June 20, 2025 • 6 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Well, guys, a breakup can be horrible when you're the
one getting dumped. I mean, we've all been there, we
know how it feels. But being the breaker upper isn't
always easy. That's not always easy, right knowing you Yeah,
because you're the one that's going to hurt someone else.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
You know that you care about.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
You know, you can make second guess yourself and wonder
if you're really doing the right thing. But ghosting isn't
cool like texting someone to break up. Okay, so here
are some some decent ways to break up, according to
Cosmopolitan magazine, all right, this is about breaking up grown
folks style.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
We want you to be clear. If you're the breaker upper.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
People only end relationships when their partner doesn't match their outlook,
their values, their needs and desires anymore. Otherwise you're still
good right.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Outlook value, you.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
Know, outlook all that in big words.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Yeah, if you don't, if they don't match that, then
you got to break up with them. But if they do,
then you're good stay with.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
So be clear, Just be clear.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
It is yeah, well but you know it's you can
they're saying you good.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
But a person can have all the qualities and you
just not like them.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Oh okay, I see what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
I think that can happen, meaning the values and all
that can match up.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
You just don't like you, like what I like, what
I eat? You want to go where I want to go?
But if I don't like you, you.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Or why are you with them in the first place?
Speaker 4 (01:37):
He s you? You do one came up with the
adult breakup.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
All right, fall out of love in your in your
mind first, it's only going to be okay, and listen
to this.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
It's only going to be.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Harder to end things if you keep thinking about the
happy times.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
So you got to stop that, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
When you're trying to build up the strength to break
up with some one, focus on the top five negative.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Moments of your relationship.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
This is all according to Cosmotolitan Cosmopolitan magazine.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
This is according to them. So yeah, what do you think.
Let's hear your point.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
I'm here to help you.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
You know, I break up with you, but keep doing
it with you, you know what I mean, because you're
gonna need That's why you're going through this.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
That's not healthy, that's toxic.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
No, that ain't talk.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
I'm helping you get through what we're going through.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
That's unhealthy. Tommy to no, it's not. It's unhealthy without
Steve jumping here anytime.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
C l O.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Chief Love Officer.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
No, So you need you need it's two many three
men on this show. You need to see his side.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
What's your side?
Speaker 6 (02:53):
You're with?
Speaker 1 (02:53):
Who?
Speaker 6 (02:56):
What you break? That makes sense to me? Break?
Speaker 5 (03:00):
But let's keep going. I mean, I mean, come on,
think about it, sir. Let me say you So we
break up on a Thursday. This is our first Friday apart, right,
what we're supposed to do.
Speaker 6 (03:13):
We've been doing it on Friday. Let's get back and
get going. This makes absolute great sense. I don't know
what the people that Common Polity talking about.
Speaker 5 (03:24):
It, but me and Tommy and other Steve agree we've
been doing it on Fridays.
Speaker 6 (03:27):
Why stop?
Speaker 5 (03:28):
Now?
Speaker 1 (03:30):
What guys think? Really?
Speaker 4 (03:32):
What you want?
Speaker 2 (03:34):
I don't want you to think off I break up
with you?
Speaker 4 (03:38):
Yeah, but you're still coming through. I want to talk then. Okay, okay,
let's just talk about it in bed.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Naked.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
If that's where we at, let me see if I've
made a mistake.
Speaker 5 (04:02):
That's what that's what you're talking about. That's the question.
Let's see if I've made a mistake. No, he's saying, well,
we're laying down. Let's see if I've made a mistake.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Right, yeah, all right, next, moving on from that ignorance,
be kind, very kind, but be strict.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Breakups are hard for both people. So be kind and
be respectful. While you start to distance yourself. You see that.
While you start to distance yourself, but stay strong with
your boundaries.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
All right, can you what?
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Yeah, it's important, miss many this, miss many?
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Now many, don't burn? No cheating? What is we talking about?
Speaker 6 (04:55):
I'm gonna ask you, n actually to get into bed?
Did I do that? I will be firm, say it again.
Could you please get in the bed? No, get your bed?
That works, Try it the nice way. But you like it?
You like it when I'm direct, sh I am?
Speaker 2 (05:15):
I am? Figure okay, this is what else you have
to do?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Guys, when you want to break up, you know nicely,
like grown ups should do.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Figure out how valuable they are? Figure it out?
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Okay, only you know if this is a five minute
breakup over coffee, sit down, dinner and discussion, or one
last night.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
Last night of.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
Passion finally said we agree with one.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Last night of pass before yes, break up.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
Yes, don't nobody? I want no coffee. Coffee, that's right,
A lot of nobody looking for a motel. Ain't nobody
looking for that?
Speaker 6 (05:57):
Who are you.
Speaker 5 (05:58):
Guys on top of that shirt? What figure out how
value it? I don't set your price. I set in
my ass. I know how value I am.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Okay, I'm I like that. Junior.
Speaker 3 (06:10):
You have to allow these guys to You've got to
see more than one side, uh, because that's actually how
they think.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Yes it is no yeah when you're not here and
they answered the strawberry letter, it's pretty much like this,
pretty much yeah, persona.
Speaker 6 (06:30):
But we are representing the male community.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
From all right, guys, we'll be back with more of
the Steve Harvey Morning Show, The Signer Show. We'll be
back right after you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show
Well, guys, a breakup can be horrible when you're the
one getting dumped. I mean, we've all been there, we
know how it feels. But being the breaker upper isn't
always easy. That's not always easy, right knowing you Yeah,
because you're the one that's going to hurt someone else.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
You know that you care about.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
You know, you can make second guess yourself and wonder
if you're really doing the right thing. But ghosting isn't
cool like texting someone to break up. Okay, so here
are some some decent ways to break up, according to
Cosmopolitan magazine, all right, this is about breaking up grown
folks style.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
We want you to be clear. If you're the breaker upper.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
People only end relationships when their partner doesn't match their outlook,
their values, their needs and desires anymore. Otherwise you're still
good right.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Outlook value, you.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
Know, outlook all that in big words.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Yeah, if you don't, if they don't match that, then
you got to break up with them. But if they do,
then you're good stay with.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
So be clear, Just be clear.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
It is yeah, well but you know it's you can
they're saying you good.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
But a person can have all the qualities and you
just not like them.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
Oh okay, I see what you're saying.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
I think that can happen, meaning the values and all
that can match up.
Speaker 4 (01:25):
You just don't like you, like what I like, what
I eat? You want to go where I want to go?
But if I don't like you, you.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
Or why are you with them in the first place?
Speaker 4 (01:37):
He s you? You do one came up with the
adult breakup.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
All right, fall out of love in your in your
mind first, it's only going to be okay, and listen
to this.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
It's only going to be.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Harder to end things if you keep thinking about the
happy times.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
So you got to stop that, all right.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
When you're trying to build up the strength to break
up with some one, focus on the top five negative.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Moments of your relationship.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
This is all according to Cosmotolitan Cosmopolitan magazine.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
This is according to them. So yeah, what do you think.
Let's hear your point.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
I'm here to help you.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
You know, I break up with you, but keep doing
it with you, you know what I mean, because you're
gonna need That's why you're going through this.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
That's not healthy, that's toxic.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
No, that ain't talk.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
I'm helping you get through what we're going through.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
That's unhealthy. Tommy to no, it's not. It's unhealthy without
Steve jumping here anytime.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
C l O.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Chief Love Officer.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
No, So you need you need it's two many three
men on this show. You need to see his side.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
What's your side?
Speaker 6 (02:53):
You're with?
Speaker 1 (02:53):
Who?
Speaker 6 (02:56):
What you break? That makes sense to me? Break?
Speaker 5 (03:00):
But let's keep going. I mean, I mean, come on,
think about it, sir. Let me say you So we
break up on a Thursday. This is our first Friday apart, right,
what we're supposed to do.
Speaker 6 (03:13):
We've been doing it on Friday. Let's get back and
get going. This makes absolute great sense. I don't know
what the people that Common Polity talking about.
Speaker 5 (03:24):
It, but me and Tommy and other Steve agree we've
been doing it on Fridays.
Speaker 6 (03:27):
Why stop?
Speaker 5 (03:28):
Now?
Speaker 1 (03:30):
What guys think? Really?
Speaker 4 (03:32):
What you want?
Speaker 2 (03:34):
I don't want you to think off I break up
with you?
Speaker 4 (03:38):
Yeah, but you're still coming through. I want to talk then. Okay, okay,
let's just talk about it in bed.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Naked.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
If that's where we at, let me see if I've
made a mistake.
Speaker 5 (04:02):
That's what that's what you're talking about. That's the question.
Let's see if I've made a mistake. No, he's saying, well,
we're laying down. Let's see if I've made a mistake.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
Right, yeah, all right, next, moving on from that ignorance,
be kind, very kind, but be strict.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Breakups are hard for both people. So be kind and
be respectful. While you start to distance yourself. You see that.
While you start to distance yourself, but stay strong with
your boundaries.
Speaker 4 (04:36):
All right, can you what?
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Yeah, it's important, miss many this, miss many?
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Now many, don't burn? No cheating? What is we talking about?
Speaker 6 (04:55):
I'm gonna ask you, n actually to get into bed?
Did I do that? I will be firm, say it again.
Could you please get in the bed? No, get your bed?
That works, Try it the nice way. But you like it?
You like it when I'm direct, sh I am?
Speaker 2 (05:15):
I am? Figure okay, this is what else you have
to do?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Guys, when you want to break up, you know nicely,
like grown ups should do.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Figure out how valuable they are? Figure it out?
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Okay, only you know if this is a five minute
breakup over coffee, sit down, dinner and discussion, or one
last night.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
Last night of.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
Passion finally said we agree with one.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Last night of pass before yes, break up.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
Yes, don't nobody? I want no coffee. Coffee, that's right,
A lot of nobody looking for a motel. Ain't nobody
looking for that?
Speaker 6 (05:57):
Who are you.
Speaker 5 (05:58):
Guys on top of that shirt? What figure out how
value it? I don't set your price. I set in
my ass. I know how value I am.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Okay, I'm I like that. Junior.
Speaker 3 (06:10):
You have to allow these guys to You've got to
see more than one side, uh, because that's actually how
they think.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Yes it is no yeah when you're not here and
they answered the strawberry letter, it's pretty much like this,
pretty much yeah, persona.
Speaker 6 (06:30):
But we are representing the male community.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
From all right, guys, we'll be back with more of
the Steve Harvey Morning Show, The Signer Show. We'll be
back right after you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show
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