that together yet. You have, but he ain't.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
I'm just all I'm gonst say about that.

Speaker 4 (03:51):
If they were married, well, yeah, it would have to
be a little bit more different because then it would
give them more time for him to know it.

Speaker 3 (03:59):
But I don't know how long they've been divorced. You
just going.

Speaker 4 (04:02):
But he popped in over there, and you had a
man in the bed. You got a lot going on
at your house. You got to set some boundaries somewhere
for everybody over there.

Speaker 1 (04:10):
Yeah, he was supposed to call first, she.

Speaker 3 (04:12):
Said, Well, but he popped up.

Speaker 4 (04:14):
See, you got to get some more boundaries because you
got the X over there, the current over there, the
baby outside, the daddy in the driveway, he on the poach,
now he in the house, and the dude that's in
there in the bed. I can't even tell you what's
going through his mind. I've been him there before.

Speaker 5 (04:32):
Okay, all right, moving on, You got to get your
damn draws on and get out of there.

Speaker 2 (04:43):
Moving on to Mercedes and Vancouver Mercedes Rights. I met
a man online and we sexted each other for a
few weeks before we met. We had sex the first
day we met. And he's not as big as the
picture he sent me.

Speaker 3 (04:59):
That was a close go ahead.

Speaker 2 (05:02):
How can you lie about his size and send the
picture of another man?

Speaker 3 (05:07):
Well that probably wasn't alive.

Speaker 4 (05:09):
Just to close up, you know, y'all look here, y'all
know how Instagram working nowt y'all got filters. Yeah, half
the people on Instagram don't look like they look So.

Speaker 3 (05:21):
You know, how much did you looking for? I mean,
what did you want? Yeah? Well you know it's some
people out there with some high expectation.

Speaker 1 (05:31):
Yeah, lower the lower, lower.

Speaker 4 (05:33):
You but you know, you you you you don't. This
is was sext and online. First day y'all met, you
had sex the first Yeah, I mean, you know you
got what you asked for? You ain't really I don't

(05:53):
know in the section were you asking like you know, cinemeters,
were you're asking questions about you know?

Speaker 3 (06:01):
Or you just in there just wanting to have So
now you got it, and damn we're down a cinema.

Speaker 4 (06:06):
I'm just you know, I'm trying to say a word
that they got, you know, I ain't want to say
a lot.

Speaker 3 (06:12):
Yeah, just let that go.

Speaker 2 (06:19):
Jessica out of Chicago says, I broke up with my
boyfriend and he's been begging me to give him another chance.
He started posting pics. Unlike what you said. You couldn't
post it. But this guy is posting pictures like he's
out in a club or at dinner with two drinks
in the photo to make her jealous, to make me jealous.

Speaker 1 (06:38):
Why is he playing games if he wants me back?
Is her question.

Speaker 4 (06:42):
Well, then that that's the answer to your question. He
playing games. Why don't you just remember why y'all ain't
together no more? Because that reason probably still exists. Just
call somebody beg you back. Don't mean they gonna beg
you back as a new version of them. Sometimes it's
it's the game. Now, I'm posting two drinks in the
picture and stuff. He's just trying to see if he

(07:04):
can get you back. Quit entertaining this foolishness. Why y'all
break up in the first place, because that probably that
reason probably still exists. If y'all ain't addressed that, gone
bout your.

Speaker 5 (07:14):
Business, sister, and it's gonna show back up at some
point take the same to show back up. Yeah, I
know so many people that went back to the exact
same thing.

Speaker 3 (07:28):
Well he seemed like he different, sing now you have it.

Speaker 1 (07:35):
Sorry, you're not sorry. Well, you know, tried to help.

Speaker 4 (07:41):
Him, try to help, you know, you try to help,
but you know you can tell any questions. Some people
don't really want help, you know, like that other question
where the lady had the man in the bed and
her husband, her ex husband popped up and then got
mad at her for having a bed bedroom partner in
there in front of the fourteen year old boy. You know,

(08:01):
it's her house. She can do like she want to do.
But you know, you just tell them what you can
tell them. You know, you'd probably be back over that
this weekend though.

Speaker 1 (08:09):
All right, thank you seeing Hello. Coming up next, Entertainment
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Speaker 2 (08:14):
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