June 5, 2025 • 4 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What is the gold digger test? A woman on a
first date thought things were going great now. This was
on Breddit. She posted the story. When the one hundred
dollar bill came for dinner, her date slid it over
and asked her to pay. She agreed, thinking all right,
no big deal. He smiled and said, congrats, you passed
the test. You're not a gold digger now. She posted this,
(00:24):
and then she deleted the post. But she explained that
her date told her that he had been burned by
an ex who made him pay for everything, so now
he tests women by making them pay. She wasn't impressed.
She said, I told him that I'm not his ex
and he has no right to treat me like I'm
guilty until proven innocent.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
She said.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
I also said he's not some prize that I need
to pass tests for, she said. After paying the bill,
she walked out, and then you know, days after he
kept trying to contact her. But the woman, she went
on to say, she had a later post where she said,
I have a good career, I own property, and I'm
very financial, financially independent. So here's my question to you, Steve,
(01:07):
Tommy and Jr. Is a chivalry?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Dad? I think we live in a different generation today.
I think these young men are confused of how this
really works. And I think that they don't have a
true understanding of who we are and what we are
and what our role is. And we have so much,
so many different you know, we're crossing so many lines
(01:32):
with gender roles and stuff that is carried over into manhood.
Manhood will never change. It is clear we that are
men know what being a man is. We don't lessen
the requirements because you don't want to do it. Now,
(01:54):
this lady handled this exactly correct. She handled it superstar status.
I mean, you couldn't have done it more professionally than that. Uh,
this guy who has been burned in the past, so
what So what had a girlfriend and he paid for everything.
You slept with it too, didn't you? Didn't you? You
(02:17):
asked her to do You asked her to do things
that that was you asked her for wifey stuff with
girlfriend and status. So all this gold digging tests, look
because a woman won't pay for a date. That's not
the test. You're stupid if you think that's the test.
Who's gold digging for one hundred dollars?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
What?
Speaker 3 (02:40):
But that's copper digging.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Copper not gold.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Yeah, that ain't gold digging, dog, I said, one hundred,
and you passed the test, you stupid.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Yeah, go ahead, that's real stupid. I don't even get
this strategy of that. It's your one hundred dollars and
you gave it the hunch. You're still paying for it.
You're not making no, no, no.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Tommy, he slid her the be for one hundred dollars.
She had to pay the hundred dollars.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Yeah, I got you.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Believe you realized that he passed her test too, the
SAM test passed that one that.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Did the SAM test?
Speaker 2 (03:23):
What's that? Yes? Okay, all right, flying colors, way to.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Go, and your question. Chivalry isn't dead, but it's not
taught or required anymore. And women have got to keep
the requirements. So if you go on a date with
the man, go stand by your door and don't open
that door. Just stand there. When you go into the
(03:49):
mall with a guy, stand at the door, don't open
that door. When you go to a restaurant with a guy,
stand at your chair, don't pull your chair out. You
can train a man how to teach you. Not a
sad thing.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
About it is.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
These young guys, a lot of them are not about that,
and we need to remember that. But chivalry shouldn't be dead.
It's called etiquette. But more importantly, brothers, it's called manhood.
And I'm sorry, And you can sit up here in
town that ain't got nothing to do with manhood, got
everything to do with it. Why don't you just admit
you don't know what it is instead of telling me
(04:26):
somebody been doing manhood for a long time. You're not
finna reshape the way I treat my wife because you
don't want to treat nobody that way. Man, Miss me
with that. I can't stand that standing man. And then
when somebody try to tell you what it is, you
want to fight that for what right?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
School them on the tradition your listening to the Steve
Harvey Morning Show
What is the gold digger test? A woman on a
first date thought things were going great now. This was
on Breddit. She posted the story. When the one hundred
dollar bill came for dinner, her date slid it over
and asked her to pay. She agreed, thinking all right,
no big deal. He smiled and said, congrats, you passed
the test. You're not a gold digger now. She posted this,
(00:24):
and then she deleted the post. But she explained that
her date told her that he had been burned by
an ex who made him pay for everything, so now
he tests women by making them pay. She wasn't impressed.
She said, I told him that I'm not his ex
and he has no right to treat me like I'm
guilty until proven innocent.
Speaker 2 (00:44):
She said.
Speaker 1 (00:45):
I also said he's not some prize that I need
to pass tests for, she said. After paying the bill,
she walked out, and then you know, days after he
kept trying to contact her. But the woman, she went
on to say, she had a later post where she said,
I have a good career, I own property, and I'm
very financial, financially independent. So here's my question to you, Steve,
(01:07):
Tommy and Jr. Is a chivalry?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Dad? I think we live in a different generation today.
I think these young men are confused of how this
really works. And I think that they don't have a
true understanding of who we are and what we are
and what our role is. And we have so much,
so many different you know, we're crossing so many lines
(01:32):
with gender roles and stuff that is carried over into manhood.
Manhood will never change. It is clear we that are
men know what being a man is. We don't lessen
the requirements because you don't want to do it. Now,
(01:54):
this lady handled this exactly correct. She handled it superstar status.
I mean, you couldn't have done it more professionally than that. Uh,
this guy who has been burned in the past, so
what So what had a girlfriend and he paid for everything.
You slept with it too, didn't you? Didn't you? You
(02:17):
asked her to do You asked her to do things
that that was you asked her for wifey stuff with
girlfriend and status. So all this gold digging tests, look
because a woman won't pay for a date. That's not
the test. You're stupid if you think that's the test.
Who's gold digging for one hundred dollars?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
What?
Speaker 3 (02:40):
But that's copper digging.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Copper not gold.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Yeah, that ain't gold digging, dog, I said, one hundred,
and you passed the test, you stupid.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Yeah, go ahead, that's real stupid. I don't even get
this strategy of that. It's your one hundred dollars and
you gave it the hunch. You're still paying for it.
You're not making no, no, no.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Tommy, he slid her the be for one hundred dollars.
She had to pay the hundred dollars.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Yeah, I got you.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Believe you realized that he passed her test too, the
SAM test passed that one that.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Did the SAM test?
Speaker 2 (03:23):
What's that? Yes? Okay, all right, flying colors, way to.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Go, and your question. Chivalry isn't dead, but it's not
taught or required anymore. And women have got to keep
the requirements. So if you go on a date with
the man, go stand by your door and don't open
that door. Just stand there. When you go into the
(03:49):
mall with a guy, stand at the door, don't open
that door. When you go to a restaurant with a guy,
stand at your chair, don't pull your chair out. You
can train a man how to teach you. Not a
sad thing.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
About it is.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
These young guys, a lot of them are not about that,
and we need to remember that. But chivalry shouldn't be dead.
It's called etiquette. But more importantly, brothers, it's called manhood.
And I'm sorry, And you can sit up here in
town that ain't got nothing to do with manhood, got
everything to do with it. Why don't you just admit
you don't know what it is instead of telling me
(04:26):
somebody been doing manhood for a long time. You're not
finna reshape the way I treat my wife because you
don't want to treat nobody that way. Man, Miss me
with that. I can't stand that standing man. And then
when somebody try to tell you what it is, you
want to fight that for what right?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
School them on the tradition your listening to the Steve
Harvey Morning Show
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